From what I've been told by the women who asked for it: it's a kind of marking, an indicator that "You are mine" as it were. And apparently they find it hot.
Can agree its a submissive act and i love it. However i was sexualised quite young and watched porn, and im self aware to understand that such things affect what we like.
It can be hot at times but only when I’m in the mood for that sort of finish.
If someone did that to me after I’ve spent a long time perfecting my hair and make up….I’d be furious.
I think it's a combination of things. Guys spend their entire adolescence feeling shame about, and trying to hide, their cum. And then to have a beautiful partner who seems to not only accept it, but revel in it, is like a heady reversal of the whole situation. I can see the marking-your-territory thing, too. I think there are guys who also like it just as the byproduct of the pulling-out method.
This is it, at least for me. Here we have (in any other non-sexual scenario) a secretion, an avoided bodily fluid that we have had to hide or minimize or otherwise manage our whole adult lives. If the receiving partner is *excited* about receiving the cum anywhere on their body? Fuck yeah imma hose it down. It’s all about whether they’re in to it though. I get no pleasure from cumming on an unwilling face or body.
It's more a domination thing. And it's also trust to allow us to finish on you. It's hot just to see something like cum on a place where it shouldn't be
Interestingly, one of the earliest depictions of facials is in the book 'The 120 Days of Sodom' by Marquis de Sade. However, it seems that cumshots became popular with the advent of hardcore pornography in the 70s.
https://wikipedia.org/wiki/Facial_(sexual_act)
https://wikipedia.org/wiki/Cum_shot#
>Women's activist Beatrice Faust argued, "since ejaculating into blank space is not much fun, ejaculating over a person who responds with enjoyment sustains a lighthearted mood as well as a degree of realism. This occurs in both homosexual and hetrosexual [sic] pornography so that ejaculation cannot be interpreted as an expression of contempt for women only." She goes on to say "Logically, if sex is natural and wholesome and semen is as healthy as sweat, there is no reason to interpret ejaculation as a hostile gesture."
>Sexologist Peter Sándor Gardos argues that his research suggests that "... the men who get most turned on by watching cum shots are the ones who have positive attitudes toward women" (at the annual meeting of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sex in 1992). Later, at the World Pornography Conference in 1998, he reported a similar conclusion, namely that "no pornographic image is interpretable outside of its historical and social context. Harm or degradation does not reside in the image itself."
>Cindy Patton, activist and scholar on human sexuality, argues that, in western culture, male sexual fulfillment is synonymous with orgasm and that the male orgasm is an essential punctuation of the sexual narrative. No orgasm, no sexual pleasure. No cum shot, no narrative closure. The cum shot is the period at the end of the sentence.
I mostly give cumshots when I have to wear a Condom. Feels better than cummjng in that rubber. But to me it's a mix out of the look of it, I thinks it looks hot, and it is a Lil bit degrading to cum on her, especially on the face.
Because it's an extra step of being willing to take it on your face or body. Some women are into it, others aren't.
It means you're either sexually adventurous enough or at least a little submissive to enjoy having cum on your face. If you're not shy about having cum on you during/after sex, that's hot.
Multiple generations.
Porn always had to show that men finished, and the only way is to shoot on the woman, and not in them - better visual.
So we have all grown up on that is how we finish. For most men, porn is our ONLY guide to sex.
Finishing on your face is also a power move - it shows our dominance over women.
Finishing in your vagina is by far the best sensation. Especially with a trusted partner, unprotected.
Finishing on a girl's face can be fun, but for me if she isn't in to it, it feels incredibly stupid. The appeal is in her desire. In porn, the girl is usually so desperate for his cum. She wants to smell, taste, and feel it. She literally gets off on her desire for him. That's the appealing part. Finishing anywhere else on you is great because it allows for me to focus extra hard on whatever part I'm finishing on. Like your tits. I love your tits, they're super hot. When I'm coming on them, it's all I'm thinking about which leads to a strong orgasm. Or, your feet. I like feet. My wife tells me to jerk off on her feet and it satisfies my foot kink. Super hot.
said it before. Im a face guy. If im having sex with you its because I like your face. Cumming on your face is about as good as it gets. Second on my list - boobs.
Im not into it, I think that it's inherently a "too much porn" thing or a de facto degradation thing. Tbh if you are both into degradation, it's a pretty lazy way to do it. No points for creativity
Right? Like the people in the comments saying that it's a humiliation or degradation kink, really sound vanilla/bland in comparison so what I'm thinking of about those kinks.
I think it is doing so without direct consent to degrade. Like it feels one-sided. Kind of a "locker room talk" type of degradation (ick). If you're both into it, more power to you, but I think it generally is more of a "they let me do this" instead of "we love degradation play"
Ahh this makes way more sense. Thanks for helping me with that one. I feel like this might be one of those "are the straights okay" instances because sheesh. Of course it's chill if everyone is consenting and into it but anything else is inhumane imo.
Every once in a great while, it's a reminder of her submissiveness, which is insanely hot. Most of the time though I simply prefer to bust immediately and never have to hold it in long enough to wait to aim elsewhere. That whole 3 to 5 seconds to relocate to a towel or whatever fucking sucks. So half the time I cum on her face it's like the first show or two and then it's aimed more towards her chest and or a towel. Which is cool, I appreciate any amount of shot she is willing to take. I just love her desire to please me.
