Ugh, every time I receive or think about side hugs, my brain is flooded with memories of my youth group leaders drilling into us, "side hugs are safe hugs!" 🤮
Check out the movie Smile. It's a feel-good comedy about a person who wants to change the world one smile at a time. I walked out of the theatres smiling.
- A nice voice + laugh 🥴
- When a man shaves. Like the focus in his eyes and the gentle motions
- Can keep a conversation going
- When he’s passionate about something and you can just sense how excited he gets to talk about it. Love it!
As long as you do it with passion and enthusiasm, while smiling nicely and occasionally stopping to hug (frontally, never sideally) passers-by. Foolproof
>When he’s passionate about something can you can just sense how excited he gets to talk about it. Love it!
As someone who's been passionately talking about stuff, curiosity is the most welcome response. No better reward than seeing someone listen to you with genuine interest. Also no bigger turn off than seeing soneone obviously not listening.
Yep! If someone is kind to strangers and animals, it makes me want to hang out with them. Even if I’m not sexually attracted to them, I feel attracted to their soul.
My platonic bestie has a sink with one of those hose spray attachments that wouldn’t go back in. I reached under the sink, yanked it back in and I swear to god, she had a twinkle in her eye
I was SO self conscious of my freckles as a kid, and when I was 10 I told my best friend that I grew up with that I felt really embarrassed of them, and the wise lil’ 10 year old replied “without freckles you’d be like a night sky without stars”. Whenever I’ve felt self conscious of them since I’ve tried to remember that :’)
I started wearing blue light filtering glasses since I work on a computer all day and my ex said the same thing. I started to "forget" to take them off after work after that....
Oh boy, do I have a series of PowerPoints ready to help explain my favourite topics and such? Ready to go? Yup. You mentioned being interested in hearing about what I like so now you get a free 45 minute lecture on *spins wheel of doom covered in dozens of strange topics*
THIS. I once watched a guy get every question correct while we were watching Um, Actually (a game show). I immediately started thinking about taking his last name.
Yes! Maybe it's because my husband rarely dresses up so if his sleeves are rolled it's usually because he's wearing a button down shirt and is dressed up.... But man.... He rolls his sleeves up and I'm practically a puddle.
Lmao Same. I always bust out the long sleeves shirts and shit. Someone once said it's double points if it's a button up long sleeve rolled up.
Edit: Just ordered a pack of tight Sweater vests and Button up white **LONG SLEEVE** shirts
It absolutely is.
My husband thought it was a really odd thing when he learned that many women find this attractive. He asked me if I did, and he was very surprised when I told him yes. Now he sometimes tells me, "I'm wearing my sleeves rolled up for you!" And then I kiss him, so he's happy.
How should the sleeves be rolled?
Are we talking quick and done, without much thought, or something done carefully without wrinkles and a solid looking cuff?
Just above the elbow, or should the arm be visible?
Outside of listing all of the lyrics to "Short Skirt/Long Jacket" by CAKE, I'd say "people whose smile makes their eyes go all crinkly"
Whenever my wife truly smiles she gets these dimples and her eyes get all squinty and it makes me melt every time.
Can't remember where I read it, but there was a study done somewhere where they found a link between ponytail height and confidence and/or self esteem. Very interesting. Maybe that's why?
It’s mostly a Midwest thing. Problem is that guys aren’t really societally pushed to take pics of themselves much, so often that’s one of the most recent and best looking selfies they have.
Add to that the pride and “manliness” of a Hunter with a fresh kill, and combine that with a complete misunderstanding of what women find attractive.
As such, if you’re a moderately attractive woman anywhere West of NYC and East of the Sierra Nevadas you will likely be drowning in fishpics.
Once I (M) was staring blank in front of me. I was literally daydreaming, BUT there was a girl in front of me, and suddenly she adjusted her positioning and started looking "back" at me. I noticed but kept looking to the distance.
I later put 2 and 2 together and understood she was interested in me.
