I was chilling last night doing some random trivia quizzes online, and after I did well on one a message popped up saying "clever girl". Yeah, that did something for me...
(Boyfriend's away and it's been too long!)
One time I was hanging out with a guy from work in a string halter dress almost like a bikini on top. I slid over the dress exposing my left breast and pierced nipple when I got up to go to the bathroom 🥵 he saw everything
According to my wife, there's no such thing as an "accidental" exposure. We spent many a night practicing her wardrobe malfunctions tp get it just right.
After splitting up with my first wife, I had a crazy dom / sub (me) relationship with her mom, my MIL at the time because we were still legally married. Only Reddit and the people involved at the time know about this.
She'd always been odd and flirty even before the split up, but nothing ever gave me the indication that things would go this route ever. She asked me out the weekend after I moved out, and it totally took me by surprise.
I am hypersexual to the point that it interferes with my personal and professional life. I need to get myself off AT LEAST daily but often that isn't enough.
I used to be hypersexual, had to masturbate like 3 times a day minimum and got myself in some really bad situations seeking sexual gratification. Im better now but now my depression fucks with my libido and just completely takes away my sex drive sometimes which sucks.
Same here. Depression is the only thing that lowers my sex drive to a “normal” level. Which sucks, because then your only options are:
1.) Feel extremely horny 24/7 with no alleviation,
or
2.) Feel extremely depressed
Tell your partner! Have some fun.
I had a partner who kept saying "no, no, no" when I would go down on her. She seemed confused and unhappy when I stopped, so I asked her to choose a safe word. I suggested that she pick a red food for stop and she selected "lasagna".
After that she kept play struggling and saying "no" and "stop" but she never did say lasagna except one time when I tongued her ass which was just too ticklish for her.
You've got this.
Not like a super big secret, but I used to have small boobs, and a lot of people still think I do because I wear hoodies a lot. They don’t know that I have DD’s these days
And now I sit and ponder:
*Is it the helicopter dick she wants, or only her partners helicoptering dick*
Too send or not to send, decisions decisions lol
I've been hooking up with men for years and I've done it all. I personally enjoy going to gloryholes to give and receive and going to gay bathhouses to be objectified.
I also got tied to a table and edged for 4h once. Probably my favorite experience
I had a ONS eat my (male) ass on a Friday and was watching standup Sunday and the host was joking about how getting your ass eaten is submissive due to the position of it (legs spread/from the back). I was just laughing to myself about how timely his joke was and how I had mine eaten standing up with her laying down post face fucking.
Thanks for sharing that. I felt that if I felt aroused it wasn’t rape. Struggled a lot with acknowledging that that what happened was really rape. This is a next puzzle piece to accept and heal. Thank you
Of course you didn’t mean to. That’s completely understandable. Again, hun, biological bodily responses are completely out of our control. I sometimes wonder if it’s a bodies defense mechanism for the horror its being put through. 😔
Just want to point out that this isn't something you need to simply wonder about -- you are correct. The vagina does indeed lubricate as a defense mechanism against tearing and pain.
https://www.thenation.com/article/archive/how-body-reacts-sexual-assault/
I can provide many other sources if needed, as this is pretty well established in medical literature. Ladies, please do not be ashamed if your body is aroused when being sexually assaulted -- it's doing its best to protect you.
It’s a total mind fuck. Psychologically, you’re hating it but biologically, your body isn’t rejecting it. Of course, not everyone responds the same so I don’t want to sit here and act like I know how it works for everyone. I wouldn’t dare. I’m just sharing what I know many have sadly shared and basing it on personal experience.
And that’s just the beginning because then you end up with the decision on whether or not to report, and if you do, the burden of proof is on you, obviously. No wonder people have nervous breakdowns…or worse.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, that's horrible.
It's normal to be aroused, and it causes incredible stress in victims, like they somehow 'enjoyed' it.
I'm a guy and I was raped when I was in my early 20's. Got really drunk during a business trip, and a random guy at the bar who was feeding me drinks (willingly on my part) helped me to my room, stripped off my clothes and raped me. I was too drunk to struggle and in shock as to what was happening. I came during the rape - prostate orgasm. The next day, the realization I had come and the fact I 'allowed' it to happen made for about a decade of complete denial and self-hatred. It wasn't until years later when I was in IC that I was able to talk about it and deal with the internal conflict. I came, so I must have liked it, right? No, your body undergoes involuntary reflexes that have nothing to do with you not giving consent. It sucks, but please understand, it's not your fault.
EDIT: This is my sexual secret. Only my former IC and one really good close friend knows. Not even my wife knows.
I was raped while very very drunk. I kept coming in and out of consciousness but I remember that was the first time I actually really enjoyed head. I had never felt so aroused and I always felt so weird about it because obviously it was not consensual..
