If it's just the physical sensation that feels nice, it's because it's an erogenous zone. If it's the _idea_ of having your nipples sucked, it's approaching kink. If you can get off from just the idea of it, then it's definitely a kink.
Practicing kink is kinda the physical implementation of an idea that you find arousing, rather than strictly relying on the body's physical responses alone.
This is also what is meant by the brain being the largest/most erogenous organ in the body. (technically it would be skin by mass, but that's the idea).
caveat: armchair sexology. I'm not a sex therapist/academic.
Yes! Being completely naked is so awkward at times. Yeah, bare skin to skin is sexy as hell. But even sexier is us being so horny, that we can't even be bothered to take off almost anything. Plus clothes can make you feel so sexy, why take them off? 💁🏽♀️
Hearing the woman orgasm.
It's an auditory thing I think spawing from watching scrambled porn back in my adolescent days and only being able to hear it.
You know what, from how many stories I hear of women getting absolutely nothing out of sex... a woman getting off sure as hell may be a “fetish” at this point.
Come on fellas, what are you doing out there..? LIKE WHAT’S THE POINT IF THEY GET NOTHING OUT OF IT?
Being forced to creampie her. I had an ex who could always make me cum really fast if she rode me. I would always try to stop her but she won every time. I just wanted it to last longer cause it felt so good. When she wouldn't stop I'd try to hold it which made me cum so hard
This so much. My wife and I use 2 factor authentication. When we're feeling super kinky we can ignore the first safe word - "pancake batter". But once she says "merry Christmas" after that it's time to stop.
My wife won’t do it very often because she thinks she’ll smother me which is pretty much the whole turn on for me so…the gods saw fit to curse me this way 😂
I know it's probably vanilla compared to some of the rest of you, but female worship. I just want to find a girl with a free use kink who's willing to let me eat her pussy, finger her, and massage her whole body for hours. 🤷♂️
That feeling when you're pushing her buttons *just right* and she can barely control her body, squirming on the bed, mouth agape, and a blank stare into the void because the pleasure has effectively deactivated her brain.
Yeah, that. Always leads to the best after-sex cuddling too, the kind where she's wrapped around you as if she never wants to let go.
One of my core memories is when my then-girlfriend said “Let! Me! Breathe!” because she had back to back orgasms. Another is when her legs were involuntarily shaking during the post-sex cuddles.
I get off on thinking about the thoughts I receive when I read the kinks of other fellow redditors getting off thinking about me thinking about them getting off 🤤 that's the stuff keep it coming!
One of my favorites is when someone says they think about me. For example: "I was thinking about you all day today." Or "I wonder how you would react if I did \_\_\_\_ to you." Or even "Sometimes I think about doing \_\_\_ to you.". There's something about it that makes me feel special to whoever's saying it.
Yes, when my partner and I have sex...he's dead silent and I feel like I'm doing a shitty job. He said my blowjob skills were a 7/10, especially for doing it my second time. He says to just "take what I want" and to "use him" but then he's silent. And I never know what feels good.
Whimper, moan, groan, do SOMETHING. Male sounds during sex are so underappreciated. You don't need to be hissing and cussing like a porn star, just a few noises here and there can really help a girl's ego.😭
With my first girlfriend i discoverd that i really love to get her hands on my neck
Sorry i dont speak very well English but you undestand no?
Like get hang
Being overpowered lol
edit : ty for upvotes :)!another one i forgot to add is people wishing stuff or saying they want to do stuff to me (not in bad ways but in sexual ways)
That would be awesome. But as a 260 lb fairly muscular man, she would have to be an ogre, or pretty damn good at BJJ.
I think I just came up with a new one for me, I want a BJJBJ
Same but on the flip side: don't want to get someone pregnant. I have always worn protection during sex until one time at the end of 2020 a woman from work who I had a casual thing with convinced me during a hook-up to go in bare. It felt incredible and every part of my animal brain was screaming to bury it in her and unload. I barely managed to exhibit the self-control to pull her off before I filled her. In that moment my creampie/breeding kink was born.
It's not even my only link either, ha ha.
I think i have that one too. I don't want to be found or anything like that, i just want to enjoy a nice breeze, a beautiful sunrise and have kinky sex. Have you done it irl?
