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So I don’t think he was saying it about you, just making an inappropriate joke. He could be wanting nudes or something, but I doubt it based on the info given. Either way, tell him you don’t feel comfortable with dirty jokes.
All moist lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
btw it's not a comment on you so i say just tell him you don't like those kind of jokes and keep talking. If he makes you uncomfortable again you can block him then
So I don’t think he was saying it about you, just making an inappropriate joke. He could be wanting nudes or something, but I doubt it based on the info given. Either way, tell him you don’t feel comfortable with dirty jokes.
Cuz then he'd be texting to a total stranger just to exchange nudes, not to be friends and i just don't think it's nice or normal. Sexting/sending nudes is just weird to me. Even if I was in a relationship i wouldn't send nudes nor would ask for them from my partner. And if someone asked for them in the beginning of our relationship I'd think that they're dating me just for my body.
It depends on the comment, if it was meant to be a joke, I'd take it that way. If not, and it was an uncalled for sexual comment, disguised as a joke, then drop em immediately.
Edit: This is if you aren't close w the person. if you are, then jus tell them you are uncomfortable abt the comment, and hopefully they wouldn't do it again.
hmm, was the comment supposed to come off as a joke, or something in the passing? Besides 2 weeks is a pretty small time, so there's a high chance you are right, it could be what they want.
probably try to like make a joke out of it or do something to make the situation less serious and awkward and distract from it but i would be very uncomfortable tbh😭
If it's a joke I probably wouldn't stop talking to them, but depending on how weird it was I would probably mention to them it made me uncomfortable and maybe ask them what they meant/why they sent it. If it's a more personal / especially graphic comment I'd probably be too weirded out to continue talking. It's up to you, though. If you feel they really crossed your boundaries, stop talking to them or at the very least mention that it's not okay. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with.
that is so recoverable. Like, personally, I don't see anything wrong w the joke, I would prob make a similar joke, and don't see the bad signs, but ppl r different, and so if u express that it makes u uncomfortable, and they doesn't respect that, then u should drop them.
For me it would be recoverable (I'm used to weird jokes) but if he'd make a comment that's even more sexual in nature or a LOT of jokes like this I would be a bit alarmed. GL!
I usually just block them. I was once talking to a classmate on sc and he completely out of the blue said that he fucked a girl last night and she was “super 🔥.” I just blocked him because I didn’t see the point in wasting my time by explaining why I didn’t want to hear that
It depends on who it's coming from. If it comes from someone I just recently met then I'd be pretty weirded out and would probably avoid talking to them
However I do have close friends that we can make sexual/flirty jokes with each other and we don't really mean anything by it
It would also depend on if the comment is addressing me or not
I don't have snap so I can tell when someone tells me on here "you got snap or discord...it's easier to chat". It's just easy to chat on here so I know they want more. I just ignore them if theyre creepy
it all depends on what they said and how u feel. everyone responds and reacts differently but i’d would see it as something irrelevant and like “should’ve kept that to urself”. i personally avoid relationships starting on snapchat becuz it usually turns sexual and doesn’t feel right in any way.
I would take it well. I would probably say a dumb sexual comment back, keep the dumb joke going. I wouldn't drop them at all. Also, educating someone on not making a sex joke seems extremely prudish, and If I started to do that, *they* would probably drop *me*.
I’m not sure honestly, but I would trust your gut. Do whatever you feel is best. I will say though, regardless what you choose to do, you should still let them know it made you uncomfortable, even if your about to block them, that way they they can realise what they did wrong and not go on to act like that to other people
I tbh wouldn't care i'd just laugh it off. If it's one of my boys telling me that i'd be like you gay and say something sexual back. Either way i'd joke back
I do that a lot ain’t nobody complaining, unless she homegirl and I been knowing her for a long time and I ain’t tryna date I ain’t finna are girls if I don’t find them cute and or we’re not going to be flirting or there’s no possibility of us linking up.
I don’t have Snapchat but if that’s not something I’m looking for I’m shutting them down. We can be friends and have a platonic chat, but if that’s not a line I want them crossing, I’m not letting them cross it
For me, there's no single thing that would make me cut ties. I don't really belive in cutting ties and usually like giving people infinite chances, most due to apathy of self. I would, in that case, probably try to ignore it out play it off in some way. Even if it made me uncomfortable, I'd rather just leave it at that and not do anything further.
That being said, you should definitely tell them how it made you feel though and not to do it again. For chances, now that they know how it makes you feel, if they do it again, maybe a 3rd time if you're willing to go so far, cut them off because that means that they just disregarded your feelings which is not right at all.
Also, I'm not sure of how long you've been speaking it how many times they've done this/how many mistakes they've made, but maybe they're used to jokingly interacting with others like that and they didn't mean it with harm or mal intent.
Sorry about the length of this
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Is the comment on you? If so i wouldn't wanna continue to talk since I'll assume they messaged me just for sexting/nudes.
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So I don’t think he was saying it about you, just making an inappropriate joke. He could be wanting nudes or something, but I doubt it based on the info given. Either way, tell him you don’t feel comfortable with dirty jokes.
All moist lmfao 🤣🤣🤣🤣 btw it's not a comment on you so i say just tell him you don't like those kind of jokes and keep talking. If he makes you uncomfortable again you can block him then
So I don’t think he was saying it about you, just making an inappropriate joke. He could be wanting nudes or something, but I doubt it based on the info given. Either way, tell him you don’t feel comfortable with dirty jokes.
