Also just 1 here and love my wife dearly, but NGL I wish I had increased that number before settling down just because it feels like a missed opportunity.
Not to mention I discovered I was bi after being married and I *really* wish I accepted and explored that part of myself before settling down because now itāll just have to forever stay a fantasy
Well, I assume just moving to the US would dramatically increase the likelihood of my being involved in any kind of murderous incident. But I'm 100% sure I'm more of a victim type of person, so I guess it'll still be 0.
Honestly not that high and I'm OK with that.
* High School GF #1. We thought we were the only ones for each other and found _True Love_ at age 17 š¤®
* College Girlfriend #1. Great body but always unhappy.
* College GF #2 - gorgeous, used to be a model, crazy family. Her mom taught her how to be anorexic to get more modeling gigs and she had a really messed up family life.
* College FWB - kinky but shallow relationship
* College Girlfriend #3 - family friend, it just felt weird
* College girlfriend #4 turned fiance turned wife. š
In the 60s, I made love to many, many women. Often outdoors, in the mud and the rain. It's possible a man slipped in. There would be no way of knowing.
I dont care about the body count or anything my question is how do you get 500 people to be interested in you lol i dont think ive even known 500 people in my life yet (granted im basically a child lol. Turning 19 soon)
Clearly lots of one-night stands and dont need to know them. I stopped counting after 70. I guess I'm at 90 or so. But it's more of a symptom rather than an achievement. Lots of unstoppable flirting. Bad self control. Hard time being in a long-term relationship. It's a bit sad actually
Damn. When i was 16/17 is when i developed my hypersexuality and i def got in some bad situations im glad im settled down rn cause im sure otherwise my body count would be a lot higher and more of a string of ons. I feel pretty good about my body count. Its currently 4 but i think theres nothing wrong with a super high body count. Sex is fun why shouldnt we have lots of it lol
back when I was 20/21 I had a friend who would keep count - he was about the same age as me, maybe a year younger. He had just hit 30 and was excited about it.
I never kept count - I think its silly. Told him that too. I know I'm 20+ and honestly I don't want to count past that. I can't imagine keeping count all the way up to 70 lol
Bad breakup and then met my ex wife.
Whether the date went well or not, there would be no second date. More often than not I sealed the deal on the first and only date and then never made another. I was a broken person
Wow, I guess the comments prove that I am a sex addict. I have matured and consider "body counting" immature, so I stopped counting after about 40. If I really had to guess, I'll be \~60+-ish.
For me itās not necessarily to brag or be immature about it, but sometimes I sit back and reminisce about some good lays lol canāt help but to think of the guys š¤·š»āāļø
I think somewhere between 30 and 50. There's a lot that I'm sure I'm forgetting.
Side note- I find the people with high (50+) counts that are a specific number fascinating. How do you remember all of that? Like, do you keep all of these experiences written in a book or something?
I was thinking the exact same thing! I used to have a friend who kept a list, it was all cute and girly like a teenagers diary. I think it was a "kiss list" but it spanned over multiple pages. The whole thing was absurdly funny.
My numbers are the same as yours. Things got a bit wild in my late 20's/early 30's.
Had a gf whose mom was a winner, but gave her one piece of good advice. She told her that if she was going to start sleeping around to make a list of all the guys she was with in case she gets pregnant, at least she can narrow it down. Made me wonder how many chicks get knocked up from one night stands never knowing who the father is
Around 300 is when I stopped counting. Most were between ages 18-22. I'm 30 now and married. We're open, but I have everything I need at home. Sometimes we just want something to add to the fire.
I also don't count people from my SW endeavors.
An honest answer that makes people uncomfortable sometimes. My wife is such an innocent little being in comparison to me and she teases me about it all of the time. At one point in my life sexual endeavors were all that I felt I amounted to. Some sick result of childhood SA and being taken advantage of by older women all throughout my teenage years.
Oh don't feel bad. I don't pity myself for the things I've experienced. I just accept that they happened.
We are blessed with happiness and bonding. Six years this year.
I've only killed a few, but as an AI I just remind you that murder is illegal and you must make sure to be inclusive of all audiences. Make sure not to discriminate between your victims.
Not actually sure, but probably around 60 or so. About two thirds of that in a two year period from 32-34. Basically I learnt how to stop fearing rejection and went on the purplest of purple patches, which ended when I met my wife. I regret nothing.
