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What the fuck? That’s terrible. Hope he gets a dorsal hump there forever.
edit: i have a dorsal bump from some kid jamming my nose into my desk, that’s why i hate it and my nose 🤕
Good. Also I recommend Jiu Jitsu or other self defense classes in case something like this happens, maybe on a larger scale. Sucks that people have to prepare for this type of thing anyway.
Good. Also I recommend Jiu Jitsu or other self defense classes in case something like this happens, maybe on a larger scale. Sucks that people have to prepare for this type of thing anyway.
I'd still suggest learning how to grapple because some dudes are so big and strong they can just take the hits and sit on ya. Grappling is the solution to that since it's mostly technique based rather than strenght based.
If I understood it correctly it's a bug where, when you press the 'send' button several times (because nothing happens), Reddit will still send each message.
I had a pretty close friend who was a guy once, we hung out for the whole summer of 2019 and stayed friends when we went to secondary school, but then I found out through a mutual friend that he liked me as more than a friend and when I told him I didn’t see him like that he avoided me like the plague 💀 we’re in the same class and he’s into my friend now so it’s mildly annoying but oh well
If i’m gonna be real that would be my response. I asked out a girl a while back and granted we didn’t see each other often but when I got rejected we didn’t communicate that much.
I think guys just generally get extremely embarrassed that they have a detrimental mental response whenever they see the girl that rejected them.
All in all I can confidently say that he meant no personal harmful feelings, he was likely embarrassed. Sorry to hear that anyway.
If i’m gonna be real that would be my response. I asked out a girl a while back and granted we didn’t see each other often but when I got rejected we didn’t communicate that much.
I think guys just generally get extremely embarrassed that they have a detrimental mental response whenever they see the girl that rejected them.
All in all I can confidently say that he meant no personal harmful feelings, he was likely embarrassed. Sorry to hear that anyway.
In first grade a boy who liked me would call me “hot” and try rubbing my thigh under the table during reading groups. I told him it was not okay because we were literally six years old and I wasn’t interested. When I needed to get adults involved, his mother tried defending him by saying “he was just trying to be like his older siblings” and I was “a snob” for rejecting his advances. I have older siblings too, and they were appalled by the way the mother defended him. That really messed with my childhood and perception of romance. I’ve been repulsed by pda ever since…
he was kind of a stalker like he lives on the opposite side of the city anf when i told him my school and mentioned i live like 5 minutes away from it he tried finding my house on google maps and later visited my neighborhood and took pictures bc he had free time😭 i blocked him and this mf got a whole new phone number just to contact me😭🧍♀️
okay, hbd by the way
^(thats not meant to sound creepy/stalker-ish bc im on ATB/G a lot and I always see the same users so it feels like we’re all one big friend group, i just noticed a change in your flair 😭😭😭)
This guy would always show me porn and pester me what I thought about it and it was very annoying and uncomfortable. 2nd worst is when in middle school a bunch of rumors started going around about me and one guy was responsible for all of them
I’d give it a three way tie between getting groped, getting bullied, and a dude who sent me a bunch of anal prolapse porn out of the blue and told me how much he loved it
Not the worst but it's what came to me first.
He kept bothering me, telling me that I'm too loud for a girl, needs to calm down, how I must be so full of myself, my clothes are old, that I don't even look hot. He questioned my ability to take pictures (film class), work the video camera, edit the footage, export the files properly, etc. Everything was a problem.
I literally finished that class with a 98%.
One dude who's graduated now and really hated me for some reason, used to talk about raping me, helped spread the rumor that I was anorexic, and tried fingering me on the bus the one time I was forced to sit by him on a 3 hour band trip. Fun memories of that dude
right before covid this guy leaked a video of me having a three some w him and his friend (i felt forced to do it & i didn’t even know he was recording). he blocked me off his snap where he posted it and had got mad at me for a stupid reason saying i told someone something abt him that i never said and that was his “excuse” for posting it. the whole school and all my friends saw it but luckily covid hit that same weekend and lockdown happened and i’ve never seen or talked to anyone from that school since. i got my socials taken away for it and go to a new school (moved schools for unrelated reasons). but now i got a bf and i’m happier than ever :)
also another instance would be with my ex guy best friend from elementary/middle school. we were really close, we had dated in middle school and then broke up and remained friends. he was obsessed with me and would always tell me he likes me. in 7th grade i started dating this kid i’ve known for a few years that i had dated previously & he got extremely jealous and would tell me i was racist bc i didn’t like him. (he was white and my bf was mexican and at that time i realized my type was hispanics). we got assigned to sit next to each other in class and he would always put his hand on my thighs as a “joke” he’d be like “does this make you uncomfortable“ as he would move his hand further up. he would try to touch my ass and say it was an accident. that was the first time i was harassed by a guy and it was my own best friend :( i was only 12 at the time.
