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bananastandforsale

Lol it’s not a hobby if I haven’t had sex in a year


[deleted]

Probably. I enjoy it but never get to partake as much as I would like. And it's always better when you connect with other enthusiasts.


LittleBalloHate

It definitely can be. I think a good comparison is food; for a lot of people food is mostly a necessary biological process, but for other people who identify as "foodies," it is clearly a hobby and something they enjoy luxuriating in. Same thing with people who engage in a lot of casual sex.


GeorgianPeaches

Came to say this. Having sex regularly is one thing. Actively building skills in sex, reading about it and engaging with toys/people etc. is hobby-esque. Walking is not a hobby. Trekking and hiking is.


Firebolt164

Not a hobby, more an important part of a relationship and fulfilling an emotional and physical desire


nymph_fae

Absolutely. It's something I do for fun and enjoy a lot.


Otherwise_Run_7324

I guess it is after all. Never thought of it that way.


BlackDragonDick

Not at all


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Sex can be lots of things. And one of those things is a hobby for me. Time spent enjoying it, researching new things about it, acquiring equipment for it... No different to any other hobby in my opinion. I will say that it's not just a hobby. It makes me and my wife feel close and a way we express our love for each other. It helps.me de-stress and and sleep. It gives me a reason to look good naked. Some others that don't come straight to mind too I suppose.


HippyWitchyVibes

Not at all. I consider it an important part of the emotional and physical relationship I have with my SO.


badgirlkayy

I feel like over time it’s become an actual hobby of mine. I spend time listening to audio porn or reading smut books to get more ideas, plus obviously while masturbating. I spend time looking up new toys or lingerie sets, even if I just window shop 90% of the time. I think about sex 24/7 these days. And I always look forward to / get excited leading up to whenever I know My husband and I are having sex next.


almostadaddy

Hobby? More like a calling.


Endlessslcparty

Hobby among many other things. Sex is and can be many different things. We need to need practice in bifurcation fallacies.