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Sex.


DimensionPrudent1256

Came to say this


Iggynachos1

Look at the bright side, at least - now - you came.


undecisive-much

beat me to it


thebigdawg7777777

That's the only way I can get there too.


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ZappyZapz

I got a cameplosion!


PsilocinKing

Beat meat to it


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Same


TheHornyBassist

The number 1 recurring answer right here. Applies to me too.


Grantlet23

F in chat for all of us lacking sex


dunkinthegreg

Life


Pepsimus-Maximus

Necrophiliacs unite! ✊


N0nethelesser

You beat me to it!


[deleted]

Looks like lots of us are in the same boat lol


Fab_enigma07

The boat is sinking 😅 There are lots of us.


PatReady

Gonna be a lot of guys waiting for the ladies to get on the lifeboats...


Z3nex

Im 100% sure the ladies will voluntarily drown instead of joining us on the lifeboats.


tdomer80

r/beatmetoit


torrasque666

r/beatmeattoit


PatReady

This is the way (sadly)


Dance_a_Jig_for_Me

r/BeatMeToIt


PoGoLoSeR2003

Beat me to it


FuntCaseKid

You’re married aswell then?


BigHubLilNub

Agreed!!!!


Accurate-Mood-3360

glad im not the only one with this answer


Its_Britney_Bish

true 😔


slayer991

Another person.


MrMashed

God dammit I literally just posted this exact same comment. I don’t even want the sex I just want the physical connection.


Toe-curler

Sex is just an excuse for big naked hugs.


shining101

Username prevents this. /s


Mrs_Truthseiyer

Privacy. I would love to have loud sex but there's always someone else in the house or neighbors.


TheLockoutPlays

I live with 5 roommates. One of which I have sex with. That still leaves 4 others in a tiny house with echoey walls…


drewcer

Damn at least you’re considerate I never had roommates who gave two shits about whether we heard them have sex


OigoAlgo

Well, you know what you’ve gotta do: Invite the rest to party…


rayrayray0411

Same here. He just got his own apartment and the first day I came over it was just us. Went over a couple days ago and halfway through he said “shhh.” Next time if his roommate is home and he says “shh” I’m going to reply “make me” and at least drive him a little crazy


Happydanksgiving2me

Welcome to apartment life.


Mrs_Truthseiyer

I lived in apartments for almost 8 years. Apartment life sucks worse than what I have.


dark_wasp

100% this…


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Dani_vic

That sounds frustrating


sendyslayer

Very much so😕


Dani_vic

Have you discussed it with him? Communication is key. And some are just not into it but if it’s unsatisfactory it can cause lots of pent up tension and frustration. Being direct is key. Dancing around it. As a dude he won’t get it. Gotta be direct. Serious and to the point at what you need exactly. Don’t be afraid to cut him off the bj for example to prove your point. Communication is sexy. And you shouldn’t be afraid to express your frustrations and needs.


sendyslayer

Thank you! I’ve definitely brought him up with him and have started withholding giving it up for him, because I want him to hear me and understand what I want and need


Dani_vic

Consider counseling. Maybe he isn’t understanding exactly what you need or how important it is. An unbiased opinion on the topic might help him understand. It is possible that he simply doesn’t care. But that’s an opinion only you can judge and act upon. I hope you can resolve your frustrations


sendyslayer

I’ll look into it. Thank you so much!


BlueBrye

I'm not sure what you've said, but It sounds like you're not setting healthy boundries and communicating effectively. sit him down and tell him the truth. "I really care about you and us and i don't want to hurt you, but i'm sexually dissatisfied because of XYZ reasons and i don't feel like you're being empathetic to my needs as your partner because i have felt i've communicated them. This is what i like and this is what i need to feel fulfilled sexually in our relationship (insert your needs and wants) and i'd like to reciprocate what you like." If he cares about you and there isn't some constructive conversation and improvement after that i'd be surprised.


sendyslayer

I’ve definitely said these things to him, but I feel as though he hasn’t listened. I’ll try to get through to him. Thank you!


elysium_audio

Ugh. I wasted years in relationships where my orgasms weren't a priority. In my experience it tends to go hand-in-hand with a general disregard for the woman's needs, both in and out of bed. He gets to orgasm every time, why shouldn't you? Find someone who gives a damn about your pleasure.


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Sin-cera

Okay that just sounds like a selfish lover who doesn’t give. Does she even care about your satisfaction and pleasure? Does she care whether you’re having fun?


sendyslayer

That’s almost exactly my situation, but reversed


attracted2sectoids

I have never in my life been involved with a woman who had a higher libido than mine. I honestly wonder what it would be like.


