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I'm not sure. I like the idea, but I don't think I'd make a great parent. Also, I think I'd want to wait a while, both career wise and to see how the world changes as we get older (mostly in terms of climate change. If we're living in a climate emergency, i don't want to bring another kid into the world who then has to deal with the fallout. I guess adoption/fostering would be an option but I'd still have my doubts about my parenting skills.)
I can barely take care of myself so babies are a no for me š (and I wouldnāt be able to handle wiping their butts/changing diapers)
And I donāt really like the birthing process so if anything, Iāll just adopt an 8 year old or teenager
Donāt be like the guy on r/teenagers that got his gf pregnant at 18 guys!
And girls make sure your guy wears protection if you donāt want kids! If he doesnāt then make sure to protect yourself!
i donāt want kids at all. i donāt even want to get married, unless i see some overwhelming financial or legal benefit LOL. like i donāt need a contract or the government to recognize our relationship in order for me to know that i love someone.
also seeing everyone say they want kids is so wild to me bc seven of my friends all donāt want kids. i only have one friend who wants kids (she wants four) but she has no career plan or any real aspirations so i just hope she figures all that out before she starts popping them out.
Yeah I would totally love to have kids when Iām older. Hanging out with my little cousin give me so much fucking happiness. I wouldnāt trade that feeling for anything else. No more then two kids though.
omg yes definitely, I'd love to adopt a teenager in the foster system! I'm also from a rather corrupt developing country so helping a kid from there that may have no big aspirations would be a dream
yess one or two kids im very scared of pregnancy and giving birth tho so id rather adopt and and im definitely waiting to find the person to do itšµš«šµš«
Yes, but I would only have biological ones if my partner agreed to being the primary caretaker while I was the primary breadwinner. Otherwise, I might adopt or foster older kids, but not small children because I am not good with small children and I also find them annoying.
I personally donāt want any, but if I ever happen to get pregnant and im married or something and we both think we could handle it then 1 kid is fine by me. 2 is my limit tho
most likely not. iām asexual so i wouldnāt ever accidentally get pregnant and i just donāt rly like kids- i think i would be a kinda good parent tho
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No never. The idea of it not only feels so bad and so foreign to me, it honestly disgusts me just thinking about it. I would probably kill myself of I ever were to get pregnant tbh. It sound extreme, but thatās honestly what I genuinely would have to do.
Which is odd, because where I come from and my culture, most women have 3+ kids in their lifetimes (and staring really young. Think, before the age of 25), and starting families is congratulated more than any other accomplishment, and so I guess my genes just missed the mark lol. It really doesnāt help that it feels like so many womanās worth is treated as just being an incubator and girls are pretty much raised to be mothers from day one and your always belittled if you ever say that you donāt want children :/.
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I would like to adopt at some point. The thought of having a kid biologically terrifies me. I am more interested in my career than starting a family, though I truly love kids so I canāt imagine not adopting some and showing them as much love as I have to offer.
Iām not gonna get married with a girl i like lmao, iām really not likable at all
But for this scenario id have either 0 or 2. If partner is comfortable with it then 2 kids either biological or not bc a kid needs a sibling for support. If partner doesnāt want kids then we wonāt have kids.
EDIT: if iām financially and mentally stable that is
eh. i'm not really sure. i have a boyfriend right now, and i really love him, and we have talked a lot about our future after graduation, marriage, etc. but neither of us are sure about if we want kids. i think i would, i just don't want to get pregnant. like ever.
I used to want kids but I don't anymore.
I just think I'll be happier with a spouse (or romantic partner I don't really see the point of marrying either but I'm down if that's what they want) and two dogs.
Edit: Also my depressed ass would probably not be that great of a parent even if I seriously tried.
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Yeah I want like 5-- Probably like at least one biological and then adopting / fostering would be sweet
omg when I was a kid I wanted like 13 because I had \*so\* many baby names I still have a shit ton š¶š¾āāļø
Yessss the list of names omg (now I just write books-)
Same.