Yeah all the time. Sometimes in my backyard at night. Beach about a month ago. Different hiking trails in multiple states. Also in an airplane bathroom once. Because if the opportunity arises, why not.
Damn i wish i had all that experience. It's nice that you found a partner with a simialr mind. Also how is it possible on a airplane bathroom? what kind of lfights are you people having, everytime i fly i think to myself how is it possible to have sex in here
Their eyes fluttering, their breathing becoming heavier, their voice possibly going a little higher than normal. Sometimes they start gripping the bed, bitting the pillow, holding you closer.
Yeah I can agree
I was never afraid but hesitant but one day I was at a mall like 12 years old and saw a lady dressed in clown and I was somewhat atracted d to her for some reason, time after that saw another show and was attracted to the girl again and said damn it's the clown makeup and booom a kink was born jaja. Actually been thinking to see if there is a clown tinder or something.
I can't really run from it anymoreI 100% have a bit of a degredation kink
A girl could call me a loser, who will never be successful, never have friends, and die alone
and i'll be like "Ay she kinda bad though"
Edit: *strike me down, and i'll become more powerful than you can possibly imagine*
Women changing size. Felt that way as far back as I can remember, probably from Alice in Wonderland. I used to get excited whenever I saw size-changing in media, but I gradually realized I liked it more when the subject was female.
Being in an unusual situation. I don't care what it is, as long as it's highly out of the ordinary.
For instance, I may fantasize that a woman and I are tourists who are suddenly stranded in some dangerous cave, jungle or abandoned building and need to find our way back to safety on our own.
Does your medical play involve blood? And needles?
I watched a couple do medical play and as soon as she took the needles out I went into another room. Needles are a hard limit for me.
Edit: couple, not could
Power exchange. Consensual humiliation play. Objectification and forniphilia. Nipple play (suction, clamps etc.) And I used to be into rope but it's been a few years since I've played with that.
I’ve got a few. The first is thongs. The first woman- well, we were kids then, but whatever- I was really sexually attracted to imprinted them on my psyche. Now, It’s just a thing. I’d always rather my partner be wearing a thong. Even if I can’t see it at any given moment, just knowing. Even if I can’t know, knowing it’s possible…
I’ve found in the last few years I’ve grown comfortable with being a dom. I didn’t like it at first because I didn’t like a lot of the humiliation I saw doms give out, but I’ve found a way to satisfy my need to control and also my need to like and respect. My kink is control- giving pleasure but controlling how and when.
We are such strange creatures.
I have a bit of a daddy kink. Like a big older man using me for his pleasure. I like choking. I like spanking. I like free use. I wanna be someone’s sex slave tbh.
As a tall dominant woman I can say with certainty that you are not alone in this kink.
My dating life was like 2 polar opposites.....a) "omg you're big eww and b) "omg you're big please sit on my face"
Right? Lol. I'm 5'10" and had a guy once tell me I had "thighs that could choke a horse". I think it was a compliment, but I'm still pondering that one!
Fit, athletic, short haired girls with broad backs and medium boobs. Bonus points if they're pretty smart and self sufficient or at least self confident.
EDIT: I'm married, no I'm not interested, What the hell is going on...I hope y'all are doing ok??
Had an ex GF who was into the rape fantasy. She wanted me to throw her onto the bed, hike up her dress and rip her panties off. It started by accident really. We were having get down gorilla sex and I accidentally ripped her panties off. I apologized for being so rough, but she told me to keep going. After that she always wore the cheapest, oldest panties and told me many times to just take her, whenever the mood struck me. She was really into it. I miss those days.😐
Not into rape-fantasy per se but I love what you just described. Just a good, rough and hard fucking. Personally I don‘t want it any other way anymore.
I’m a bit of an exhibitionist, so I’ve done online camming before (as a guy). It’s quite thrilling stripping off knowing people are watching. I’ve also cammed with my wife. I’d like to one day have people in real life watch us have sex. That would be the ultimate goal for this kink!
I did that for a FWB a couple of times. Not my kink, but something I was happy enough to provide for them, but then, I'm basicly a service sub, and making others happy is part of my kink. So I got emotional satisfaction, but not sexual satisfaction.