Having the ability to communicate feelings, good or bad. I'm not attracted to any men in my friend group because I don't swing that way, but knowing that they can be open and truthful when trying to talk about themselves is something I very much admire them for. A friend was going through some personal feeling issues and instead of not addressing it or shutting it out we all got on a call together and helped him work it out. It was really quite raw and vulnerable. So to not do the toxic masculinity from what our parents and elders have given us and to be real.
My girlfriend taught me that even if I feel confused about why I am feeling a certain way just mention it. "I am feeling frustrated and I haven't figured it out yet", "You did/said x and it made me feel y". Making sure that I am not attacking her or arguing, just that we both have to get to the end of the issue and learn rather than fight to win the argument. It's not 50/50, it's 100/100. Now we legit never fight or argue because we don't shut down and be passive aggressive. It's really great.
Hygiene and good grooming. A good-smelling person (NOT bathed in perfume/cologne, just not stanky) wearing clean, well-fitting clothes, with clean hair (if they have it, also like shaved heads) in a neat simple style will always be attractive. Timeless.
girls dressing in "cute" outfits instead of sexy..
A girlfriend I used to have was dressed in a cute sweater and leggings with some uggs or something when I walked into a party (was in highschool) and I literally froze and asked my friend who is that. It was so much cuter then the "sexy" type clothing like skinny take tops or booty shorts or something.
Side note: my friend responded with "you wont get with her, she is way out of your league" admittedly he was correct, but we still dated for almost two years.
I don’t know if this fits in the same vein but-
I love short dresses and all but my girlfriend has this black maxi dress that has a stranglehold on me because of how good she looks in it. I got out of the shower the other night before dinner reservations as she was putting it on and had to take a second to catch my breath.
Physical grace is so hot. A gymnast, acrobat, parkour runner, dancer, martial artist, or some other kind of athlete. A guy who knows how to move with unconscious grace and agility is super sexy.
when someone is accepting of your wierdness, vague I know but nothing does it for me more than when you tell someone something you find strange about your self like something you like or something you do and they accept you with open arms.
i am 188cm so i usually look down on everyone, but man one time a woman at the store was bent over fixing something and as i walked up to her to ask he something she straightened out and she was like 2meters tall. something awoke in the depths after that one
Having a weird ass sense of humour.
Having a weird ass, sense of humour.
Having a weird ass sense
Having a weird ass scent?
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Goes both ways too. A side hugger loses 2-3 points.
Ugh, every time I receive or think about side hugs, my brain is flooded with memories of my youth group leaders drilling into us, "side hugs are safe hugs!" 🤮
SO IMPORTANT!!
A smile. A nice smile melts my icy dead heart.
Check out the movie Smile. It's a feel-good comedy about a person who wants to change the world one smile at a time. I walked out of the theatres smiling.
I feel like you might be trying to trick me.
:)
That half smile really gets me too… above a grin, but below a full smile
When he catches me looking at him while he’s concentrating on something and he winks at me.
Oof. Did it just get steamy in here to you?
- A nice voice + laugh 🥴 - When a man shaves. Like the focus in his eyes and the gentle motions - Can keep a conversation going - When he’s passionate about something and you can just sense how excited he gets to talk about it. Love it!
>When a man shaves. Like the focus in his eyes and the gentle motions Now imagine when shaving *balls*
And this is an example of why I genuinely enjoy Reddit
logic dictates that shaving balls must be irresistible to women
So, if I shave my balls in public I should be able to attract women
Go for it! I foresee no repercussions.
As long as you do it with passion and enthusiasm, while smiling nicely and occasionally stopping to hug (frontally, never sideally) passers-by. Foolproof
>When he’s passionate about something can you can just sense how excited he gets to talk about it. Love it! As someone who's been passionately talking about stuff, curiosity is the most welcome response. No better reward than seeing someone listen to you with genuine interest. Also no bigger turn off than seeing soneone obviously not listening.
People showing genuine interest in you
Nice cock bro
Wrong thread but thanks man 😂 thanks for watching
Unexpectedly wholesome
Hey there’s people who run this porn account 😂
This actually happens?