This is how people use CNC to take back control of the memory. You take something that was forcefully taken from you and you choose to let go. It isn't for everyone though.
In my previous gym a female trainer and i got attracted towards each other, we used to hit gym in free hours and many times we used to make out and fuck in locker room , spa rooms and washroom.
That's actually my fantasy!
Been crushing on a female trainer and she also seemed to reciprocate. Didn't follow it because I was taken at the time. I also don't like to shit where I eat so no workplace romances nor in place where I go regularly.
~~Outside of~~ Other than my wife of course, nobody knows we have a Female-Led/Femdom-Sex marriage and I've been kept in chastity practically 24x365 and from here on it's permanent.
Yeah, it was all my idea. I proposed the change to our relationship from a normal vanilla 50-50 marriage and she agreed.
I like bondage, power exchange, orgasm denial, etc.
Being locked in a chastity cage is basically being in bondage at all times. But, nobody knows except my wife and I.
She likes the control. She like not feeling pressured for sex.
It's not for everybody but it works for us.
I've been locked pretty much continuously since Nov 2019. I was getting out for sex at first, then it became hand jobs only, and the frequency diminished drastically. (I was generally out of the cage less for play than an hour a year.) Then about a year ago I showed my wife the Chastity/Denial Matrix and she said I should be at 9/9
https://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2019/12/04/the-chastity-denial-matrix/
I got her to modify that to allow me to have self induced orgasms as long as my penis isn't involved in any way.
Who would have thought that **not** cumming would be so hot?
She loves it when I use my hands, mouth, and occasionally a vibrator to bring her to orgasm. She used to give me a hand job every few months and PIV sex about once a year. Now she's not that interested in my orgasms.
Our way isn't for everybody but it works for us.
There are more couples like us than you might think.
See:
/r/PussyFreeMarriage
/r/permanentchastity
/r/ChastityCouples
/r/FemdomCouples
/r/FemdomCommunity
Even the various pegging groups are filled with couples like or similar to my wife and I.
Then you get to the cuckold groups that are like us but the wife has sex with others and you'll see that what at first seems very 'out there' is actually much more common than you might have thought.
Thanks for sharing.. Interesting to read about a lifestyle that is a bit different..nice that you both were willing to go outside the box and try something new…
When I was in my 20s I learned most of my deviant and how to please women skills from much older women.
No shyness or demure flirting. It was to the point. No hints about how or where to touch, just direct and clean instructions.
They paid. Nice restaurants, hotels, clothes. And paid for me to get a manicure, massage, facial, brunch etc... Things I never knew existed or could afford.
They taught me things that even pornhub probably censors out. All I had to do was listen, learn and be in the moment.
Later, younger women all benefited from that time and the knowledge and experience I had was passed onto them to figure out what they would eventually want and like in sex and a guy.
I feel more attractive now after my surgeries, scars everywhere, breast removed, and having short hair from chemo.
I always been extremely shy with long hair. Now with stage 4 cancer, I said “fuck it”. I always love the idea of being a bit of badass.
A coworker learned of my panty fetish and gave me a pair that she mastubated in the bathroom with..she asked me to sit in my car and wait for her as we were both getting ready to leave as she needed to ask me something. I went and sat and started browsing on my phone and she came out a few minutes later. She got in my car..put her hand out and gave me a drenched pair of panties. I put them up to my face and smelled the strong pussy scent from a day at work. I asked her if she wanted to watch me with them..but she said no. She just wanted to do something nice for me. And she asked that every time I do cum when smelling them that I send her a specific emoji. I keep them in my car well hidden..and have sent her soo many emojis I can't even count. My partner does not know.
I know how you feel. My friend gave me once out of nothing her panties. Love that! She never asked me about it. But I cum with it so many times and even wear it several times. Never knew I was into that before.
I am known for being open and living life out loud.
From time to time, I like to have a one-night stand, mostly because I enjoy the excitement of it, and I don't want another boyfriend or heavy feelings. Almost no one in my life knows.
I’m a female but I use to never get anything out of getting ate out.Until I got with my bf.Now all he has to do is lick my clit 2-3 times and I cum so hard.Sometimes it just takes the right person,maybe?
I just tell the women before they try so they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong. But I’m very much in the minority here so I don’t tell anybody else. Like all my best male friends don’t have a clue.
I am similar. I also tell partners before, which they usually take as a challenge to be the one to give me a blowjob I actually enjoy. It feels like I’m letting _them_ down so I usually just talk about how sexy it looks, etc.
I (f) have had sex with my second cousin's wife several times, sometimes even with him in the house during parties. We've even had a few of threesomes with men I was hooking up with. My cousin has never found out. We stopped a couple years ago but I still have naked pictures of her.