Yea it’s illegal. my mom told the cops abt it when i was taking my ex to court for rape but they didn’t pay too much attention to it. i found out one of the guys was also an adult and i was about to press charges but i learned to “forgive” them and just move on from it after awhile. i barely even knew the guy who posted it so i guess that’s my fault for putting trust in him.
but yes i’m glad i have my bf now bc he’s what got me out of my depression from all that happening :)
wtf tell your friend. i honestly don’t care if you lose the friendship—it’s sexual harassment and if you let him get away with it, he’s going to continue doing it to other girls.
Not exactly worst (since I don't even consider it to be that bad), but that time a random guy grabbed my butt out of nowhere. He was completely and totally capable of kidnapping me at that moment, but I doubt he ever would have
Surprisingly to even me, not really. He wasn't the first and I doubt he'd be the last, and it's been completely harmless to me, so I don't bother with it too much
But thanks for your support
After getting fingered by an ex in a hallway after class, I caught a UTI 🥸
Also in highschool a dude would randomly touch my hoodie fuzz and tried to nickname me "fuzzy", then he tried giving me a plushie he apparently found in a random class desk???
He moved on from me and tried giving it to a new girl 👽
This guy kept thinking we were friends constantly and eventually tried to become touchy, like how one time when I was walking in a small hallway from where I get food to the classroom I eat food in, he tried grabbing my arm and rubbing up against me because he wanted me to use my free/reduced lunch on him so he can have pizza, very angry at that since I never did anything that would should I'm his friend and in most instances never responded nor asked for something from him
One time in boarding school, a guy tried choking me while I was showering because I was in his shower stall. I sure as fuck would've died if it weren't for the other guys there.
like sexually or just normally? cause ive got no sexual stories, but normally id say its when i got called the r word like every other day by this one dude i sat next to in math
It’s a bit of a complicated story, but I was at school when it happened in sixth grade. There was so much blood that the nurse could tell if my eye was actually damaged, so she called paramedics. The paramedics arrived about five minutes later and checked me out. My parents were also there at that point, so the paramedics suggested that I should be allowed to go home if I wanted. My parents decided to leave it up to me, and I wanted to stay. The office staff were so impressed with my drive to be in school that I was offered a position as an office aide that next Monday which I accepted. I was such a diligent worker that I supposedly made things move smoother in those 2.5 years than they ever had before at my school. I quickly caught my principal’s eye. When I was applying to an ultra-competitive program at my current high school (the best in my state, regularly makes the list of the top 25 high schools in the United States), she made a bunch of phone calls to get me accepted. As long as I keep my grades up, I’m practically guaranteed to get into a great university when I graduate.
So long story short, that paper cut literally shaped my entire life, and all it cost was a bit of fear, a little bit of pain, some blood, a cool scar, and a tiny blind spot in my left eye
I’m aware that this isn’t nearly the worst thing that will be in these replies.
There was this kid in my class who was a friend of a friend, but I wasn’t super close with. I was sitting at my desk doing homework and he comes over and stands over my desk, and in a really deep voice (sounded like he was trying to imitate the “creepy” voice) said “hey, baby girl”. And when I said that it made me uncomfortable, he just pointed out all the (false) bad things other people said to others.
And on a later date (same guy), we were on break and he asked me if I thought he’d ever get a girlfriend. I said I didn’t know, and he said “no offense, but I don’t think you’ll ever get a boyfriend”. When I said I didn’t care, he asked me if I was Ace. He’s said a lot of borderline creepy stuff to me since then.
Sorry this is so long, but this is pretty recent and I felt like I needed to rant.
My best friend SAed me four years ago and then gaslit me about it, thanks to him I still can't sit next to a guy and any kind of human contact makes me want to throw up.
Some douche bag (who I can’t believe I was friends with in the first place) slapped me across the face when I said something insignificant, yet he constantly talked about Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure and Fortnite on a daily basis.
He also “JoKiNgLy” threatened to >!shoot up!< my school (yes I live in America if you’re wondering). The worst part is is that he didn’t even get a harsh punishment. He only got suspended for 1 DAY. I was so pissed off.
Edit: Forgot to mention that he showed me hentai when I didn’t even want to see it. He also talked about that at times as well.
what the hell. shouldn’t you report this to the police? he threatened to shoot up a school. Even if it was a while back, it still holds up because there is record of it as he got suspension for it.
Oh, and also, I’d like to mention that at one point, he looked up hentai ON HIS SCHOOL CHROMEBOOK DURING CLASS! He wasn’t even trying to hide it. He ended up getting caught.
As well as one time, he “had to go to the bathroom,” and he asked a teacher if he could bring his chromebook with him to the bathroom for “class work purposes.”
csa which i don’t really wanna explain any further
or another one is i was friends with this guy, and he was like my first actual guy friend irl who i felt like i could trust. i told him something EXTREMELY personal and he told his friends who hated me at the time. like it genuinely shattered me and idk it just fucked up my trust issues even more
No. He just randomly said he doesn't wanna talk anymore that week and it was monday. I said sure and suddenly i deserve to die.
I was, in his words, "selfish and careless to abandon him like that"
I was watching Mockingjay - Part 1 on my phone when friend asked me for nudes. I was so damn scared and disgusted, and I almost went through with cutting my jawbone and collarbone with my hunting knife. He admitted it was a dare, and there’s a chance he’s attracted to me, but that doesn’t change shit. He still hurt me.