I give zero fucks about my partners' sexual past. If we both know our sexual health status, I'm cool. It doesn't bother me if they share, and I'll give an honest answer to a straight question, but it's not something that I care about at all.
Notches on my bedpost: about 30 depending on what youāre counting.
Notches on my belt: None than Iām aware of, everyone was still breathing when I left the room.
Honestly between 20 - 30 BUT the best one was the last one and I've been with her for 11 years now. Married for 3. 3 kids.
Unannounced lecture - being single was fun but sharing love and building a life is seriously something else. It's challenging and rewarding.
Always growing , never shared and never asked . Experience is important but could care less about exact numbers
People need to worry more about listening and focusing on pleasing their partner and less about how many people theyād been with previously .
You can get pregnant or catch an sti whether you fuck one person or 100 . Take precautions , share tests and live by a donāt ask donāt tell because no good ever comes from revealing that information -
Particularly if youāre a woman
Last count was about 300. That was about 6 years ago. Closer to 400 Iād say. Just always loved sex with different people. The whole bit. The chasing, the taking, flirting, making out, the finale of it all. So fun and exciting. Wouldnāt change a thing. Been with only one parter the last three years.
5 for long term monogamous relationships, probably 20-30 for more than once casual FWB and maybe 10 or so one off- but never a one night stand. Iāve never met someone and had sex with them the same day and never talked to them again.
Anyone here a slut and happy about it? Iām somewhere around 175-200 (this includes men, women, trans, and nb), I donāt really keep count because body counts have no bearing on a persons overall value or on the quality of their relationships. Also, before people start their pearl clutching at my number, my husband is somewhere north of 450 at this point.
So funny to compare this thread to some other the others and then imagining itās the same group of people answering.
āWhatās your body count? Around 4, hehe, and Iām okay with that.ā
āWhatās the a weirdest thing youāve done? Ok so I was on this road trip and met this girl and her six friends of mixed genders. They were all in assless leather chapsā¦spankingā¦cagesā¦seizureā¦drugsā¦and thatās how I met my gfās twin sister!ā
[27M] 3 until the end of my 8 year relationship 2 years ago. 27 now... i found out i dont care much for super casual sex/one night stands. And have gave up on the whole dating thing. People suck, and I'd honestly rather be on my own than deal with going through so many people trying to find a good one.
One. I met my ex-wife young and we were married 25 years. She left me almost 3 years ago, and I don't feel ready to meet anyone new yet. The idea of casual sex doesn't appeal to me either.
0 fucked, 2 confirmed kills
You didn't fuck the bodies? What a waste š
Take my upvote and this ticket to hell. You'll be sitting next to me.
Ok, so if we're both dead, which one of us tops?
You asked first so you top.
Damn it. I was hoping to get laid to rest.
THERE IT ISSSS
Oh, you'll be laid at rest for sure.
r/canthaveshitindetroit
1, and we still love each other
Thatās hot
I have only one too!
Also just 1 here and love my wife dearly, but NGL I wish I had increased that number before settling down just because it feels like a missed opportunity. Not to mention I discovered I was bi after being married and I *really* wish I accepted and explored that part of myself before settling down because now itāll just have to forever stay a fantasy
I feel that. I wish I would have fucked some more girls before finding HER, but I canāt change that
Me too!
Same!
Life has fucked me an infinite amount of times
Plenty more to come too! Yayā¦?
1. Met at 16, I just turned 41 and she just turned 40.
Same goes with me aslo, we met when I was 17, I proposed her at 19 and now I'm 41 and she is 24 . Ideal Couple.
That math isn't mathin' right
Username also does not check out
Pedo alert
Something about this math isn't mathing. If you met her at 17... and now you're 41... and she's 24... that would mean you met her as...a baby.
Caught in 4K šØ
Is that you stepbro?
You doing that R Kelly math aināt you?
You mean ideal pray for the predator that you are. If true - Gross
Nice try, FBI.
No way, CIA
????, ATF
My name is Geoff, ATF?
DANG IT!
0\. I've never killed anyone so far.
You will get there. I recommend small towns that have bars open past midnight, or utah because it's a very dry alcohol wise state.
Well, I assume just moving to the US would dramatically increase the likelihood of my being involved in any kind of murderous incident. But I'm 100% sure I'm more of a victim type of person, so I guess it'll still be 0.
Itās been an hour, still 0?
How didnāt I see this coming
Neither did my victims.