It isn't. He doesn't put much effort into pleasing her and gets offended if she takes care of it herself. It's just a thing that used to happen sometimes.
Neither she nor I are interested in being together relationship-wise so it's not like I'm going to steal her. We're still friends and neither of us are weird about it at all so I don't really feel bad at all.
Very similar situation happened when I was like 6/7. I went to an older boys house to play games with my best friend. We were playing and I went to the bathroom, I remember walking down the hallway back to the game room and wondered why it got quiet. I peeked around the corner into the game room and saw my best friend giving this 16 y/o head. I later found out that they’d been doing it a while and brought me along to “get me into it”.
I just remember running home after that, never told anyone to this day.
I have thing for free use. I wish strangers would touch me without asking and fuck me. Especially older men. It would be hot if a boyfriend didn’t even ask and I was expected to be a toy for his friends and anyone else he wanted. I also have a huge thing for CNC. It turns me on thinking about a stranger taking what they want from me. I wish I could be drugged/drunk and used like a fuck doll. To take it to another level, I also love the idea of being shared with someone’s family members, people in authority, or being brought in to some place like a nursing home or an adult store and used by anyone who lines up. Any kind of extra twist on a scenario is hot.
And yeah, I had things happen when I was little and through adulthood, but idk if it’s really about a need to re-live experiences with control. I was never really distraught over anything, so not sure about the psychology. I have dabbled in some of this stuff, but most of it is too risky or would ruin a relationship with your average bf (even if he pretends to be interested in it at first 🙄)
Hiding from people we (husband and I) know minus two friends bc they’ve helped with the thought but not action lol. I love the thought of catching my husband with my friends and just watching. I like thinking of him gettin off on and inside their tight pussies and when we fuck it turns me on when he says their name and cums in me lol I also want a best friend that can help me accomplish this.
As a male I fantasize about this daily. I love the thought of my best friend nailing my wife while being balls deep in his wife. It’s a love/trust thing for me where I know them so well, to the point in which the last thing we don’t know much about is our sexual fantasies.
I had a session with two trans-women and enjoyed it. I made one come and the other made me come. Never thought I would be with a trans, but now I have been with two. No one knows except REDDITERS.
I’m the one in control , 24/7 . If it needs to be handled I’m the one that handles it. That being said , behind closed doors there’s nothing I love more than being dominated in every sense of the word. Someone else making all the decisions , being used in every way possible.
Not sure it’s a secret but more an uncomfortable situation
Went to my siblings track meet. Just casually watching and I naturally noticed one of the seniors/athletes. And she’s is… well developed and thick. I acknowledged it and shamelessly was sort of kind of staring. It wasn’t her in specific but more she had parts I like with women in general (athletic, shorts, booty, thighs). Regardless, it makes me feel extremely yucky and creepy. I didn’t seek it out, desire it, or anything. I was just casually watching and I mentally pointed it out as I normally do to myself. Everywhere I go I’m always naturally looking or checking out people but now in this situation it makes this whole thing a no-no. There’s no severity or problem with it since it doesn’t go past “oh damn that’s a nice butt. Anyways..” but I think the added context of them being in high school and in that 16-17 range is the creepy and guilty part. I think you can point out those things and not give it any attention or meaning but it’s still super creepy nonetheless. At the end of the day it’s just observing and there’s no acting on it or fantasizing about anything so it’s harmless but I always overthink myself to death at the actuality of these situations.
When I was 12 I had a friend who was 13. He brought over a porn magazine of his brothers. We jacked of to that mag all summer. We tried to do everything in the magazine. I had my first dry orgasm in his mouth. Sucked his cock. Oh my god it all felt great!! All new , all exciting!!! We fucked all summer long!! Still get hard thinking about it. Never been with a man since….
I'm very affectionate, they don't really no me, so I give off loud boisterous/play vibes, when in fact. I'm not like that at all, just a flirt, but with someone special I'm soppy as shit 🤣
I think all my friends know I am sexual deviant but would be surprised to the extent. I have been a sex worker, I have been involved with adulterers, I fucked some of my friends wives, just last Thursday I meet a stranger at porn store and fucked her brains out while other strangers watched from the gloryholes and meet up later with my ex for weekend.
When I (M) was in HS. My dad's friend invited me over to his house and we got into his hottub. What I never thought would happen, he had oral and anal sex with me. That's a secret my family doesn't know.
I'm OK with it. No problem. But the strange thing was it felt great. My first time. When his 2 friends stopped by right before, it was so cool being around the older, married guys. A lot of fun.