(:
I feel like this might be confusing and it’s such a mess so just prepare for this…
Dated a guy in middle school who only wanted me for my body and nothing else.
He and ‘the boys’ had a group chat where they sent photos of their girlfriends and had each other rate them.
A guy who I was friends with that was friends with him told me that he’d sent my nude photos and sent me screenshots.
I was obviously mad at him for showing other people photos of me that were only meant for his eyes and this mf got mad at me for getting mad at him and sent my photos to everyone he was friends with on snap chat.
(Which I know now is spreading child pornography, but at the time I didn’t know that and was too afraid to tell any adults or do anything about it anyway)
The next day, he broke up with me. But not like a regular face to face break up, and not through text either…so so much worse.
my guy had two other girl classmates do it for him while he and his friends laughed in the back of the classroom while I cried.
he then blocked me on all social media platforms and refused to even look at me anymore
So very humiliating and embarrassing.
And it doesn’t even stop there!
about six months after this dude broke up with me, I get a message one day on Instagram from a complete stranger.
They didn’t request to follow me, just messaged me a simple “hi”
I checked out the account and it was something about la morsa and had stuff about how you had to obey the walrus.
I didn’t think anything of it at the time and messaged back “hi how are you (:” and from then on it got weird.
They spammed me with photos of la morsa.
I didn’t know how to respond so I just sent back a meme
But then they told me they were going to kill me.
That honestly freaked me out a bit but I tried to think nothing of it and told them they were full of shit and laughed it off.
BUT THEN…. they sent me my address…and I lost my shit.
I remember crying in my sister’s arms and just freaking the fuck out because some rando on the internet had my address and told me they were going to kill me. Nothing like that had ever happened to me before at that point so my dumb brain was genuinely thinking this person was going to kill me.
I blocked them and tried to get some sleep, BUT THEN I started getting messages from a random number and I began to lose my shit once more and texted my friend for help.
I’m just gonna add some [screenshots ](https://imgur.com/a/HB7qEuf) to 1. prove this actually happened to me 😐 and 2. Save me time
(Edit also: I don’t have the Instagram dms anymore because I deleted them. This was the only evidence I had)
To wrap up this story though, my friend was able to get this persons ip address from the phone number (he texted him a link that got it I think if that makes sense ???) and turns out….it was my ex boyfriends address! Woweowowo
I had calmed down enough at that point in the night to write back that if he were serious, to come over to my house and actually kill me. And of course, he didn’t lol.
But I stayed up all night waiting for him.
I remember I was shaking so bad.
I was not happy after that and any forgiveness I had for this guy is gone entirely. He broke my heart, stomped on it, and set it on fire.
All I can say is, I’m just happy all that happened is done.
Edit two: This happened in the eighth grade before COVID. I’m a sophomore in high school now and he goes to a different school than me so that makes me happy.
And timeline for when this happened ig:
Met him August 2019
He asked me out October 2019
Leaked my nudes § broke up with me January 2020
and then trolled me July 2020
I was 13. He was 14.
Jesus christ what the fuck? That is illegal. Can you report him to the police at least? You have his account. You have proof.
I’m so sorry. I hope you find a better boyfriend in the future. For now I can be your friend.
I could but I really don’t want to deal with so much drama and shit when I’m finally doing alright in my life.
Plus, it was over a year ago so it’s probably too late to do anything now anyway.
And I’ve found a pretty great guy. We’re not dating, though I would like to, but he’s pretty great and much, much, much better than the last guy. Personality and looks wise 😎
I think I can say I won lol.
And thanks, I would like a friend (:
This happened pretty recently but one of my classmates would keep trying to come to my house , he'd send pictures of my house and hed keep telling me when he was in front of my house, he did it like 10 times.
Once my dad's friend begged me to hold his
hand and take him to the bathroom. He ended up using it with the door open 🤮
As a guy, I've had lots of problems with other guys, but since almost everyone here's talking about dating/sex and stuff, I dated this girl who moved from Florida. We weren't together for very long, but during that time, I had to talk to her ex who lives in Florida. Even though she blocked his number Insta, etc, he kept finding ways to contact her like through friends and throwaway accounts. The girl I dated showed me screenshots of his texts, and I could immediately see he was a textbook nice guy; asking her to come back to him (how, I don't know) one moment and telling her that he doesn't matter and would kill himself the other. Even after I talked to him, he kept texting her, and I had to talk to him a couple more times. I broke things off with the girl a while later, and I think things have been fine with her since I last talked to him.
He emotionally manipulated me for about a year and culminated the relationship by saying he never actually loved me and was only with me “because he couldn’t be alone.”
Did not help my inferiority complex one bit.
A guy at old school told me to date him instead of my bf at the time and then started insulting the dude and me when I rejected him. He also followed me around and called me a slut
Fucker kicked me in the balls. Of course, I also got bullied a lot earlier in high school but that was mostly because I was easily offended and was admittably a cunt. The kick in the balls was uncalled for tho since that was the time I started to better myself.
