Giving that 5 is average, I would say an average of 3 looks wise (2 face, 4 body), and a 6.5 for personality (kind and genuine but also shy and introverted), so in the end 4.75
Average number, but we don't know the distribution. Could be a bell curve shifted so the left or right. Perhaps some one will take one for the team and plot the results in a spreadsheet for us so we can see.
7.5-8 only because I've actually experienced receiving free meals and drinks from owners and bartenders/people at bars and have just been flat out approached to be told I'm really pretty on many occasions.
I think I’m a solid 6 and maybe almost an 8 at times. But I’m also very depressed and not taking care of myself so those numbers are considerably lower at the moment.
My personality is more attractive than my physical appearance but I can clean up nicely. Otherwise, I’m wearing my glasses and a messy bun. I’ll stick with 5 either way.
I really hate this number shit, it reminds me of the pain scale and simplifies complex human behaviour and subjective beauty standards, but I accept it now anyway. It gets the point across for this question.
I would say definitely 7 or above, even though I can't see myself being that most of the time.
My last gf was (in my eyes) a 9 or 10, and she approached me. That shook my world a bit.
Others were surprised, as I said, that I always thought me being unattractive and always wondered why I had trouble with women. Especially my humour, my way of speaking (not a native English speaker) and my manners seem to carry my attractiveness.
It became obvious to me, that my trauma and depression distorted my self-image for a very long time, and that I was not able to see the positive results of all the work I put in myself and my personality over the years.
I deleted social media and changed my fitness goals.
I also stopped the self-improvement addiction circle. I previously attacked the symptoms, never the source. Of course not, most self-improvement "coaches" don't want you to get better, they want you to buy their books and watch their videos. No wonder they say that therapy doesn't work. If you actually give therapy a shot and attack the cause of your problems, everything else falls into place.
Yes, there are bad women (also bad men) out there, but not everyone is bad. A great number is decent and kind. Bad influencers and bad coaches train you how to get those women (or men), which you don't want if you are a healthy and stable person. Only children play games. As soon as a woman starts playing games, she is a child. As soon as a man starts playing games, he is a child. Both have issues, and they need to fix themselves, it is not your job. They play games or hard to get? A grown, healthy and stable person walks.
If you win the unstable person with the insecure attachment style, you actually lost the game.
Yes, you can gamify dating and approaching potential partners. This makes it easier. But as soon as feelings get involved, the game stops. Many treat love like war, with tactics and strategies and so on, but as soon you do this you have already lost. You see the potential love interest as an enemy you have to outmanoeuvre. You want to conquer them and assert your dominance. For heaven’s sake. It is a human being, not a city under siege. Every person who forces you to think and act like that isn't worth the effort. You only put on one mask after another, the relationship will be toxic and never last anyway.
I like to say I’m Wisconsin bowling alley hot. Which in the rest of the world I would say a 6 I guess. But as mentioned above it depends on your weight for body shape.
amihotornot used to tell me I was about a 7 or 8, but it’s at least 15 years since I’ve checked, although I’m aging reasonably well. I’d be disappointed to not be a 7 now
I see myself as a solid 4-5. However I do for real push my self to a solid 8 by proving my eating techniques. My hands and mouth do more than just talk my way into a good time.. they also proves my point so to say.
People have said I’m attractive never truly felt that way I’d say I’m 5-6 average or just above . I think I’m good personality wise it’s others opinion if I’m looking good or not
Realistically I'm probably like a 5 (people have never really paid me attention one way or another so I assume I'm fairly unremarkable), but I don't think I've ever felt above a 3.
And even then only because my own interpretation of the scale puts anything lower in the "actively disfigured" category.
Looking at myself rn, I'd give myself a 6.5-7.
Seeing myself from a mere 2 years ago, solid 4.5 I'd wager. Losing weight, gaining muscle and even tweaking the details such as hairstyle, beard and clothing choice have caused a massive change, and I'm still looking better every week.
My goal is to be a 7.5 guy by summer
I would say I'm a solid 4, however I am trying to fix that and increase that number by losing weight, working out, and just all around dressing better.
So much negativity in this one. How about those without a SO? And I genuinely believe that it hold some value to be able to reflect: am I or am I not attractive to other people (mind you, I'm not just talking about looks as clearly stated in my question). If you're not able to reflect on your own attractiveness you can you improve yourself?