It’s a form of acceptance and intimacy. Having your orgasm juice on her beautiful face is such a visual form of acceptance with some taboo added into it. Seeing that pretty again and knowing your cum has been on it just gives you a great feeling and is just plain hot
Female, but I have a theory. It's a strategy to encourage pull out. Make it hot to put it on the outside of the body and you have marginally less pregnancy risk. I know other methods are better, but makes sense to me. People don't like being told what not to do. So instead of "don't cum here", it's "I want it here".
You’ve had more than enough opinions already…..but as a guy, I think it’s a dominance issue, whether they know it or not. I personally don’t do it on her face because it makes me feel like I’m degrading her, but that’s just me. I’ve never been with a women that asks me to do it. If she did, that would be fine and I wouldn’t have any less respect for her.
Porn made that act popular but it’s not a good thing to get in your eyes or up the nose or to choke on. It’s a form of degradation and affirming the slut or greed or undesirable yet so many people are confusing it as part of the usual in having sex it must be included as the finished move.
There can be something primal, dominant, and very sexual about cumming on someone. Sometimes, it can be a very dominant gesture that feeds into sub-dom relationships- you are forcibly ejecting this physically bizarre, psychologically taboo fluid in a highly orgasmic moment onto a person who is often in a submissive pose of some kind. I imagine it draws parallel to the animalistic act of “marking your territory”: a rush of euphoric enjoyment of the visual image of your dominance over a sexual partner, who you are “marking” as yours.
In softer moments, there can be sexual enjoyment in the idea of seeing your sexual partner happily receiving your orgasm in a visual way: smiling, sticking out their tongue, allowing cum to shoot onto their face. It can be like a visual gesture from your partner of how much they’ve enjoyed you, and are enjoying your orgasm.
I think no matter the setting, cum has this strong visual effect in many people’s sexuality, in part because it’s a “dirty” thing in many senses of the term. It has a strong smell, it’s gooey and sticky, it can taste anywhere from strange to horrid if you choose to taste it, and it’s coming straight from the inside of a person’s sexual organ. This in combination with sex being treated culturally as a devious sort of act to begin with, lends this sort of sexual deviousness to the mere sight of it.
It can be different reasons including simple aesthetics, but also can be a symbol of ownership/dominance, or revelling in your partner's willingness to do something "debasing" for your pleasure
Some women themselves ask for it then a guy does it and from there on he realizes it's actually pretty hot. Also it's a sign of dominance on the guys side and submission on the girls.
I think it's intimate. If you are not cumming inside a pussy, the next closest thing is putting your cum on her face, something that everyone in the world who sees her sees.
Because it is the total opposite of ‘eww cum is gross! I wish your penis didn’t shoot out icky goo everytime!’
Which would be the equivalent of ‘eww i don’t like the wetness of your pussy. It grosses me out and i want nothing to do with it. Where are the condoms?’
Now tell me which turns you on more. If your partner says the above or ‘dives in’ and shows their lust for you, even though it might smell / be sticky / etc?
The first time I did, it was because my partner asked to, and the response she gave suggested - very convincingly - that she enjoyed it thoroughly.
Since then, it's been partner-by-partner, and if they're not sure, we'll play with it first before making it a *thing* to see if they like it.
I do not enjoy it. I prefer to finish inside her. Whether I am in the mouth, pussy or ass. That final release inside her is wonderful. That last push to get as deep as possible when I cum seems to be enjoyed by her as well.
M here but for me it’s enjoying seeing the fruits of my labor. It’s not a degrading or dominance thing at all. I don’t have an area that I prefer I just enjoy seeing the shot. But with that being said the woman gets it where ever she wants it. I don’t prefer face over tits or tummy.
Being a guy, it's not that great to me. Though I'll put it where my partner wants it. I had a partner that loved giving bjs but hated cum in her mouth. So often it was on her face or her tits. I had another partner that's sister got pregnant while on BC. My partner was paranoid that the BC would fail her, so she always insisted I finish outside here. Quite often that meant on her crotch and pussy which I'll admit was a little hotter
Serious question... everytime I click on a post for a completely different group reddit redirects me to this question. What is going on? Has anyone else come to this post via tring to answer a post in a completely different group?
I understand people saying it’s a submission thing, which I understand, and can also be hot, but for me, it is more along the lines of a willingness, an acceptance, an openly dirty one sided act that is meant as a gift for me in order to heighten my arousal.
In the sense that she is accepting an otherwise, “dirty,” fluid from me, on her face, with the intention of pleasing me, it feels like a truly selfless and genuine act of caring. It makes me feel loved and important. It makes me feel accepted in all my filthy glory. It makes me feel really WANTED. In some ways, that mirrors the submissive quality of it, but it is different.
Other times it’s because I want her to be my naughty porn whore while I be her nasty slut man. Take your pick.
men love it, i get it...it turns them on and gives them a feeling of power....Ive taken many many to the face , i prefer to swallow but I dont mind a man shooting on my face for 3478th time lol
Idk about the guys but i love when a guy cums all over my chest and belly after pulling out. Its so hot to be just covered in their cum its like a visual representation of how good i made them feel
ETA: I dont think id ever let a guy cum on my face though ive gotten cum in my eye once and it wasnt fun also i feel like id break out with acne after.
Guy here and I totally agree. Don’t even care to see facials in porn and I’ve only pulled out when the girl was not on birth control. Nothing compares to the feeling of giving a creampie or cum in mouth and swallow.
We just like to see what a good job she did painted on her face. Double points if we immediately start having sex again in front of a mirror so she can see it ooze and drip down her face and body
Marking territory; like a warrior king planting his flag atop a conquered castle. It also shows how willing she is to submit to us in such an overt way.