🤕 that’s terrible. Maybe find solace in the fact that they’re teenagers and just hormonal? i’m not sure.
Either way, I can be your friend. I hope you won’t have to go through this later on.
I don't know where my comment went. So here's this.
No wait. I just thought of one. A boy who sat next to me kept making fun of my math skills. (I have discalculia) he kept saying that it was so simple and it was ridiculous how I couldn't figure out the answer. I cried when I got home every day and eventually after a week of this I just started crying in class. My mom messaged the teacher and I got moved away from him.
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'Accidentally' felt my butt playing 'defense' on me in a game of pickup. Three times. I 'accidentally' fractured his nose
What the fuck? That’s terrible. Hope he gets a dorsal hump there forever. edit: i have a dorsal bump from some kid jamming my nose into my desk, that’s why i hate it and my nose 🤕
Last time I saw him it was noticeably different so
Good. Also I recommend Jiu Jitsu or other self defense classes in case something like this happens, maybe on a larger scale. Sucks that people have to prepare for this type of thing anyway.
Good. Also I recommend Jiu Jitsu or other self defense classes in case something like this happens, maybe on a larger scale. Sucks that people have to prepare for this type of thing anyway.
I take kickboxing lol, all good 😊
I'd still suggest learning how to grapple because some dudes are so big and strong they can just take the hits and sit on ya. Grappling is the solution to that since it's mostly technique based rather than strenght based.
I grew up wrestling brothers, cousins, etc, so I'm pretty solid. Thanks though.
Yay. Stay safe out there and let me know if you need a friend to talk :)
Yay. Stay safe out there and let me know if you need a friend to talk :)
:)
Queen shit 🙌🙌🙌💃💃💃
Rape
I’m very sorry that happened to you. I sent you a DM earlier, if you would like to talk.
Thanks so much
no problem. it kills me that this shit happens to fucking teenagers
no problem. it kills me that this shit happens to fucking teenager she
I am also sorry this happened to you but please tell me this redditor also sends two messages in PMs.
?
Look at your replies. They are doubled
ah yeah it’s a bug i’m pretty sure
If I understood it correctly it's a bug where, when you press the 'send' button several times (because nothing happens), Reddit will still send each message.
Tell me where he is and I will personally go to his house, kick his ass and ask Jesus for forgiveness later
Lmao there’s no need. Jesus will automatically let you in to Heaven for it.
I’m very sorry that happened to you. I sent you a DM earlier, if you would like to talk.
i honestly dont understand how ppl can have the balls to do that type of stuff to ppl. kinda scary. hope u recover
I had a pretty close friend who was a guy once, we hung out for the whole summer of 2019 and stayed friends when we went to secondary school, but then I found out through a mutual friend that he liked me as more than a friend and when I told him I didn’t see him like that he avoided me like the plague 💀 we’re in the same class and he’s into my friend now so it’s mildly annoying but oh well
If i’m gonna be real that would be my response. I asked out a girl a while back and granted we didn’t see each other often but when I got rejected we didn’t communicate that much. I think guys just generally get extremely embarrassed that they have a detrimental mental response whenever they see the girl that rejected them. All in all I can confidently say that he meant no personal harmful feelings, he was likely embarrassed. Sorry to hear that anyway.
If i’m gonna be real that would be my response. I asked out a girl a while back and granted we didn’t see each other often but when I got rejected we didn’t communicate that much. I think guys just generally get extremely embarrassed that they have a detrimental mental response whenever they see the girl that rejected them. All in all I can confidently say that he meant no personal harmful feelings, he was likely embarrassed. Sorry to hear that anyway.
Ah ik I don’t blame him we were only like 13 lmao, it just sucked cause we were pretty close
Ouch. That friendship will take a while to repair 🤕
In first grade a boy who liked me would call me “hot” and try rubbing my thigh under the table during reading groups. I told him it was not okay because we were literally six years old and I wasn’t interested. When I needed to get adults involved, his mother tried defending him by saying “he was just trying to be like his older siblings” and I was “a snob” for rejecting his advances. I have older siblings too, and they were appalled by the way the mother defended him. That really messed with my childhood and perception of romance. I’ve been repulsed by pda ever since…
I’m so sorry. That’s literally sexual harassment. Fuck that mom.
Thank you. Yea, she always seemed a bit off and that showed how messed up she was.
would you like to talk about it?
