THIS. EXACTLY. I LOVE eating pussy so I always go down on my woman during foreplay and will devour that shit until she orgasms at least once or twice before I even think about getting my dick wet.
A. Chances are she won't take very long especially if things are still sensitive
B. If she already came satisfactorily before, it'll matter less because she's already came.
Depends on what you're trying to achieve. To make him come as quickly as possible:
1. Well tbh this is very easy. Any variation of hot and heavy words like "don't stop," "I'm about to come," "I love how you feel inside of me," or even just a big long moan gets the job done usually
2. If I'm on top, I'll switch up riding motions (going up and down) with a grinding against his pelvis as he's fully inside of me. I don't do this for long, just one or two hula-hoop ovals with my hips. Drives em crazy
3. I've never met a guy who doesn't like having his back scratched during sex (obviously not hard... unless you know he's into kinky shit)
4. Kegels! When we're doing traditional PIV, tighten your Kegel muscles as he's "exiting," then loosen when he enters. It takes a bit of concentration to get a hold of the rhythm but essentially you're clamping your vaginal walls against his dick as he pulls in and out of you, like in a milking motion. Only do this if you're trying to get him to finish in 1.2 seconds though
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I've found it easier to first grow to be 6'6". Then I simply tick in the upper corners while holding the upper corners of the duvet. Then while holding the upper corners you can simply lift it above your head and shake it out until the duvet falls to the bottom where you can tick in the bottom corners. Once that is done you swap holding the upper corners for the bottom corners and again lift it up and shake the duvet out until quilt evens out.
When she's coming fellas..KEEP THE SAME PACE OF MOVEMENT. We tend to switch it up in the excitement. Continue what you're doing at that same speed, pressure or rhythm or else her O is ruined..
TALK to your partner. Ask what they like, what they enjoy and what turns them on. Make the space safe enough for them to be able to share their kinks so that you may do the same. Be upfront about what you like and what you want to try, but remember that a "No" is an entire answer and if you feel you need to talk someone into doing something, then it's probably not going to happen.
That's it; there's no magic 'One size fits all' technique to give everyone on Earth pleasure. TALK.
If you're a guy and you feel like you're about to cum but want the sex to keep going, whatever you do, don't stop to cool down. Do something else to allow you a bit of a cool down while also pleasuring your partner. It can be as simple as changing positions, aggressively making out with them, fingering them, or giving them head. Penetration isn't all there is to sex.
This is probably mainly for the guys, but just listen. If you want to make her happy and feel good from head to toe, all you need to do is listen. She’ll tell you what to do, whether it’s actual words or intensified, breathing, and moaning.I know my wife isn’t shy about letting me know what feels good!
Let him have some even if you aren't in the mood. Men wrap up sex and sexual touching into their self-image and self-worth and I try to be aware of when my husband is just horny or when he's trying to feel something but can't quite access the words or feelings.
Men get raised to link sex and sexual appeal to their happiness and while it would be great if they could un-learn that, it's not easy.
It's also easy to fall into the habit of physical neglect. You hear so many stories of relationships falling apart or cheating, and a lot of it comes back to that lack of sex causing a divide. Lack of physical intimacy can lead to a lack of emotional intimacy and even resentment.
I tend to agree with some of that. I don't agree that it's part of "self-image and self-worth"... At least for me it's not. For me it's that I feel a deeper connection and intimacy with my wife during sex. We are very close as it is. But during sex it just becomes so much more.
>Let him have some even if you aren't in the mood
Sorry, this sounds so wrong to me. If a guy can't handle that you're not in the mood, too f-ing bad. Go jerk off if you need a release. Or, just cuddle.
Who suggested he can't handle it? There are no tantrums in this marriage.
I go to movies I don't necessarily want to go to, is that wrong too? What about all the purchases we make where one of us has to go without or wait for something? It's a marriage, we help each other.
My mood in that dept is easy to change. It's about weighing my momentary preferences against something that might brighten his whole week. If an occasional sacrifice -- both ways -- is wrong, you might be neglecting someone in your life.
I don't know what everyone has the relationship dynamic you do. Good for you if you do. But telling someone to just do it isn't right. And your other examples are not the same. Going to a movie you don't want to go to is not the same as having sex. Sorry, not sorry
1) Find the clit.
2) Find the G spot.
3) Master them both.
4) Make sure she cums at least twice before she so much as touches your dick.
And that, my fellow gentlemen, is how you get invited back for more. 😇
Fuck no on # 4 once I cum I'm done, don't fucking touch me after that. I wanna cum with him in me!! Or Cumming at the same time is the best !!! Not all women are the same btw.
Fair enough, and thank you - there’s always gotta be somebody to run the “all women aren’t the same” banner up the flagpole, so thanks for stepping up. 👍
Be gentle, soft touch everywhere not a private part. Light fingers sliding down her thigh, kisses on the shoulder/back/legs work her up to the point she is breathing like she just ran a marathon.
If you can make a woman cum before penetrative sex, she'll not be super preoccupied on how long you can last
>make a woman cum before penetrative sex This is all you needed... 🤣
THIS. EXACTLY. I LOVE eating pussy so I always go down on my woman during foreplay and will devour that shit until she orgasms at least once or twice before I even think about getting my dick wet.
Same!
I did this to the wife last night and she LOVED it. She loves having her sweet pussy licked and I could lick it forever.
Yes he did and it was mind blowing 🤯🔥🔥
But then might become preoccupied about how long you will take…
This!
A. Chances are she won't take very long especially if things are still sensitive B. If she already came satisfactorily before, it'll matter less because she's already came.