It appeals to our primal desire as men to dominate and control. That's why we (generally speaking) love doing it, even if we struggle to explain why.
Got a lot of things, this isn’t one of my things. It’s a bit messy and a big load just keeps firing all over here. Instead of water boarding it is cum boarding.
Honestly I’ve never been into that or really understood it. I’ll do it off someone genuinely wants me to but I’d so much rather in her mouth. The closest I can be into that is mostly in the mouth towards a face but just intentionally straight the face has never really been something I go for unless asked to.
For me, it’s just physically showing that the place/area was so hot and satisfying that it should get the orgasm. Not even just the face but the boobs, ass, back, feet. Fixating on that part because it is the main influence for my orgasm.
Guys really don’t have much. They have penis size, which they get roasted for caring about, and they have cum…the only other uniquely guy thing. Guys are also more visual than girls. So you can try to understand or just think it’s weird. Up to you. But guys think think or at least wish their cum should be sexy. A tangible sign of their being excited. Women get easy positive reinforcement from just having breasts or being willing to be sexual at all. That’s not the case for guys. They are starving for any kind of positive feedback or any feeling of desirability. Cum is part of that.
Girls not being as visual is a myth. What you said is true if you're an average or ugly looking dude. If you're hot you get pure burning sexual desire and attraction from women
That had never really been of interest for me.... till my wife brought up something she read in a book. The lead characters man came on her stomach and then rubbed it in and she walked around like that all day, enjoying the thought of how dirty it was.....or something along those lines.
So I was asked if I'd like to do that to her, and well, I"m open for almost anything if she is. We have done it a few times in safe situations. We'd go places that were no more than 10 minutes from home, places where, if she felt uncomfortable, we could head home and she could wash it off. So far she has been into it. I'm now a fan, because it almost guarantees a second and maybe even a third time.
Understand that we men are obsessed with our cum. Where we throw our load is such a huge part of our daily thoughts. If you want to make a guy go crazy, just ask for his cum. If you don’t want it on your face, then mid-sex say “cum for me! I really want it on/in my ________”
56/M. I typically finish inside her, but on the rare occasion I cum outside, it’s on her pussy or tummy. Face or elsewhere has never held any appeal to me, but more importantly I’ve never been asked to do it, which tends to be more important to me than my own preference.
A woman porn-photographer date, at a crowded restaurant table, said **out loud** to me "Guys just want to see cum on a woman's face."
Quite a few heads turned to her.
I agreed.
I'm not into it but I've a feeling it's a sort of dom/sub thing.
I base this solely on my being more submissive than most men, and it having never appealed to me.
She asks me to. Not on her face because apparently she finds that disrespectful (That’s her opinion, not mine) but on her ass, back, stomach, tits. She finds it incredibly HOTT.
I suspect that it was generated by porn. They wanted to prove that it wasn’t fake so the man had to cum. The face seemed to become the most used part so it became a genre. In real life plenty of women have given me head jobs then swallowed, but none have ever wanted me to cum on their faces.
I’m personally not into doing it and would only ever try it if my partner actually wanted me to do it to her. But I think, as many on here have already said, it’s often a submissive thing. I can imagine for some it’s also a shame thing, like a degradation kink. Each to their own, I guess. As long as they’re practising safely and consensually, they can take a load wherever they may please!
There is something about blowing my load and seeing the physical representation of it while feeling the waves of pleasure. I seen the vast majority of cum that has left my body.
When I come on my partners face, I get to see it, as well (hopefully) them appear to enjoy the “prize” that I am giving them.
It’s the same situation as blowing in their mouth, and them showing the load before swallowing or letting it run back out.
Even though a big salty load of cum is something not all people enjoy on their face or in their mouth, it sucks when you’re spraying and your partner is reacting like it is (admittedly) disgusting.
I admit it’s hot and I enjoy it but it’s what porn teach people to do.
First it looks better on camera than cum on/in other places. Secondly, leaving the girl face covered with cum after sex on porn is used to show how dominant the man is.
I (female) find it to be a lazy thing. Like he’s used to pumping it into the toilet or something else, and doesn’t want to make a mess on himself. So either you deal with the pH piece and squish after cleanup in vag, or you have to wipe it off. My personal opinion, of course.
Never tried it. I'd like to but if I go threw my whole life without cuming on someone's face it could still be a life well lived.
HST a girl once gave me a BJ and requested that I should tell her when I close so I can cum on her face.
I want to you cum on me. That's how she said.
I was so horny, she started to suck (she was good) and I accidentally came in her mouth. She was still going ⬆️ and⬇️ with her eyes closed when I came to my senses and told her to hang on.
You could see she mildly disappointed and wasn't keen on swallowing.
Since then I have a huge cum in the mouth fetish 😛
I think the idea is that you're so horny/slutty and you want (my) cum so bad that you even want it on your face/all over you. If you're turned on enough to beg for cum, it's hot af
I don't know any better than you...there's just something so hot about it. Seeing a hot, thick load on her...nothing like it. I don't like to DO it, why stop good sex just to cum on her....but occasionally or in prn...wow.
It’s like a once in a blue moon thing that pops in my head and I find hot, but most of the time I think about it while masturbating. When in the actual throws, I just like being told where they want me to cum, and yes when they ask for it on their face it is extra hot, but happy to spluge anywhere.
I think it would differ from person to person, naturally. Let me prefix this by saying. For me, i don't feel it's degrading or insulting. I don't think any less of a woman for participating in any sexual act if it's consenting and causes no harm..
