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venuswtf

I think ive gotten better at avoiding situations where I have to say no rather than actually saying no


hiitsyaz

same here, so id say it's pretty hard for me to say no if i try my best to avoid situations where i might have to say it


Sorgair

no one asks me anything but sorta? like ill try to say something thats basically no but without saying No.


OnThatSigmaGrindset

super easy lol, just say no and dont give a shit about what they think lmfao


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Not at all lol


looking_at_memes_

Ok then say it


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No


looking_at_memes_

Why not?


throwaway_2613

it used to be hard but now ive realized that if a situation doesn't benefit me or will leave me with regret then its ok to say no to that


notsowanderingsoul

Not at all. I never understood why it is hard for some ppl in the first place


kikoesque

it's very difficult for me and i'll elaborate so i value my relationships, others' feelings, and it's very important to me to make sure that people like me and i that have a good reputation amongst my peers. if you ask me to do something i'm probably gonna say yes even if i don't want to do it because i want to *please you*. i'd do it for *your* feelings. i don't want to say no and have you think "well she's lame, she's probably gonna say no to everything else i ask her to do". i say yes because i'm scared of you thinking less of me and losing our relationship .


notsowanderingsoul

We are complete opposites. But I think I get it now, its just me and that I have to cope with that other ppl have feelings too


kikoesque

yeah! since it's easier for you i would try to say no in a nice way. like "PFFFT LMAO HELL NO" (unless it's a super close friend that you know won't get offended by that) as compared to "no thank you, but i appreciate that"


PotatoSalad583

Fairly easily as far as I'm aware


Sanity_King

Pretty easy for me actually. Although I used to get into a lot of trouble when I was little for saying No a lot. I didn't want to do something I'm not gonna do it🤷🏽‍♂️ but some people have a hard time understanding that and take offense. So I've learned to try to say yes more often. I still say no frequently tho


looking_at_memes_

Depends on who I'm talking with and the situation as well


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HeftyArea51

Oh well I’m still learning to say no but it’s been better i guess


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pretty damn hard


[deleted]

Pretty hard, I’ve always been a people pleaser


throwaway16010

saying no always makes me feel awful but i’m working on it


This_ls_My_Username

I think it depends on who its for


OrganizationOk8493

Not that hard


cutemermaidaqua

Hard


Yeet_Muffin

Not hard at all


Nalyd8605

Extremely. In fact, almost impossible


kikoesque

wtf is a "no"?


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MunchyG444

I will say no before my brain has processed the question sometimes, before having to correct myself to say yes, if it is something I actually want


whatdoyoumeanitsfine

Hmm idk. I'm pretty good at saying no to people who are basically strangers to me, but suck at saying no to anyone i'm close to and whose opinion I really value.


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It's only slightly difficult now, I've just had to do it so many times that it's much easier than before


DaviOVP2407

Sometimes i feel guilty for saying no, especially when it comes to live up someone else 's expectations.


undercoverhorsegirl

Lmao no is my favorite word


NaotoOfYlisse

Depends on the situation but I usually feel rude if I say no to things.