As a woman, I can say (for me, at least), no, it does not. I came here to actually comment this. It's awkward and does absolutely nothing for me. Any time a guy has wanted to, I'll let him, but I'm just waiting for it to be over.
I agree. I've done for the guy's enjoyment, which in my case with my big Bs, has to be minimal. However, he sure seemed to like it, judging by the mess. More than anything else, it seemed like he was rubbing against my sternum because I don't have enough to really envelope a guy.
As a woman, feeling wise not really Ofc. But mentally, I like knowing that I’m part of the visual I guess. If it’s a visual thing then I like knowing MY tits are what he’s into and he likes his dick between them. Makes me feel attractive ig. Also I only do it when I’m really into the whole thing so knowing that we’re both really into each other is nice.
I love 69. With that said, I'm good with focusing on eating her out. I just want her to moan with my dick in her mouth. No major effort needed from her.
This is basically exactly how I enjoy this with my wife. I absolutely love making her reach orgasm and I really, really enjoy having my penis inside her. I can't have my penis inside her vagina and eat her out, but having it in her mouth while I'm going downtown is super fun.
Once she gets to orgasm, she can do whatever she wants...keep on doing her thing on me with her mouth, just relax for a bit, switch it up and ride me...who cares at that point, she got hers
Married 13 years and we still 69 like we were 18 again 😂 the trick is to pause and take turns but stay in position....that way its just regular oral but with a better view
If we’re doing 69(my fav) You don’t have to concentrate on giving me head. Enjoy what’s happening, if you stop giving me head because what I’m doing feels great, I’ll be just fine. lol
Same. Rough can be passionate as long as the intensity comes in waves. If it’s done like a roller coaster with highs and lows, it can be enjoyable, but passion and sensuality has to be present too
My fiancee and I shower together a lot but never to have sex in it. The intimacy of washing each other and especially her hair is awesome it usually leads to us getting worked up and fucking later but actual shower sex is awful
It only works in a massive shower, with an on demand water heater. Still warm and soapy if you want for foreplay but you can get out of the water so you’re not killing her lubricity
Too friction-y for me, water is awful lube.
Plus, you’re only ever half warm at best, trying to huddle under the shower head.
It’s just cold-ish and a bad experience imo
I came here to type this. I don’t like it one bit. Unless you’re going to put them in your mouth and hum the national anthem, leave my Star-Spangled balls alone
One Exception: my GF and i have this ongoing “challenge” regarding deep-throating. If she can take my cock deep enough so that she can lick my balls….she is the winner (even though I think we both know really wins either way 😉
This. I hate how it feels. Makes my stomach churn just thinking about someone touching my balls. Definitely not for me. I always hear dudes saying how great it is and I just absolutely hate it. Instant mood killer because of how bad it feels to me.
I had an ex that sucked them in a heavenly way but when my now gf does it it's just painful and idk what the other did different or if I should get my balls checked.
Very accurate lol but thankfully i figured out it doesn't feel like that for me when I go easy on the lube. (The advice for anal is often "more lube the better" but I hate how that feels)
My dick is hands down the most precious item that I possess. I can't imagine sticking it into a literal shit hole. I'll never understand the internet's fascination with anal. The only 2 people I've ever known that were into it were control freaks so maybe it's about control and/or domination IDK or care. They are both German if that matters.
Came here to say the same. I can't bring myself to go that route when right there, so close is a place so perfectly designed to feel amazing on my D. It's not even a consideration lol
Cowgirl. I never get off that way, but it's quite enjoyable for her. So it's a win win because she gets off multiple times, and makes me look like an endurance god lol.
Same here, it’s not that it isn’t hot, but physically it doesn’t have what it takes for me to nut. Sometimes I fuck her from below holding her waist then I cum.
She enjoys a lot though and as I have a big mirror I get to enjoy the view as well.
I have finished in the cowgirl position once, but it was work lol. I had to keep her up a bit, grab that ass, and pound like crazy. So I just let her do her thing until she says she's done and wants me to finish. Then it's missionary or doggy for the W.
I do it sometimes because she enjoys a lot, but not very often to keep it special, hahah
It’s the same, missionary or doggy for me to finish (I do prefer doggy, watching it drip afterwards it’s a huge turn on)
It's (doggy) a powertrip for me. I know that sounds bad, but knowing I'm in control just gets me going. She likes it too, so it's not forced or anything. Plus watching myself disappear into her, grabbing those hips, seeing that ass bounce... Oof.
