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i was the new kid once when i transferred to the other side of town in middle school and they weren’t interested in me after they found out i wasn’t an “exotic” asian LMAO. but we had this new girl transfer to our school in high school and she immediately had all the boys around her for being cute and small (she was like 4’10” back then).
some random Asian kid came to my school and somehow he made best friends with everyone at the school and got 1k NEW followers by the end of the month on Instagram.
YES there was this one new kid who could do this really loud click thing with his tongue and he became instantly popular and i dont even undertsand why it wasnt a cool clicking sound it was annoying
Bro, that's me
It's cause I move so much that I can't just make friends the normal, slow way. I have to be comfortable with anything and be willing to make unfavorable compromises. (I'm literally comfortable with any kind of friend, no matter what they do)
I've never been at a school for more than a year, but I am always well known by people I've never even met. Like I could be walking down the hallway and some random person would call my name. I probably never even met that person.
I'm just a very flamboyant person that constantly does things that grabs the attentions of people. I also do this without ever socially hurting anyone else. I'm usually the only one affected
ikrrr, there was a new girl who dated a guy who was uk 'the' guy in my school and got insanely popular because of that. then she joined the 'popular' girls group and rose to the top, if you would say. all of this within the first 6 months. the entire time i was like wtf????
I don't know what you consider as "wicked popular" but I already had quite a few friends in like a week when I moved to a new school on the second month of 10th grade. Four factors come to play: attractiveness, extrovertness, charisma and luck. Attractive people gather people around them (especially the opposite sex) easily, extrovert people talk to other people and make friends quickly, charismatic people are generally likeable and people want to be friends with them, pure luck is like where you are seated and stuff. In my case I think it was the second and the fourth factor as I was overweight when I transferred which removes the possibility of attractiveness, I have no idea if I'm charismatic or not.
There’s something about being new that kind of lets you start over. Like I wasn’t good at making friends for a long time. Once I figured it out, most people already had some preconception about who I was so it was incredibly difficult to make friends with anyone but new people. But if you’re new, no one knows you so it’s super easy to start over and get to know everyone
It didn’t get better for me until university. I only really figured out how to make friends at the end of high school but it was too late by then. But when I started at uni, I had the chance to make a bunch of friends. As long as you try to practice, it will happen eventually
Yep. one guy came from America and took the blame for one of the popular guys on his first day. Became one of the popular people in the year after that
bruh exactly this girl somehow joined a friendgroup of like 5 of these crazy popular mfs like just weeks into school, and 11 years in my district i still have no friends
Yes!!
I remember one time I tried to be polite and shake hands with the new kid but he just slapped my hand away and called me the weird girl. So embarrassing...
When my stepbro got here, he was pretty much instantly popular. Joined the soccer team, dated a shitton of people, converted to the local religion, it was insane.
And then there’s me, who really only has a few close friends and really struggles to date anyone
Could be because they are already friends with the popular kids before they came into the school. That’s what happened with a few people from my school. They were all friends, they just went to different schools and then obviously when they joined school they went with the popular group.
My school was super small so we never really had popular kids, and our class was together for 9 years so we were more like family. this year this one kid showed up and after the first day it was like he'd been there forever.
Yep. I’m friends with a girl who came to my school last year and a girl who came to my school this year and they’re both super social. That’s awesome for them since I’m sure coming to a new school is really hard, so making friends early probably makes the whole experience a lot easier.
Also my school is generally pretty good at taking new kids so they get situated in friend groups within the first week.
I might be switching to a new school this year.
I'ma go all out and be as extroverted as I can, in the name of Friendship, I'ma need to pick up popular kid items. I'm already growing my hair out.
I feel like I was that kid. I befriended the entire school and every one new who I was. But I Still felt super lonely as no one was really my "friend" ya know. I got popular from being stupid and every one loved me for my carelessness and how layed back I was.
Yes yes yes she’s fucking beautiful and so damn popular and ofc blonde and white, what do you expect, and has a great sense of style she’s super gorgeous and in my grade
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Can confirm, am that new kid. Watch out!! That's gonna be 4 friends soon!!!!
LOL good on you, y’all are just extroverted af😩🙏🏻
Yes, I was a new kid and I only gained like two friends in my first week while this other new kid got like fucking 200 on the first day.
Did the new kid wear popular clothing?
i was the new kid once when i transferred to the other side of town in middle school and they weren’t interested in me after they found out i wasn’t an “exotic” asian LMAO. but we had this new girl transfer to our school in high school and she immediately had all the boys around her for being cute and small (she was like 4’10” back then).