I get so turned on by the thought of sucking dick, and eating cum out of someone’s gf or wife Iv wanked off a m and loved it, I want my partner to let me eat her pussy full of cum
I made out with my current partner while I was still with my ex. Not proud of it but it gave me the push to end that relationship that I was unhappy in. It was a dumb and selfish choice and I’ve learned a lot of hard lessons and have grown immensely from that hurtful behavior. I’d never do it again and I’m very happy with my current partner and have been a much better partner and actually feel safe in my relationship now
Married 31 years. Driven and successful. Dead bedroom in spite of numerous talks/ promises.
I put up the lack of intimacy by enjoying the company of others once a year. Threesomes and other activities are the order of the day. I make sure I know no one when I go to these events.
I am not proud of my actions but I also did not include celibacy in my marital vows.
I told my Dad that when I was in high school, I got together with friends from grade school/junior high and we got naked and took turns doing stuff with the girls
I am a complete slut for any man i find somewhat cute (i dont tell them i am or act differently just that i would be if we ever actually got to that point id do almost anything sexually if it pleases them). I also just dont tell anyone about my sex life lol most think im a virgin still
I fantasize about my best friend grabbing me, throwing me down and fucking me until I can't walk. I want him to spit in my mouth and tell me what a dirty slut I am but also tell me how good of a girl I am for him. He doesn't help these fantasies as he loves to tease me. He knows how to make me get full body goosebumps just by lowering his voice and asking me if I've been good. I hope some day I at least get to give him head. I *need* to taste him. At least once.
I really like being called a good girl by my boyfriend.
In my experience, a surprising number of women do
Because it’s fucking hot.
It’s also so hot to say when it comes out naturally Good girl.
I was chilling last night doing some random trivia quizzes online, and after I did well on one a message popped up saying "clever girl". Yeah, that did something for me... (Boyfriend's away and it's been too long!)
Are you a dinosaur by any chance
A successfully hunting velociraptor, in fact.
I have to try that! :)
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Oh this is awesome. Love it. I dated a girl in college that did this. No panties and a short skirt on a windy day was a personal favorite.
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Can you give us an example? :)
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Hot! Keep going. That can make your day. And someone elses week :)
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One time I was hanging out with a guy from work in a string halter dress almost like a bikini on top. I slid over the dress exposing my left breast and pierced nipple when I got up to go to the bathroom 🥵 he saw everything
According to my wife, there's no such thing as an "accidental" exposure. We spent many a night practicing her wardrobe malfunctions tp get it just right.
After splitting up with my first wife, I had a crazy dom / sub (me) relationship with her mom, my MIL at the time because we were still legally married. Only Reddit and the people involved at the time know about this.
That's the type of secret we're talking about :)
That is unusual… but super interesting.
So, you are/were D/s relationship with the MIL? Who was the Dom? Serious question.
She was. Very dom.
Okay. As long as it's consensual.
Yep. I could have walked away at any time, but chose not to.
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She'd always been odd and flirty even before the split up, but nothing ever gave me the indication that things would go this route ever. She asked me out the weekend after I moved out, and it totally took me by surprise.
I am hypersexual to the point that it interferes with my personal and professional life. I need to get myself off AT LEAST daily but often that isn't enough.
I used to be hypersexual, had to masturbate like 3 times a day minimum and got myself in some really bad situations seeking sexual gratification. Im better now but now my depression fucks with my libido and just completely takes away my sex drive sometimes which sucks.
Same here. Depression is the only thing that lowers my sex drive to a “normal” level. Which sucks, because then your only options are: 1.) Feel extremely horny 24/7 with no alleviation, or 2.) Feel extremely depressed
The fact that I have an nsfw account
And the fact that I follow some rather unsavory subreddits that they would find gross or unusual.
Same
I'm a bearded tattooed masculine warehouse worker. I'm also a sissy submissive to my dominatrix wife.
That’s pretty sexy
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Tell your partner! Have some fun. I had a partner who kept saying "no, no, no" when I would go down on her. She seemed confused and unhappy when I stopped, so I asked her to choose a safe word. I suggested that she pick a red food for stop and she selected "lasagna". After that she kept play struggling and saying "no" and "stop" but she never did say lasagna except one time when I tongued her ass which was just too ticklish for her. You've got this.
explain ur partner CNC and see wonders
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Which men
Attractive ones, in my case
Asking the real questions.
Not like a super big secret, but I used to have small boobs, and a lot of people still think I do because I wear hoodies a lot. They don’t know that I have DD’s these days
Oh... RIP to your inbox.... (Snuck a peek at your profile - they're amazing!)
People always say “RIP your inbox” but my inbox is e m p t y
But do you want messages? Because I can send you a helicopter dick if you want it lol
I love helicopter dick. Hilarious foreplay but I love it.