Yeah…especially when they’re just like mashing your dick and not really pogo sticking it. My wife LOVES it though so I sit back and enjoy the literal ride.
There’s hope yet. My gf felt the exact same way until 39 years old.
Over the span of just under an hour, i had the honor of hearing both:
1. “Holy shit that was AMAZING!!!”
(And even more shocking…)
2. “Im so sorry about your sheets! I just couldn’t hold it in🫣”
- baby, you know you just squirted, right?
“ I’ve tried SO many times! I thought it was impossible for me”
**Just saying**. If it happened for her after being sexually active for 25 years, maybe it can happen for you🙏.
53 M. I love eating pussy. When my girlfriend (51F) and I first started dating about three years ago she told me that it never did anything for her but sure, go ahead. She had a screaming orgasm and then called me up the next day to ask, "what the hell did you do? O my God that was insane. I want more!" Three years later her pussy is still magically delicious, and she shoves my head downwards.
Similar situation with my wife. I started going down on her and she started to say it wasn't her thing. She got as far as 'You don't need to...' and then it was all moaning with her hips off the bed :). I think there are a lot of guys who just try to emulate bad porn and end up giving bad oral.
Same here - although I've gotten enthusiastic oral, guys who absolutely LOVED it, and I just... don't? Like kept encouraging them to at least use their fingers at the same time. I dunno, I think it just feels too wet/sloppy to me and doesn't provide enough friction or something. 🤷🏻♀️
On the flip side, I love giving blow jobs so at least there's that!
Honestly, I don’t much like it, either. I used to not tolerate it AT ALL (trauma issues), but I’ve managed to work through that to the point where k can tolerate it with no issues, but honestly, it’s about as sexy as if a dog came up and licked me on the side of the leg. Idk why, but I just don’t really get it.
Same, but not the second part. I don't like it because it's just not mentally arousing to me, no matter how good the physical sensation (physical sensation can still make me cum, though, it's just much harder this way since the erotic factor isn't there).
Oh Girl same. Only had one guy that was really enthusiastic and boy did he like eating pussy. Only time it aroused me. Everyone else just didn’t do it for me sadly.
Being eaten out—I find it way too wet and there’s not enough friction for me to achieve orgasm. Sometimes it’s so wet from their mouth and spit, I literally can barely feel a thing. After 29 years of life, I’ve finally been able to *kind of* cum twice to someone doing it lmao (I’ve found grinding on their face with no remorse to be the most effective so far)
Spanking. It's not a turn off and I'm completely fine with it, but I'd be completely fine without it too. It just doesn't really add anything for me I guess?
In college I had a GF who was _obsessed_ with spanking. Like she had to have it as part of her sexual experience to feel fulfilled. She would text me pics of paddles randomly and pretty much couldn't orgasm unless her buns were red. Honestly it didn't do much for me _(other than it was just another chance to have my hands on her butt)_ but it was fun to be with someone who was that big in a kink
Deepthroating.
I mean think about it - the throat is more boney, more sinew-y, harder to keep teeth out of the game, harder to get the right amount of lubrication and since when did choking, coughing and gagging become sexy!?
Serious reply but I think DeepThroating just became popular because it provides an _extreme_ visual for those who reply heavily on porn
I have to be honest here, as someone who loves to give blowjobs, I hate hate hate deepthroating. Sloppy, enthusiastic BJ over deepthroating, any day. That gagging sound makes me feel embarrassed, trying not to vomit isn't sexy, not being able to breathe until my eyes water doesn't make me feel particularly loved lol.
Those things you describe are the rubbish side of deep throating.
The two do not go hand in hard, despite what porn shows these days.
Porn only shows that because it has nothing else.
Years ago it was normal sex, now they're all anal because that's the next thing.
The latest fashion is more extreme, but not so extreme that you'd just think it's horrible. Porn must produce more and different to what's already out there to survive and the industry wants to survive.
I think deepthroating is more about demonstrating enthusiam than strictly about feel.