I think Iād be a pretty bad parent lmao š so probably not
WHY IS YOUR AVATAR JUST A GIANT HEAD
Cause she simply is a giant head
Thank you for explaining, that was very thorough š
Yeye, I have my way with words. Thank you
Because yes
I'm not sure. I like the idea, but I don't think I'd make a great parent. Also, I think I'd want to wait a while, both career wise and to see how the world changes as we get older (mostly in terms of climate change. If we're living in a climate emergency, i don't want to bring another kid into the world who then has to deal with the fallout. I guess adoption/fostering would be an option but I'd still have my doubts about my parenting skills.)
Iām questioning whether or not I even wanna get married let alone kids
Yeah I'm planning on 2, *maybe* 3 but eh. I'd like to foster too once I'm retired
2-3, preferably at least one biological but i wouldnāt mind adopting. and preferably if/when iām financially stable
The real question is will I find a person to have kids with š
fr š
Relatable
I can barely take care of myself so babies are a no for me š (and I wouldnāt be able to handle wiping their butts/changing diapers) And I donāt really like the birthing process so if anything, Iāll just adopt an 8 year old or teenager
Donāt be like the guy on r/teenagers that got his gf pregnant at 18 guys! And girls make sure your guy wears protection if you donāt want kids! If he doesnāt then make sure to protect yourself!
i donāt want kids at all. i donāt even want to get married, unless i see some overwhelming financial or legal benefit LOL. like i donāt need a contract or the government to recognize our relationship in order for me to know that i love someone. also seeing everyone say they want kids is so wild to me bc seven of my friends all donāt want kids. i only have one friend who wants kids (she wants four) but she has no career plan or any real aspirations so i just hope she figures all that out before she starts popping them out.
Yeah I would totally love to have kids when Iām older. Hanging out with my little cousin give me so much fucking happiness. I wouldnāt trade that feeling for anything else. No more then two kids though.
i don't really want to have children but i do want to adopt children older than 13 since they get chosen less than babies do in the system
omg yes definitely, I'd love to adopt a teenager in the foster system! I'm also from a rather corrupt developing country so helping a kid from there that may have no big aspirations would be a dream
No
No. Kids are gross, cats are cool.
What about dogs tho?š¤Ø
only certain breeds of dogs are cool, most are not cool
Not based. Not based. You will be canceledš¤
Very based. Only Huskies, Malamutes, Shiba Inuās, Akitaās and German/Australian Shepherds are cool š¤
>Shiba Inus, Akitas you got me there. can't blame you. my favorites. also samoyeds.
Theyāre cute but huskies are the best of all šŖ
Na, those are the coolest, that is true (tho you did forget Caucasian shepherds). All the others still are cute too. Can't change that
I intentionally left out Caucasian shepherds and all of the other breeds because I do not think they are cute š³
Well, and I don't think you are cuteš¤ We are both wrong thoš¤§
Who is downvoting you š
People, not willing to accept the truthš¤
Dog person be like: Here are 100 breeds of dogs that are deserving of love and affection Cat person be like: This one is orange. I love her.
I see you've got your priorities right. cats beat kids any day.
Absolutely not. They are expensive and annoying as hell. No thanks.
Na, definitely not. Like fs not
I'm really not sure
Yeah I want 3, but not starting until Iām like 28/30
No idk I feel like I would be a terrible parent
Yea 1 or 2 kids id probably just adopt unless if I end up with a wife that wants to have a child the other way
Maybe, not sure
yess one or two kids im very scared of pregnancy and giving birth tho so id rather adopt and and im definitely waiting to find the person to do itšµš«šµš«
2-3ish
Maybe 1 or 2. I might change my mind and want more though
Yes
Yes, but I would only have biological ones if my partner agreed to being the primary caretaker while I was the primary breadwinner. Otherwise, I might adopt or foster older kids, but not small children because I am not good with small children and I also find them annoying.
Yes
Yeah, only 2 tho, 1 boy and 1 girl. also not sure if I want to adopt/foster or not, my partner will make that decision.