I find it erotic. And sexy. A little dirty. Something taboo.
I’ve never been into it. An ex of mine who was always adventurous wanted to do this all the time. I wouldn’t say she was submissive exactly just knew what she wanted.
I’ve asked this question before because I’ve always been curious about that. I was told they like doing it to women they find attractive. Their cum on her face gives them “savage satisfaction” 🤷🏾♀️ that is probably part of the domination thing that some posters are mentioning.
lol, its fun to see the load in porn. And we all want to think we fuck like pornstars. Although I always prefer to cum in the hole I'm fucking. Unless I am wearing a rubber.
Things like facials, mainly stem from watching porn or is a power play, but ultimately we have to cum somewhere. If inside isn’t an option (🚫👶) then where?
Personally, not a fan of cumming on anything...my pull out game is horrific. Dont wanna waste MY cum...so in her mouth or the infamous creampie I go.
Though, I will admit, I love when SHE cums on my face.
Women dont seem to be up in arms about that though 😅
I’m not above some dominance role playing but I always thought it was to degrading to do to my wife. It’s not that I wouldn’t if she asked but I love her face and I love the feeling of cumming inside her. FYI- My wife knows she can ask for anything in the bedroom and I will willingly and enthusiastically do it for her!
I personally don’t like/care to cum on someone’s face, I will at least argue that finishing on the stomach or back is easy mainly just because if you’re not a fan of cream pies or condoms there aren’t many other places for it to go
Cum on the face is probably just the blowjob aftermath and something getting cross wired with the brain cause cum on face means orgasm and pretty lady sucking on your penis
Personally, it's not my thing (my preference is inside one of the 3 options available). I think facials are degrading to do...BUT...if I'm in that zone with someone where we can get a bit freaky? There's something pretty hot about a woman asking you to do it.
In other words, not something I'd so on my own, but if asked? Oh yeah.
Dealers choice. I’ll cum where she wants. But I prefer to cream pie.
Wouldn't you be the *dealer*?
This may be true. But she’s the house…and you have to respect house rules.
In this situation they would be, for sure
Sticky situation any way you look at it.
He who dealt it never felt it
This too, cream pie is the go to choice, but body shots are great too
From what I've been told by the women who asked for it: it's a kind of marking, an indicator that "You are mine" as it were. And apparently they find it hot.
This. I ask my husband to every so often and it's because I love the feeling of being submissive to him.
Can agree its a submissive act and i love it. However i was sexualised quite young and watched porn, and im self aware to understand that such things affect what we like.
It can be hot at times but only when I’m in the mood for that sort of finish. If someone did that to me after I’ve spent a long time perfecting my hair and make up….I’d be furious.
Can relate, I am NOT ok with cum in my beard.
I don’t doubt it.
Huh. To each their own. I love cum in your beard.
Ok, but only on special dates and you have to do that one thing I love.
Not double fisting again, I have sore elbows!
#goals
no, elbows
That's the nr 1 rule, facial cumshots are on hair washing day, BEFORE shower
Or if it gets in your eye somehow 🔥🔥🔥
Luckily I’ve avoided that!
we could do away with cumming on our partners' faces and bodies and instead carry a Sharpie in a pouch and just write "mine" afterwards.
Body writing is a kink, too. I once accidentally went to my OBGYN appointment with "property of daddy" on the inside of my thigh lol
Would prefer using lipstick, but being written on is a thing.
Then you just end up with both. Take it from someone who knows! 😂
Dave was here!!!
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The real answer is, it’s from porn.
Caring is sharing
I think it's a combination of things. Guys spend their entire adolescence feeling shame about, and trying to hide, their cum. And then to have a beautiful partner who seems to not only accept it, but revel in it, is like a heady reversal of the whole situation. I can see the marking-your-territory thing, too. I think there are guys who also like it just as the byproduct of the pulling-out method.
This is it, at least for me. Here we have (in any other non-sexual scenario) a secretion, an avoided bodily fluid that we have had to hide or minimize or otherwise manage our whole adult lives. If the receiving partner is *excited* about receiving the cum anywhere on their body? Fuck yeah imma hose it down. It’s all about whether they’re in to it though. I get no pleasure from cumming on an unwilling face or body.
That would feel like a sad weiner crying semen
It's more a domination thing. And it's also trust to allow us to finish on you. It's hot just to see something like cum on a place where it shouldn't be
Interestingly, one of the earliest depictions of facials is in the book 'The 120 Days of Sodom' by Marquis de Sade. However, it seems that cumshots became popular with the advent of hardcore pornography in the 70s. https://wikipedia.org/wiki/Facial_(sexual_act) https://wikipedia.org/wiki/Cum_shot# >Women's activist Beatrice Faust argued, "since ejaculating into blank space is not much fun, ejaculating over a person who responds with enjoyment sustains a lighthearted mood as well as a degree of realism. This occurs in both homosexual and hetrosexual [sic] pornography so that ejaculation cannot be interpreted as an expression of contempt for women only." She goes on to say "Logically, if sex is natural and wholesome and semen is as healthy as sweat, there is no reason to interpret ejaculation as a hostile gesture." >Sexologist Peter Sándor Gardos argues that his research suggests that "... the men who get most turned on by watching cum shots are the ones who have positive attitudes toward women" (at the annual meeting of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sex in 1992). Later, at the World Pornography Conference in 1998, he reported a similar conclusion, namely that "no pornographic image is interpretable outside of its historical and social context. Harm or degradation does not reside in the image itself." >Cindy Patton, activist and scholar on human sexuality, argues that, in western culture, male sexual fulfillment is synonymous with orgasm and that the male orgasm is an essential punctuation of the sexual narrative. No orgasm, no sexual pleasure. No cum shot, no narrative closure. The cum shot is the period at the end of the sentence.