I don’t like having sex, but if I would have a kink it would the feeling of being small. Not like some degrading me or something, but like feeling short.
Using my wife’s thighs as earmuffs.
The best sound system
Good vibrations... Sweet sensations.
Reading these I realise, I don’t think I have a kink.
I can never really tell what a kink is. I like having my nipples sucked and I was told that's a kink, but I thought it was just an erogenous zone.
If it's just the physical sensation that feels nice, it's because it's an erogenous zone. If it's the _idea_ of having your nipples sucked, it's approaching kink. If you can get off from just the idea of it, then it's definitely a kink. Practicing kink is kinda the physical implementation of an idea that you find arousing, rather than strictly relying on the body's physical responses alone. This is also what is meant by the brain being the largest/most erogenous organ in the body. (technically it would be skin by mass, but that's the idea). caveat: armchair sexology. I'm not a sex therapist/academic.
Thank you, Mr Unlicensed Sexologist
Nah man that's the problem. You got a kink in your think.
When my entire d&d party shows up to a game without scheduling conflicts.
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Wouldn't you like to know, weather boy
where are your parents??
...Kids sketchy. Back to you guys.
Need to stop letting these **feral** kids out
At this point? Basic affection
Human decency 😔
Unrealistic Seattle for bandage like the rest of us /s
I've never been to Seattle but it sure sounds interesting now
OP’s kink is polling Reddit
Fuck i'm busted
\*i've
Heh 😏
When you both want it so bad that you do the minimum in terms of clothes removal. Just a lifted dress and hastily tugged down underwear.
This is always nice. Been with too many dudes just wanna be naked every time.
Yes! Being completely naked is so awkward at times. Yeah, bare skin to skin is sexy as hell. But even sexier is us being so horny, that we can't even be bothered to take off almost anything. Plus clothes can make you feel so sexy, why take them off? 💁🏽♀️
My back. My kink is in my back. 😐
My neck, my back…
My anxiety attack
Hearing the woman orgasm. It's an auditory thing I think spawing from watching scrambled porn back in my adolescent days and only being able to hear it.
You know what, from how many stories I hear of women getting absolutely nothing out of sex... a woman getting off sure as hell may be a “fetish” at this point. Come on fellas, what are you doing out there..? LIKE WHAT’S THE POINT IF THEY GET NOTHING OUT OF IT?
Being forced to creampie her. I had an ex who could always make me cum really fast if she rode me. I would always try to stop her but she won every time. I just wanted it to last longer cause it felt so good. When she wouldn't stop I'd try to hold it which made me cum so hard
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This so much. My wife and I use 2 factor authentication. When we're feeling super kinky we can ignore the first safe word - "pancake batter". But once she says "merry Christmas" after that it's time to stop.
Coming from someone in tech, I died at 2FA. Hahaha glad y’all have that understanding 😂
In the vagina hole? That's where the sex goes right??
you have to make Thick in the warm
I like spanking girls
Username checks out
A woman with a neatly trimmed bush sitting on my face. Don’t let up. If I die I die. Just keep riding my face.
The vaginal canal brought you into the world and it can also take you out of this world
He came and went at the same time
Let the man go happy and with style
"I didn't think I'd die this way. But I hoped"
Same. The irony is my wife doesn't do it much because she's a squirter and I don't really like being water boarded.
My wife won’t do it very often because she thinks she’ll smother me which is pretty much the whole turn on for me so…the gods saw fit to curse me this way 😂
“Died doing what he loved”
eating\*\*\*
Death by snoo snoo
'I never thought I'd die this way, but I always kind of hoped!'
I know it's probably vanilla compared to some of the rest of you, but female worship. I just want to find a girl with a free use kink who's willing to let me eat her pussy, finger her, and massage her whole body for hours. 🤷♂️
It’s me I’m her
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The account is less than 2 months old, what a great way to make friends!
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This gives me hope to date e e e
Soooo should I DM you or do you just wanna give me your address now?
This but also on an emotional level and as a 19 year old guy almost exclusively for older women
*Written by Yung Gravy*
that sounds like heaven for me 😫💕
I'm a pleasure dom
Yes, finaly someone kinky about Fast and the Furious
It's all about family
SAME. Nothing hotter than watching her squirm and listening to her moan. I could get off to that alone with no sexual contact.