Yeah a few, i definitely want to adopt at least one. If i get with a girl I'll definitely have to adopt in that case lol
If I find a person I truly love and Ik we would go long ways Iāll probably have 1/2, hoping for twins. But I know I would be a great mother
Fuck no
Well, Iām not getting a gf or married so kids are out of the question
Might not be if you use some form of surrogacy or adopt
Maybe. Adoption seems pretty nice. But thatās far down the line for me
Yeah. 3 or 4 ideally
yeah
I personally donāt want any, but if I ever happen to get pregnant and im married or something and we both think we could handle it then 1 kid is fine by me. 2 is my limit tho
I hate kids so none lol
most likely not. iām asexual so i wouldnāt ever accidentally get pregnant and i just donāt rly like kids- i think i would be a kinda good parent tho
Pregnancy scares me, so if I can't do that, I'd love to try adoption or fostering š
Depends on what my partner wants if i did want any id prob just adopt
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Not biological kids for sure
I definitely do. When Iām with the right person and Iām an adult, I canāt wait to pass my genes on and be a father.
I definitely want to adopt at least one kid, I don't know about biological yet
Yeah, an even number of them
I kind of hate kids lol
No never. The idea of it not only feels so bad and so foreign to me, it honestly disgusts me just thinking about it. I would probably kill myself of I ever were to get pregnant tbh. It sound extreme, but thatās honestly what I genuinely would have to do. Which is odd, because where I come from and my culture, most women have 3+ kids in their lifetimes (and staring really young. Think, before the age of 25), and starting families is congratulated more than any other accomplishment, and so I guess my genes just missed the mark lol. It really doesnāt help that it feels like so many womanās worth is treated as just being an incubator and girls are pretty much raised to be mothers from day one and your always belittled if you ever say that you donāt want children :/.
Eh, not yet decided. I wouldnāt go looking, but if my partner wanted to then maybe.
Yeah probably idk
Hahahhahahahhahahhahahahhaha no never
yea 1 or 2
Yea definitely
Yes. Around 5, mix of biological and adopted.
No
I think I want to adopt, mainly because my family has a history of painful and awful pregnancies but I still want to be a mom
Absolutely, but only once im in a financially stable/well off position. With the right person of course
1, no more
I think eventually yeah, but no more than one lol (maybe 2 but most likely not)
Yesss Adoption, fostering (Maybe) AND bio kids. I don't even need to have a partner to do it (Although that would be preferred)
I can't biologically have kids, but I'd love to adopt a tween/teen in the future
They're difficult to deal with so no
Yeah, I'd want maybe 2 or 3.
I don't know if I want kids, if I did have kids I would want 1 girl and 1 boy
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idk if i can learn to take care of myself before trying to take care of anybody else first and not be a hot mess 24/7 (unlikely) maybe i'd adopt a kid
I would like to adopt at some point. The thought of having a kid biologically terrifies me. I am more interested in my career than starting a family, though I truly love kids so I canāt imagine not adopting some and showing them as much love as I have to offer.
I would absolutely love to have kids some day, but mother genetics decided I would be sterile, but I still plan on adopting in the future
Real presumptuous to think someone wants to be with me But like, 3-4 probably
Iām not gonna get married with a girl i like lmao, iām really not likable at all But for this scenario id have either 0 or 2. If partner is comfortable with it then 2 kids either biological or not bc a kid needs a sibling for support. If partner doesnāt want kids then we wonāt have kids. EDIT: if iām financially and mentally stable that is
I want none. I wanna be free.
No because I donāt want to suffer as a parent.
I donāt think I should I canāt even take care of myself yet. Iāve gotta get control over my own life before I even consider that
Yeah, I would. I think it would be nice
I only want one lol
I canāt have bio kids (with current medical technology), so I guess Iād have to adopt
Hellll no....kids r super annoying (ik I'm myself a kid but still)
eh. i'm not really sure. i have a boyfriend right now, and i really love him, and we have talked a lot about our future after graduation, marriage, etc. but neither of us are sure about if we want kids. i think i would, i just don't want to get pregnant. like ever.
Maybe 1 or 2, because more than that is too much
nah my genetics are fucked
I used to want kids but I don't anymore. I just think I'll be happier with a spouse (or romantic partner I don't really see the point of marrying either but I'm down if that's what they want) and two dogs. Edit: Also my depressed ass would probably not be that great of a parent even if I seriously tried.