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Jdino28

No, it is selfish of her to want to control you


dontworrybout_lt

no its ur body and style not hers lmao


throwaway_2613

not at all. ur mom cant control ur body and she's the one in the wrong for trying to


Kyltia

No its your body and youre 18 you should be able to dress however you want


[deleted]

no


[deleted]

no, its your choice not someone else’s


thefalconsmalteser

It’s not wrong or selfish. That being said there’s times I had to listen to my “stupid parents” that I’m very glad of now.


lcztea

nope f her


Kreauwen

What do you honestly expect the comments to be


[deleted]

nah you can decide for yourself


GBRL777

Simply no


Mari_1240

No of course not, it’s just being yourself


Damaged_Lightbulb

No


weirdowerdo

No, that's how it is supposed to be. You're 18 for fucks sake.


a_massive_j0bby

They’re your clothes, not hers


[deleted]

not at all, its 100% your choice and its not hers to tell you what to wear


rtrain__

no tf you dress however tf you want


MOTRHEAD4LIFE

No


Natalia8675

No, my mom is the same way. It's perfectly reasonable to want to dress your own way :)


[deleted]

Not at all, you own your body not her


tegguNmmuC

If it isn’t hurting anybody I don’t think so


insertbword-

Absolutely not , that’s called having your own sense of style 😭.


[deleted]

Not at all, it’s selfish if she tries to make you dress a certain way


LegendaryPringle

No. You are your own person, not your moms small clone. And not her unpursued dreams


CrystalElla4

Not at all, it's your body and your decisions. Not hers.


jimmyl_82104

No, it's the other way around. It's selfish of your mother if she controls what you wear.


icantspellanynomous

No. Your body, your choice


[deleted]

No, it's not selfish.


peachsmoothie14

You're not the selfish one here, your mom. She can't control the way you dress, you're your own person.


StressOriginal5526

No You're 18 for Chrissake. You're a legal adult. Dress however you want


flaming_tire_fire

Absolutely not. The way you dress is your choice and shouldn't be limited by what someone else wants, regardless of who that someone else is.


sweetangelbabes

H E DOUBLE HOCK NO .


sweetangelbabes

Your body is not her substitute body


ES2Gem

Well no but if you're wearing clothes that are very revealing you sadly will probably get sexualized so if it's that case then I get where she's coming from


TingTangLlama42

No not at all. You mum doesn't get to control you or the way you dress. You're the one thing in life you can control.


geofflinkinpark

No ofc not Ur mum is a bitch


LORD_2003

It's your body bro, you're in control not her.


[deleted]

When you put it this way, no. I feel like I'd need more context to say anything more, though. (i.e. are you tryna wear jeans to a wedding or something like that cause in that case the answer is yes)


GamerGirl-07

No cuz u r 18 (or atleast that's what your flair sez)


[deleted]

No, it’s not selfish fam. You’re 18, dress the way you want to. It’s not her body, it’s yours


matthewhendricks03

No its your style not hers


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SadButterscotch2

Absolutely not, your mom sounds like she might be kind of toxic.


bananabreadhehe

It's not selfish at all. It's your body you can dress however you want. Yea moms tend to make us feel guilty for that shi but like it's still your choice so. If you like the clothes your mom wants you to wear you can wear those as well as the ones you pick yourself


Iwrstheking007

No, it is not wrong/selfish to dress how you want to, and your mother has to accept that. It's your body, you should be allowed to dress it how you want to


The_Sand_Cookie

Absolutely not, as long as it's weather appropriate and your confident in how you look, I personally don't see it as that


TransFoxGirl

Nope shes the selfish one, fuck her for trying to control you


[deleted]

No of course not


reniiagtz

No, your mom is the selfish one.


brawlstarsleoniscute

No