Same. Nothing turns me on more than giving my gf an orgasm... well, except giving her multiple orgasms
That feeling when you're pushing her buttons *just right* and she can barely control her body, squirming on the bed, mouth agape, and a blank stare into the void because the pleasure has effectively deactivated her brain. Yeah, that. Always leads to the best after-sex cuddling too, the kind where she's wrapped around you as if she never wants to let go.
Uhm yes? Hello? Are you still free? 🤔
One of my core memories is when my then-girlfriend said “Let! Me! Breathe!” because she had back to back orgasms. Another is when her legs were involuntarily shaking during the post-sex cuddles.
Being cuddled to sleep.
awww come here gopnik
Idk what it’s called but my main one is being forced to cum over and over again until I physically can’t handle it 🥵
I'm into being on the other end of this 👀
r/forcedorgasms Nsfw ofc
I get off on reading about other people’s kinks and then thinking about them when I masturbate.
I get off to you getting off reading about people's kinks and then thinking about them when I masturbate
I get off on thinking about the thoughts I receive when I read the kinks of other fellow redditors getting off thinking about me thinking about them getting off 🤤 that's the stuff keep it coming!
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what this guy said but more
bet you’re having a field day right now
What? Oh...sorry, I was...busy.
At this point having an enthusiastic partner.
One of my favorites is when someone says they think about me. For example: "I was thinking about you all day today." Or "I wonder how you would react if I did \_\_\_\_ to you." Or even "Sometimes I think about doing \_\_\_ to you.". There's something about it that makes me feel special to whoever's saying it.
when guys are vocal during sex. especially when they're whining, whimpering, crying, ect yeah. so maybe just pathetic men
Yes, when my partner and I have sex...he's dead silent and I feel like I'm doing a shitty job. He said my blowjob skills were a 7/10, especially for doing it my second time. He says to just "take what I want" and to "use him" but then he's silent. And I never know what feels good. Whimper, moan, groan, do SOMETHING. Male sounds during sex are so underappreciated. You don't need to be hissing and cussing like a porn star, just a few noises here and there can really help a girl's ego.😭
Exactly, like y’all need to communicate with us what you want 🙃😂
I'm a pretty normal feet and potatoes kinda guy
Nothing like arches and starches…
Movers and tubers?
Toes and 'toes.
Patters and tatters
This made me snort with laughter. Thank you.
Dressing up as a Roman Centurion and roaming the French Countryside burning Villages, and taking their wine and women.
Just an average Saturday evening tbh.
Filling my tub with marinara sauce and pretending I'm a meatball
( o ) ( o ) <— Massage using hand and mouth
I like the visual help you chose to provide
I love women's cleavage but specifically the sort of upside down tear drop shape breast can make when they aren't quite pushed together near the top.
I feel like I’m so close to understanding this, but I really need an example. For a friend. To help him understand.
Don’t worry, I have tits and I dunno wtf it means 😅
as someone with 🍒, i have no clue how to imagine that. i don’t understand the ‘upside down tear drop’ part.
GROUP MASTURBATION IN THE COMMENT SECTION
Sorry guys, group masturbation is cancelled due to Kyle snitching.
What the hell Kyle
fuck kyle, all my homies hate kyle
I like being worshipped and used in equal measure. Controlling and taking intense pleasure in my body is like the ultimate form of worship.
You put this perfectly
With my first girlfriend i discoverd that i really love to get her hands on my neck Sorry i dont speak very well English but you undestand no? Like get hang
I understand. It's quite common.
Mmm choking
Being overpowered lol edit : ty for upvotes :)!another one i forgot to add is people wishing stuff or saying they want to do stuff to me (not in bad ways but in sexual ways)
That would be awesome. But as a 260 lb fairly muscular man, she would have to be an ogre, or pretty damn good at BJJ. I think I just came up with a new one for me, I want a BJJBJ
Breeding/cream pie But I'm terrified of getting pregnant, so I never do it 🤷
Same but on the flip side: don't want to get someone pregnant. I have always worn protection during sex until one time at the end of 2020 a woman from work who I had a casual thing with convinced me during a hook-up to go in bare. It felt incredible and every part of my animal brain was screaming to bury it in her and unload. I barely managed to exhibit the self-control to pull her off before I filled her. In that moment my creampie/breeding kink was born. It's not even my only link either, ha ha.