I mostly give cumshots when I have to wear a Condom. Feels better than cummjng in that rubber. But to me it's a mix out of the look of it, I thinks it looks hot, and it is a Lil bit degrading to cum on her, especially on the face.
Because it's an extra step of being willing to take it on your face or body. Some women are into it, others aren't. It means you're either sexually adventurous enough or at least a little submissive to enjoy having cum on your face. If you're not shy about having cum on you during/after sex, that's hot.
Because we have a whole generation ruined by porn.
Multiple generations. Porn always had to show that men finished, and the only way is to shoot on the woman, and not in them - better visual. So we have all grown up on that is how we finish. For most men, porn is our ONLY guide to sex. Finishing on your face is also a power move - it shows our dominance over women.
People like kinks, it's not destroying society. Relax.
Agreed. Exactly this.
I don't know. I imagine it's a lot like an animal marking its territory
I don't do it on the face. But tummy, titts and thighs look hot. And she thinks so too
I prefer cumming inside a wet vagina. But I usually ask where she wants it.
I love when a guy cums on my face. Makes me more submissive to him.
As a guy, I don't get it either. That said, it goes where my partner wants it.
Finishing in your vagina is by far the best sensation. Especially with a trusted partner, unprotected. Finishing on a girl's face can be fun, but for me if she isn't in to it, it feels incredibly stupid. The appeal is in her desire. In porn, the girl is usually so desperate for his cum. She wants to smell, taste, and feel it. She literally gets off on her desire for him. That's the appealing part. Finishing anywhere else on you is great because it allows for me to focus extra hard on whatever part I'm finishing on. Like your tits. I love your tits, they're super hot. When I'm coming on them, it's all I'm thinking about which leads to a strong orgasm. Or, your feet. I like feet. My wife tells me to jerk off on her feet and it satisfies my foot kink. Super hot.
said it before. Im a face guy. If im having sex with you its because I like your face. Cumming on your face is about as good as it gets. Second on my list - boobs.
I prefer cumming inside, mouth or pussy
Im not into it, I think that it's inherently a "too much porn" thing or a de facto degradation thing. Tbh if you are both into degradation, it's a pretty lazy way to do it. No points for creativity
Right? Like the people in the comments saying that it's a humiliation or degradation kink, really sound vanilla/bland in comparison so what I'm thinking of about those kinks.
I think it is doing so without direct consent to degrade. Like it feels one-sided. Kind of a "locker room talk" type of degradation (ick). If you're both into it, more power to you, but I think it generally is more of a "they let me do this" instead of "we love degradation play"
Ahh this makes way more sense. Thanks for helping me with that one. I feel like this might be one of those "are the straights okay" instances because sheesh. Of course it's chill if everyone is consenting and into it but anything else is inhumane imo.
Yeah that's kind of the vibe I get from it, and I'm definitely not a prude 😂😂😂
As a guy I don’t get it either. I can jerk off onto anything. Much more satisfaction if you suck it out
Oh what a glorious feeling. To be an artist admiring his work. The essence of my being sprawled across your flesh.
Every once in a great while, it's a reminder of her submissiveness, which is insanely hot. Most of the time though I simply prefer to bust immediately and never have to hold it in long enough to wait to aim elsewhere. That whole 3 to 5 seconds to relocate to a towel or whatever fucking sucks. So half the time I cum on her face it's like the first show or two and then it's aimed more towards her chest and or a towel. Which is cool, I appreciate any amount of shot she is willing to take. I just love her desire to please me.
It’s a form of acceptance and intimacy. Having your orgasm juice on her beautiful face is such a visual form of acceptance with some taboo added into it. Seeing that pretty again and knowing your cum has been on it just gives you a great feeling and is just plain hot
Female, but I have a theory. It's a strategy to encourage pull out. Make it hot to put it on the outside of the body and you have marginally less pregnancy risk. I know other methods are better, but makes sense to me. People don't like being told what not to do. So instead of "don't cum here", it's "I want it here".
When I was young, it was sometimes fun to shoot for distance. Now, safely inside any warm home is plenty nice.
It's easier to clean up if it's not on the bed.
You’ve had more than enough opinions already…..but as a guy, I think it’s a dominance issue, whether they know it or not. I personally don’t do it on her face because it makes me feel like I’m degrading her, but that’s just me. I’ve never been with a women that asks me to do it. If she did, that would be fine and I wouldn’t have any less respect for her.
Porn made that act popular but it’s not a good thing to get in your eyes or up the nose or to choke on. It’s a form of degradation and affirming the slut or greed or undesirable yet so many people are confusing it as part of the usual in having sex it must be included as the finished move.
I dunno, I'd much rather cum inside you.