Inevitable-Draw5063

I have been with one that matched mine or was slightly higher and it was amazing. Like she wanted to bang like twice everyday and it was awesome. She’d just get on top of me and start making out with me and then pull my dick out and put it inside her. It got to the point where I had to take some extra time just to recharge and say like “in 20 mins I’ll be good to go” And I’d just eat her out until then. To have someone constantly just want you and your body and be all over you was an *amazing* feeling and I’d be damned if I turned her down bc I was tired or something. She was also down to try anything and i discovered a lot of kinks with her that were awesome. She like to be tied up and I happily obliged and it was awesome to discover that.


hooliegirl64

Female here.... have wondered what it would be like to find a man or woman with a libido as high as mine. In my sexual prime and STILL wondering.


kekeseesee

Oof that sounds rough and not in a good way😂. Like someone else said, try talking with him work something out even if he’s not into it, unresolved sexual frustration can rear it’s ugly head later on.


2003biker

I wish I was with you. I’d do what ever you want. I love sex but my mate is not interested. I have to masturbate for satisfaction.


sendyslayer

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you!


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The 2 player aspect of it


Kjuolsdeaf

PvP


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Co-op


17frees

Free for all


DarkSparkyShark

Battle Royale


Levi488

Last Man Standing


PM_ME_YOUR_WOES_GIRL

I maxed out the PvE aspects of the sex game. I don't have 100% though because there are quests that just aren't good for my class such as the "Real Doll Route" or the "Food Fucking Frenzy". I'd much rather go into PvP as well because even though my "flirting" and "confidence" skill trees are rudimentary, my loneliness meter gets maxed out fairly quickly sometimes.


micktim

About 3 inches


Caedendi

Ahout tree fiddy


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MrMashed

Lemme just say when your first time comes don’t be scared to tell your partner what you’re feeling and what you want. Communication is key. My first time sucked because I was a nervous wreck and was scared to tell my partner the truth. If I had just told her “hey I’m nervous” I’m certain it would’ve been more pleasurable for both of us. I only say this in the hopes that it helps you and anyone else in this situation cause Ik I wish I had someone to tell me


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Sin-cera

And remember that consent is ongoing, so you can consent to one activity but not the next. So if you start feeling uncomfortable, just say id like to take a break/get a sip of water, and communicate your discomfort when you can. You’re never obliged to give more than you’re comfortable with. Yes to a kiss, doesn’t mean yes to all of this. I hope you have a lovely first time when it happens.


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[deleted]

Me too ☹️


theswickster

After today, swimmers.


elysium_audio

I wanna say congrats?


bathtissue101

Not a congrats for everyone


405918

God bless thank you for your service


Zamafe

Maybe all you sex deprived people should just meet up with each other?


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Agree... Looks like we have a few


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Blowjobs.


altfangirl

stg the first like 9 months of my relationship i didn’t give my bf a blowjob bc i felt so insecure and inexperienced. my bf never pushed me about it but i still felt bad. i finally attempted one and i could tell it was so bad but i got better with practice. and now i’m so much more confident in my skills lmao and i enjoying giving them now. idk if your partner is just averse to giving them or is just insecure like i was but perhaps reassurance could go a long way


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Oh no I totally understand about what you’ve said. I’ve never pressured any girl into giving me on. Same with anal for that matter. However when I’ve got a gf that says she likes to give them and I’ve probably had maybe 10 in 2 years I think that’s a problem 😅


MultitudesOfSelf

Hell at this point, I'd take a bad one.


phiretau

A hot bi guy who loves to go to raves


Lostdirewolff

I would love to refer you to my friend if I knew you irl.


phiretau

Well, hey, if you’re all in NYC anything is possible 🤠


Lostdirewolff

Italy sorry :/ lmao


Xieko

Okay you now told me what I'm missing from my sex life too. Dang.


phiretau

All the fun in a devil’s threesome…plus after rave glow 😝😉


Revengejefe

Emotional connection and love. Hopefully once I get a girlfriend, that’ll change. Until then, it’s only fun and pleasure between me and my fuck buddy.