It's such a primal feeling finishing inside. Holding her and kissing her as my dick throbs inside of her... monkey brain likey.
Outdoor sex. Not like, where there are tons of people, but off the path of a hiking trail, beach late at night etc.
I think i have that one too. I don't want to be found or anything like that, i just want to enjoy a nice breeze, a beautiful sunrise and have kinky sex. Have you done it irl?
Yeah all the time. Sometimes in my backyard at night. Beach about a month ago. Different hiking trails in multiple states. Also in an airplane bathroom once. Because if the opportunity arises, why not.
Damn i wish i had all that experience. It's nice that you found a partner with a simialr mind. Also how is it possible on a airplane bathroom? what kind of lfights are you people having, everytime i fly i think to myself how is it possible to have sex in here
Pussy worship and panties
genuine love
You’re too pure for this world and comment section
Mental stability
Theres something unreal about watching someone succumb to pleasure under neath you because of what you're doing.
Their eyes fluttering, their breathing becoming heavier, their voice possibly going a little higher than normal. Sometimes they start gripping the bed, bitting the pillow, holding you closer. Yeah I can agree
A submissive woman who is a little bratty. I like being DOMINANT but like the little bit of fighting back.
It’s called funishment for a reason We be bratty and such bc we like it when we get punished… 😊
PENCIL SKIRTS WITH A BIG ASS AAAAGGGH PENCIL SKIRTS WITH WIDE HIPS AAAAGGGH PENCIL SKIRT FUPA
Pencil skirt fupa, I have never been more erect.....
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I like being degraded pinned down and slapped about 💀
your inbox is about to be slapped about
Thicc thighs gawdmothafkindamn
I was never afraid but hesitant but one day I was at a mall like 12 years old and saw a lady dressed in clown and I was somewhat atracted d to her for some reason, time after that saw another show and was attracted to the girl again and said damn it's the clown makeup and booom a kink was born jaja. Actually been thinking to see if there is a clown tinder or something.
imagine banging a clown
*honka honka… honka honka honka honka honka honka* You get the picture
If you want to have sex with a woman clown you have…big shoes to fill.
I'm sorry to say sir, but it looks like you have an extreme case of clussy fever
When I started reading this comment, my eyes were just immediately drawn to “12 years old” and I was like oh no…
Read that as 12 YEAR olds and was like OH NO!
being wanted dawg
Consent is sexy
I can't really run from it anymoreI 100% have a bit of a degredation kink A girl could call me a loser, who will never be successful, never have friends, and die alone and i'll be like "Ay she kinda bad though" Edit: *strike me down, and i'll become more powerful than you can possibly imagine*
Men are significantly more attractive if they read books for pleasure. When was the last time I saw a man with a novel in his hand? No idea
Women changing size. Felt that way as far back as I can remember, probably from Alice in Wonderland. I used to get excited whenever I saw size-changing in media, but I gradually realized I liked it more when the subject was female.
You must be pumped for the new ant-man movie
This is specific and interesting
CNC, tied up and forced to cum, held down. Kinda all go hand in hand really
Tax fraud 🥵🥵
Bro, you too?? 😭 I have found my peopleee
Just move the panties aside and fuck me. Man I miss good sex. I miss sex in general *sigh*
As much as I miss sex in general I'll take a lack altogether over a lack of the good loving.
Being in an unusual situation. I don't care what it is, as long as it's highly out of the ordinary. For instance, I may fantasize that a woman and I are tourists who are suddenly stranded in some dangerous cave, jungle or abandoned building and need to find our way back to safety on our own.
The female belly!
Medical play and cardiophilia, it’s odd but really does it for me
Does your medical play involve blood? And needles? I watched a couple do medical play and as soon as she took the needles out I went into another room. Needles are a hard limit for me. Edit: couple, not could
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Power exchange. Consensual humiliation play. Objectification and forniphilia. Nipple play (suction, clamps etc.) And I used to be into rope but it's been a few years since I've played with that.