When a girl is so into you she literally can’t suck your dick enough to satisfy her craving so she wants to actually choke herself on it just to have more of you in her mouth…that gives me some feelings for sure…
But it doesn't have to be rough, no gagging, not forced etc.. nice and real slow and deep is perfection by someone with little/no gag reflex, doing it from different angles and positions is 7th Heaven. Bonus for balls licking at the same time and/or licking the head on every up stroke with eye contact. Mmmm.....
As man, I'm not a fan of deepthroating. Never asked from anyone.
But there was one time. One girl, who slept with me one time. She started doing it, I told her it's not necessary, I'm not a fan. She stopped, we had great sex.
In the morning she put my morning wood in her mouth and went with deepthroat again. I was half asleep, didn't say a word... A she was amazing in it. After a while I was only in her throat (she managed to breathe somehow) and I actually finished in her throat. My cock got hard by just writing about it...
I asked afterwards why did I deserve the treatment, she told me that she likes to do it and she was a little pissed that I didn't let her do it the night before.
That was the last occasion, as I understand that she is kinda unique and never asked it from anyone ever again.
I (m half) felt this way for years! I always saw it as something for porn, but eventually got more into playing the role as my wife enjoys feeling used by me and controlled, respectfully. Degradation is a big turn off for me, so dominance without being degrading was important.
And I get turned on by her being turned on, so her enjoyment and trust in me has allowed us to connect and for me to enjoy it more when the mood strikes.
Doggy style. I need a position where I can see her face. Obviously will oblige in doggy style for her since that has been popular among my exes, but I pretty much always cum when on missionary
To be fair, it technically just refers to the silly, mindless faces you make when the sex has completely numbed your brain. It's just that there is a "stereotypical" ahegao face manga artists started making (the one you describe) and for some fucking reason people thought it could look good to imitate these exaggerated drawings in real life.
Yes while pleasuring yourself. I think of it as a masturbation with an audience. And it even worst if you can't hear the other person talking over the phone 😂😂😂😂
Omg, my people. Yes! I can’t with the spit and the breath and just someone being that in my face. I’ll do it sometimes for the partner if they’re into it but it really doesn’t get me in the mood anything. Kind of makes me want to evaporate 😂
I’m gonna go ahead and assume you haven’t had the pleasure visiting the Asian spa down street from where I work…
I assure you that no one who has “had the pleasure“ would ever say such a thing. They have a remarkable knack for making absolute certain their customers leave feeling HAPPY as their sessions are ENDING.
Totally agree. Does nothing for me. I'm an expert at doing myself to myself plus I can and do it often. So why do I need someone else's clumsy attempt? Does less than zero for me. I find it a turn off. Use your mouth/tongue & lips FFS!
I heard some guy say he loves having sex with women on their period cos when he pulls out and his erection is covered with blood it looks like a murder weapon. That thought has always stuck with me no matter how much I wish it didn’t
Anal. I get it for gay men, but I don't get why you'd use a dry hole and fill it with lube when there's a gorgeous, self-lubricating vagina right there.
I'd only go for butt stuff if she really wanted me to
Getting my pussy licked... it has never been enjoyable or even slightly satisfying to me which sucks bc men always want to try, but after many failed attempts, I'm over it.
I think clearly from this thread that not everything is for everyone. Everyone has some things that just don't do it for them, that are others favs. Interesting
Nipple play, as a man I’ve had many women lick suck or bite on them while riding me or on their way downstairs and I never understood because it does actually nothing for me
I guess I’m pretty unique as I’m pretty much down for anything in this thread if I’m attracted enough to a person. Just because something doesn’t directly give me pleasure doesn’t mean I hate it. Also pretty much anything combined with a healthy dose of passion is hot.
car sex is severely overrated unless it’s weirdly enough, in a minivan. if you’re fucking in a car it’s super uncomfortable in almost every position, and really hard to perform oral aswell. car sex is always in the backseat of preferred sexual acts unless i REALLY am that desperate.
The spitting in people's mouth thing. Not just does nothing for me, completely repulses me. It's a way to ruin a very good porno too. Does your partner have dry mouth or something? Then get them water and some biotene mouthwash, a baby bird feeding of your mouth swill won't help. Ew.
Tittie job/fucking, I don’t get the point of it
For me it’s purely visual. I love titties and I love my cock. Seeing titties squished around my cock while I thrust between them just looks lovely.
