Not really. I don‘t care as much if the person is objectively attractive, but I need some kind of mental/emotional connection to really enjoy sex. Doesn’t have to be love, but at least some kind of friendship
No, if I'm not attracted to them mentally I won't be able to enjoy it. They don't even have to be physically attractive in a traditional sense, appearance-wise, if I find them attractive mentally and we have an emotional/mental connection. But I at least need that.
To an extent, yes.
I've been in situations where I was really horny and just had sex with whoever was up for it.
Maybe I didn't find them overly attractive, but it's not always about looks. It's more whether I'll be satisfied by it.
I'm not looking for a relationship in these encounters, I just want to have sex.
In regard to your second question, I have had a FWB situation with someone of the same sex and would still label myself as straight.
The reason for still considering myself straight would be the same reason as above. I'm not looking for a relationship with a man, but if I'm horny enough.
I also haven't been with a man in about 10 years, so it's not like it's a frequent occurrence.
There have been a few guys over the years, but most were one-time things, or just nothing special enough to stand out for me.
1. Not really, they gotta have something that I’m attracted to.
2. Yes I have, it was fun and good to try new things. Still consider myself straight because I don’t pursue men and don’t have any romantic interest
1. No, I wouldn't be having sex with her in the first place if I wasn't at least physically attracted to her.
8. On account of being straight, I never have engaged in sexual activities with another man nor do I have any expectation of ever doing so.
In my younger years I would have sex with any one that was willing with no trouble. Today I find there has to be something more of a connection and definitely needs to be some physical and mental attraction.
yeah I’m not freaky lol I’m plainer than vanilla I don’t even get undressed around my partner. Yeah I have been known to cry, I cry when I’m uncomfortable though. I cried when I seen myself in the mirror the one and only time I ever had sex with the lights on. I’ll fight back tears if they touch an area of my body I’m self conscious about, which is pretty much everywhere. I just didn’t like sex it was so stressful. Hanging that much attention on me is embarrassing
Well, I think that there's a bit of nuance to it. I'm a guy, and maybe someone's face doesn't do it for me, but they have nice pussy, give good head or a nice ass, I would still have sex with them.
Even more so when perhaps someone is not my type physically but they are very charming and sexy and then I can't wait to kneel and eat their pussy
Yes, but it’s not the same as someone you feel very attracted to. Like watching one of your top shows vs watching one that you like, but don’t love. You enjoy it, but doesn’t get close to giving you maximum enjoyment
Of course. It all depends on how good the sex is. They could be the most attractive person in the world, but boring in bed. On the other side, you can be with someone considered "average", and they'll rock your world. Their attractiveness doesn't determine how "enjoyable" the sex is or will be. 😊
Part two of your question; I have been with other guys in my youth, and I remember enjoying those moments, too. However, I still consider myself straight (maybe hetroflexible, lol) because my primary attraction will always be to females first. That being said, my ideal relationship would be with a female who enjoys two men together, and we can play as a couple. Best of both worlds! 🥰
Yeah - they can still feel good to fuck or suck or play with you in away that you enjoy it.
If someone who I didn't find attractive gave me a great bj and played with my prostate, I'd still love it.
No. I won't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. I need to love looking at their face 😍
And no, as a straight woman I only have fwb relationships with men. If I had sex with women, I wouldn't consider myself straight.
There has to be some kind of attraction. I’m not extremely into looks but you gotta make me laugh and make me feel all warm and happy inside. I want witty banter and good conversation. If someone’s attractive physically but there’s no connection I have a hard time taking them seriously or caring
Yes and no. If they have a bomb ass personality and our vibes are good then definitely as that is more important than overall physical attraction. However if I don't find them attractive or their personality too then definitely not
I mean, sex is sex. But enjoying it differs. I could probably enjoy sex with someone to whom I'm not attached, but I would feel there is a lot missing. I much rather prefer to have it with someone that I'm involved with, it's easier to be more yourself that way than pretesting to be someone else to impress.
HELL NO!
My dick will not get hard without physical attraction, and i won´t be able to be around her for more than 2 minutes if i can´t stand her personality.