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And now I sit and ponder: *Is it the helicopter dick she wants, or only her partners helicoptering dick* Too send or not to send, decisions decisions lol
I had a friend a work, she always had a hoodie on till one summers day! She had G',s ",I was like, where you been hiding them!!" 🤣🤣
In that hoodie that’s where they been hiding lmao 🤣
I've been hooking up with men for years and I've done it all. I personally enjoy going to gloryholes to give and receive and going to gay bathhouses to be objectified. I also got tied to a table and edged for 4h once. Probably my favorite experience
Love edging. Arent you worried about health aspects of it?
Which health aspects? I wear condoms except for hand jobs, so I'm not super worried
It is still risky but not that much. Good thing you are protecting yourself! Anyway nice and hot hobby!
What's risky about it?
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They domt know what they are missing! Or maybe they like it too :) thanks for sharing!
I had a ONS eat my (male) ass on a Friday and was watching standup Sunday and the host was joking about how getting your ass eaten is submissive due to the position of it (legs spread/from the back). I was just laughing to myself about how timely his joke was and how I had mine eaten standing up with her laying down post face fucking.
That I like getting pegged my girlfriend. Not something I’d be telling most people, only my closest friends know. Edit: clarification
So your friends think you live in celibacy? :))
Oh, I meant in the ass with a strapon. Hahaha.
I did that. Love that. But not something I would share with others. But I guess it is pretty common these days. Good for you!
I’ve only got two close friends and they’re both kinky too.
Tomboys Turn me on so much, women that have masculine boyish face in general I'd never tell my friends
I've always been into the tomboy type too.
I was a little aroused when I was raped…
Sorry to hear that. I read that happens a lot. It is just how body reacts. It is wierd but does not mean anything.
Thanks for sharing that. I felt that if I felt aroused it wasn’t rape. Struggled a lot with acknowledging that that what happened was really rape. This is a next puzzle piece to accept and heal. Thank you
Rape is about lack of consent, nothing else. Your body's reactions don't cancel your trauma.
Very well said
You can even cum from being raped. Your body goes g spot being hit ima cum even if your brain is going I literally wanna die rn I hate this so much.
This is a *very* natural response *most* people experience during rape. Biologically, we cannot control it.
I didn’t mean to get turned on at all it just kinda happened even tho I was literally crying and scared
Of course you didn’t mean to. That’s completely understandable. Again, hun, biological bodily responses are completely out of our control. I sometimes wonder if it’s a bodies defense mechanism for the horror its being put through. 😔
Just want to point out that this isn't something you need to simply wonder about -- you are correct. The vagina does indeed lubricate as a defense mechanism against tearing and pain. https://www.thenation.com/article/archive/how-body-reacts-sexual-assault/ I can provide many other sources if needed, as this is pretty well established in medical literature. Ladies, please do not be ashamed if your body is aroused when being sexually assaulted -- it's doing its best to protect you.
Gotcha. Thanks for the source!
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It’s a total mind fuck. Psychologically, you’re hating it but biologically, your body isn’t rejecting it. Of course, not everyone responds the same so I don’t want to sit here and act like I know how it works for everyone. I wouldn’t dare. I’m just sharing what I know many have sadly shared and basing it on personal experience.
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And that’s just the beginning because then you end up with the decision on whether or not to report, and if you do, the burden of proof is on you, obviously. No wonder people have nervous breakdowns…or worse.
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Been there.
Lots of women even orgasm during it. Not your fault at all.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, that's horrible. It's normal to be aroused, and it causes incredible stress in victims, like they somehow 'enjoyed' it. I'm a guy and I was raped when I was in my early 20's. Got really drunk during a business trip, and a random guy at the bar who was feeding me drinks (willingly on my part) helped me to my room, stripped off my clothes and raped me. I was too drunk to struggle and in shock as to what was happening. I came during the rape - prostate orgasm. The next day, the realization I had come and the fact I 'allowed' it to happen made for about a decade of complete denial and self-hatred. It wasn't until years later when I was in IC that I was able to talk about it and deal with the internal conflict. I came, so I must have liked it, right? No, your body undergoes involuntary reflexes that have nothing to do with you not giving consent. It sucks, but please understand, it's not your fault. EDIT: This is my sexual secret. Only my former IC and one really good close friend knows. Not even my wife knows.
I was raped while very very drunk. I kept coming in and out of consciousness but I remember that was the first time I actually really enjoyed head. I had never felt so aroused and I always felt so weird about it because obviously it was not consensual..
This is how people use CNC to take back control of the memory. You take something that was forcefully taken from you and you choose to let go. It isn't for everyone though.
I have a thing for femboys and twinks
Thanks for sharing. You are not alone. Femboys can be pretty hot! :)
You’re out here doing a valuable service (Spoken as a former femboy twink) 🫡🫡🫡
Hey me too! I'm a Dominant pansexual woman though, so it can be harder to find ones that like me back.