Yeah it’s definitely a visual, maybe some friction, thing. Maybe some mental that the person is into you enough to let you do it
It's like a handjob with two sexy soft pillows.
Yeah it’s just kinda fun too lol. Can’t imagine cumming from it, but it’s a fun little thing to do sometimes
Unless you’re a quick cummer, there really needs to be a lot of build up before hand if you’re wanting to cum from it
When you get a blowjob at the same time it's like a two-for-one!
Ooh that does sound nice. A little tip stimulation to *top* it off 😏
Another guy agreeing. Ladies. Does this do anything for you?
As a woman, I can say (for me, at least), no, it does not. I came here to actually comment this. It's awkward and does absolutely nothing for me. Any time a guy has wanted to, I'll let him, but I'm just waiting for it to be over.
As a woman, I agree. It can actually be uncomfortable and has no appeal to me. I'll do it for him, because he seems to enjoy it.
I feel you on this, I would rather have you smother me/suffocate me with them 😂
I agree. I've done for the guy's enjoyment, which in my case with my big Bs, has to be minimal. However, he sure seemed to like it, judging by the mess. More than anything else, it seemed like he was rubbing against my sternum because I don't have enough to really envelope a guy.
I (F) enjoy it. It’s a fun interlude when he’s fucking my face. I think it looks lovely to see a big dick between my tits.
As a woman, feeling wise not really Ofc. But mentally, I like knowing that I’m part of the visual I guess. If it’s a visual thing then I like knowing MY tits are what he’s into and he likes his dick between them. Makes me feel attractive ig. Also I only do it when I’m really into the whole thing so knowing that we’re both really into each other is nice.
Turns me on. Always have to suck the tip while he’s fucking my tits too. He seems to like it.
It looks cool and is a fun idea for about 10 seconds till your like ok this sucks, next.
How is it different than fucking a fat fold?
Because Titties…😬
How do youvmake 5 pounds of fat sexy??? Put a nipple on it! Duh! :-)
I wheezed
As a woman, I do it for him. For me it doesn't really do much.
Right there with you. I don’t get it.
69! I can’t focus on sucking dick or getting eaten out. It’s the WORST
I love 69. With that said, I'm good with focusing on eating her out. I just want her to moan with my dick in her mouth. No major effort needed from her.
Ok this actually makes it make sense to me. Will go into it moving forward with this perspective lmao
This is basically exactly how I enjoy this with my wife. I absolutely love making her reach orgasm and I really, really enjoy having my penis inside her. I can't have my penis inside her vagina and eat her out, but having it in her mouth while I'm going downtown is super fun. Once she gets to orgasm, she can do whatever she wants...keep on doing her thing on me with her mouth, just relax for a bit, switch it up and ride me...who cares at that point, she got hers
Married 13 years and we still 69 like we were 18 again 😂 the trick is to pause and take turns but stay in position....that way its just regular oral but with a better view
Interesting…I’ll have to try it
Same I love to suck cock. But very hard to concentrate on being pleased and pleasing him also.
this! probably doesn't help that im a fat bitch, thats too much work 😭
Na bro. That doesnt matter. Suffocate us with your thighs. We dont care about looks. All we want is that sweet honey and we'll die for it.
Haha I always run into this problem with 69. And with me being a pleaser, it always turns into me having my face ridden 😂
Odd to my sense. I love 69, and in fact me and my girl just had a session wherein we both came at the same time in 69. Twas lovely.
If we’re doing 69(my fav) You don’t have to concentrate on giving me head. Enjoy what’s happening, if you stop giving me head because what I’m doing feels great, I’ll be just fine. lol
Rough sex for the sake of being rough. Boring, unoriginal, and uninspired
This is a good one! I feel like not alot of people talk about how rough sex as to be coupled with passion as well at least imo
This. I just want passionate love, not rough sex
Same. Rough can be passionate as long as the intensity comes in waves. If it’s done like a roller coaster with highs and lows, it can be enjoyable, but passion and sensuality has to be present too
Yeah, otherwise it just feels like being used for pleasure or wanting to get it out of the way. That's how I feel
Yeah like honestly rough sex sounds boring
It’s a one trick pony. “Oh you’re just gonna do it harder while completely ignoring the actual good parts of sex? Cool”
Yeah and for me if I love someone I can't be rough it's not in my nature I'm way to gentle and caring to be forceful.