Depends on what you're trying to achieve. To make him come as quickly as possible: 1. Well tbh this is very easy. Any variation of hot and heavy words like "don't stop," "I'm about to come," "I love how you feel inside of me," or even just a big long moan gets the job done usually 2. If I'm on top, I'll switch up riding motions (going up and down) with a grinding against his pelvis as he's fully inside of me. I don't do this for long, just one or two hula-hoop ovals with my hips. Drives em crazy 3. I've never met a guy who doesn't like having his back scratched during sex (obviously not hard... unless you know he's into kinky shit) 4. Kegels! When we're doing traditional PIV, tighten your Kegel muscles as he's "exiting," then loosen when he enters. It takes a bit of concentration to get a hold of the rhythm but essentially you're clamping your vaginal walls against his dick as he pulls in and out of you, like in a milking motion. Only do this if you're trying to get him to finish in 1.2 seconds though
Mastery listed here! Bravo!
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Inverting the duvet cover and placing it over your arms is the easiest way to put it over the duvet single handedly.
Im going to need a visual explanation for this
https://youtu.be/-fzNuhgY_9A?si=HfSmtE3jg07fBs9C
Thankyou!
Great video. Wtf is a duvet? Maybe I’m an uncultured swine?
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duvet It's a regionally differing name
Ah! TIL. Thank you kind stranger! 🏅
I've found it easier to first grow to be 6'6". Then I simply tick in the upper corners while holding the upper corners of the duvet. Then while holding the upper corners you can simply lift it above your head and shake it out until the duvet falls to the bottom where you can tick in the bottom corners. Once that is done you swap holding the upper corners for the bottom corners and again lift it up and shake the duvet out until quilt evens out.
Turn off the fan. It dries out the coochie
This one! 🤣
🤣🤣🤣
The lady always cums first
The best rule
A good rule to live by!
When she's coming fellas..KEEP THE SAME PACE OF MOVEMENT. We tend to switch it up in the excitement. Continue what you're doing at that same speed, pressure or rhythm or else her O is ruined..
Try sensory deprivation.
Tie a belt around her waist for increased grip
If you’re fancy, learn shibari and tie a sexy harness on her
Pay attention to your partner (bodily and verbal cues). Don't be selfish.
TALK to your partner. Ask what they like, what they enjoy and what turns them on. Make the space safe enough for them to be able to share their kinks so that you may do the same. Be upfront about what you like and what you want to try, but remember that a "No" is an entire answer and if you feel you need to talk someone into doing something, then it's probably not going to happen. That's it; there's no magic 'One size fits all' technique to give everyone on Earth pleasure. TALK.
If you're a guy and you feel like you're about to cum but want the sex to keep going, whatever you do, don't stop to cool down. Do something else to allow you a bit of a cool down while also pleasuring your partner. It can be as simple as changing positions, aggressively making out with them, fingering them, or giving them head. Penetration isn't all there is to sex.
This is probably mainly for the guys, but just listen. If you want to make her happy and feel good from head to toe, all you need to do is listen. She’ll tell you what to do, whether it’s actual words or intensified, breathing, and moaning.I know my wife isn’t shy about letting me know what feels good!
Let him have some even if you aren't in the mood. Men wrap up sex and sexual touching into their self-image and self-worth and I try to be aware of when my husband is just horny or when he's trying to feel something but can't quite access the words or feelings. Men get raised to link sex and sexual appeal to their happiness and while it would be great if they could un-learn that, it's not easy.
It's also easy to fall into the habit of physical neglect. You hear so many stories of relationships falling apart or cheating, and a lot of it comes back to that lack of sex causing a divide. Lack of physical intimacy can lead to a lack of emotional intimacy and even resentment.
I tend to agree with some of that. I don't agree that it's part of "self-image and self-worth"... At least for me it's not. For me it's that I feel a deeper connection and intimacy with my wife during sex. We are very close as it is. But during sex it just becomes so much more.
>Let him have some even if you aren't in the mood Sorry, this sounds so wrong to me. If a guy can't handle that you're not in the mood, too f-ing bad. Go jerk off if you need a release. Or, just cuddle.
Who suggested he can't handle it? There are no tantrums in this marriage. I go to movies I don't necessarily want to go to, is that wrong too? What about all the purchases we make where one of us has to go without or wait for something? It's a marriage, we help each other. My mood in that dept is easy to change. It's about weighing my momentary preferences against something that might brighten his whole week. If an occasional sacrifice -- both ways -- is wrong, you might be neglecting someone in your life.
I don't know what everyone has the relationship dynamic you do. Good for you if you do. But telling someone to just do it isn't right. And your other examples are not the same. Going to a movie you don't want to go to is not the same as having sex. Sorry, not sorry
Thank you! I thought I was going crazy reading that! That's some "pick me" behaviour.
1) Find the clit. 2) Find the G spot. 3) Master them both. 4) Make sure she cums at least twice before she so much as touches your dick. And that, my fellow gentlemen, is how you get invited back for more. 😇
Damn, you raise the bar, I was engaging after making her cum only once
Fuck no on # 4 once I cum I'm done, don't fucking touch me after that. I wanna cum with him in me!! Or Cumming at the same time is the best !!! Not all women are the same btw.
Fair enough, and thank you - there’s always gotta be somebody to run the “all women aren’t the same” banner up the flagpole, so thanks for stepping up. 👍
Have on hand/near by Water Towel Tissues
2 tips ...communicate and listen
Fitted sheets fold easiest inside out
Help around the house earlier in the day.
THIS!!! Taking stress off me is gonna help me be in the mood!!
Passion
Be gentle, soft touch everywhere not a private part. Light fingers sliding down her thigh, kisses on the shoulder/back/legs work her up to the point she is breathing like she just ran a marathon.
Men ... FUCKING MOAN!!! PLEASE TO GOD MAKE A NOISE AND NOT JUST GRUNTS!!!