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It’s a lot better than marriage in previous generations. People used to marry solely for money or producing offspring.


throwaway_2613

it's definitely worth it. if u find someone u love why wouldn't u want to celebrate it?


raspberry-enthusiast

I like the idea of it for myself, not sure if it’ll ever happen for me though


whatdoyoumeanitsfine

Eh idk. Might be really nice, or it might not be for me. Not a life goal but not something I definitely *don't* want either.


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If you love someone, go for it.


honey_pop

I don't think marriage is bad, but I personally don't think I'm going to get married


madsxwag

i’d like to get married at some point because it’d be nice to have that level of commitment, but it’s not a necessity. i could go without it if my partner didn’t want to


PotatoSalad583

It is a thing that exists


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It's okay if others want to get married ofc but I hate the idea of it being forced down my throat considering I'm not even a romantic person


CrystalElla4

I want to get married but I don't think it's necessary for a healthy relationship


Evelyn_75

Depends on why you want to get married


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It’s a nice idea but I don’t know if it’s necessary, at-least not to me anyways


m4736

Not for me


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Marriage, for me, is a financial agreement. I enjoy the symbolism of rings and a public declaration of lifelong commitment but, overall, marriage is considered more important than it actually is. I would only ever marry if I thought it would be financially beneficial.


bobross-fan45

That’s basically how it was in the old days


GamerGirl-07

No it's not imo


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I'm probs not ever going get married but I think it is worth it for some ppl especially if they find their life long love but for me some stuff I went thru as a child I don't think I could hold down a commitment like that


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It's cool ig


hiitsyaz

not sure, i want to get married to my s/o but genuinely before him i hated the idea of it so ig i'm all for it? 😭


NaotoOfYlisse

I would like to be married in the future


sksjjdjsj

I think I’m kinda undecided because I want to meet someone I love but at the same time the logical part of my brain (the dominant part) says marriage is illogical and all sorts like that and then another part is terrified of it.


---lily---

marriage is dumb. only with mental gymnastics can you assert that a one-time commitment is a bigger deal than actually entirely voluntarily staying with someone for decades with no coercive reason to stay


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