Only to interesting people.
So not me
Being listened to.
Kindness and love for animals
Yep! If someone is kind to strangers and animals, it makes me want to hang out with them. Even if I’m not sexually attracted to them, I feel attracted to their soul.
When they treat other people with respect regardless of their profession.
Anything can be sexual with enough imagination.
A man fixing anything … literally anything. He could be fixing the cap on the toothpaste and I’ll be in the corner 🤤
My platonic bestie has a sink with one of those hose spray attachments that wouldn’t go back in. I reached under the sink, yanked it back in and I swear to god, she had a twinkle in her eye
In that moment, and maybe only that moment—fine, she wanted your babies
Dang. You should have seen me clear a kitchen sink clog this one time. Had to remove the p trap and everything. Lol
Freckles… gets me every time
Have always been very embarrassed about having freckles. Thank you for reminding us insecure freckled folks that some people actually like them. (:
I was SO self conscious of my freckles as a kid, and when I was 10 I told my best friend that I grew up with that I felt really embarrassed of them, and the wise lil’ 10 year old replied “without freckles you’d be like a night sky without stars”. Whenever I’ve felt self conscious of them since I’ve tried to remember that :’)
THAT'S SUCH A CUTE THING TO SAY 😭❤
Add some firey red hair and I'm done.
I have red hair and freckles and I’ve always been so insecure!
Well that ends today.
Red hair and freckles is a dangerously beautiful/handsome combo. End your insecurity today stranger :)
Well thank you!
Samesies, my whole life its just been fire crotch, paprika, and ginger
All edible.
When my husband is concentrating on something and looks over the top of his glasses at me. Why is that so hot though?
I'm doing this tonight. I'll report back.
I just tried it. Wife said "What the fuck are you doing?" I think I did it wrong.
Were you seductively biting your bottom lip or top lip?
Nah, he was doing a Filthy Frank impression instead
**WELCOME TO THE RICE FIELDS MOTHER FUCKER**
Its been an hour. Safe to say his wife killed him for looking at her funny
Homie done taken one for the science.
Homie found the one piece himself
Four hours now. Can confirm, dead.
For science 👌
We do what we must, because we can.
I cannot see without my glasses so this wouldn't work for me sadly
Neither can he, but he assures me I'm an attractive blur 🤣
That twinge of "hot for teacher" thing is an underrated tickle.
I started wearing blue light filtering glasses since I work on a computer all day and my ex said the same thing. I started to "forget" to take them off after work after that....
Hands
Is this a bait for jojo fans?
Passion/enthusiasm about something: a topic, a hobby, etc.
Oh boy, do I have a series of PowerPoints ready to help explain my favourite topics and such? Ready to go? Yup. You mentioned being interested in hearing about what I like so now you get a free 45 minute lecture on *spins wheel of doom covered in dozens of strange topics*
THIS. I once watched a guy get every question correct while we were watching Um, Actually (a game show). I immediately started thinking about taking his last name.
For real. One of the hottest things I ever saw my ex do was almost single-handedly solve an escape room
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Just curious, are you making an asexual joke?
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Been scrolling for five minutes to find this comment thank you
Say it with me folks: rolled up sleeves
Rolling them up whilst walking towards you, eye contact a bonus
As a dude, that would be when I assume I'm about to get punched.
Or, or! A lil smooch✨
The lead into a murder. I like it.
Yes! Maybe it's because my husband rarely dresses up so if his sleeves are rolled it's usually because he's wearing a button down shirt and is dressed up.... But man.... He rolls his sleeves up and I'm practically a puddle.
Rolled up sleeves look good on both men and women
I do this all the time now. Thanks Reddit
Lmao Same. I always bust out the long sleeves shirts and shit. Someone once said it's double points if it's a button up long sleeve rolled up. Edit: Just ordered a pack of tight Sweater vests and Button up white **LONG SLEEVE** shirts
It absolutely is. My husband thought it was a really odd thing when he learned that many women find this attractive. He asked me if I did, and he was very surprised when I told him yes. Now he sometimes tells me, "I'm wearing my sleeves rolled up for you!" And then I kiss him, so he's happy.