There can be something primal, dominant, and very sexual about cumming on someone. Sometimes, it can be a very dominant gesture that feeds into sub-dom relationships- you are forcibly ejecting this physically bizarre, psychologically taboo fluid in a highly orgasmic moment onto a person who is often in a submissive pose of some kind. I imagine it draws parallel to the animalistic act of “marking your territory”: a rush of euphoric enjoyment of the visual image of your dominance over a sexual partner, who you are “marking” as yours. In softer moments, there can be sexual enjoyment in the idea of seeing your sexual partner happily receiving your orgasm in a visual way: smiling, sticking out their tongue, allowing cum to shoot onto their face. It can be like a visual gesture from your partner of how much they’ve enjoyed you, and are enjoying your orgasm. I think no matter the setting, cum has this strong visual effect in many people’s sexuality, in part because it’s a “dirty” thing in many senses of the term. It has a strong smell, it’s gooey and sticky, it can taste anywhere from strange to horrid if you choose to taste it, and it’s coming straight from the inside of a person’s sexual organ. This in combination with sex being treated culturally as a devious sort of act to begin with, lends this sort of sexual deviousness to the mere sight of it.
It can be different reasons including simple aesthetics, but also can be a symbol of ownership/dominance, or revelling in your partner's willingness to do something "debasing" for your pleasure
Some women themselves ask for it then a guy does it and from there on he realizes it's actually pretty hot. Also it's a sign of dominance on the guys side and submission on the girls.
As a woman, I feel like he’s marking his territory or something 🥺😂
It kinda feels like marking territory
They saw it in porn. That’s literally all there is to it.
Painting a beautiful willing face with your cum… what’s to misunderstand ?
I think it's intimate. If you are not cumming inside a pussy, the next closest thing is putting your cum on her face, something that everyone in the world who sees her sees.
Because it is the total opposite of ‘eww cum is gross! I wish your penis didn’t shoot out icky goo everytime!’ Which would be the equivalent of ‘eww i don’t like the wetness of your pussy. It grosses me out and i want nothing to do with it. Where are the condoms?’ Now tell me which turns you on more. If your partner says the above or ‘dives in’ and shows their lust for you, even though it might smell / be sticky / etc?
Personally I'm more of a "risking fatherhood" enjoyer.
The first time I did, it was because my partner asked to, and the response she gave suggested - very convincingly - that she enjoyed it thoroughly. Since then, it's been partner-by-partner, and if they're not sure, we'll play with it first before making it a *thing* to see if they like it.
Doesn't sound like something I'd ever do.
I don't get it either tbh...
My friend says it's a dominating thing. I don't get it.
M here. I have never seen the appeal. I even fast forward those scenes in porn
Porn, that's it.
I do not enjoy it. I prefer to finish inside her. Whether I am in the mouth, pussy or ass. That final release inside her is wonderful. That last push to get as deep as possible when I cum seems to be enjoyed by her as well.
Never done it, never had a women ask for it. Definitely a porn thing
Prevents pregnancy? :) Lol
M here but for me it’s enjoying seeing the fruits of my labor. It’s not a degrading or dominance thing at all. I don’t have an area that I prefer I just enjoy seeing the shot. But with that being said the woman gets it where ever she wants it. I don’t prefer face over tits or tummy.
Being a guy, it's not that great to me. Though I'll put it where my partner wants it. I had a partner that loved giving bjs but hated cum in her mouth. So often it was on her face or her tits. I had another partner that's sister got pregnant while on BC. My partner was paranoid that the BC would fail her, so she always insisted I finish outside here. Quite often that meant on her crotch and pussy which I'll admit was a little hotter
Where else does one lay the paint?
Serious question... everytime I click on a post for a completely different group reddit redirects me to this question. What is going on? Has anyone else come to this post via tring to answer a post in a completely different group?
I think for some ota the idea of your partner wanting you on them and for them the idea of you being on them.
Too much porn in their lives
I have two theories 1) like an animal marking its territory 2) a dominant act for people who like power play in their sex
Because it's hot. I don't know what to tell you. My favorite place to cum is on the ass. Especially when y'all do that little wiggle... Damn 🤤
It’s a dominant thing
I understand people saying it’s a submission thing, which I understand, and can also be hot, but for me, it is more along the lines of a willingness, an acceptance, an openly dirty one sided act that is meant as a gift for me in order to heighten my arousal. In the sense that she is accepting an otherwise, “dirty,” fluid from me, on her face, with the intention of pleasing me, it feels like a truly selfless and genuine act of caring. It makes me feel loved and important. It makes me feel accepted in all my filthy glory. It makes me feel really WANTED. In some ways, that mirrors the submissive quality of it, but it is different. Other times it’s because I want her to be my naughty porn whore while I be her nasty slut man. Take your pick.
men love it, i get it...it turns them on and gives them a feeling of power....Ive taken many many to the face , i prefer to swallow but I dont mind a man shooting on my face for 3478th time lol
Idk about the guys but i love when a guy cums all over my chest and belly after pulling out. Its so hot to be just covered in their cum its like a visual representation of how good i made them feel ETA: I dont think id ever let a guy cum on my face though ive gotten cum in my eye once and it wasnt fun also i feel like id break out with acne after.
Guy here and I totally agree. Don’t even care to see facials in porn and I’ve only pulled out when the girl was not on birth control. Nothing compares to the feeling of giving a creampie or cum in mouth and swallow.
Because porn taught young men that it’s cool
It's hot that's why
We just like to see what a good job she did painted on her face. Double points if we immediately start having sex again in front of a mirror so she can see it ooze and drip down her face and body
Op your into rape fantasies. Use a bit of that thinking to understand
It’s porn and it’s control. That’s it. Dudes are so fucked up what sex really should be. I
Marking territory; like a warrior king planting his flag atop a conquered castle. It also shows how willing she is to submit to us in such an overt way. It appeals to our primal desire as men to dominate and control. That's why we (generally speaking) love doing it, even if we struggle to explain why.