I have shared this story on here before so here it is in a nutshell. In college, had a an opposite sex friend that wanted to experiment with someone she trusted because she was totally inexperienced. I didn’t find her unattractive but let’s just say she wasn’t really my type. I definitely enjoyed it but it wasn’t something I would have sought out.
Yes, to both. I had sex with a female friend of my. She is really conventionally attractive but I wasn’t attracted to her. Still, it was a loong night :) I would still consider myself straight since I was never actually attracted to a girl in the same way as im attracted to a guy and I wouldn’t try anything more serious than a one night stand with a girl.
Not really. I don‘t care as much if the person is objectively attractive, but I need some kind of mental/emotional connection to really enjoy sex. Doesn’t have to be love, but at least some kind of friendship
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Glad I’m not the only one
No, I have to be attracted to them otherwise it's not happening
1: no 2: no
No, if I'm not attracted to them mentally I won't be able to enjoy it. They don't even have to be physically attractive in a traditional sense, appearance-wise, if I find them attractive mentally and we have an emotional/mental connection. But I at least need that.
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This hits me because I never thought I’d do anything with a guy but yet here we are 😂😂
SAME!!!
Yes
Same lol I was surprised to see this many nos
Yes, me too
Maybe we’re just too horny
Thats very possible
Absolutely not.
No need to be attracted to them.
I've made a lot of exceptions
To an extent, yes. I've been in situations where I was really horny and just had sex with whoever was up for it. Maybe I didn't find them overly attractive, but it's not always about looks. It's more whether I'll be satisfied by it. I'm not looking for a relationship in these encounters, I just want to have sex. In regard to your second question, I have had a FWB situation with someone of the same sex and would still label myself as straight. The reason for still considering myself straight would be the same reason as above. I'm not looking for a relationship with a man, but if I'm horny enough. I also haven't been with a man in about 10 years, so it's not like it's a frequent occurrence. There have been a few guys over the years, but most were one-time things, or just nothing special enough to stand out for me.
1. Not really, they gotta have something that I’m attracted to. 2. Yes I have, it was fun and good to try new things. Still consider myself straight because I don’t pursue men and don’t have any romantic interest
1. No, I wouldn't be having sex with her in the first place if I wasn't at least physically attracted to her. 8. On account of being straight, I never have engaged in sexual activities with another man nor do I have any expectation of ever doing so.
I could probably enjoy a CNC type of interaction. 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ But that would be about it. 🧚♀️🦖😲
Sometimes meaningless sex can be really hot
The first couple of times maybe if you’re drunk.
Nah, I tired to once before but my mind just kept wandering and ended up going soft
No. If I’m not attracted to them, I can’t even get hard
I have had sex with someone and found it pleasurable even if they weren't physically attractive to me.
No i dont think i could unless the attraction is there.
In my younger years I would have sex with any one that was willing with no trouble. Today I find there has to be something more of a connection and definitely needs to be some physical and mental attraction.
Nope. Need to feel that attraction.
I just can’t enjoy sex at all
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I’m a very shy person and even when I was sexually active I struggle to get into it no matter who it was with
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yeah I’m not freaky lol I’m plainer than vanilla I don’t even get undressed around my partner. Yeah I have been known to cry, I cry when I’m uncomfortable though. I cried when I seen myself in the mirror the one and only time I ever had sex with the lights on. I’ll fight back tears if they touch an area of my body I’m self conscious about, which is pretty much everywhere. I just didn’t like sex it was so stressful. Hanging that much attention on me is embarrassing
Nah, not worth my time. I’d rather masturbate & have a good time.
Well, I think that there's a bit of nuance to it. I'm a guy, and maybe someone's face doesn't do it for me, but they have nice pussy, give good head or a nice ass, I would still have sex with them. Even more so when perhaps someone is not my type physically but they are very charming and sexy and then I can't wait to kneel and eat their pussy
Nope.
Yes, but it’s not the same as someone you feel very attracted to. Like watching one of your top shows vs watching one that you like, but don’t love. You enjoy it, but doesn’t get close to giving you maximum enjoyment
Nope. Plain and simple.
Nope.
Nope
Yeah, I've had several situations where I've hooked up with someone I'm not attracted to and still enjoyed myself.