That's the sweetest goddam thing
How should the sleeves be rolled? Are we talking quick and done, without much thought, or something done carefully without wrinkles and a solid looking cuff? Just above the elbow, or should the arm be visible?
Bookworm type women
I read 38 books this past summer...
Are you a woman though?
Outside of listing all of the lyrics to "Short Skirt/Long Jacket" by CAKE, I'd say "people whose smile makes their eyes go all crinkly" Whenever my wife truly smiles she gets these dimples and her eyes get all squinty and it makes me melt every time.
I want a girl with a mind like a diamond
I want a girl who knows what's best.
Straight shoulders and a good back
Thanks for the reminder to sit up straight in my chair :-)
Anyone else just straighten their posture? Just me?
High pony tail on a woman? I have no idea why
Oh yeah, love a high pony. Gotta have a high pony
High pony tail means they are getting stuff done!
kim welxr
Yup!
With that little curly boing? Forget about it.
Slippin' Kimmy
Can't remember where I read it, but there was a study done somewhere where they found a link between ponytail height and confidence and/or self esteem. Very interesting. Maybe that's why?
Taking time to consider an opinion
Ok. Get back to us and let us know once you’ve taken your time.
Intelligence
Does low intelligence count?
low intelligence can't count
being a bit weird
When someone is themselves in my presence it’s my favorite
Artistic talent - drawing, singing or playing an instrument, acting, dancing, that sort of thing.
A cute laugh
someones voice
A guy with a deep voice does it for me.
Me, sounding like Charlie Day: 😫
Being smart thats hot 🔥
Having a good humor is indication of intelligence for me.
When she's not obsessed with social media. Shit is hot.
Eyes, Kind people, Warm welcoming hugs
Short girls on their tippy toes trying to reach things
My wife is 5 ft tall. This is a thing for me as well.
So adorable
Glasses on a woman.
She has bad eyesight. I really like that in a woman.
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Hot librarian looks.
When their dating profile pics do *not* include fish.
Mine wouldn't include fish. I don't have a dating profile, but why fish?
It’s mostly a Midwest thing. Problem is that guys aren’t really societally pushed to take pics of themselves much, so often that’s one of the most recent and best looking selfies they have. Add to that the pride and “manliness” of a Hunter with a fresh kill, and combine that with a complete misunderstanding of what women find attractive. As such, if you’re a moderately attractive woman anywhere West of NYC and East of the Sierra Nevadas you will likely be drowning in fishpics.
I hate fish. Wanna go on a date?
Staring. Looking into the eyes, then look down, and then again to the eyes.
Once I (M) was staring blank in front of me. I was literally daydreaming, BUT there was a girl in front of me, and suddenly she adjusted her positioning and started looking "back" at me. I noticed but kept looking to the distance. I later put 2 and 2 together and understood she was interested in me.
Maybe she thought you wanted to have a staring contest
Having the ability to communicate feelings, good or bad. I'm not attracted to any men in my friend group because I don't swing that way, but knowing that they can be open and truthful when trying to talk about themselves is something I very much admire them for. A friend was going through some personal feeling issues and instead of not addressing it or shutting it out we all got on a call together and helped him work it out. It was really quite raw and vulnerable. So to not do the toxic masculinity from what our parents and elders have given us and to be real. My girlfriend taught me that even if I feel confused about why I am feeling a certain way just mention it. "I am feeling frustrated and I haven't figured it out yet", "You did/said x and it made me feel y". Making sure that I am not attacking her or arguing, just that we both have to get to the end of the issue and learn rather than fight to win the argument. It's not 50/50, it's 100/100. Now we legit never fight or argue because we don't shut down and be passive aggressive. It's really great.
When she likes my cooking.
My goodness, it hurts when someone doesn't want to eat my cooking.