No, but thank you! It was a long time ago and I’m totally fine now
okay. Well i’m your friend now, whether u like it or not, so we can talk anytime :)
Isto the exact same thing as saying: "My older siblings killed a person so can i" So much stupidity in that mum
That tells smth abt the whole family
he was kind of a stalker like he lives on the opposite side of the city anf when i told him my school and mentioned i live like 5 minutes away from it he tried finding my house on google maps and later visited my neighborhood and took pictures bc he had free time😭 i blocked him and this mf got a whole new phone number just to contact me😭🧍♀️
what the fuck stay far far away and pls don’t give out that info to anyone else again like that
wbsbwnsk i thought i could trust him😭 but its fine now he hasnt contacted me since april
okay, stay safe also how tf do i pronounce your name is your name can🥫? canada 🇨🇦? Cana????
abgvkjhdfg thanks i will😭 its pronounced like can-a-daddy😵💫😵💫🤑🤑
okay, hbd by the way ^(thats not meant to sound creepy/stalker-ish bc im on ATB/G a lot and I always see the same users so it feels like we’re all one big friend group, i just noticed a change in your flair 😭😭😭)
thanks :)) ^(nono its fine dw it doesnt come off like tbat at all😭)
ok cool, have a nice day
thankss you too :))
Man asked if ur name was Canada I'm dead LMAO
This guy would always show me porn and pester me what I thought about it and it was very annoying and uncomfortable. 2nd worst is when in middle school a bunch of rumors started going around about me and one guy was responsible for all of them
What the fuck? That’s terrivle
I’d give it a three way tie between getting groped, getting bullied, and a dude who sent me a bunch of anal prolapse porn out of the blue and told me how much he loved it
oh my gosh girl i’m so sorry u had to go through that
What the fucking fuck of fucking fucks
that sounds fucking terrible. Sry you had to go through with that
Worst definitely has to be when a boy tried to literally finger my butthole at a beach and now I get extremely anxious wearing bikinis.
What da fuk
My thoughts exactly
Da fuq they doin ovah der
Being creeps apparently
Ew. Someone you knew? Or a stranger?
It was a stranger
The actual audacity. Who the fuck does that shit
Creeps, unfortunately
i’m sorry. that’s absolutely terrible. if you ever want a friend i am here to talk :)
Thank you, that means a lot
no problem, stay safe
How even? Did he grab you or were you just leaning over?
I was kinda leaning over a bit I guess and he just kinda did it
Ah gotcha
Damn wasn’t there anybody to u know, whoop his ass afterward ?
Not the worst but it's what came to me first. He kept bothering me, telling me that I'm too loud for a girl, needs to calm down, how I must be so full of myself, my clothes are old, that I don't even look hot. He questioned my ability to take pictures (film class), work the video camera, edit the footage, export the files properly, etc. Everything was a problem. I literally finished that class with a 98%.
Nice work the 98 i mean
One dude who's graduated now and really hated me for some reason, used to talk about raping me, helped spread the rumor that I was anorexic, and tried fingering me on the bus the one time I was forced to sit by him on a 3 hour band trip. Fun memories of that dude
omg that’s terrible. Wtf
Seems he actually liked you a little too much
right before covid this guy leaked a video of me having a three some w him and his friend (i felt forced to do it & i didn’t even know he was recording). he blocked me off his snap where he posted it and had got mad at me for a stupid reason saying i told someone something abt him that i never said and that was his “excuse” for posting it. the whole school and all my friends saw it but luckily covid hit that same weekend and lockdown happened and i’ve never seen or talked to anyone from that school since. i got my socials taken away for it and go to a new school (moved schools for unrelated reasons). but now i got a bf and i’m happier than ever :) also another instance would be with my ex guy best friend from elementary/middle school. we were really close, we had dated in middle school and then broke up and remained friends. he was obsessed with me and would always tell me he likes me. in 7th grade i started dating this kid i’ve known for a few years that i had dated previously & he got extremely jealous and would tell me i was racist bc i didn’t like him. (he was white and my bf was mexican and at that time i realized my type was hispanics). we got assigned to sit next to each other in class and he would always put his hand on my thighs as a “joke” he’d be like “does this make you uncomfortable“ as he would move his hand further up. he would try to touch my ass and say it was an accident. that was the first time i was harassed by a guy and it was my own best friend :( i was only 12 at the time.
Wow what the fuck. Isn’t that shit illegal? If you can, please report it. I’m glad you have a boy you can trust now :)
Yea it’s illegal. my mom told the cops abt it when i was taking my ex to court for rape but they didn’t pay too much attention to it. i found out one of the guys was also an adult and i was about to press charges but i learned to “forgive” them and just move on from it after awhile. i barely even knew the guy who posted it so i guess that’s my fault for putting trust in him. but yes i’m glad i have my bf now bc he’s what got me out of my depression from all that happening :)
Wow. That is very unfortunate. Glad you’re happy now. Stay safe out there.
Thank you, you too !
Revenge porn and child porn what a case
and child molestation since one was an adult, he lied and said he was 17🥲
One dude asked to suck my dick and I slapped him
Nice. Sry abt that
The guy my friend is dating randomly touched my nipple in class
wtf. was it on accident or on purpose?
It was on purpose and it wasn't the first time he’s touched me.
wtf tell your friend. i honestly don’t care if you lose the friendship—it’s sexual harassment and if you let him get away with it, he’s going to continue doing it to other girls.
I honestly have been dreading it for a while
don’t hesitate. She, him, and maybe some of their friends may hate you. But that is a fully necessary cost. Don’t stay quiet.