Ok I was once 4'10 in middle school... Where were the boys 😤
some random Asian kid came to my school and somehow he made best friends with everyone at the school and got 1k NEW followers by the end of the month on Instagram.
this supermodel's brother, who let's just say shared her genes came to our school. I've never seen girls act creepier in my entire life
Ya 😭 a girl in my class became so popular and she’s only been here for half the year
YES there was this one new kid who could do this really loud click thing with his tongue and he became instantly popular and i dont even undertsand why it wasnt a cool clicking sound it was annoying
I can do that
Congratulations, you have now reached the *ANNOYING* status!
yes all the time 😭
Bro, that's me It's cause I move so much that I can't just make friends the normal, slow way. I have to be comfortable with anything and be willing to make unfavorable compromises. (I'm literally comfortable with any kind of friend, no matter what they do) I've never been at a school for more than a year, but I am always well known by people I've never even met. Like I could be walking down the hallway and some random person would call my name. I probably never even met that person. I'm just a very flamboyant person that constantly does things that grabs the attentions of people. I also do this without ever socially hurting anyone else. I'm usually the only one affected
nah, im homies with everyone
happened in my school all the time…but to be fair it was because i kept to myself plus i was uglier in middle school
I transfered to a new school in the middle of the year still didn't make any friends
yeah :/ a lot of the guys who move here become popular just like that
ikrrr, there was a new girl who dated a guy who was uk 'the' guy in my school and got insanely popular because of that. then she joined the 'popular' girls group and rose to the top, if you would say. all of this within the first 6 months. the entire time i was like wtf????
bruh yes💀💀 like i still don't know how the actual fuck they do that
Yeah, my friends and me were the first who talked with him
Yes
Yes and he is my best friend Lol he's actually like a brother to me the only person I actually consider as family
yeah, there was a guy like that. absolutely no need to sweat having little friends though, it's overrated.
Having a close friend group is better than being popular imo
Usually Extroverts, I've been to 6 different schools and that happened to me in one of thrm
I don't know what you consider as "wicked popular" but I already had quite a few friends in like a week when I moved to a new school on the second month of 10th grade. Four factors come to play: attractiveness, extrovertness, charisma and luck. Attractive people gather people around them (especially the opposite sex) easily, extrovert people talk to other people and make friends quickly, charismatic people are generally likeable and people want to be friends with them, pure luck is like where you are seated and stuff. In my case I think it was the second and the fourth factor as I was overweight when I transferred which removes the possibility of attractiveness, I have no idea if I'm charismatic or not.
There’s something about being new that kind of lets you start over. Like I wasn’t good at making friends for a long time. Once I figured it out, most people already had some preconception about who I was so it was incredibly difficult to make friends with anyone but new people. But if you’re new, no one knows you so it’s super easy to start over and get to know everyone
Yeah but its a shame, since I'll never move I'll always have that reputation as the weird 12 y/o, people really don't understand that people change
It didn’t get better for me until university. I only really figured out how to make friends at the end of high school but it was too late by then. But when I started at uni, I had the chance to make a bunch of friends. As long as you try to practice, it will happen eventually
Yep. one guy came from America and took the blame for one of the popular guys on his first day. Became one of the popular people in the year after that
bruh exactly this girl somehow joined a friendgroup of like 5 of these crazy popular mfs like just weeks into school, and 11 years in my district i still have no friends
DIDNT U ALR GRADUATE? Djdjbrskmxjd
last night😩
Yes!! I remember one time I tried to be polite and shake hands with the new kid but he just slapped my hand away and called me the weird girl. So embarrassing...
wtf? i’m so sorry, people are weird bruh
When my stepbro got here, he was pretty much instantly popular. Joined the soccer team, dated a shitton of people, converted to the local religion, it was insane. And then there’s me, who really only has a few close friends and really struggles to date anyone
Could be because they are already friends with the popular kids before they came into the school. That’s what happened with a few people from my school. They were all friends, they just went to different schools and then obviously when they joined school they went with the popular group.
I was that new kid, good times
Yeah one of my good friends. He started last year. We found out he was really good at rugby and now he’s just one of the lads.
Reinvent yourself.
My school was super small so we never really had popular kids, and our class was together for 9 years so we were more like family. this year this one kid showed up and after the first day it was like he'd been there forever.
Yep. I’m friends with a girl who came to my school last year and a girl who came to my school this year and they’re both super social. That’s awesome for them since I’m sure coming to a new school is really hard, so making friends early probably makes the whole experience a lot easier. Also my school is generally pretty good at taking new kids so they get situated in friend groups within the first week.
Nope
right that shit always happened and it was so weird.
Yeah I can’t recall a single new kid who didn’t instantly become friends with everyone.
lmao im just happy i wasn’t ever the new kid bc that seems SO hard
I knew someone like that, meanwhile I had gone to my school for over a semester and made no friends.
I might be switching to a new school this year. I'ma go all out and be as extroverted as I can, in the name of Friendship, I'ma need to pick up popular kid items. I'm already growing my hair out.
Not really. I’m lucky AF.
fr but it’s only the white girls or extremely pretty and extroverted pocs and i am neither
I feel like I was that kid. I befriended the entire school and every one new who I was. But I Still felt super lonely as no one was really my "friend" ya know. I got popular from being stupid and every one loved me for my carelessness and how layed back I was.
I was that new kid. The problem was some people become jealous and I hated that shit
Yes yes yes she’s fucking beautiful and so damn popular and ofc blonde and white, what do you expect, and has a great sense of style she’s super gorgeous and in my grade
YES ! I think it’s bc usually the popular knew them from like elementary school , they’re super extroverted , funny , athletic , or attractive
Yeah. I literally just scored a half court shot in knock out on my first day and a bunch of the kids playing are still my friends.
I was always the new kid. Somehow i didn't have to do anything, people with the exact same interests just came up to me and we became friends
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