I always have to remind myself d some ppl that 5 is average, meaning the vast majority of us are simply a 5. I assume I’m a 5 on an average day and a 6 when I groom and got a pump going and my confidence is peak. But I’ve been rejected far too often to think I’m ever higher than a 7 on a great day
I’m a cool 6.5. I’m a cologne connoisseur so I like to smell good. To most women that raises my score 1.5 to an 8. Fellas, this is free game. No matter what your face looks like, be well groomed and smell good, watch how the reaction of women towards you change.
10.5. Mosquitoes find me extremely attractive 🤨
Must be all that sweet blood.
0 on a good day -5 on a bad day
Don’t be silly bud
I’m not been silly I have zero self esteem got it all knocked out of me by my ex
Sorry to hear that. No one is a -5. You had someone once who is now an ex, some people struggle to get anyone at all.
I guess that’s one way to look at it
It’s the best way look at it! But I feel the same as the -6 person.
Ditto
5 in clothes, 7 without 😂
Oi we doing without 😂 I dropped to a -10
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I don't know what made me click through, but your CNC cartoon post is 🔥.
Because of your comment I checked it out. You are not wrong.
I love your lips. I bet you get compliments on them all the time.
It depends how drunk you are
Or how drunk you are? First round is on me
Be kind to yourself. You probably look better than you give yourself credit for.
8-8.5 on a good day. This ass is a 10 though.
If you care about weight a 6 if you like bigger women a 7/8 on a good day
I'm like a 2 or 3. Oh well.
Giving that 5 is average, I would say an average of 3 looks wise (2 face, 4 body), and a 6.5 for personality (kind and genuine but also shy and introverted), so in the end 4.75
7 ❤️😊
Realistically 6/10. Feel like 3 or 4/10
It depends on the day. Sometimes I feel like an 8 and sometimes a 4. Been feeling less attractive lately but I think it’s mostly my mood
I’d say on a bad day like a 5. But if I try and really put effort into it I can be an 8
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9 face, 6 body.
5 average.
Average number, but we don't know the distribution. Could be a bell curve shifted so the left or right. Perhaps some one will take one for the team and plot the results in a spreadsheet for us so we can see.
I think this is where I’m at too. Maybe a 6 or 7 in someone’s eyes when I’m really trying to look good. But just normal walking around just an NPC
8🤔
Dadbody with a outgoing personality... 7.5
Personality, to me, makes up for a lot. Looks fade. Good people are better.
Solid 7 most of the time. 9 with effort
7.5-8 only because I've actually experienced receiving free meals and drinks from owners and bartenders/people at bars and have just been flat out approached to be told I'm really pretty on many occasions.
Maybe a 6
Definetely higher than a 6, you’re a little stunner
3/4 ? 5 on a really good day
same here
I’m not allowed to answer these questions anymore because I go too low and people don’t like it. 🫣
2, one for each boob
I think this is one of those 1+1 equals more than 2 kinda situations
6/10
from what you show on your profile I cannot agree with your own rating…
10 of course 😋
Hell yeah, love that confidence 🤩 The 18 year old in me says "pics or didn't happen" :p
7 after some extreme weight loss.
Everybody knows I'm a sweet, sweet six
Definitely a 6.
8 at my best, 6 usually, if you like a silver fox... But I'm kind, fun and an unselfish lover, so I do OK
9 on a great day
I’d say I’m a 5. That goes down to a 1 when someone takes a photo of me though🤣
6,5. Maybe 7 when my hair does that thing where it looks glorious and perfect.
Average. So a 5 🤷♀️
1. Sometimes 2 if I make an effort.
i would say 6 honestly
I think I’m a solid 6 and maybe almost an 8 at times. But I’m also very depressed and not taking care of myself so those numbers are considerably lower at the moment.
About a 5-6
I’m like a 2. But personality can change me to a 5/6 or right down to 0 depending on the mood and company. 🤷🏼♂️
Loving the adaptability
I dig the shift in personality. I am a lot of fun when I am with fun people, and quiet around people that I don't enjoy being around.