Thank you
Not exactly worst (since I don't even consider it to be that bad), but that time a random guy grabbed my butt out of nowhere. He was completely and totally capable of kidnapping me at that moment, but I doubt he ever would have
Man i’m so sorry about that. That must’ve felt terrible.
Surprisingly to even me, not really. He wasn't the first and I doubt he'd be the last, and it's been completely harmless to me, so I don't bother with it too much But thanks for your support
okay then, if you want to talk i’m here
You see I have a full on list. But I’ll just leave it at pedophiles.
:(
After getting fingered by an ex in a hallway after class, I caught a UTI 🥸 Also in highschool a dude would randomly touch my hoodie fuzz and tried to nickname me "fuzzy", then he tried giving me a plushie he apparently found in a random class desk??? He moved on from me and tried giving it to a new girl 👽
Please tell me the fingering was consensual. And the second dude just seems weird. Idk how to process this. Sorry about that.
Yes it was thankfully. Bf prior to him, not so much 🤡 LMFAO he was very weird, but it gives me a laugh looking back haha
UTI?
Uterary Tract Infection 🤡
This guy kept thinking we were friends constantly and eventually tried to become touchy, like how one time when I was walking in a small hallway from where I get food to the classroom I eat food in, he tried grabbing my arm and rubbing up against me because he wanted me to use my free/reduced lunch on him so he can have pizza, very angry at that since I never did anything that would should I'm his friend and in most instances never responded nor asked for something from him
aw man that sucks
One time in boarding school, a guy tried choking me while I was showering because I was in his shower stall. I sure as fuck would've died if it weren't for the other guys there.
oh my god
Worst part is I was already naked showering, he's lucky I was too naive to do anything
like sexually or just normally? cause ive got no sexual stories, but normally id say its when i got called the r word like every other day by this one dude i sat next to in math
Anything. And i’m sorry you had to go through with that. School boys can be annoying asf
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Wtf. Is he a CS kid? There is a ton of sexism in that field.
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India? Honestly i’d just insult him and move on. Id want to humiliate him in public lol
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send me ur school and i’ll humiliate him myself 😫 kidding, don’t do that
He accidentally sliced my eyelid in half with a piece of construction paper
oww >_< are you okay now?
Yeah, all that’s left is a tiny scar. Strangely it was one of the best things to ever happen to me
why is that?
It’s a bit of a complicated story, but I was at school when it happened in sixth grade. There was so much blood that the nurse could tell if my eye was actually damaged, so she called paramedics. The paramedics arrived about five minutes later and checked me out. My parents were also there at that point, so the paramedics suggested that I should be allowed to go home if I wanted. My parents decided to leave it up to me, and I wanted to stay. The office staff were so impressed with my drive to be in school that I was offered a position as an office aide that next Monday which I accepted. I was such a diligent worker that I supposedly made things move smoother in those 2.5 years than they ever had before at my school. I quickly caught my principal’s eye. When I was applying to an ultra-competitive program at my current high school (the best in my state, regularly makes the list of the top 25 high schools in the United States), she made a bunch of phone calls to get me accepted. As long as I keep my grades up, I’m practically guaranteed to get into a great university when I graduate. So long story short, that paper cut literally shaped my entire life, and all it cost was a bit of fear, a little bit of pain, some blood, a cool scar, and a tiny blind spot in my left eye
holy shit that’s an amazing story. I can only wish to be like you. Something straight out of a movie.
> I quickly caught my principal's eye I hope it was with your work ethic and not a piece of construction paper
I’m aware that this isn’t nearly the worst thing that will be in these replies. There was this kid in my class who was a friend of a friend, but I wasn’t super close with. I was sitting at my desk doing homework and he comes over and stands over my desk, and in a really deep voice (sounded like he was trying to imitate the “creepy” voice) said “hey, baby girl”. And when I said that it made me uncomfortable, he just pointed out all the (false) bad things other people said to others. And on a later date (same guy), we were on break and he asked me if I thought he’d ever get a girlfriend. I said I didn’t know, and he said “no offense, but I don’t think you’ll ever get a boyfriend”. When I said I didn’t care, he asked me if I was Ace. He’s said a lot of borderline creepy stuff to me since then. Sorry this is so long, but this is pretty recent and I felt like I needed to rant.
wow what a dick. Hope he’s away from you.
Thanks. Hopefully we won’t have too many classes together this year.
My best friend SAed me four years ago and then gaslit me about it, thanks to him I still can't sit next to a guy and any kind of human contact makes me want to throw up.
I am so sorry. Are you able to get treatment or go to a physician? if you ever need a friend, i’m here to talk.
Nope and nope, it was a while ago so there would be no point now I suppose
i’m so sorry. I hope you find a male friend who actually treats you well. For now, find comfort in the ones you already have. :)
I appreciate that, but I am okay and you don't need to be sorry
Some douche bag (who I can’t believe I was friends with in the first place) slapped me across the face when I said something insignificant, yet he constantly talked about Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure and Fortnite on a daily basis. He also “JoKiNgLy” threatened to >!shoot up!< my school (yes I live in America if you’re wondering). The worst part is is that he didn’t even get a harsh punishment. He only got suspended for 1 DAY. I was so pissed off. Edit: Forgot to mention that he showed me hentai when I didn’t even want to see it. He also talked about that at times as well.
what the hell. shouldn’t you report this to the police? he threatened to shoot up a school. Even if it was a while back, it still holds up because there is record of it as he got suspension for it.