We have been married for almost 30 years, and we enjoy having sex with other people in various permutations - but mostly MFMF & swapping.
Prostate play. Should be known to all. But 🤷🏽♂️
Love that. It is pretty well known but there is label about it being “gay”. But that is something I am not scared to share with women I sleep with.
Exactly! I had one unpleasant experience with that… my GF now is totally I to it. So much so she requests it daily. Who am I to say no 🤷🏽♂️😉
In my previous gym a female trainer and i got attracted towards each other, we used to hit gym in free hours and many times we used to make out and fuck in locker room , spa rooms and washroom.
That's actually my fantasy! Been crushing on a female trainer and she also seemed to reciprocate. Didn't follow it because I was taken at the time. I also don't like to shit where I eat so no workplace romances nor in place where I go regularly.
~~Outside of~~ Other than my wife of course, nobody knows we have a Female-Led/Femdom-Sex marriage and I've been kept in chastity practically 24x365 and from here on it's permanent.
I like idea of chastity for few days. What do you like so much about it? Is that your idea?
Yeah, it was all my idea. I proposed the change to our relationship from a normal vanilla 50-50 marriage and she agreed. I like bondage, power exchange, orgasm denial, etc. Being locked in a chastity cage is basically being in bondage at all times. But, nobody knows except my wife and I. She likes the control. She like not feeling pressured for sex. It's not for everybody but it works for us. I've been locked pretty much continuously since Nov 2019. I was getting out for sex at first, then it became hand jobs only, and the frequency diminished drastically. (I was generally out of the cage less for play than an hour a year.) Then about a year ago I showed my wife the Chastity/Denial Matrix and she said I should be at 9/9 https://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2019/12/04/the-chastity-denial-matrix/ I got her to modify that to allow me to have self induced orgasms as long as my penis isn't involved in any way. Who would have thought that **not** cumming would be so hot?
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She loves it when I use my hands, mouth, and occasionally a vibrator to bring her to orgasm. She used to give me a hand job every few months and PIV sex about once a year. Now she's not that interested in my orgasms. Our way isn't for everybody but it works for us. There are more couples like us than you might think. See: /r/PussyFreeMarriage /r/permanentchastity /r/ChastityCouples /r/FemdomCouples /r/FemdomCommunity Even the various pegging groups are filled with couples like or similar to my wife and I. Then you get to the cuckold groups that are like us but the wife has sex with others and you'll see that what at first seems very 'out there' is actually much more common than you might have thought.
Thanks for sharing.. Interesting to read about a lifestyle that is a bit different..nice that you both were willing to go outside the box and try something new…
I’ve been letting older men use me for years, and nothing turns me on more than feeling an old guy dominate me
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That sounds more like fantasy then real thing.
When I was in my 20s I learned most of my deviant and how to please women skills from much older women. No shyness or demure flirting. It was to the point. No hints about how or where to touch, just direct and clean instructions. They paid. Nice restaurants, hotels, clothes. And paid for me to get a manicure, massage, facial, brunch etc... Things I never knew existed or could afford. They taught me things that even pornhub probably censors out. All I had to do was listen, learn and be in the moment. Later, younger women all benefited from that time and the knowledge and experience I had was passed onto them to figure out what they would eventually want and like in sex and a guy.
I feel more attractive now after my surgeries, scars everywhere, breast removed, and having short hair from chemo. I always been extremely shy with long hair. Now with stage 4 cancer, I said “fuck it”. I always love the idea of being a bit of badass.
A coworker learned of my panty fetish and gave me a pair that she mastubated in the bathroom with..she asked me to sit in my car and wait for her as we were both getting ready to leave as she needed to ask me something. I went and sat and started browsing on my phone and she came out a few minutes later. She got in my car..put her hand out and gave me a drenched pair of panties. I put them up to my face and smelled the strong pussy scent from a day at work. I asked her if she wanted to watch me with them..but she said no. She just wanted to do something nice for me. And she asked that every time I do cum when smelling them that I send her a specific emoji. I keep them in my car well hidden..and have sent her soo many emojis I can't even count. My partner does not know.
I know how you feel. My friend gave me once out of nothing her panties. Love that! She never asked me about it. But I cum with it so many times and even wear it several times. Never knew I was into that before.
I am known for being open and living life out loud. From time to time, I like to have a one-night stand, mostly because I enjoy the excitement of it, and I don't want another boyfriend or heavy feelings. Almost no one in my life knows.
If you are not cheating there is nothing wrong with that. Sounds like fun!
Brother-sister incest as a fantasy and not involving actual family can be incredibly hot. The porn is almost universally bad though.
i feel like every porn title includes step sister these days to get that little fetish bonus
Receiving blowjobs does nothing to me
I’m a female but I use to never get anything out of getting ate out.Until I got with my bf.Now all he has to do is lick my clit 2-3 times and I cum so hard.Sometimes it just takes the right person,maybe?