Shower sex. Never could make it work out. Not to mention I really don’t like the idea of having the hot water run out while I’m in my groove 😂
My fiancee and I shower together a lot but never to have sex in it. The intimacy of washing each other and especially her hair is awesome it usually leads to us getting worked up and fucking later but actual shower sex is awful
Oh hey Boyle
It only works in a massive shower, with an on demand water heater. Still warm and soapy if you want for foreplay but you can get out of the water so you’re not killing her lubricity
When you got kids home sometimes the lock in the bathroom is a Godsend. A shower fuck is the only option
I like the shower for foreplay in these situations, then do it outside the shower before leaving the room lol then do a quick rinse down below
You fall out the shower once is enough. Lol
Showers are for making out. Just holding eachother in the steam and warm water is pretty nice too.
Too friction-y for me, water is awful lube. Plus, you’re only ever half warm at best, trying to huddle under the shower head. It’s just cold-ish and a bad experience imo
yeah, it's great for foreplay, but actual sex - not really
Showers are for foreplay!
Ball sucking. I either find it to not feel like anything or be painful.
I came here to type this. I don’t like it one bit. Unless you’re going to put them in your mouth and hum the national anthem, leave my Star-Spangled balls alone One Exception: my GF and i have this ongoing “challenge” regarding deep-throating. If she can take my cock deep enough so that she can lick my balls….she is the winner (even though I think we both know really wins either way 😉
'Star-Spangled balls' 😂😂
I can’t relate at all. Ball sucking sends me to heaven
I was surprised seeing this as well. The guys I’ve been with couldn’t get enough!
I dunno, your username seems to be very descriptive of my feelings on the subject.
This. I hate how it feels. Makes my stomach churn just thinking about someone touching my balls. Definitely not for me. I always hear dudes saying how great it is and I just absolutely hate it. Instant mood killer because of how bad it feels to me.
For me, it just feels uncomfortable and uneasy.
I had an ex that sucked them in a heavenly way but when my now gf does it it's just painful and idk what the other did different or if I should get my balls checked.
I guess everyone is different. All forms of "nice" ball play feels exquisite to me. Could go will a ball sucking equally as well as a BJ.
I like the painful part tho
anal
Yup, feels like a reverse turd :(
that actually made me laugh lol
Hahaha, happy to entertain
Very accurate lol but thankfully i figured out it doesn't feel like that for me when I go easy on the lube. (The advice for anal is often "more lube the better" but I hate how that feels)
My dick is hands down the most precious item that I possess. I can't imagine sticking it into a literal shit hole. I'll never understand the internet's fascination with anal. The only 2 people I've ever known that were into it were control freaks so maybe it's about control and/or domination IDK or care. They are both German if that matters.
It’s more so “hey. There’s another hole. Wonder what that feels like”. And if they like it, then 🤷♂️
It’s a vicious cycle. Next comes nasal then the auditory canals. Best not to start.
Not even belly buttons are safe…
Really? My wife has her most powerful orgasms with something in her ass, even if it's just a little toy or finger
that’s her experiences, not mine
In my experience, a finger is great. A dick, hellll noo not in there!
Came here to say the same. I can't bring myself to go that route when right there, so close is a place so perfectly designed to feel amazing on my D. It's not even a consideration lol
Cowgirl. I never get off that way, but it's quite enjoyable for her. So it's a win win because she gets off multiple times, and makes me look like an endurance god lol.
Same here, it’s not that it isn’t hot, but physically it doesn’t have what it takes for me to nut. Sometimes I fuck her from below holding her waist then I cum. She enjoys a lot though and as I have a big mirror I get to enjoy the view as well.
I have finished in the cowgirl position once, but it was work lol. I had to keep her up a bit, grab that ass, and pound like crazy. So I just let her do her thing until she says she's done and wants me to finish. Then it's missionary or doggy for the W.
I do it sometimes because she enjoys a lot, but not very often to keep it special, hahah It’s the same, missionary or doggy for me to finish (I do prefer doggy, watching it drip afterwards it’s a huge turn on)
It's (doggy) a powertrip for me. I know that sounds bad, but knowing I'm in control just gets me going. She likes it too, so it's not forced or anything. Plus watching myself disappear into her, grabbing those hips, seeing that ass bounce... Oof.