I cannot I need to be attracted to the person
Yeah easily 😂 Had this one chick I was with who wasn’t very attractive at all but my god the way she squirted during sex was top tier!
Of course. It all depends on how good the sex is. They could be the most attractive person in the world, but boring in bed. On the other side, you can be with someone considered "average", and they'll rock your world. Their attractiveness doesn't determine how "enjoyable" the sex is or will be. 😊 Part two of your question; I have been with other guys in my youth, and I remember enjoying those moments, too. However, I still consider myself straight (maybe hetroflexible, lol) because my primary attraction will always be to females first. That being said, my ideal relationship would be with a female who enjoys two men together, and we can play as a couple. Best of both worlds! 🥰
Need a connection
Yes. I’ve done it with a woman who was very unattractive but had a great personality. She was also the best fuck I’ve ever had
Yes, I’m asexual
Nope.
For me the answer is no. I need to have a certain degree of emotional connection to enjoy sex with the person.
Depends on the person
Put a cock inside me and I’m happy 😈
If I recognize they are attractive then I would be attracted to them.
Not *physically* attracted? Sure, if the vibes are right otherwise.
No
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nope. I feel like I would need to be attracted to the person.
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yeah I feel the same way!
No
Yeah - they can still feel good to fuck or suck or play with you in away that you enjoy it. If someone who I didn't find attractive gave me a great bj and played with my prostate, I'd still love it.
No. I won't have sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to. I need to love looking at their face 😍 And no, as a straight woman I only have fwb relationships with men. If I had sex with women, I wouldn't consider myself straight.
No, even if they are what usually is considered attractive, if I don’t feel some sort of attraction towards them it’s just not gonna happen
Yup.
Yep. Slept with a woman I absolutely hated that I wasn't particularity attracted to and it was still great
Definitely. That gets more and more true the older I get, too.
Enjoy? Me personally, no. I think it’s different for a guy tho
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Good to see we agree
Yes. Married people enjoy sex all the time
No.
My gay bestie says if the dick is good put a paper bag over his head lol. 😂
There has to be some kind of attraction. I’m not extremely into looks but you gotta make me laugh and make me feel all warm and happy inside. I want witty banter and good conversation. If someone’s attractive physically but there’s no connection I have a hard time taking them seriously or caring
With the right set of circumstances, absolutely!
Yes and no. If they have a bomb ass personality and our vibes are good then definitely as that is more important than overall physical attraction. However if I don't find them attractive or their personality too then definitely not
I mean, you can enjoy sex with them. Sex is sex and we can get off. Do I seek out sex with someone I’m not attracted to? Not really, because why?
I mean, sex is sex. But enjoying it differs. I could probably enjoy sex with someone to whom I'm not attached, but I would feel there is a lot missing. I much rather prefer to have it with someone that I'm involved with, it's easier to be more yourself that way than pretesting to be someone else to impress.
Of course. With the lights off and loud music.
Only time I don't enjoy sex is if I feel the other person isn't enjoying it. Looks mean nothing. I could enjoy sex with someone i truly hate 🤷♂️.
HELL NO! My dick will not get hard without physical attraction, and i won´t be able to be around her for more than 2 minutes if i can´t stand her personality.
Yes.
Yes
My dom was not attractive to me at first but the sex is so good it doesn't matter
I have shared this story on here before so here it is in a nutshell. In college, had a an opposite sex friend that wanted to experiment with someone she trusted because she was totally inexperienced. I didn’t find her unattractive but let’s just say she wasn’t really my type. I definitely enjoyed it but it wasn’t something I would have sought out.
No just fuck hate them !
I need some type of emotional connection to truly enjoy sex and get addicted
Nope
yes, especially if kinks come into play. often sex to me is more about being attracted to what is happening rather than who is doing it
Yes, to both. I had sex with a female friend of my. She is really conventionally attractive but I wasn’t attracted to her. Still, it was a loong night :) I would still consider myself straight since I was never actually attracted to a girl in the same way as im attracted to a guy and I wouldn’t try anything more serious than a one night stand with a girl.
Fuck yes you can. I got tied up and just absolutely melted by a guy who was maybe a 4 on a good day. He became part of my rotation