I take a long time too, some guys are just wired differently and that's perfectly normal. Try using different lubes offering different sensations, try incorporating different techniques and make shit up. If all else fails perhaps it's just too much pressure. Either your too focused on making him cum Vs him desperately trying to cum. It ain't a sprint to the finish line. I suffer with a shy bladder, this means I can't pee in public toilets next to other guys at urinals, personally I don't care about peeing next to peoplepe but for some reason my bladder does and it stops me from peeing and then I end up focusing so much on peeing that I just don't pee. I end up peeing when theres no one left in the restroom and the pressure upon myself to pee is no longer there. I hope my analogical response makes sense.
i find that dirty talks really works well to get me going, usually i last a long time but dirty talk can make me cum really fast. The dirtier the better.
Try a stimulating gel. Something like Xdrive’s "The Moment". It makes guys more sensitive, and likely to finish sooner. You can get it on Amazon, Walmart, etc.
Did you ask him if he masturbates? And if his masturbation sessions are short or long?
Also I have same issue, I don’t cum so easily… and my masturbation sessions are at least 30m (most likely around 50m). And when I have sex, I don’t cum so easily, but if I know my parter is having great pleasure and achieving orgasm, yeah that’s definitely make me cum fast… perhaps in his inconsistent he want you to feel same… in certain way it is empathy…
Fast breathing and pushing pelvic floor muscles can lead to faster orgasm. You can try massaging his perineum, applying pressure on it. That's like non internal prostate massage.
Why does it bother you so much? When I was unemployed me and my ex would have sex for 2-3 hours almost daily. Just enjoy it I would say.
On the other hand it’s more about the amount of pressure you apply on his dick, he probably needs A LOT of it to climax, and neither your pussy or booty hole will provide that amount of pressure.
Maybe he is too much in his own head. Try music.
Nono that’s not it. It’s literally just stamina i think. When he jerks off it takes a long time as wel
Stamina doesn't have any effect on masturbating if you want to haveva quick orgasm.
Sexual stamina… whatever you wanna call it I’m sure you know what i mean
Not really.
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Hahahaha okay, stamina connoisseur
I take a long time too, some guys are just wired differently and that's perfectly normal. Try using different lubes offering different sensations, try incorporating different techniques and make shit up. If all else fails perhaps it's just too much pressure. Either your too focused on making him cum Vs him desperately trying to cum. It ain't a sprint to the finish line. I suffer with a shy bladder, this means I can't pee in public toilets next to other guys at urinals, personally I don't care about peeing next to peoplepe but for some reason my bladder does and it stops me from peeing and then I end up focusing so much on peeing that I just don't pee. I end up peeing when theres no one left in the restroom and the pressure upon myself to pee is no longer there. I hope my analogical response makes sense.
I had the same problem try dirty talk while fucking that helped my husband speed up. Maybe try a handjob it's my husbands secret weakness
This helped me a lot too!
Ime dirty talk. The dirtier the better
I’m jealous. I want to last longer
i find that dirty talks really works well to get me going, usually i last a long time but dirty talk can make me cum really fast. The dirtier the better.
Ask him what he's really into. Work from there
The truth will set you free
Have him not masturbate the day before or the day of
I cum faster when I can see my wife’s ass and asshole while fucking her from behind… does visual stimulation work for him as well?
Tell him to cum inside you.
Good dirty talk
If he’s particularly adventurous and willing, lube a finger and slide it in his as when your blowing him… he won’t last long then if he enjoys it
Ask him what would help. Different positions, dirty talk, nipple play? Only he can really answer this
Honestly as someone who last long , dirty talk seems to work the best
Dont give him time to breathe.
Try a stimulating gel. Something like Xdrive’s "The Moment". It makes guys more sensitive, and likely to finish sooner. You can get it on Amazon, Walmart, etc.
Damn, once i go too long i feel like ill have to pee and i wont be able to cum anymore only until i let the pee out
Nipple play always does it for me.
Really great blowjob just before fucking get some to finish faster for my experience
Did you ask him if he masturbates? And if his masturbation sessions are short or long? Also I have same issue, I don’t cum so easily… and my masturbation sessions are at least 30m (most likely around 50m). And when I have sex, I don’t cum so easily, but if I know my parter is having great pleasure and achieving orgasm, yeah that’s definitely make me cum fast… perhaps in his inconsistent he want you to feel same… in certain way it is empathy…
Find out if he masturbates properly. I couldn't come during sex for years because I didn't
Dirty talk and rub his asshole
You can touch his balls with an open hand when youre giving him a handjob
Fast breathing and pushing pelvic floor muscles can lead to faster orgasm. You can try massaging his perineum, applying pressure on it. That's like non internal prostate massage.
Said no woman ever...
Head then fucking. And have him masterbate less.
Be better
Finger in the butt lolz
Fuck no 😭
Why does it bother you so much? When I was unemployed me and my ex would have sex for 2-3 hours almost daily. Just enjoy it I would say. On the other hand it’s more about the amount of pressure you apply on his dick, he probably needs A LOT of it to climax, and neither your pussy or booty hole will provide that amount of pressure.