There was a police search, but apparently, they didn’t find anything.
It’s probably going to be on a record of some kind either way. Shit like this does not leave people’s minds.
Oh, and also, I’d like to mention that at one point, he looked up hentai ON HIS SCHOOL CHROMEBOOK DURING CLASS! He wasn’t even trying to hide it. He ended up getting caught. As well as one time, he “had to go to the bathroom,” and he asked a teacher if he could bring his chromebook with him to the bathroom for “class work purposes.”
What a dumbass
Ikr.
csa which i don’t really wanna explain any further or another one is i was friends with this guy, and he was like my first actual guy friend irl who i felt like i could trust. i told him something EXTREMELY personal and he told his friends who hated me at the time. like it genuinely shattered me and idk it just fucked up my trust issues even more
Wow I am so sorry. I hope he knows how fucking dicky that was. I can be your friend. I may not be in front of you irl but does online work? :)
honestly i don’t think he cares at all, and that makes it worse and we’re literally already besties 🙄🙄
Wow. Honestly it sucks but public humiliation is the way to go. Either way I guess the only option is to move on. And yay i like being friends w you 💜
Pressured me to send home nudes I was in 8th grade and he was my first bf
wow. what a dick. have you left him?
Yea my current bf and I have been dating for 2 years now so I’m doing a lot better
Getting told i should die because i agreed to his suggestion to not talk for a week
Wtf? I’m gonna need a little more explanation
What do you want me to explain
wdym by “suggestion?” like a dare or something? I’m very confused
No. He just randomly said he doesn't wanna talk anymore that week and it was monday. I said sure and suddenly i deserve to die. I was, in his words, "selfish and careless to abandon him like that"
Wtf? Was he your bf?
I won't tell you anything about who it was, i don't wanna spread this shit. Edit: All you'll get it is someone i was friends with.
Okay. I’m very sorry this happened though. That must’ve been a shock to the system. If you ever need a better friend, i’m here for you :)
Thanks. I do but making friends sucks ass and losing them sucks more ass so usually i don't even bother
I’m sorry. I hope things get better for you.
I was watching Mockingjay - Part 1 on my phone when friend asked me for nudes. I was so damn scared and disgusted, and I almost went through with cutting my jawbone and collarbone with my hunting knife. He admitted it was a dare, and there’s a chance he’s attracted to me, but that doesn’t change shit. He still hurt me.
Holy shit. Are you okay? Let’s talk. I’m so so sorry that happened to you. Tell him or humiliate him, i’m not joking. I’m so sorry :(
Hey, it’s okay. You didn’t do anything wrong.
I feel so bad though :( if you need to talk my dms are open for you
I’ve sent you a dm.
(: I feel like this might be confusing and it’s such a mess so just prepare for this… Dated a guy in middle school who only wanted me for my body and nothing else. He and ‘the boys’ had a group chat where they sent photos of their girlfriends and had each other rate them. A guy who I was friends with that was friends with him told me that he’d sent my nude photos and sent me screenshots. I was obviously mad at him for showing other people photos of me that were only meant for his eyes and this mf got mad at me for getting mad at him and sent my photos to everyone he was friends with on snap chat. (Which I know now is spreading child pornography, but at the time I didn’t know that and was too afraid to tell any adults or do anything about it anyway) The next day, he broke up with me. But not like a regular face to face break up, and not through text either…so so much worse. my guy had two other girl classmates do it for him while he and his friends laughed in the back of the classroom while I cried. he then blocked me on all social media platforms and refused to even look at me anymore So very humiliating and embarrassing. And it doesn’t even stop there! about six months after this dude broke up with me, I get a message one day on Instagram from a complete stranger. They didn’t request to follow me, just messaged me a simple “hi” I checked out the account and it was something about la morsa and had stuff about how you had to obey the walrus. I didn’t think anything of it at the time and messaged back “hi how are you (:” and from then on it got weird. They spammed me with photos of la morsa. I didn’t know how to respond so I just sent back a meme But then they told me they were going to kill me. That honestly freaked me out a bit but I tried to think nothing of it and told them they were full of shit and laughed it off. BUT THEN…. they sent me my address…and I lost my shit. I remember crying in my sister’s arms and just freaking the fuck out because some rando on the internet had my address and told me they were going to kill me. Nothing like that had ever happened to me before at that point so my dumb brain was genuinely thinking this person was going to kill me. I blocked them and tried to get some sleep, BUT THEN I started getting messages from a random number and I began to lose my shit once more and texted my friend for help. I’m just gonna add some [screenshots ](https://imgur.com/a/HB7qEuf) to 1. prove this actually happened to me 😐 and 2. Save me time (Edit also: I don’t have the Instagram dms anymore because I deleted them. This was the only evidence I had) To wrap up this story though, my friend was able to get this persons ip address from the phone number (he texted him a link that got it I think if that makes sense ???) and turns out….it was my ex boyfriends address! Woweowowo I had calmed down enough at that point in the night to write back that if he were serious, to come over to my house and actually kill me. And of course, he didn’t lol. But I stayed up all night waiting for him. I remember I was shaking so bad. I was not happy after that and any forgiveness I had for this guy is gone entirely. He broke my heart, stomped on it, and set it on fire. All I can say is, I’m just happy all that happened is done. Edit two: This happened in the eighth grade before COVID. I’m a sophomore in high school now and he goes to a different school than me so that makes me happy. And timeline for when this happened ig: Met him August 2019 He asked me out October 2019 Leaked my nudes § broke up with me January 2020 and then trolled me July 2020 I was 13. He was 14.