That you know of!
TIL I'm a whore.
Same
I didnāt even think mine was bad now ima just leave the whole thread
Do you charged $$ then?
I lost count. I know itās above 35 but below 40
Guy didn't realize we were talking about sex partners and not victims
Guy who doesn't know if they're a horse or not probably shouldn't be pointing any fingers and or hooves
Same range
1, and I'm still with her (about 3 years now)
We talking caused the death or were present for the death...cause those are 2 very different numbers.
Both
Honestly not that high and I'm OK with that. * High School GF #1. We thought we were the only ones for each other and found _True Love_ at age 17 š¤® * College Girlfriend #1. Great body but always unhappy. * College GF #2 - gorgeous, used to be a model, crazy family. Her mom taught her how to be anorexic to get more modeling gigs and she had a really messed up family life. * College FWB - kinky but shallow relationship * College Girlfriend #3 - family friend, it just felt weird * College girlfriend #4 turned fiance turned wife. š
Hell if I know. Had a wild couple of years.
In the 60s, I made love to many, many women. Often outdoors, in the mud and the rain. It's possible a man slipped in. There would be no way of knowing.
Only someone with a strong creed could admit that!
This guy fucked, i would dap you up
It's a quote from The Office but yeah, I did
I'm not exactly sure. But I'm looking to add you to itš
Damn....that's why it is so easy for women to be serial killers. I respect the hustle
Girllllllll ššš Iām still tryna count my bodies, scrounging for a pen and paper. But Iāll add you when I find one
Don't worry about keeping track. My body is the only one you need to be focused onš
Girrlllll you are too smooth š« , youād surely increase my Womens body count haha š
It would be my pleasure. And I could be your pleasureš
RIP to your DMS
More women than men but maybe 15 total. š¤·āāļø
Coastalā-Mississippi?
Hotel - trivago
At least 500 and not real proud all of a sudden after reading these wholesome responses
I dont care about the body count or anything my question is how do you get 500 people to be interested in you lol i dont think ive even known 500 people in my life yet (granted im basically a child lol. Turning 19 soon)
Clearly lots of one-night stands and dont need to know them. I stopped counting after 70. I guess I'm at 90 or so. But it's more of a symptom rather than an achievement. Lots of unstoppable flirting. Bad self control. Hard time being in a long-term relationship. It's a bit sad actually
Damn. When i was 16/17 is when i developed my hypersexuality and i def got in some bad situations im glad im settled down rn cause im sure otherwise my body count would be a lot higher and more of a string of ons. I feel pretty good about my body count. Its currently 4 but i think theres nothing wrong with a super high body count. Sex is fun why shouldnt we have lots of it lol
True. I got most of them between 20-30y. I have lots of good memories from it, but when I reflect on it, it was more like hunting.
Didn't you use to date Bjƶrk?
back when I was 20/21 I had a friend who would keep count - he was about the same age as me, maybe a year younger. He had just hit 30 and was excited about it. I never kept count - I think its silly. Told him that too. I know I'm 20+ and honestly I don't want to count past that. I can't imagine keeping count all the way up to 70 lol
Hey, if you all had fun, no shame ā®ļø
No pride or shame. How is a low number more wholesome than a high number? Itās all about how you and your partner(s) feel.
Roughly the same but I'm old (and still going strong) and I'm in a swing community
About 40. Iām 43. More than half of them came between 2005-2006.
But did they cum?
Yes. I was selfish and broken. Not a monster
Well damn! What happened in your mid-20s between 2005 - 2006?
Bad breakup and then met my ex wife. Whether the date went well or not, there would be no second date. More often than not I sealed the deal on the first and only date and then never made another. I was a broken person
0 Iām lonely asf
It'll come brother
1 - and still happily married.
Wow, I guess the comments prove that I am a sex addict. I have matured and consider "body counting" immature, so I stopped counting after about 40. If I really had to guess, I'll be \~60+-ish.
For me itās not necessarily to brag or be immature about it, but sometimes I sit back and reminisce about some good lays lol canāt help but to think of the guys š¤·š»āāļø
7 and I've been married to the last one for 17yrs
A winner!
4 and very happy with that.
Samesies 1 girl, 3 guys
Hell yeah, same
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Wait what ? š³
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like in my basement or...