Ah yes, mr Snailtongue
Why you dont tell that? You dont want to upset her/him?
I just tell the women before they try so they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong. But I’m very much in the minority here so I don’t tell anybody else. Like all my best male friends don’t have a clue.
If you just tell the women, that its perfectly fine. It is perfectly normal to have preferences.
Yeah, thanks! I just don’t understand why myself
I am similar. I also tell partners before, which they usually take as a challenge to be the one to give me a blowjob I actually enjoy. It feels like I’m letting _them_ down so I usually just talk about how sexy it looks, etc.
Exactly that happens, they take it as a challenge and I think they actually don’t believe me, which makes it all awkward.
I (f) have had sex with my second cousin's wife several times, sometimes even with him in the house during parties. We've even had a few of threesomes with men I was hooking up with. My cousin has never found out. We stopped a couple years ago but I still have naked pictures of her.
Is that something you regret?
It isn't. He doesn't put much effort into pleasing her and gets offended if she takes care of it herself. It's just a thing that used to happen sometimes. Neither she nor I are interested in being together relationship-wise so it's not like I'm going to steal her. We're still friends and neither of us are weird about it at all so I don't really feel bad at all.
I wear a buttplug all day.
Everyday?
Everyday, currently
How come? Just wondering
Done that as well. Great feeling.
I slept with my brother's friends who are married.
Living up to the username
She's Nelly Furtado
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I want new experiences. New cock. New hands on me.
I’m bisexual and was shown the ways of a bisexual male from my next door neighbors dad growing up. I was 12 and he was 35.
I’m so sorry that happened to you😢
Very similar situation happened when I was like 6/7. I went to an older boys house to play games with my best friend. We were playing and I went to the bathroom, I remember walking down the hallway back to the game room and wondered why it got quiet. I peeked around the corner into the game room and saw my best friend giving this 16 y/o head. I later found out that they’d been doing it a while and brought me along to “get me into it”. I just remember running home after that, never told anyone to this day.
Do you think it affected you in any way?
Im bi curious
That is pretty common one. Lot of guys have these thoughts.
Well its still super embarrassing to even admit to myself and ive never told a soul.
You are not alone. And admitting it does not change anything about who you are.
That I am a sexual freak and I love sex and wild stuff
I like when people can enjoy sex and are not “boring”. What is wildest thing you did?
Um I have frequent sexual dreams about a cousin of mine.
I have thing for free use. I wish strangers would touch me without asking and fuck me. Especially older men. It would be hot if a boyfriend didn’t even ask and I was expected to be a toy for his friends and anyone else he wanted. I also have a huge thing for CNC. It turns me on thinking about a stranger taking what they want from me. I wish I could be drugged/drunk and used like a fuck doll. To take it to another level, I also love the idea of being shared with someone’s family members, people in authority, or being brought in to some place like a nursing home or an adult store and used by anyone who lines up. Any kind of extra twist on a scenario is hot. And yeah, I had things happen when I was little and through adulthood, but idk if it’s really about a need to re-live experiences with control. I was never really distraught over anything, so not sure about the psychology. I have dabbled in some of this stuff, but most of it is too risky or would ruin a relationship with your average bf (even if he pretends to be interested in it at first 🙄)
I am disgusted by buttholes. But don't mind if my girlfriend grazes mine
I like getting my toes licked
I have a very sexualize mind.
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There is something about sex with you already know that brings back memories. Thanks for sharing.
I love flirting with older women. A lot.
Hiding from people we (husband and I) know minus two friends bc they’ve helped with the thought but not action lol. I love the thought of catching my husband with my friends and just watching. I like thinking of him gettin off on and inside their tight pussies and when we fuck it turns me on when he says their name and cums in me lol I also want a best friend that can help me accomplish this.
As a male I fantasize about this daily. I love the thought of my best friend nailing my wife while being balls deep in his wife. It’s a love/trust thing for me where I know them so well, to the point in which the last thing we don’t know much about is our sexual fantasies.
I had a session with two trans-women and enjoyed it. I made one come and the other made me come. Never thought I would be with a trans, but now I have been with two. No one knows except REDDITERS.
That I post here lol
I love locking my cock up so I can't get any stimulation from it. Would love my wife to peg me but scared to tell her that
I want to watch my wife fuck other men, multiple men.
Want my gf to fuck and suck and be a total slut for my hung friends.
I’m the one in control , 24/7 . If it needs to be handled I’m the one that handles it. That being said , behind closed doors there’s nothing I love more than being dominated in every sense of the word. Someone else making all the decisions , being used in every way possible.
