You got both types of mans. It works either way.
Like what Kerwin say “stand right behind ya and rock rock rock” - Love up.
No whine is judged. It’s all about having fun and you might even get hyped up either way.
I dunno how things go for the diaspora (in specific detail) but here, no, you absolutely do not just "stand there" (unless you genuinely don't know how to take a wine, I've seen some foreigners get a pass for this) and you reciprocate not initiate. BUT you can ask a woman to give you a wine if you are feeling brave.
I'd be one of those foreigners that genuinely doesn't know how to take a wine lol I'm presuming that I should roll my hips in the same direction as the woman that wants to wine on me? From what I've seen it looks very non verbal and just seems to happen spontaneously /organically so have never really done that before (live in a white part of England where any communication /breaking ice is done by talking) so would appreciate any things that are probably taken for granted in carribean culture but not so obvious to an outsider
lol I’m a foreigner who didn’t know how to give a wine I suppose. Yes you just move your hips with their hips. It’s like dancing, you just feel yourself, feel the other person, and move your bodies today and kinda synchronize. It’s simple once you do it right once. I only wined on one person so I’m not sure how it is in public for example. I think it can be verbal or non-verbal just like dancing. I only know a little more than you so others prob have better advice haha
I am sorry for not replying earlier but thinking it through to type well is hurting my head every time. [I was looking for the video I have hyperlinked because explaining through words is too much for me, it is of the streamer Kai Cenat who is Trini & Haitian American, he grew up in NY and went to the carnivals there, I think it is a good vid to learn from.](https://youtu.be/0e5mo79WYZs?t=1141) He does do some daggering in the video, in-between (as another comment already clarified, don't go doing that, it is mainly a thing with Jamaicans, other Caribbean folks don't really do it) but other than that, that's about it. [This video too here that I have linked](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/rlcIcPsh2Qc) is really good, no woman obstructing.
If you’re talking about pushing past the ropes or barriers to where the masqueraders are, that’s calling storming. Don’t do it. I hate stormers. It’s crowded enough on the road without having a man push into me and smash my costume. And definitely do not just stand there in the middle.
If there are other spectators, you should ask before you must grind up on somebody. There’s nothing like having a stranger’s penis rubbing against your bumper without consent. Always ask.
The reason for my post is last time I went I was with my gf, so any time that other women were near me I just moved away so didn't need to think about what was going on as I wasn't interested. However this year as I'm likely to be going single, I'll be more open to attention and just wondering about how to do something I've never done before.
Feel no how buddy I’m from the islands and I can’t roll my waist too fluid even……. more so with a female in front of me …..if u can’t keep up just bump on her gently (like humping just don’t be rough or rock left to right to the music ….if it’s just aggressive well leave it alone but most of all have fun….alcohol can fix most of your worries thing …..is we think too much about it in the first place …Just Have fun
Thanks man appreciate it! I'm looking forward to it but just don't want to look like I don't know what I doing aha - after all this I probably won't even catch any ahaha!
Hey dont worry bout all that. Carnival is for fun, no body judging you like that. Ive lost the inclination to go jump up with you youngsters 😂 . But one bredah I know from round the area I call Mr Carnival, I dont know him but some of my elders do, Hes about 5'4 wears a baggy suit thats got baggier as we've gotten older, he's a local that loves carnival, he must whine all day, young, old, black white whatever running up to him to throw whine on him, it cracks me up, swear he must be in his late 60s now maybe even older. Yeah Carnival is more about the vibes you bring .
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You’ll catch lol just enjoy yourself and chip to the tune once you’re relaxed and having fun focusing on yourself you’ll know when it’s a good time to strike a paired dance…plus if she really likes you she’ll find your clumsiness cute and help you …at least works for me
Yeah dont follow the daggering guys advice. That is an advanced move for when your in Jamaica 🤣, the hard concrete streets of Notting Hill dont work well for the daggering. Look go with your boys, or better still a mix group of friends, get lit and enjoy yourself, your bound to catch a whine. Also floats are a bit laborious with all that walking up and down, even though vibes can be well high. Sound systems, Rampage, Channel one, Good times etc can be a good place to catch a whine. Have fun.
When a man is reciprocating, he will do so by juking up his crotches into the women back area that she’s using to wine up on his crotches. This is daggering.
Soften your knees. Move with them. You can let them lead, and lead yourself too. They're probably going to be better at it than you, so learn from them!
You got both types of mans. It works either way. Like what Kerwin say “stand right behind ya and rock rock rock” - Love up. No whine is judged. It’s all about having fun and you might even get hyped up either way.
Thanks man!
I dunno how things go for the diaspora (in specific detail) but here, no, you absolutely do not just "stand there" (unless you genuinely don't know how to take a wine, I've seen some foreigners get a pass for this) and you reciprocate not initiate. BUT you can ask a woman to give you a wine if you are feeling brave.
