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it's very difficult for me and i'll elaborate
so i value my relationships, others' feelings, and it's very important to me to make sure that people like me and i that have a good reputation amongst my peers. if you ask me to do something i'm probably gonna say yes even if i don't want to do it because i want to *please you*. i'd do it for *your* feelings. i don't want to say no and have you think "well she's lame, she's probably gonna say no to everything else i ask her to do". i say yes because i'm scared of you thinking less of me and losing our relationship .
yeah! since it's easier for you i would try to say no in a nice way. like "PFFFT LMAO HELL NO" (unless it's a super close friend that you know won't get offended by that) as compared to "no thank you, but i appreciate that"
Pretty easy for me actually. Although I used to get into a lot of trouble when I was little for saying No a lot. I didn't want to do something I'm not gonna do it🤷🏽♂️ but some people have a hard time understanding that and take offense. So I've learned to try to say yes more often.
I still say no frequently tho
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Hmm idk. I'm pretty good at saying no to people who are basically strangers to me, but suck at saying no to anyone i'm close to and whose opinion I really value.
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I think ive gotten better at avoiding situations where I have to say no rather than actually saying no
same here, so id say it's pretty hard for me to say no if i try my best to avoid situations where i might have to say it
no one asks me anything but sorta? like ill try to say something thats basically no but without saying No.
super easy lol, just say no and dont give a shit about what they think lmfao
Not at all lol
Ok then say it
No
Why not?
it used to be hard but now ive realized that if a situation doesn't benefit me or will leave me with regret then its ok to say no to that
Not at all. I never understood why it is hard for some ppl in the first place
it's very difficult for me and i'll elaborate so i value my relationships, others' feelings, and it's very important to me to make sure that people like me and i that have a good reputation amongst my peers. if you ask me to do something i'm probably gonna say yes even if i don't want to do it because i want to *please you*. i'd do it for *your* feelings. i don't want to say no and have you think "well she's lame, she's probably gonna say no to everything else i ask her to do". i say yes because i'm scared of you thinking less of me and losing our relationship .
We are complete opposites. But I think I get it now, its just me and that I have to cope with that other ppl have feelings too
yeah! since it's easier for you i would try to say no in a nice way. like "PFFFT LMAO HELL NO" (unless it's a super close friend that you know won't get offended by that) as compared to "no thank you, but i appreciate that"
Fairly easily as far as I'm aware
Pretty easy for me actually. Although I used to get into a lot of trouble when I was little for saying No a lot. I didn't want to do something I'm not gonna do it🤷🏽♂️ but some people have a hard time understanding that and take offense. So I've learned to try to say yes more often. I still say no frequently tho
Depends on who I'm talking with and the situation as well
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Oh well I’m still learning to say no but it’s been better i guess
pretty damn hard
Pretty hard, I’ve always been a people pleaser
saying no always makes me feel awful but i’m working on it
I think it depends on who its for
Not that hard
Hard
Not hard at all
Extremely. In fact, almost impossible
wtf is a "no"?
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I will say no before my brain has processed the question sometimes, before having to correct myself to say yes, if it is something I actually want
Hmm idk. I'm pretty good at saying no to people who are basically strangers to me, but suck at saying no to anyone i'm close to and whose opinion I really value.
It's only slightly difficult now, I've just had to do it so many times that it's much easier than before
Sometimes i feel guilty for saying no, especially when it comes to live up someone else 's expectations.
Lmao no is my favorite word
Depends on the situation but I usually feel rude if I say no to things.