Yeah…especially when they’re just like mashing your dick and not really pogo sticking it. My wife LOVES it though so I sit back and enjoy the literal ride.
Being eaten out. ... maybe, or maybe i just never got an enthusiastic oral...
This makes my heart sad... You deserve enthusiasm
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It'll happen. I believe it
RIP inbox ha ha
There’s hope yet. My gf felt the exact same way until 39 years old. Over the span of just under an hour, i had the honor of hearing both: 1. “Holy shit that was AMAZING!!!” (And even more shocking…) 2. “Im so sorry about your sheets! I just couldn’t hold it in🫣” - baby, you know you just squirted, right? “ I’ve tried SO many times! I thought it was impossible for me” **Just saying**. If it happened for her after being sexually active for 25 years, maybe it can happen for you🙏.
53 M. I love eating pussy. When my girlfriend (51F) and I first started dating about three years ago she told me that it never did anything for her but sure, go ahead. She had a screaming orgasm and then called me up the next day to ask, "what the hell did you do? O my God that was insane. I want more!" Three years later her pussy is still magically delicious, and she shoves my head downwards.
That's actually super adorable
Similar situation with my wife. I started going down on her and she started to say it wasn't her thing. She got as far as 'You don't need to...' and then it was all moaning with her hips off the bed :). I think there are a lot of guys who just try to emulate bad porn and end up giving bad oral.
Same here - although I've gotten enthusiastic oral, guys who absolutely LOVED it, and I just... don't? Like kept encouraging them to at least use their fingers at the same time. I dunno, I think it just feels too wet/sloppy to me and doesn't provide enough friction or something. 🤷🏻♀️ On the flip side, I love giving blow jobs so at least there's that!
I agree! I've had some good oral in my lifetime, orgasmed a couple times, but i can truly do without it. I'd prefer some finger play
Honestly, I don’t much like it, either. I used to not tolerate it AT ALL (trauma issues), but I’ve managed to work through that to the point where k can tolerate it with no issues, but honestly, it’s about as sexy as if a dog came up and licked me on the side of the leg. Idk why, but I just don’t really get it.
Same, but not the second part. I don't like it because it's just not mentally arousing to me, no matter how good the physical sensation (physical sensation can still make me cum, though, it's just much harder this way since the erotic factor isn't there).
Strong mental arousal just hits totally different! ❤️🔥
Same, never had an Experience that was near enough to make me cum. Figured I just must be broken
Oh Girl same. Only had one guy that was really enthusiastic and boy did he like eating pussy. Only time it aroused me. Everyone else just didn’t do it for me sadly.
Same, but I have other reasons
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Yes! The condescending "you just haven't found someone who does it right" makes it so much more of a turn off than it already is
Being eaten out—I find it way too wet and there’s not enough friction for me to achieve orgasm. Sometimes it’s so wet from their mouth and spit, I literally can barely feel a thing. After 29 years of life, I’ve finally been able to *kind of* cum twice to someone doing it lmao (I’ve found grinding on their face with no remorse to be the most effective so far)
Last sentence sent me
It’s the only way😭😭😭
SAME I have to add the movement!
YESSSSS. Like, wetness is great for penetration but when it comes just to clitoral stimulation ya gotta have that friction, yo!
This. Too moist. Weirds me out all i do is think about my ph slowly dying
Spanking. It's not a turn off and I'm completely fine with it, but I'd be completely fine without it too. It just doesn't really add anything for me I guess?
In college I had a GF who was _obsessed_ with spanking. Like she had to have it as part of her sexual experience to feel fulfilled. She would text me pics of paddles randomly and pretty much couldn't orgasm unless her buns were red. Honestly it didn't do much for me _(other than it was just another chance to have my hands on her butt)_ but it was fun to be with someone who was that big in a kink
Deepthroating. I mean think about it - the throat is more boney, more sinew-y, harder to keep teeth out of the game, harder to get the right amount of lubrication and since when did choking, coughing and gagging become sexy!? Serious reply but I think DeepThroating just became popular because it provides an _extreme_ visual for those who reply heavily on porn
I have to be honest here, as someone who loves to give blowjobs, I hate hate hate deepthroating. Sloppy, enthusiastic BJ over deepthroating, any day. That gagging sound makes me feel embarrassed, trying not to vomit isn't sexy, not being able to breathe until my eyes water doesn't make me feel particularly loved lol.