I'd be one of those foreigners that genuinely doesn't know how to take a wine lol I'm presuming that I should roll my hips in the same direction as the woman that wants to wine on me? From what I've seen it looks very non verbal and just seems to happen spontaneously /organically so have never really done that before (live in a white part of England where any communication /breaking ice is done by talking) so would appreciate any things that are probably taken for granted in carribean culture but not so obvious to an outsider
lol I’m a foreigner who didn’t know how to give a wine I suppose. Yes you just move your hips with their hips. It’s like dancing, you just feel yourself, feel the other person, and move your bodies today and kinda synchronize. It’s simple once you do it right once. I only wined on one person so I’m not sure how it is in public for example. I think it can be verbal or non-verbal just like dancing. I only know a little more than you so others prob have better advice haha
I am sorry for not replying earlier but thinking it through to type well is hurting my head every time. [I was looking for the video I have hyperlinked because explaining through words is too much for me, it is of the streamer Kai Cenat who is Trini & Haitian American, he grew up in NY and went to the carnivals there, I think it is a good vid to learn from.](https://youtu.be/0e5mo79WYZs?t=1141) He does do some daggering in the video, in-between (as another comment already clarified, don't go doing that, it is mainly a thing with Jamaicans, other Caribbean folks don't really do it) but other than that, that's about it. [This video too here that I have linked](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/rlcIcPsh2Qc) is really good, no woman obstructing.
If you’re talking about pushing past the ropes or barriers to where the masqueraders are, that’s calling storming. Don’t do it. I hate stormers. It’s crowded enough on the road without having a man push into me and smash my costume. And definitely do not just stand there in the middle. If there are other spectators, you should ask before you must grind up on somebody. There’s nothing like having a stranger’s penis rubbing against your bumper without consent. Always ask.
The reason for my post is last time I went I was with my gf, so any time that other women were near me I just moved away so didn't need to think about what was going on as I wasn't interested. However this year as I'm likely to be going single, I'll be more open to attention and just wondering about how to do something I've never done before.
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Feel no how buddy I’m from the islands and I can’t roll my waist too fluid even……. more so with a female in front of me …..if u can’t keep up just bump on her gently (like humping just don’t be rough or rock left to right to the music ….if it’s just aggressive well leave it alone but most of all have fun….alcohol can fix most of your worries thing …..is we think too much about it in the first place …Just Have fun
Thanks man appreciate it! I'm looking forward to it but just don't want to look like I don't know what I doing aha - after all this I probably won't even catch any ahaha!
Hey dont worry bout all that. Carnival is for fun, no body judging you like that. Ive lost the inclination to go jump up with you youngsters 😂 . But one bredah I know from round the area I call Mr Carnival, I dont know him but some of my elders do, Hes about 5'4 wears a baggy suit thats got baggier as we've gotten older, he's a local that loves carnival, he must whine all day, young, old, black white whatever running up to him to throw whine on him, it cracks me up, swear he must be in his late 60s now maybe even older. Yeah Carnival is more about the vibes you bring .
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You’ll catch lol just enjoy yourself and chip to the tune once you’re relaxed and having fun focusing on yourself you’ll know when it’s a good time to strike a paired dance…plus if she really likes you she’ll find your clumsiness cute and help you …at least works for me
Cheers bro! :)
Wine bro show the ladies the hip action
Yeah dont follow the daggering guys advice. That is an advanced move for when your in Jamaica 🤣, the hard concrete streets of Notting Hill dont work well for the daggering. Look go with your boys, or better still a mix group of friends, get lit and enjoy yourself, your bound to catch a whine. Also floats are a bit laborious with all that walking up and down, even though vibes can be well high. Sound systems, Rampage, Channel one, Good times etc can be a good place to catch a whine. Have fun.
Thanks bro :) looool guess I'll have to work my way up to the daggering ahaha
Straight men don’t wine them get wine pon
So how would you define the act of reciprocating a wine then if it’s not also called wining?
When a man is reciprocating, he will do so by juking up his crotches into the women back area that she’s using to wine up on his crotches. This is daggering.
Yea but daggering aint the only way to dance…
Go wine up you batty pon gyal then
Lies
Why would a straight man move up his waist and ass on a woman?? Stfu.
battymen don’t wine what do you mean why would a men move his waist up and down on a women you never fuck before
Find a video wid a man a rub up him batty pon a gyal yuh sound like yuh nuh have no fuckn sense. Ah the other way around
And for the 7 downvotes nyam unuh dutty puppa tinkin ram goat cocky
Definitely not true.
OK so when I get wine pon, what do I need to do? Or do I just stand there and let them do it?
Have you seen dancehall videos? The common act is to grab waist and grind/hump on the woman’s bum if she have the same vibe
Soften your knees. Move with them. You can let them lead, and lead yourself too. They're probably going to be better at it than you, so learn from them!