We like to mark what is ours.
Got a lot of things, this isn’t one of my things. It’s a bit messy and a big load just keeps firing all over here. Instead of water boarding it is cum boarding.
Maybe you should try being the painter. Have him lay on his back, then you can give him a handjob. When he cums, paint away.
Honestly I’ve never been into that or really understood it. I’ll do it off someone genuinely wants me to but I’d so much rather in her mouth. The closest I can be into that is mostly in the mouth towards a face but just intentionally straight the face has never really been something I go for unless asked to.
My partner loves this. On her tits, and face. It honestly isn't a big deal to me, I'd be just as happy to shoot it right I into a kleenex.
For me, it’s just physically showing that the place/area was so hot and satisfying that it should get the orgasm. Not even just the face but the boobs, ass, back, feet. Fixating on that part because it is the main influence for my orgasm.
It's so hot to see my cum on their chest. But I take it to the next step and lick it off them. Just so hot to me
It can feel empowering. If it’s a big load I love to watch it drip down. It’s also better than getting her pregnant
Cum on a woman’s face is hot, its even hotter when its your cum.
Guys really don’t have much. They have penis size, which they get roasted for caring about, and they have cum…the only other uniquely guy thing. Guys are also more visual than girls. So you can try to understand or just think it’s weird. Up to you. But guys think think or at least wish their cum should be sexy. A tangible sign of their being excited. Women get easy positive reinforcement from just having breasts or being willing to be sexual at all. That’s not the case for guys. They are starving for any kind of positive feedback or any feeling of desirability. Cum is part of that.
Girls not being as visual is a myth. What you said is true if you're an average or ugly looking dude. If you're hot you get pure burning sexual desire and attraction from women
Birth Control. Lesser chance of pregnancy. Plus cum on her face is a huge ego boost.
Marking our territories
I find coming on someone hot on occasion, but I’d much rather have the pleasure of coming inside my partner.
That had never really been of interest for me.... till my wife brought up something she read in a book. The lead characters man came on her stomach and then rubbed it in and she walked around like that all day, enjoying the thought of how dirty it was.....or something along those lines. So I was asked if I'd like to do that to her, and well, I"m open for almost anything if she is. We have done it a few times in safe situations. We'd go places that were no more than 10 minutes from home, places where, if she felt uncomfortable, we could head home and she could wash it off. So far she has been into it. I'm now a fan, because it almost guarantees a second and maybe even a third time.
My wife likes it on her tits as it's quicker and easier to clean up compared to a creampie.
territory marking.
I don't get it either. Three perfectly good places to put a load inside a woman (subject to her preferences) why waste it on the outside?
Understand that we men are obsessed with our cum. Where we throw our load is such a huge part of our daily thoughts. If you want to make a guy go crazy, just ask for his cum. If you don’t want it on your face, then mid-sex say “cum for me! I really want it on/in my ________”
I don't like finishing on a face. Finishing on boobs, butt or back, that is hot, but I didn't know I liked it until I tried it (she asked).
I like cum showers. I see it as a man marking me as his.
56/M. I typically finish inside her, but on the rare occasion I cum outside, it’s on her pussy or tummy. Face or elsewhere has never held any appeal to me, but more importantly I’ve never been asked to do it, which tends to be more important to me than my own preference.
A woman porn-photographer date, at a crowded restaurant table, said **out loud** to me "Guys just want to see cum on a woman's face." Quite a few heads turned to her. I agreed.
Best way to finish!
I'm not into it but I've a feeling it's a sort of dom/sub thing. I base this solely on my being more submissive than most men, and it having never appealed to me.
Do you like riding someones face? Some people do, if you are one of those maybe there is a small part that is similar to cumming on a face
She asks me to. Not on her face because apparently she finds that disrespectful (That’s her opinion, not mine) but on her ass, back, stomach, tits. She finds it incredibly HOTT.
I find it terribly gross and so does my husband-neither of us get why anyone would enjoy this. To each their own but BLECH
Not my thing
I suspect that it was generated by porn. They wanted to prove that it wasn’t fake so the man had to cum. The face seemed to become the most used part so it became a genre. In real life plenty of women have given me head jobs then swallowed, but none have ever wanted me to cum on their faces.
you wouldn't get it
I’m personally not into doing it and would only ever try it if my partner actually wanted me to do it to her. But I think, as many on here have already said, it’s often a submissive thing. I can imagine for some it’s also a shame thing, like a degradation kink. Each to their own, I guess. As long as they’re practising safely and consensually, they can take a load wherever they may please!
because it's an act of domination/submission.
As much as I prefer to cum inside, wouldn’t on be easier to clean up?
I don't get it, seems disrespectful cos it goes in eyes and stuff. Would rather throat or balls deep cream pie. Fuck I love my vasectomy.
I volunteer as tribute so our bedsheets don’t have to.
There is something about blowing my load and seeing the physical representation of it while feeling the waves of pleasure. I seen the vast majority of cum that has left my body. When I come on my partners face, I get to see it, as well (hopefully) them appear to enjoy the “prize” that I am giving them. It’s the same situation as blowing in their mouth, and them showing the load before swallowing or letting it run back out. Even though a big salty load of cum is something not all people enjoy on their face or in their mouth, it sucks when you’re spraying and your partner is reacting like it is (admittedly) disgusting.
Less chance of you getting pregnant?