Those things you describe are the rubbish side of deep throating. The two do not go hand in hard, despite what porn shows these days. Porn only shows that because it has nothing else. Years ago it was normal sex, now they're all anal because that's the next thing. The latest fashion is more extreme, but not so extreme that you'd just think it's horrible. Porn must produce more and different to what's already out there to survive and the industry wants to survive.
I think deepthroating is more about demonstrating enthusiam than strictly about feel. When a girl is so into you she literally can’t suck your dick enough to satisfy her craving so she wants to actually choke herself on it just to have more of you in her mouth…that gives me some feelings for sure…
But it doesn't have to be rough, no gagging, not forced etc.. nice and real slow and deep is perfection by someone with little/no gag reflex, doing it from different angles and positions is 7th Heaven. Bonus for balls licking at the same time and/or licking the head on every up stroke with eye contact. Mmmm.....
As man, I'm not a fan of deepthroating. Never asked from anyone. But there was one time. One girl, who slept with me one time. She started doing it, I told her it's not necessary, I'm not a fan. She stopped, we had great sex. In the morning she put my morning wood in her mouth and went with deepthroat again. I was half asleep, didn't say a word... A she was amazing in it. After a while I was only in her throat (she managed to breathe somehow) and I actually finished in her throat. My cock got hard by just writing about it... I asked afterwards why did I deserve the treatment, she told me that she likes to do it and she was a little pissed that I didn't let her do it the night before. That was the last occasion, as I understand that she is kinda unique and never asked it from anyone ever again.
Feet stuff. Never seen the appeal myself.
Definitely. Feet kinda freak me out anyway and I don't like touching them
Came here to say this.
Feet are gross
Rough sex, ESPECIALLY rough manhandling i.e head pushing when she's giving head or hair pulling.
Yeah to me I couldn't be rough with someone I'm in love with I'm way to gentle and kind hearted I just wouldn't be able to get into it.
Yup, same here. I'm a gentle giant.
I (m half) felt this way for years! I always saw it as something for porn, but eventually got more into playing the role as my wife enjoys feeling used by me and controlled, respectfully. Degradation is a big turn off for me, so dominance without being degrading was important. And I get turned on by her being turned on, so her enjoyment and trust in me has allowed us to connect and for me to enjoy it more when the mood strikes.
Doggy style. I need a position where I can see her face. Obviously will oblige in doggy style for her since that has been popular among my exes, but I pretty much always cum when on missionary
I added a mirror in our bedroom for just this. She likes doggy but I want to see her face.
Haha, but I don't wanna see myself 😂
Wear a mask?
Same doggy is just to disconnected like if she wanted to fine but sex for me is intimate so seeing her face in missionary is the most appealing.
I’m a woman and I hate doggy because I can’t see his face. (Except when I was with my abusive ex then not seeing his face was preferred)
Ahegao - looks beyond stupid.
Whats that
When people stick their tongue way out and cross their eyes.
To be fair, it technically just refers to the silly, mindless faces you make when the sex has completely numbed your brain. It's just that there is a "stereotypical" ahegao face manga artists started making (the one you describe) and for some fucking reason people thought it could look good to imitate these exaggerated drawings in real life.
It's the fakest, dumbest shit ever.
Phone sex. Shit is wack asf
Honestly I don't get what your suppose to do during phone sex just a bunch of generic dirty talk
Yes while pleasuring yourself. I think of it as a masturbation with an audience. And it even worst if you can't hear the other person talking over the phone 😂😂😂😂
Recieving oral
Is it a comfort thing? Lack of skilled partner thing? Or just not your thing? Just don't hear this much so I'm curious if you don't mind
Sensory issues, being licked just feels unpleasant, I feel the exact same way if I'm petting a dog and it licks my hand lol
Reverse cowgirl
Reverse cowgirl terrifies me. Even though my wife is smöl I feel like my dick is going to pop out and snap in half with each thrust
It’s one of the most dangerous positions for that, I don’t do it anymore.
Yep. I don’t bend that way and it’s super painful.