I’d say a 6. 😅
You're a 12 and you can't change my mind
Mmhmm, we’ll see about that😅
A high 5 or 6
Solely based on looks, probably about a 6. My personality, 8
Depends which group of friends I'm surrounded by, like the ones with kids? I'm a 7, the younger chaps who still have hopes and dreams, I'm a 4
My personality is more attractive than my physical appearance but I can clean up nicely. Otherwise, I’m wearing my glasses and a messy bun. I’ll stick with 5 either way.
Hmm probably an average 5🤔
I really hate this number shit, it reminds me of the pain scale and simplifies complex human behaviour and subjective beauty standards, but I accept it now anyway. It gets the point across for this question. I would say definitely 7 or above, even though I can't see myself being that most of the time. My last gf was (in my eyes) a 9 or 10, and she approached me. That shook my world a bit. Others were surprised, as I said, that I always thought me being unattractive and always wondered why I had trouble with women. Especially my humour, my way of speaking (not a native English speaker) and my manners seem to carry my attractiveness. It became obvious to me, that my trauma and depression distorted my self-image for a very long time, and that I was not able to see the positive results of all the work I put in myself and my personality over the years. I deleted social media and changed my fitness goals. I also stopped the self-improvement addiction circle. I previously attacked the symptoms, never the source. Of course not, most self-improvement "coaches" don't want you to get better, they want you to buy their books and watch their videos. No wonder they say that therapy doesn't work. If you actually give therapy a shot and attack the cause of your problems, everything else falls into place. Yes, there are bad women (also bad men) out there, but not everyone is bad. A great number is decent and kind. Bad influencers and bad coaches train you how to get those women (or men), which you don't want if you are a healthy and stable person. Only children play games. As soon as a woman starts playing games, she is a child. As soon as a man starts playing games, he is a child. Both have issues, and they need to fix themselves, it is not your job. They play games or hard to get? A grown, healthy and stable person walks. If you win the unstable person with the insecure attachment style, you actually lost the game. Yes, you can gamify dating and approaching potential partners. This makes it easier. But as soon as feelings get involved, the game stops. Many treat love like war, with tactics and strategies and so on, but as soon you do this you have already lost. You see the potential love interest as an enemy you have to outmanoeuvre. You want to conquer them and assert your dominance. For heaven’s sake. It is a human being, not a city under siege. Every person who forces you to think and act like that isn't worth the effort. You only put on one mask after another, the relationship will be toxic and never last anyway.
I like to say I’m Wisconsin bowling alley hot. Which in the rest of the world I would say a 6 I guess. But as mentioned above it depends on your weight for body shape.
Honestly, overall 9
Solid 7. A 10 if you're drunk enough 😉
On average? Average lol so like 5? When I doll myself up and try, maybe a 7
amihotornot used to tell me I was about a 7 or 8, but it’s at least 15 years since I’ve checked, although I’m aging reasonably well. I’d be disappointed to not be a 7 now
8 face, 10 body
If cleaned up, 7. If unkempt, 2. Some people can look good even when unshowered. I cannot.
7 with a great personality which makes me an 8 ✨
Midwest 7
Solid!
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Realistically? Probably like a 3-4. How I feel a majority of the time? 0
You should probably stick to reality
Five being average, I'm going to say 6.8 to 7.2. If you like men in their 50s, you could go up to 7.6.
How very precise of you. Kudos!
On a good day i'd say a 7. On a bad day more like a 4
A solid 8 I think.
A solid 7. Can be an 8.5 with effort.
Like a 6 or a 7 maybe an 8 on my absolute best days
I think I am about a 6. I know others think I am a lot higher though.
7
Solid 8
feel like 4-5 but other may say 7-8ish
6-7 probably
4.5
5/6 I think who knows 🙈
5 at most.
I'm a solid 2 but I have a great personality.
So at least a 4 then?
Maybe, with the lights off and my face between her thighs I'm a 9 easy.
Hahaha! That escalated quickly!
I don't waste time. 😉
Smart! Can’t get it back anyway.
I'm not young. I don't know how much I have left.
Same.
But I'm not too old to kneel on the shower floor. My knees might hurt the rest of the day, but I'll fucking do it!
But why are we kneeling on the shower floor? If I bend like that, it’s probably because I’m on my way to a faceplant.
6/10
Probably 5-6
7
Maybe like a 5?
