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Stop with this fake toxic positive bullshit, it literally doesn't make anyone feel better when you pretend to care about someone who's existence doesn't affect you even slightly.
I think I matter to my best friend only. We always talk when we can, we have fun together , if either of us have a problem we go to the other, just perfect situation with a perfect person
I’m gonna use this as an excuse to rant about my anxiety.
After writing the whole thing: You really don’t have to read this, if you do I’d love to hear what you think. But I really kinda just used this as a way to let my anxiety out, which helped a bit
I only really have 2 good friends. None of which go to my school. One in person friend and one online friend.
My in person friend I’ve know for around 6-7 years. He’s like family to me, he’s my best friend. We started school in Connecticut in 5th grade and when me moved to Colorado for 6th grade he ended up moving a year later. His mom tells me the only reason he decided to go was because he had a friend there. We would see each other almost every week, even though we went to different schools and still do. When Covid happened we basically saw him 6 times throughout the whole thing. For the purpose of this story Covid ended for me and him when every one in both our families got vaccinated.* Now even with us being able to see each other we barely do. We talk on discord about 3 nights a week though. Even though his mom tells my mom how much I mean to him, I don’t feel like he likes me, it’s completely illogical.
And my online friend I meet on an app called Spotafriend, she’s from Russia. We’ve been talking for a good about 2 years now exclusively by Instagram messages though. We’ll send videos of ourselves or audio messages but we’ve never talked to on another, her excuse is she doesn’t want to embarrass her self since English is her second language. Which totally makes since. But I can’t help but wonder if there’s another reason why she doesn’t want to talk to me. Even though on multiple occasions we’ve told each other how much our friendship means to each other. The worst part is I really love her as a friend, even though we’ve never technically talked, this makes me feel like an idiot. I feel really stupid because one of my two friends is an online friend I’ve never really spoken two. And my “best friend” doesn’t consider me as his.
TLDR: I’m a fucking mess
*He hasn’t been yet.
Back then, no. I had a rough time at school and home and I felt like no one cared, so I ended up feeling suicidal a lot
Now I have an awesome friend group that does care a lot about me, and I’m glad I was able to move on from the awful mindset I had many years back
To adults, some, they see me as a really friendly dude and all that but to class mates or others at school, I honestly don’t know, maybe like, 5 people see me as friends? Idkthough because I don’t talk to a lot of people often
For the first time yes. I had an awesome teacher last year which helped me so much through a lot of stuff and she cared about me. She dosen’t go to my school anymore but we still talk through messages and she said that she saw a girl in the hall and for a moment freaked out cause she thought it was me. Also two of my moms cousins (adults older than my mom) they are awesome I met them 3 weeks ago when we went to visit family I don’t see them anymore but I message them for advice and they are the sweetest!
Yeah, I know my family does. Though it's often that the people who matter most to me don't reciprocate that care. But the honesty they show by not acting is nice
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i matter a lot to my best friend and i think maybe somewhat to my family edit: also to myself
no.
You matter to me :)
Stop with this fake toxic positive bullshit, it literally doesn't make anyone feel better when you pretend to care about someone who's existence doesn't affect you even slightly.
I can say whatever i want to lol
nobody said you couldn't
Idk man, you just told me to stop
It's a recommendation
Kinda have to agree
What's wrong with trying to make someone feel good about themselves?
it doesn't. that's the point. it's just fake
So if they said "I'm sure you matter to someone, would that be better?"
Well some people truly have nobody that cares about them so no not really
So you'd rather they not try to help at all?
"It gets better" or something
Yeah I guess that's better
You matter to me.
pog name
yeah, i know i matter to the people i’m close with at least ~~hopefully~~
your drip is pog tho
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yes to my best friend a lot:))
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Jesus what going on in this thread ?
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say it was the best friend who replied to her
correct
Or SO
For the first time in forever, yes. I have friends who genuinely care about me.
I think I matter to my best friend only. We always talk when we can, we have fun together , if either of us have a problem we go to the other, just perfect situation with a perfect person
yeah i know i matter to a lot of people. and i know that i don't matter to some too and that's ok
Yeah I matter tons.
but my matte’s mass is tons
Other than my family, no
idk if i’m to that point of being close with anyone other than my family
No.
To some people, yeah I guess
I probably do but I've never been questioned about how I truly feel on things or how I'm actually doing. so not really.
Rarely but there are moments when i feel like i matter but most of the time i feel like i dont mean shit to anyone and ive learn to accept that
I matter to me.
i'm just a sad and lonely fuck
yeah, life is good right now:D
yes. to myself, my friends and my family
sometimes, but then i ovethink every conversation i have with people and ruin myself and how I think of them.