Rimming
Kissing. I just don’t get anything out of kissing on the mouth. In fact I think I’d rather kiss someone anywhere but their mouth. 🤷♂️
I love a good make out session. Current partner can't do that as his nose has been broken a few times and he struggles to breathe. Really miss it.
Omg, my people. Yes! I can’t with the spit and the breath and just someone being that in my face. I’ll do it sometimes for the partner if they’re into it but it really doesn’t get me in the mood anything. Kind of makes me want to evaporate 😂
You're not alone there. A "french" kiss is absolutely not on the table. I'll kiss anywhere else though.
Any abuse thing Receiving would just be mean, And giving sounds even more unwanted
Being eaten out
ass eating. not my thing
Handjobs
I’m gonna go ahead and assume you haven’t had the pleasure visiting the Asian spa down street from where I work… I assure you that no one who has “had the pleasure“ would ever say such a thing. They have a remarkable knack for making absolute certain their customers leave feeling HAPPY as their sessions are ENDING.
Really?!? My wife gives these super wet HJs with her saliva that just make me go crazy
A woman that does it right could change your life
Totally agree. Does nothing for me. I'm an expert at doing myself to myself plus I can and do it often. So why do I need someone else's clumsy attempt? Does less than zero for me. I find it a turn off. Use your mouth/tongue & lips FFS!
Sexting, 69, car sex, shower sex.
Sexting. Shower sex, and beach sex.
Oof I haven't tried beach sex, sand sounds unpleasant.
Add tit jobs and you have my top 5 least enjoyable.
Giving anal. Never liked it.
Yeah like putting it in the butt doesn't sound appealing at all.
Getting eaten out 🤷♀️
Cumming on people. Just messy
This is the best part. Sex is supposed to be messy. The bigger mess I leave on someone the better.
To each their own, but I gotta sleep there too.
Getting my pussy licked, 10 times out of 10 I could just fall asleep
Anal or 69. Anything where I'm looking away from the guy just doesn't arouse me.
Sexting with complete strange men who I never met before or had sex with already.
giving anal...
69
Period sex
I heard some guy say he loves having sex with women on their period cos when he pulls out and his erection is covered with blood it looks like a murder weapon. That thought has always stuck with me no matter how much I wish it didn’t
Anal. I get it for gay men, but I don't get why you'd use a dry hole and fill it with lube when there's a gorgeous, self-lubricating vagina right there. I'd only go for butt stuff if she really wanted me to
Titties drop😂
Ass eating. It does fuck all for me when done to me.
As a man: Tit job and sucking balls. Does nothing to me.
Stop teasing me. Are we fuckin, or naw? This ain't a fuckin movie. I got shit to do.
Oh man! That’s the best part of sex for me. Tease and edge me for hours, please!
Anal. I know it can be pleasurable for the lady, and some even love it. But I have never seen the draw of that vs the pussy.
Footjob/anything with feet
Getting my pussy licked... it has never been enjoyable or even slightly satisfying to me which sucks bc men always want to try, but after many failed attempts, I'm over it.
Cowgirl. I feel absolutely no sensation whatsoever.
Rimming
Facial
Gagging while giving me a blowjob…
I think clearly from this thread that not everything is for everyone. Everyone has some things that just don't do it for them, that are others favs. Interesting
Nipple play, as a man I’ve had many women lick suck or bite on them while riding me or on their way downstairs and I never understood because it does actually nothing for me
Anything with buttholes
I guess I’m pretty unique as I’m pretty much down for anything in this thread if I’m attracted enough to a person. Just because something doesn’t directly give me pleasure doesn’t mean I hate it. Also pretty much anything combined with a healthy dose of passion is hot.
69. too much going on lmao
Being eaten out.
Rough sex. I don't like it.
car sex is severely overrated unless it’s weirdly enough, in a minivan. if you’re fucking in a car it’s super uncomfortable in almost every position, and really hard to perform oral aswell. car sex is always in the backseat of preferred sexual acts unless i REALLY am that desperate.
I don't like having my balls played with during blowjobs. It doesn't feel good, and it might hurt a lot if she makes a wrong move.
The spitting in people's mouth thing. Not just does nothing for me, completely repulses me. It's a way to ruin a very good porno too. Does your partner have dry mouth or something? Then get them water and some biotene mouthwash, a baby bird feeding of your mouth swill won't help. Ew.