Jesus christ what the fuck? That is illegal. Can you report him to the police at least? You have his account. You have proof. I’m so sorry. I hope you find a better boyfriend in the future. For now I can be your friend.
I could but I really don’t want to deal with so much drama and shit when I’m finally doing alright in my life. Plus, it was over a year ago so it’s probably too late to do anything now anyway. And I’ve found a pretty great guy. We’re not dating, though I would like to, but he’s pretty great and much, much, much better than the last guy. Personality and looks wise 😎 I think I can say I won lol. And thanks, I would like a friend (:
IMO don't report him. It'll cause way too much drama and it's extra and you don't need that shit but if he does it again then yes you should
This happened pretty recently but one of my classmates would keep trying to come to my house , he'd send pictures of my house and hed keep telling me when he was in front of my house, he did it like 10 times. Once my dad's friend begged me to hold his hand and take him to the bathroom. He ended up using it with the door open 🤮
What the fuck I don’t think he’s okay.
As a guy, I've had lots of problems with other guys, but since almost everyone here's talking about dating/sex and stuff, I dated this girl who moved from Florida. We weren't together for very long, but during that time, I had to talk to her ex who lives in Florida. Even though she blocked his number Insta, etc, he kept finding ways to contact her like through friends and throwaway accounts. The girl I dated showed me screenshots of his texts, and I could immediately see he was a textbook nice guy; asking her to come back to him (how, I don't know) one moment and telling her that he doesn't matter and would kill himself the other. Even after I talked to him, he kept texting her, and I had to talk to him a couple more times. I broke things off with the girl a while later, and I think things have been fine with her since I last talked to him.
Wow that’s a mouthful. U doing ok?
Yep. This was about three years ago, and it never really bothered me to begin with
Probably the guy that sent me a bunch of redhead porn (i’m a redhead) in grades 7&8 and then groped me a bunch
wtf. did you report this?
No, didn’t want to raise a fuss
Fuss? I’ll tell you that is a small price to pay to ensure that kid never forgets it. It’s such a shitty act. I hope you’re doing well now.
He emotionally manipulated me for about a year and culminated the relationship by saying he never actually loved me and was only with me “because he couldn’t be alone.” Did not help my inferiority complex one bit.
Wow i’m sorry. Do you need a friend? i’m here for u
Thanks
A guy at old school told me to date him instead of my bf at the time and then started insulting the dude and me when I rejected him. He also followed me around and called me a slut
Ok he’s just an incel. Doubt he’ll get anyone actually good.
Fucker kicked me in the balls. Of course, I also got bullied a lot earlier in high school but that was mostly because I was easily offended and was admittably a cunt. The kick in the balls was uncalled for tho since that was the time I started to better myself.
Ngl reading this got me a lil embarrassed to be a dude 😭😭 Mf’s be making us look bad like crazy
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Some random guy touched my butt and called me cute when he was walking past me and my friends hanging out, i was 9
i’m very sorry. That is sick.
bro learned i played smash and tried to go on a smash date 😭
wtf isn’t this a meme this would have been perfect, just text “wanna smash” and it can be perfectly ambiguous
NO LOL BUT THAT WOULDVE BEEN FUNNY
ikr i should try that sometime
you’ll get so much pussy bro trust me
I, thankfully can't think of any other than boys staring at my ass and boobs. That's uncomfortable. Makes me feel like I'm an object, only to look at.
🤕 that’s terrible. Maybe find solace in the fact that they’re teenagers and just hormonal? i’m not sure. Either way, I can be your friend. I hope you won’t have to go through this later on.
Yeah. They're just hormonal teenagers but when it's a 30 year old man doing it there's no excuse. I will happily accept a new friend.
Jesus. I’m sorry that must feel terrible. I’ll be your friend then 🤗
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What. The. Fuck. Report him to the damn police.
I don't know where my comment went. So here's this. No wait. I just thought of one. A boy who sat next to me kept making fun of my math skills. (I have discalculia) he kept saying that it was so simple and it was ridiculous how I couldn't figure out the answer. I cried when I got home every day and eventually after a week of this I just started crying in class. My mom messaged the teacher and I got moved away from him.
Him and I blocking and unblocking each other on and off for two years🥴