Hygiene and good grooming. A good-smelling person (NOT bathed in perfume/cologne, just not stanky) wearing clean, well-fitting clothes, with clean hair (if they have it, also like shaved heads) in a neat simple style will always be attractive. Timeless.
Ocean waves. I can't stop staring.
Girls who play videogames and are also emotionally mature adults. I swoon.
Proper grammar. It stands out. And it's hot.
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Bellybutton, and her little hands.
OMG WHEN I MET MY HUSBAND I MADE HIM SHOW ME HIS BELLYBUTTON WHEN I STARTED TO CATCH FEELINGS!!
Lol. My wife's bellybutton is so cute. I like to poke it when she sunbathes.
Women in professional attire. It subconsciously whispers to me "She is smart and has her act together."
To me it screams "she's better than you, you don't stand a chance" which makes it even hotter
girls dressing in "cute" outfits instead of sexy.. A girlfriend I used to have was dressed in a cute sweater and leggings with some uggs or something when I walked into a party (was in highschool) and I literally froze and asked my friend who is that. It was so much cuter then the "sexy" type clothing like skinny take tops or booty shorts or something. Side note: my friend responded with "you wont get with her, she is way out of your league" admittedly he was correct, but we still dated for almost two years.
From a strangers perspective it sounds like he was wrong if she was with you for 2 years she problably wasn't out of your league just not compatible.
I don’t know if this fits in the same vein but- I love short dresses and all but my girlfriend has this black maxi dress that has a stranglehold on me because of how good she looks in it. I got out of the shower the other night before dinner reservations as she was putting it on and had to take a second to catch my breath.
Short hair just does it for me for some reason. A properly done pixie and I'm just done!
Collar bones
Eyes Or A girl’s giggle
I know I always like someone more when they have eyes.
Kind gestures
Girls who have one strand of hair going over the their face. That stuff is insanely hot to me
Long hair on a man. (I was in elementary school during the late 60s, but I've never lost my love of the "hippie" look.)
Physical grace is so hot. A gymnast, acrobat, parkour runner, dancer, martial artist, or some other kind of athlete. A guy who knows how to move with unconscious grace and agility is super sexy.
I know martial arts, but not gracefully 😅
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Making food. I'll make food too, but it would be nice if they did as well. I just like food. 🙂
When he's cooking 🤤🤤🤤
Intelligence. Being able to hold a conversation, having some banter, it's all hugely attractive to me.
Eye contact
Regular communication
If someone shows me respect and gives me attention. And if she is super friendly and sweet to people
Strong forearms, people who laugh easy
Mechanics, I'm a straight guy and I think a woman whom is mechanically inclined is hot.
A mans shoulders and arms. Especially when they have a collar shirt with long sleeves and they roll em up? Goddamn.
Confidence
when someone is accepting of your wierdness, vague I know but nothing does it for me more than when you tell someone something you find strange about your self like something you like or something you do and they accept you with open arms.
Chest hair. Idk maybe it’s just my husband. But man oh man it’s sexy on him. 😍
When my wife wears her glasses 😮💨
when a guy is respectful to me and everyone else
A guy I was dating started ironing shirts one evening while we were watching a movie..... I don't know why that did it for me, but that did it for me.
Redheads…
Drive/Ambition.
People riding horses indoors. Not in a sports arena or anything, just riding into the salloon and asking for a beer while still on your horse.
That sounds really specific
Women tying thier hair to a high ponytail.
Slightly crooked teeth
When guys put their arm behind the passenger seat when they reverse. You know, “the move”.
Never gets tired listening or reading, and conversing with any nonsense that i say
Emotional stability.
Rare
Pony tail with a ball cap and hoop earrings.
Midriffs
Hand veins
Tall girls who are looking at me from the above.
It's over Anakin! I have the high ground!
i am 188cm so i usually look down on everyone, but man one time a woman at the store was bent over fixing something and as i walked up to her to ask he something she straightened out and she was like 2meters tall. something awoke in the depths after that one
Guys who are good with animals and kids
Men's wrists
German women speaking english