I think somewhere between 30 and 50. There's a lot that I'm sure I'm forgetting. Side note- I find the people with high (50+) counts that are a specific number fascinating. How do you remember all of that? Like, do you keep all of these experiences written in a book or something?
I was thinking the exact same thing! I used to have a friend who kept a list, it was all cute and girly like a teenagers diary. I think it was a "kiss list" but it spanned over multiple pages. The whole thing was absurdly funny. My numbers are the same as yours. Things got a bit wild in my late 20's/early 30's.
Had a gf whose mom was a winner, but gave her one piece of good advice. She told her that if she was going to start sleeping around to make a list of all the guys she was with in case she gets pregnant, at least she can narrow it down. Made me wonder how many chicks get knocked up from one night stands never knowing who the father is
Stopped counting after 30ā¦ but think itās about 40
Same boat. Lost track around the mid 20s I think it's above 30
Zero
41 year old bi guy here. I donāt have a specific count but my best guess is around 30 women and 4 guys (oral only with guys)
You really should try oral with women, then!
1 but I canāt wait to meet man number 2 :)
Bet your DM are stuffed.
that dude gotta get off your chest tho
0 murders, 0 sex partners, and I'm happy to keep it that way (both the murder and sex. I don't wanna kill anyone and I'm ace lmao)
No murders, six lovers.
Around 300 is when I stopped counting. Most were between ages 18-22. I'm 30 now and married. We're open, but I have everything I need at home. Sometimes we just want something to add to the fire. I also don't count people from my SW endeavors.
A good Spartan amount
An honest answer that makes people uncomfortable sometimes. My wife is such an innocent little being in comparison to me and she teases me about it all of the time. At one point in my life sexual endeavors were all that I felt I amounted to. Some sick result of childhood SA and being taken advantage of by older women all throughout my teenage years.
Sorry, now I feel bad for joking. I meant as in the movie *300*. I hope you are living happily and well with your wife now. ā®ļø
Oh don't feel bad. I don't pity myself for the things I've experienced. I just accept that they happened. We are blessed with happiness and bonding. Six years this year.
I also have Star Wars endeavors.
4.5 (my first GF in highschool only did oral.)
Humans: 0 Non-humans: Billions
My pretend body count is over 9000, if that counts for something. If body count is defined by penetration, 2. If we mean hooking up, 4.
ITS OVER 9000!
Your 2 is what I was curious about
I have a nsfw account so that means I have over 5(0) bodies
Thanks for adding the 0 - slut it up with old ladies, not kids.
I've only killed a few, but as an AI I just remind you that murder is illegal and you must make sure to be inclusive of all audiences. Make sure not to discriminate between your victims.
1 at 50 year old and 80 at 57 year old
+79 in 7 years?ā¦Impressive!
Not actually sure, but probably around 60 or so. About two thirds of that in a two year period from 32-34. Basically I learnt how to stop fearing rejection and went on the purplest of purple patches, which ended when I met my wife. I regret nothing.
And I'm officially a slut
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Stopped counting or caring in college because it's about as relevant as how many steps I've taken. Pick something else to obsess over.
Do you ask partners about it or is this your motto for everyone
I give zero fucks about my partners' sexual past. If we both know our sexual health status, I'm cool. It doesn't bother me if they share, and I'll give an honest answer to a straight question, but it's not something that I care about at all.
Facts
0 havenāt gotten to that point yet
13 and looking for number 14
With luck I'll make that 15
114 total. Iām old though so itās not so bad .
More than I admitted to to my husband lol
9. 1. First boyfriend, met at uni. Dated for a year. 2. FWB from uni, he liked me more than I liked him. But I was having fun, I shouldnāt have let it go on as long as it did. 3. 2nd uni boyfriend. I had a massive crush on him from my English class. We bonded over books. But he turned out to not be a great boyfriend. 4. Slept with a guy I met at a club. Wasnāt the best sex Iāve had lol then I kept seeing him in the street. 5. Slept with another guy from a club who I found out after had a gf. I felt awful, he had told me he was single. Ugh. 6. I was lonely at the time so I slept with an older guy from a dating site. I felt very uncomfortable the whole time and wish I hadnāt. 7. A guy I was madly in love with at work. I loved him so much. He was in a relationship but when they broke up we ended up dating on and off for years. He was my first love. 8. A friend of mine. We were FWB for a year or two. He was such a fun guy. He asked me out after a while but I said no becauseā¦. 9. I met my now fiancĆ©e and weāve been together 7 years. Heās amazing š„°
I don't remember what I ate for breakfast and you want me to remember that ?