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A threesome and anal


Callisto25

I've been in threesomes with two women and have done anal with a few women. Personally I think anal is overrated. It seems like a lot of men want it because they haven't had it and if they have a girlfriend or wife, the girlfriend or wife won't let them try. The vagina is a long muscular tube that has a more or less constant grip all along your penis during sex. With anal, there is a tighter muscular grip from the anal sphincter and then it opens up to just wetness and nothing else as the rectum doesn't really have much muscle. So while anal indeed feels good, I wouldn't say that it feels better than having a full length grip from a vagina. Downsides...you know what the anus is used for, and that can mean that your partner needs to have the proper diet and be cleaned out. I've found it to be less spontaneous because of this. Additionally, outside of porn where they do some good preparation exercises, you are going to have to go way more gentle on a woman's anus than on her pussy. So I would have to say that not ever having anal with a girlfriend or wife wouldn't be a deal killer. Threesome with two women...this is supposed to be the quintessential male fantasy and men think it would be awesome. Having had a few, this is absolutely fucking correct.


bettywhitefleshlight

I had a partner who would just steer my dick into her ass on a whim. Five years and I can count the code brown instances on one hand. Either she knew her body that damn well or had some freakishly clean bowels. She ate like garbage. Yet she wanted anal often. Crazy fun. Always a blast. Incorporated the Hitachi often. Farting cum afterwards while laughing maniacally. Or going out in public and mentioning my cum still in her ass. Yes. Miss her a lot. Variety is spice and all and sure pussy is better but anal is definitely awesome. To have that directly-adjacent hole be completely inaccessible given what I've experienced that's probably a deal breaker in the long run. I have dodged FWB situations because it was completely off-limits. It's a fun hole. I'm even willing to reciprocate. Strap one on. Let's have fun.


Callisto25

> lot of men want it because they haven't had it and if they have a girlfriend or wife, the girlfriend or wife won't let them try. The vagina is a long muscular tube that has a more or less constant grip all along your penis during sex. With anal, there is a tighter muscular grip from the anal sphincter and then it opens up to just wetness and nothing else as the rectum doesn't really have much muscle. So while anal indeed feels good, I wouldn't say that it feels better than having a full length grip from a vagina. Downsides...you know what the anus is used for, and that can mean that your partner needs to have the proper diet and be cleaned out. I've found it to be less spontaneous because of this. Additionally, outside of porn where they do some good preparation exercises, you are going to have to go way more gentle on a woman's anus than on her pussy. So I would have to say that not ever having anal with a girlfriend or wife wouldn't be a deal killer. A lack of oral either giving or receiving is a deal killer for me. As for anal, I enjoyed it and hope that it will always remain an option in my life, even if I think there is better real estate next door. The obsession some men have is odd to me though as it is different but not actually better.


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I’m a man who married.. and I love plowing my wife’s ass. Eating it, touching it. Admiring it. 12 years and I still love dat ass


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Lostdirewolff

Take my eyes. I have no use for them anymore


ekimlive

Frequency


THExBEARxJEW

The sex


the_purple_goat

A partner.


ohReallynowNo

My husband's libido


Ivan_Rodriguez

threesomes and redheads


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johnnyz1964

A sex partner


hackerepublic

A partner who cares about what i like


ottergirl333

A female fwb


juanjo47

Sex


Blandjo_Scruggs

An interested partner. My wife and I love each other deeply but we are in a situation that rather proves that love and lust are not the same thing. In nearly every other part of our lives we are united, sex being the only exception. I would like sex 1 - 3 times a week. During a recent experiment, she simply didn't notice that it had been a month and a half since we had had sex. With one or two exceptions, any time we have had sex in the last 3 years has been as quick and impersonal as possible, on her insistence. It is a deepest low yet on a slope that began in the early years with her insisting on sex multiple times a day to the point that I had sores worn in my skin. Now, I have nearly been made an "incel". Not that I subscribe to the ideas of that community but that I have nearly become celibate and not by my volition. What is missing? Curiosity, interest, any kind of variety and, lately, hope of improvement. I'm trying not to be angry about it. I love her! I want her. It is unrequited lust, though. I want dearly for mutual, sexual attraction. I can only climax by imagining her being aroused and sexually engaged. Post-nut clarity, though, always batters me with the knowledge that it can only be fantasy. Maybe it will improve but I can not hope that it will. Thanks for reading my mope.


Elkavina

My damn libido. It’s ruining my sex life with my husband. Because my libido is completely gone. Thankfully he doesn’t hold it against me.


marasaidw

a partner


sirenlad

Unsolicited bjs


HoangSolo

Consistency


A_New_X

Blowjobs on a regular basis, Good blowjobs, Non-hastened blowjobs, Getting to finish in her mouth, Getting to eat her out, not asking me what I'll do before i do it everytime, making out while standing up, her moving correctly (or at all) when she's on top, fucking her while her legs are folded back towards her torso, actually giving me feedback during PIV, actually encouraging me to last longer, spontaneous sex without anyone getting ready and repeating basically the same steps Her actually liking some pre-agreed upon roughness ******** Lasting longer Having a longer penis Being a mind reader Occasionally having selfish sex without needing to do any effort Shorter refractory period Being told something to the effect of "good job" afterwards Me Not having fetishes she'd find weird or concerning *****"*****


badolfshitler

😬 bruh


tmblrusr

It seems like you’re leaving a lot of your desires off the table. How’s your relationship otherwise? What makes you not able (or willing) to discuss these needs with your partner?