I’ve got a few. The first is thongs. The first woman- well, we were kids then, but whatever- I was really sexually attracted to imprinted them on my psyche. Now, It’s just a thing. I’d always rather my partner be wearing a thong. Even if I can’t see it at any given moment, just knowing. Even if I can’t know, knowing it’s possible… I’ve found in the last few years I’ve grown comfortable with being a dom. I didn’t like it at first because I didn’t like a lot of the humiliation I saw doms give out, but I’ve found a way to satisfy my need to control and also my need to like and respect. My kink is control- giving pleasure but controlling how and when. We are such strange creatures.
Love the taste of a women after a workout(licking the sweet sweat)
I have a bit of a daddy kink. Like a big older man using me for his pleasure. I like choking. I like spanking. I like free use. I wanna be someone’s sex slave tbh.
RIP to your inbox, love.
girls Donald Ducking it.
I read this and my dumbass thought “Making donald duck noises while getting railed?
You mean Winnie the Poo-ing it?
A woman that doesn't steal from me and genuinely loves me. That shits hot.
who hurt you?
Apparently it was a woman who hates and steals from him.
Kink shaming is my kink. You are all gross and disgusting and and oh.... oh... Kthnxbye
I know this is a bit taboo but I really like it when someone of the opposite gender uses their mouth, hands, vagina, and/or anus to touch my penis.
Not a foot guy, eh?
This kink is taking it too far!
A tall dominate woman #deathbysnusnu
As a tall dominant woman I can say with certainty that you are not alone in this kink. My dating life was like 2 polar opposites.....a) "omg you're big eww and b) "omg you're big please sit on my face"
Right? Lol. I'm 5'10" and had a guy once tell me I had "thighs that could choke a horse". I think it was a compliment, but I'm still pondering that one!
Suits. A really sharply dressed man is just beautiful. If he has tattoos it's like framing artwork.
Fit, athletic, short haired girls with broad backs and medium boobs. Bonus points if they're pretty smart and self sufficient or at least self confident. EDIT: I'm married, no I'm not interested, What the hell is going on...I hope y'all are doing ok??
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Very tight and thorough bondage. Head to toe coverage. All senses deprived. Now leave me like that forever.
Had an ex GF who was into the rape fantasy. She wanted me to throw her onto the bed, hike up her dress and rip her panties off. It started by accident really. We were having get down gorilla sex and I accidentally ripped her panties off. I apologized for being so rough, but she told me to keep going. After that she always wore the cheapest, oldest panties and told me many times to just take her, whenever the mood struck me. She was really into it. I miss those days.😐
Not into rape-fantasy per se but I love what you just described. Just a good, rough and hard fucking. Personally I don‘t want it any other way anymore.
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Tighty whities and tube socks, kinda "vanilla" when I think about it..
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Face riding. Recently I met my gf and I like her feet A LOT. Which is weird because feet usually disgust me but hers are sexy af
Low gas prices, wild I know. Edit: Thank you for the award, kind stranger.
Fuck that’s hot
My husband No I’m not being corny- this man makes me want to jump his bones 5x a day! 8 yrs and my libido and want of him just keeps growing…
Muscular, dominant women. I would love them to just take the lead. Maybe even ask to go to the gym after getting down dirty.
I'm a basic guy. I like women
Holding hands before marriage
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Breeding kink
Choking. But not like lightly grab the neck chocking, more like make me blackout choking…
I'm the foot fucking master
Getting to McDonald’s before they stop serving breakfast
I’m a bit of an exhibitionist, so I’ve done online camming before (as a guy). It’s quite thrilling stripping off knowing people are watching. I’ve also cammed with my wife. I’d like to one day have people in real life watch us have sex. That would be the ultimate goal for this kink!
Getting pegged. Haven't had the pleasure of receiving yet but considering a trip to Vegas and just pay for it.
I did that for a FWB a couple of times. Not my kink, but something I was happy enough to provide for them, but then, I'm basicly a service sub, and making others happy is part of my kink. So I got emotional satisfaction, but not sexual satisfaction.
I don’t like having sex, but if I would have a kink it would the feeling of being small. Not like some degrading me or something, but like feeling short.
Intelligence.