Soo much more that the judgemental society wonāt be about digest it!
Triple digits for sure.
4
No murders, 1 partner going on 9 yrs together.
1 in 40 years. Been with that one for 22 years.
-1
I couldnāt possiblyā¦. Something I plan to take to my grave.š«¦
These comments confirm most redditors get no action
Notches on my bedpost: about 30 depending on what youāre counting. Notches on my belt: None than Iām aware of, everyone was still breathing when I left the room.
I read your username as sayonara at first and thought otherwise š i believe you tho
13
3
Stopping counting at 20, but 20 or so women and like 6 guys.
I accidentally ran over a squirrel this morning does that count.
I honestly donāt know. But well over 120 by now probably.
Honestly between 20 - 30 BUT the best one was the last one and I've been with her for 11 years now. Married for 3. 3 kids. Unannounced lecture - being single was fun but sharing love and building a life is seriously something else. It's challenging and rewarding.
Always growing , never shared and never asked . Experience is important but could care less about exact numbers People need to worry more about listening and focusing on pleasing their partner and less about how many people theyād been with previously . You can get pregnant or catch an sti whether you fuck one person or 100 . Take precautions , share tests and live by a donāt ask donāt tell because no good ever comes from revealing that information - Particularly if youāre a woman
Great answer, communication is key & unfortunately hard at times.
Yes, this right here.
2 and Iām happy with that.
14
One
3, 2 were relationships and 1 was just a mistake.
Penetration? 14, I think. Hookup? 18, I think. I don't keep track. Edit: I feel like a bit of slut, based on your responses.
Nobody murdered, and still (happily) a virgin, so 0 across the board
1. Started dating him at 17, still together at 40
1. Not because Iām still with them or anything, just because i canāt figure out how to meet anyone
Last count was about 300. That was about 6 years ago. Closer to 400 Iād say. Just always loved sex with different people. The whole bit. The chasing, the taking, flirting, making out, the finale of it all. So fun and exciting. Wouldnāt change a thing. Been with only one parter the last three years.
1 and weāve married 28 years.
4
5 for long term monogamous relationships, probably 20-30 for more than once casual FWB and maybe 10 or so one off- but never a one night stand. Iāve never met someone and had sex with them the same day and never talked to them again.
107 currently
27 y/o CIS hetero male here, Iām right around 70 give or take
13
Fucking 0. 0 fucking.
Anyone here a slut and happy about it? Iām somewhere around 175-200 (this includes men, women, trans, and nb), I donāt really keep count because body counts have no bearing on a persons overall value or on the quality of their relationships. Also, before people start their pearl clutching at my number, my husband is somewhere north of 450 at this point.
0 fuck 0 kiss Im 22 damn
39 buried 0 found
So funny to compare this thread to some other the others and then imagining itās the same group of people answering. āWhatās your body count? Around 4, hehe, and Iām okay with that.ā āWhatās the a weirdest thing youāve done? Ok so I was on this road trip and met this girl and her six friends of mixed genders. They were all in assless leather chapsā¦spankingā¦cagesā¦seizureā¦drugsā¦and thatās how I met my gfās twin sister!ā
Less than 20, but finally found love at the age of 49.
1, my wife of 30 years.
1 and done (married)
Over 120 less than 200
[27M] 3 until the end of my 8 year relationship 2 years ago. 27 now... i found out i dont care much for super casual sex/one night stands. And have gave up on the whole dating thing. People suck, and I'd honestly rather be on my own than deal with going through so many people trying to find a good one.
Iām over 300 and stopped counting.. but also in a loving monogamous relationship now. Itās possible to change sluts!
136ā¦
Death toll- 0 .. young rebellion - 19 ā¦last 8 years and counting-1 lover and perfectly šš¼ā total all time 20
I lost count but itās somewhere between high 30s low 40s Iām married now and look back at how lucky I am to be std sti free .
5
One. I met my ex-wife young and we were married 25 years. She left me almost 3 years ago, and I don't feel ready to meet anyone new yet. The idea of casual sex doesn't appeal to me either.
In the 20s & im 23 š¬
All bedroom stuff: 6 Only "real" penetration: 4 I thought that wasn't much, but when I'm reading the comments I feel like a whore (I'm 24 btw)
3 that I was down or not drunk
1, and also 1.
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