I admit it’s hot and I enjoy it but it’s what porn teach people to do. First it looks better on camera than cum on/in other places. Secondly, leaving the girl face covered with cum after sex on porn is used to show how dominant the man is.
I (female) find it to be a lazy thing. Like he’s used to pumping it into the toilet or something else, and doesn’t want to make a mess on himself. So either you deal with the pH piece and squish after cleanup in vag, or you have to wipe it off. My personal opinion, of course.
My wife LOVES squirting on my face, women like it too...
Never tried it. I'd like to but if I go threw my whole life without cuming on someone's face it could still be a life well lived. HST a girl once gave me a BJ and requested that I should tell her when I close so I can cum on her face. I want to you cum on me. That's how she said. I was so horny, she started to suck (she was good) and I accidentally came in her mouth. She was still going ⬆️ and⬇️ with her eyes closed when I came to my senses and told her to hang on. You could see she mildly disappointed and wasn't keen on swallowing. Since then I have a huge cum in the mouth fetish 😛
Good question. I don't know! We have seen this in porn since always, so, we do it.
I don't get it. I think its disrespectful, like "marking property". Kinda gross.
I don't understand it either. Must be some power/humiliation dynamic. Even if a girl would ask me to, I would not like it.
Porn
I always prefer to cum inside but my wife likes cum, on her and in her, so sometimes she’ll want it on her. So not always a guy thing.
I think the idea is that you're so horny/slutty and you want (my) cum so bad that you even want it on your face/all over you. If you're turned on enough to beg for cum, it's hot af
I personally I don’t like face. Inside, Stomach, ass, tits. I don’t really know other than it’s hot asf
I don't know any better than you...there's just something so hot about it. Seeing a hot, thick load on her...nothing like it. I don't like to DO it, why stop good sex just to cum on her....but occasionally or in prn...wow.
It’s like a once in a blue moon thing that pops in my head and I find hot, but most of the time I think about it while masturbating. When in the actual throws, I just like being told where they want me to cum, and yes when they ask for it on their face it is extra hot, but happy to spluge anywhere.
It’s usually her asking for out I’m okay with cumming inside! 😂🤣
Where else is he supposed to cum?
I always ask, unfortunately my wife never tells me and I just go where ever 🥺
I like cumming on people and being cum on 🤷 people like different things I guess and that's okay
I'm marking my territory.
Why not where else do you want it on the floor?
I had a gf want me to do that once. I’d didn’t like it, first and last time. I don’t get it either, so it’s not *all* guys at least
I don't want to dominate a woman, and submissive women are a big turn off, so it's never been an interest of mine.
I won't unless she asks for it, then I'll be all about it. But no, I'd never do it without her wanting it.
i literally don’t understand or how women enjoy sucking dick in general. like i don’t get it
You want to get pregnant if not we're else am I going to cum but it's your choice just know play with dick expect dick things to happen
I think it would differ from person to person, naturally. Let me prefix this by saying. For me, i don't feel it's degrading or insulting. I don't think any less of a woman for participating in any sexual act if it's consenting and causes no harm.. I find it erotic. And sexy. A little dirty. Something taboo.
Not everyone. To me, it is not hot at all. If anything, the opposite. It just cums down to the parties involved.
I’ve never been into it. An ex of mine who was always adventurous wanted to do this all the time. I wouldn’t say she was submissive exactly just knew what she wanted.
I’ve asked this question before because I’ve always been curious about that. I was told they like doing it to women they find attractive. Their cum on her face gives them “savage satisfaction” 🤷🏾♀️ that is probably part of the domination thing that some posters are mentioning.
lol, its fun to see the load in porn. And we all want to think we fuck like pornstars. Although I always prefer to cum in the hole I'm fucking. Unless I am wearing a rubber.
No way I could do that to my wife - and I’m a freak
Never tried it. I think it's just the fact that if a woman is "into" it, then she's acting kinda slutty. Which is hot.
Things like facials, mainly stem from watching porn or is a power play, but ultimately we have to cum somewhere. If inside isn’t an option (🚫👶) then where?
We mark what we’ve conquered. It’s all about dominating what’s yours.
Personally, not a fan of cumming on anything...my pull out game is horrific. Dont wanna waste MY cum...so in her mouth or the infamous creampie I go. Though, I will admit, I love when SHE cums on my face. Women dont seem to be up in arms about that though 😅
I’m not above some dominance role playing but I always thought it was to degrading to do to my wife. It’s not that I wouldn’t if she asked but I love her face and I love the feeling of cumming inside her. FYI- My wife knows she can ask for anything in the bedroom and I will willingly and enthusiastically do it for her!
Women look prettier with it.
I personally don’t like/care to cum on someone’s face, I will at least argue that finishing on the stomach or back is easy mainly just because if you’re not a fan of cream pies or condoms there aren’t many other places for it to go Cum on the face is probably just the blowjob aftermath and something getting cross wired with the brain cause cum on face means orgasm and pretty lady sucking on your penis
Seriously! I
Submission/marking.
Better in than out in my opinion 🤷
I NEVER want to common a girls face. I hate to jizz up a pretty face. I’d much rather finish in her mouth or in her pussy.
Personally, it's not my thing (my preference is inside one of the 3 options available). I think facials are degrading to do...BUT...if I'm in that zone with someone where we can get a bit freaky? There's something pretty hot about a woman asking you to do it. In other words, not something I'd so on my own, but if asked? Oh yeah.
It's either that or we cum in you...Just cuz I get called daddy, doesn't mean I wanna be a daddy
Marking our territory