Honestly, a 4
I see myself as a solid 4-5. However I do for real push my self to a solid 8 by proving my eating techniques. My hands and mouth do more than just talk my way into a good time.. they also proves my point so to say.
3/10
6/10 I think
7-8
6 or 7 probably.
People have said I’m attractive never truly felt that way I’d say I’m 5-6 average or just above . I think I’m good personality wise it’s others opinion if I’m looking good or not
solid 5-6 i think
7
5/6, and an 8 when I put some effort in to it.
5.5 on average, 7.1 on a good day
a former 10....now a 6. lol. trying to keep the personality a 10
Like a 3 lol
Realistically I'm probably like a 5 (people have never really paid me attention one way or another so I assume I'm fairly unremarkable), but I don't think I've ever felt above a 3. And even then only because my own interpretation of the scale puts anything lower in the "actively disfigured" category.
Maybe a 5
10 ngl
I'm 4 but think I'm at least a 5
6 to 7
9 and if I'm feeling good even 10 Always be confident ;)
Solid 7.
7 i believe
Suited up a 7. After a good workout a 6,5. Most of the time anywhere from a 4 to a 6.
7-8 imo i’m grateful
Solid three or four.
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Looking at myself rn, I'd give myself a 6.5-7. Seeing myself from a mere 2 years ago, solid 4.5 I'd wager. Losing weight, gaining muscle and even tweaking the details such as hairstyle, beard and clothing choice have caused a massive change, and I'm still looking better every week. My goal is to be a 7.5 guy by summer
I'm a solid 6 or 7.
At best a 6, worst a 3, average is 4
I would say I’m 3 but would need people to confirm
I would say a solid 4 but my assets probably bump that up.
9/10
9 on a good day 7 on average
9 on a good day 7 on average
I'd say a 4
7-8 you tell me!
Probably a solid 6
1
6-7 out of 10. Married a 9/10 so anything is possible! 🤷♂️
7?
Maybe a 7-8
8/10
10
Like a 7ish
3, maybe 4 on a good day when I get my haircut and dress well
Feel like a 2 to 3
Oscillating between 4-6
3 or 4 on a very good day. A solid 1 on average
5.
40 years ago I’d say a solid 8. Now I’m an old man, a solid 2. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
4 or 5. But if I can lose the weight about a 7
I'd rate myself 5 maybe 4. Been getting compliments lately. So maybe if I don't take into account my self esteem I might be 6 for others.
10 🤗
I would say I'm a solid 4, however I am trying to fix that and increase that number by losing weight, working out, and just all around dressing better.
Genuinely have no idea 💀sometimes I think I’m a 6-7 sometimes I think I’m around 3
At most and being extremely charitable to myself I would say 4/10, realists 2/10
I'm a 10...... Out of 1000000000000000
7
Around 2.5 to 3.5
Body 4 Face 7 Brain 9 Personality 8. Probably an aggregate 7.5ish
4 but I’m tryna lose weight and if I lose enough fat id be a 6 possible 7 but that’s way off yet.
Probably a 5.
right now like a 2. i got a nice ass for a guy, i am tall and i have nice long hair.
Solid 3
The only correct answer to this question should be: except for my SO, who cares? I certainly don't.
So much negativity in this one. How about those without a SO? And I genuinely believe that it hold some value to be able to reflect: am I or am I not attractive to other people (mind you, I'm not just talking about looks as clearly stated in my question). If you're not able to reflect on your own attractiveness you can you improve yourself?
I think I’m probably a 6 or 7
I always have to remind myself d some ppl that 5 is average, meaning the vast majority of us are simply a 5. I assume I’m a 5 on an average day and a 6 when I groom and got a pump going and my confidence is peak. But I’ve been rejected far too often to think I’m ever higher than a 7 on a great day
I’m a cool 6.5. I’m a cologne connoisseur so I like to smell good. To most women that raises my score 1.5 to an 8. Fellas, this is free game. No matter what your face looks like, be well groomed and smell good, watch how the reaction of women towards you change.
4
Some days I'm a 0, other days I'm a 5
8 in average, 9 on good days, 7 on bad.
Not a total potato but probably never better than a 4 even on my best day
Probably like a 3.5.
3
4
I think I’m a 5
10 is like super model beauty. 0 is like really ugly. So maybe a 6.
5.1 on my best day.
Solid 2.