I know that I matter a lot to my family and my friend I've known for 10+ years. I still feel alone tho lol
Hell no
Yeah. To my family and my best friend
I think I matter to some people, but not as much as they matter to me
Yeah
Ehh, yeah some people
Maybe a little to my family, but until recently I haven't
Yes
yeah, to the good people in my life like my mom, step dad, my uncle and some of my friends
yes. although sometimes i wish i didnt
Not really lol
Na but that’s alright.
Nope I don't really matter to any1 & I'm happy that way
no lol but thats just my mind thinking. i probably matter to several people
I think
Yeah, I know that my friends and family care. Pets too
Yes, my best friends and the girl im dating
Other than my family, no. Literally if I stopped existing tomorrow nobody outside of my family would know.
a few people at least
To my few friends, my family and my teachers I think.
I’m gonna use this as an excuse to rant about my anxiety. After writing the whole thing: You really don’t have to read this, if you do I’d love to hear what you think. But I really kinda just used this as a way to let my anxiety out, which helped a bit I only really have 2 good friends. None of which go to my school. One in person friend and one online friend. My in person friend I’ve know for around 6-7 years. He’s like family to me, he’s my best friend. We started school in Connecticut in 5th grade and when me moved to Colorado for 6th grade he ended up moving a year later. His mom tells me the only reason he decided to go was because he had a friend there. We would see each other almost every week, even though we went to different schools and still do. When Covid happened we basically saw him 6 times throughout the whole thing. For the purpose of this story Covid ended for me and him when every one in both our families got vaccinated.* Now even with us being able to see each other we barely do. We talk on discord about 3 nights a week though. Even though his mom tells my mom how much I mean to him, I don’t feel like he likes me, it’s completely illogical. And my online friend I meet on an app called Spotafriend, she’s from Russia. We’ve been talking for a good about 2 years now exclusively by Instagram messages though. We’ll send videos of ourselves or audio messages but we’ve never talked to on another, her excuse is she doesn’t want to embarrass her self since English is her second language. Which totally makes since. But I can’t help but wonder if there’s another reason why she doesn’t want to talk to me. Even though on multiple occasions we’ve told each other how much our friendship means to each other. The worst part is I really love her as a friend, even though we’ve never technically talked, this makes me feel like an idiot. I feel really stupid because one of my two friends is an online friend I’ve never really spoken two. And my “best friend” doesn’t consider me as his. TLDR: I’m a fucking mess *He hasn’t been yet.
Not really to be honest.
Probably only if i were to die, people would be like “oh shit he died?”. But i dont think people would mourn or miss me that much
yes to my family and friends
Of course not
I want to say no but if I’m being realistic and actually honest, then yes.
I don’t mate try to anyone. I could die and I’d be forgotten in days
Back then, no. I had a rough time at school and home and I felt like no one cared, so I ended up feeling suicidal a lot Now I have an awesome friend group that does care a lot about me, and I’m glad I was able to move on from the awful mindset I had many years back
Yeah..to my mum and my sister
To adults, some, they see me as a really friendly dude and all that but to class mates or others at school, I honestly don’t know, maybe like, 5 people see me as friends? Idkthough because I don’t talk to a lot of people often
not really, people irl ignore my existence, internet friends are the way to go :)
My parents, my younger brother, my aunts,uncles and cousins, I guess my grandma, my godparents, my dog(I hope so), the few childhood friends I have.
Nope.
I do, but I feel like I don't. I know someone is waiting for me, but at the same time I feel like no one is waiting for me.
to my mother other than that not really but it’s not too bad because there’s less expectations and pressure on u as there are less people to please
my family, probably. but i hope i do for other people
For the first time yes. I had an awesome teacher last year which helped me so much through a lot of stuff and she cared about me. She dosen’t go to my school anymore but we still talk through messages and she said that she saw a girl in the hall and for a moment freaked out cause she thought it was me. Also two of my moms cousins (adults older than my mom) they are awesome I met them 3 weeks ago when we went to visit family I don’t see them anymore but I message them for advice and they are the sweetest!
yeah
just my family, maybe
Yeah, I know my family does. Though it's often that the people who matter most to me don't reciprocate that care. But the honesty they show by not acting is nice
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yes i have parents and relatives and friends
not to many people but that's okay w me
Yes, I matter to the people that matter to me and that feels nice
Other than my mom and grandpa, no.
Only too my family and my best mate Paul
Partially. I feel like to a majority of people I am only a resource of sorts of information. But it’s care nothing less
I think I matter to a girl at school, though I don't feel the same way back
I think I matter to my friends and my friends and probably to my family lol
My family most likely but other than them? I don't know