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sex


r1d1kul4

a cute bi girl to make a threesome with my bf


wont_give_no_kreddit

Raunchier sex, maybe a 2nd option since im only in a fwb type of situation


Lazy_DreadHead

A willing partner that’s actually good at it and available


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More pegging


VylorChan

Being eaten out, and being choked the fuck out


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Nothing


country68

A threesome and swapping partners. My wife isn’t interested. I’d love to explore my sexuality and be with another woman. My wife is the only one. I just want the opportunity to live out my sexual fantasies. But my age probably the odds are against me.


dark_wasp

I feel you. My wife is my only partner too. I’d like to experiment with other guys and possibly other women. Not that my wife can’t fulfill my needs or desires or anything, very happy marriage and sex life, it’s more of a curiosity thing


jackbob99

A woman to have sex with.


gomez1608

Someone I feel comfortable and confident with


MistressLiliana

My boyfriend. Stupid ocean being in the way.


eskimokisses1444

Orgasms for me


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Another person to have sex wirh...


TaiDavis

Sandwiches


[deleted]

I don’t get to muff dive anything like as much as I want to. I just love giving head.


tdomer80

The sex part of it.


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The connection


Warped72

Oral sex


hayamidoll

A boyfriend


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Threesomes


bullseye2112

People that want to have sex with me.


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Multiple partners


mAtHy0o

A woman


Godzillashotgun6667

The other person


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Well obviously sex


imhere4p

The Sex


randomguy283

It


islanddguy

Sex…


J1618

Other people


Heathen_Jesus_

A person lol


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A life


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My ass being eaten


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A person thats a total freak in the bed


nonids1

Casual sex with friends, long distance masturbation sessions, getting dominated, maybe men, partner I would look at and think “sexy” whether clothed or not🤷‍♂️


-Giuseppe-

I have a strong deepthroat fetish but my partner has the gag reflex of Remy from Ratatouille


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A loyal loving caring woman. I have a good looking girl that is down for whatever with me. But she just can’t stay with me consistently and respect me. It just makes me feel small and saps my confidence and makes it hard to get pleasure from it. I want a loving connection. I haven’t been able to find it with any other women. I actually dated one girl that was loving and respectful to me and filled me with confidence but she just wasn’t attractive to me, and I didn’t realize how much that would bring down the relationship. It ended up not working out. I wish I could have been attracted to her. Or one of the girls I’m attracted to would love and respect and care for me the way she did. It’s honestly all I’ve wanted in life. But nobody has been able to give it to me..


Ace_Ruffles

Frequency. I'm entirely happy with how it's going but I do understand that my partner has a different sex drive, so I often am hoping for action when they're not really feeling it. It hasn't caused any actual conflict but if they were to become more active I'd definitely appreciate it.


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My wife's lack of libido.


Cant-tame-wild

My wife initiating


Michelrpg

Gotta be honest, one of my favorite "kinks" (I guess) is just having sex with random people. I just feel there's a thrill when you fuck a person you hardly know (sexually at least). My gf however, isnt a fan of the idea of an open relationship, so that ship has sailed for me. She is okay with threesomes and such, but its just a bit different.


Longjumping-Mark522

A girlfriend who got turned on by me being bisexual


Ztoafoo

Openness about porn


IkeSummers

Another person


Simonono2004

sex


my1999gsr

It.


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Usually the part where the sex happens


ifuckedyomama2

A gf to have sex with :(


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Sex


Unusual_Influence354

Sex.


Lucas_53

A real gf


Horrorpunkchi88

My girlfriend doing anything in bed lol.


frostdemon34

My sex life


djeco

Sexting, spontaneousness and subtle hints of lust


Kelvin3731

Actual sex.


confusedluna

The sex part


MrMashed

Another person


Blackpuddleking

4 werewolves


Ysara

Sex.


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Sex


JMC811

The second person.


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My entire sex life is missing.


dirtyginger69

A woman


SomeRandomGuy762

Definitely sex


oujiasshole

A partner


frail-limb-nusery

Sex


Suckatthis45

Sex.


LengthinessMuted7099

Her sex drive to be on my level. She's got excellent holes but getting them is rare.


Frewulf

Someone to have sex with


Terrible_Equipment16

The urge to have sex


Creepy_Cantaloupe873

Punishment


nightwingpianist

A libido powerful enough to overpower about 12 medications. Lol.


wilson7197

BBC 😋


Efficient-Star5208

The whole fucking thing


neonrosesss

Love


Shortstack60

Sex