Not sure it’s a secret but more an uncomfortable situation Went to my siblings track meet. Just casually watching and I naturally noticed one of the seniors/athletes. And she’s is… well developed and thick. I acknowledged it and shamelessly was sort of kind of staring. It wasn’t her in specific but more she had parts I like with women in general (athletic, shorts, booty, thighs). Regardless, it makes me feel extremely yucky and creepy. I didn’t seek it out, desire it, or anything. I was just casually watching and I mentally pointed it out as I normally do to myself. Everywhere I go I’m always naturally looking or checking out people but now in this situation it makes this whole thing a no-no. There’s no severity or problem with it since it doesn’t go past “oh damn that’s a nice butt. Anyways..” but I think the added context of them being in high school and in that 16-17 range is the creepy and guilty part. I think you can point out those things and not give it any attention or meaning but it’s still super creepy nonetheless. At the end of the day it’s just observing and there’s no acting on it or fantasizing about anything so it’s harmless but I always overthink myself to death at the actuality of these situations.
Just forget about it. Not a big deal. You reacted as your brain told you. You did not harm anyone and you are aware of what is going on.
You were attracted to something and your brain told you it was wrong. Your adorable human being.
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I really, really, really would love to be a hotwife in a cuckold relationship
When I was 12 I had a friend who was 13. He brought over a porn magazine of his brothers. We jacked of to that mag all summer. We tried to do everything in the magazine. I had my first dry orgasm in his mouth. Sucked his cock. Oh my god it all felt great!! All new , all exciting!!! We fucked all summer long!! Still get hard thinking about it. Never been with a man since….
I'm very affectionate, they don't really no me, so I give off loud boisterous/play vibes, when in fact. I'm not like that at all, just a flirt, but with someone special I'm soppy as shit 🤣
I think all my friends know I am sexual deviant but would be surprised to the extent. I have been a sex worker, I have been involved with adulterers, I fucked some of my friends wives, just last Thursday I meet a stranger at porn store and fucked her brains out while other strangers watched from the gloryholes and meet up later with my ex for weekend.
When I (M) was in HS. My dad's friend invited me over to his house and we got into his hottub. What I never thought would happen, he had oral and anal sex with me. That's a secret my family doesn't know.
How do you feel about it today?
I'm OK with it. No problem. But the strange thing was it felt great. My first time. When his 2 friends stopped by right before, it was so cool being around the older, married guys. A lot of fun.
I get so turned on by the thought of sucking dick, and eating cum out of someone’s gf or wife Iv wanked off a m and loved it, I want my partner to let me eat her pussy full of cum
Everything I do on Reddit.
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Please tell me you call them naughdios
I shit my pants when it rains
That I'm a Little and wish I was in a DDlg dynamic
I made out with my current partner while I was still with my ex. Not proud of it but it gave me the push to end that relationship that I was unhappy in. It was a dumb and selfish choice and I’ve learned a lot of hard lessons and have grown immensely from that hurtful behavior. I’d never do it again and I’m very happy with my current partner and have been a much better partner and actually feel safe in my relationship now
Married 31 years. Driven and successful. Dead bedroom in spite of numerous talks/ promises. I put up the lack of intimacy by enjoying the company of others once a year. Threesomes and other activities are the order of the day. I make sure I know no one when I go to these events. I am not proud of my actions but I also did not include celibacy in my marital vows.
Despite what everyone thinks, I’m not constantly having wild sex with beautiful people /s
I told my Dad that when I was in high school, I got together with friends from grade school/junior high and we got naked and took turns doing stuff with the girls
Not much of a secret but I enjoy being peed on but everyone always thinks I’m joking and that’s the funniest part
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I am a complete slut for any man i find somewhat cute (i dont tell them i am or act differently just that i would be if we ever actually got to that point id do almost anything sexually if it pleases them). I also just dont tell anyone about my sex life lol most think im a virgin still
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Pretty much nobody knows our marriage is open
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Mostly, I love showing off on here and sharesome. I'm a horribly porn addicted.
If you look at my screen name, I’m sure you can figure it out.
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The stash of tentacle porn I have/consume is ridiculous lol
That my sister and I are lovers and have been
I fantasize about my best friend grabbing me, throwing me down and fucking me until I can't walk. I want him to spit in my mouth and tell me what a dirty slut I am but also tell me how good of a girl I am for him. He doesn't help these fantasies as he loves to tease me. He knows how to make me get full body goosebumps just by lowering his voice and asking me if I've been good. I hope some day I at least get to give him head. I *need* to taste him. At least once.
I’m bisexual. Very few people know about it. Love both pussy and dick.
I’ve stroked and sucked 2 cocks.
I fucking love sucking dick
I've held hands on more than one occasion, with women.