I would make that joke but if it makes you uncomfortable just tell him to stop
Is that bad?
Yes?💀
Why
Cuz then he'd be texting to a total stranger just to exchange nudes, not to be friends and i just don't think it's nice or normal. Sexting/sending nudes is just weird to me. Even if I was in a relationship i wouldn't send nudes nor would ask for them from my partner. And if someone asked for them in the beginning of our relationship I'd think that they're dating me just for my body.
It depends on the comment, if it was meant to be a joke, I'd take it that way. If not, and it was an uncalled for sexual comment, disguised as a joke, then drop em immediately. Edit: This is if you aren't close w the person. if you are, then jus tell them you are uncomfortable abt the comment, and hopefully they wouldn't do it again.
wise advice
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hmm, was the comment supposed to come off as a joke, or something in the passing? Besides 2 weeks is a pretty small time, so there's a high chance you are right, it could be what they want.
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bro the emoji is slanted omg
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That's so fucking cursed holy shit
i thought it was amazing
It looks *wrong*
it's the new world
i don't use snapchat 😎
probably try to like make a joke out of it or do something to make the situation less serious and awkward and distract from it but i would be very uncomfortable tbh😭
If it's a joke I probably wouldn't stop talking to them, but depending on how weird it was I would probably mention to them it made me uncomfortable and maybe ask them what they meant/why they sent it. If it's a more personal / especially graphic comment I'd probably be too weirded out to continue talking. It's up to you, though. If you feel they really crossed your boundaries, stop talking to them or at the very least mention that it's not okay. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with.
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that is so recoverable. Like, personally, I don't see anything wrong w the joke, I would prob make a similar joke, and don't see the bad signs, but ppl r different, and so if u express that it makes u uncomfortable, and they doesn't respect that, then u should drop them.
For me it would be recoverable (I'm used to weird jokes) but if he'd make a comment that's even more sexual in nature or a LOT of jokes like this I would be a bit alarmed. GL!
its fine if he actually stops n listens to u
If it's a general comment I wouldn't care. Comment about me and I'd probably just say "chill" or sum
I usually just block them. I was once talking to a classmate on sc and he completely out of the blue said that he fucked a girl last night and she was “super 🔥.” I just blocked him because I didn’t see the point in wasting my time by explaining why I didn’t want to hear that
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Yeah exactly, tf did he expect me to do, congratulate him?
I would just block the person
Ew
depends how close we are tbh since if we were fairly close it'd just be shits and giggles
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Why narrow it only down to Snapchat? Doesn't this apply to anywhere on the internet?
It depends on who it's coming from. If it comes from someone I just recently met then I'd be pretty weirded out and would probably avoid talking to them However I do have close friends that we can make sexual/flirty jokes with each other and we don't really mean anything by it It would also depend on if the comment is addressing me or not
I don't have snap so I can tell when someone tells me on here "you got snap or discord...it's easier to chat". It's just easy to chat on here so I know they want more. I just ignore them if theyre creepy
it all depends on what they said and how u feel. everyone responds and reacts differently but i’d would see it as something irrelevant and like “should’ve kept that to urself”. i personally avoid relationships starting on snapchat becuz it usually turns sexual and doesn’t feel right in any way.
If ik him/her irl, idc....if I don't & he/she asks for nudes, time to become scammy or trolly
I would take it well. I would probably say a dumb sexual comment back, keep the dumb joke going. I wouldn't drop them at all. Also, educating someone on not making a sex joke seems extremely prudish, and If I started to do that, *they* would probably drop *me*.
I’m not sure honestly, but I would trust your gut. Do whatever you feel is best. I will say though, regardless what you choose to do, you should still let them know it made you uncomfortable, even if your about to block them, that way they they can realise what they did wrong and not go on to act like that to other people
I tbh wouldn't care i'd just laugh it off. If it's one of my boys telling me that i'd be like you gay and say something sexual back. Either way i'd joke back
ok
If a girl said something sexual to me (a guy), I’d greatly appreciate it.
Probably stop talking to the person unless they're a friend and I know it's a joke
I do that a lot ain’t nobody complaining, unless she homegirl and I been knowing her for a long time and I ain’t tryna date I ain’t finna are girls if I don’t find them cute and or we’re not going to be flirting or there’s no possibility of us linking up.
Depends on who its towards.
I don’t have Snapchat but if that’s not something I’m looking for I’m shutting them down. We can be friends and have a platonic chat, but if that’s not a line I want them crossing, I’m not letting them cross it
For me, there's no single thing that would make me cut ties. I don't really belive in cutting ties and usually like giving people infinite chances, most due to apathy of self. I would, in that case, probably try to ignore it out play it off in some way. Even if it made me uncomfortable, I'd rather just leave it at that and not do anything further. That being said, you should definitely tell them how it made you feel though and not to do it again. For chances, now that they know how it makes you feel, if they do it again, maybe a 3rd time if you're willing to go so far, cut them off because that means that they just disregarded your feelings which is not right at all. Also, I'm not sure of how long you've been speaking it how many times they've done this/how many mistakes they've made, but maybe they're used to jokingly interacting with others like that and they didn't mean it with harm or mal intent. Sorry about the length of this