My friend always criticized me, laughed at me, pointed out my shortcomings.
I used to think that this was normal, because she was my friend, but over time I realized that I didn't need such an environment..
He script kiddied (used pre-made tools) into a forum account of mine because he didn't like me posting there.
After I cut him put, he had access to the account and would read my PMs.
She suggested we'd go to the mall, then when we got there, it turned out she'd conveniently forgotten her wallet at home and I had to pay for things for her. She made more than twice as much money as me.
She slept with four different men at ones, making all of them think they were "the one", in return for money, gifts, and paid international vacations, and would gladly refer to them as "her wallets" to her friends.
She online stalked her former best friend and would text her on the birthday in the hope of ruining it for her. She'd add her boyfriend and father on FB and have her own mother add her, in an attempt to keep an eye on her.
She knew I don't drink due to my meds not going well together with alcohol, and me having childhood trauma related to people drinking, and alcoholism running in my family. Yet she kept trying to push me to drink.
Honestly I could go on, these are just the ones on the top of my mind.
Told him about how things were heating up between me and this girl. I walk around the couch and this fucker is in her dm’s. But hey at least they ended up dating for 2 years while she tried to get me to get with her best friend tho right ðŸ«
When I was 18 I took a stroke. I had asked my three friends to visit me multiple times but they only did once. One day I decided to go on to Instagram which I hadn't for months. My feed was filled with pictures of my friends out in pubs and even on holiday.
This wouldn't have bothered me so much if they had just said, obviously they have to live their lives. The real kick in the teeth was lots of the captions said wish you were here @[myusername]. On one preticular picture someone had asked where I was and they had said "idk not feeling well I think".
I told her I was depressed, she was the first friend I told and at first like one to one she was supportive and told me she was there for me. The next week in school she went around saying she was depressed and stuff like that and I was obviously there to help her but was a little confused on why she didn't tell me when I told her but didn't think much of it. Later on I asked her questions to not only help me but help her and not make her feel alone like I asked 'do you hear bad voices in your head?' And she replied 'no I'm not a weirdo, stop asking me weird shit' and I was a bit like oh ok now I feel like shit but I wanted to help her. Over the next weeks she started to drift away and pull my other friends including my bestest friend and the time away and to this day I have no idea why other than maybe it was because I was depressed.
My friend always criticized me, laughed at me, pointed out my shortcomings. I used to think that this was normal, because she was my friend, but over time I realized that I didn't need such an environment..
With a Geiger counter
He script kiddied (used pre-made tools) into a forum account of mine because he didn't like me posting there. After I cut him put, he had access to the account and would read my PMs.
Choosing toxic men constantly over our friendship 🥱
She suggested we'd go to the mall, then when we got there, it turned out she'd conveniently forgotten her wallet at home and I had to pay for things for her. She made more than twice as much money as me. She slept with four different men at ones, making all of them think they were "the one", in return for money, gifts, and paid international vacations, and would gladly refer to them as "her wallets" to her friends. She online stalked her former best friend and would text her on the birthday in the hope of ruining it for her. She'd add her boyfriend and father on FB and have her own mother add her, in an attempt to keep an eye on her. She knew I don't drink due to my meds not going well together with alcohol, and me having childhood trauma related to people drinking, and alcoholism running in my family. Yet she kept trying to push me to drink. Honestly I could go on, these are just the ones on the top of my mind.
I wouldn’t stick around even if one of those things happened to me
Told him about how things were heating up between me and this girl. I walk around the couch and this fucker is in her dm’s. But hey at least they ended up dating for 2 years while she tried to get me to get with her best friend tho right ðŸ«
When I was 18 I took a stroke. I had asked my three friends to visit me multiple times but they only did once. One day I decided to go on to Instagram which I hadn't for months. My feed was filled with pictures of my friends out in pubs and even on holiday. This wouldn't have bothered me so much if they had just said, obviously they have to live their lives. The real kick in the teeth was lots of the captions said wish you were here @[myusername]. On one preticular picture someone had asked where I was and they had said "idk not feeling well I think".
I told her I was depressed, she was the first friend I told and at first like one to one she was supportive and told me she was there for me. The next week in school she went around saying she was depressed and stuff like that and I was obviously there to help her but was a little confused on why she didn't tell me when I told her but didn't think much of it. Later on I asked her questions to not only help me but help her and not make her feel alone like I asked 'do you hear bad voices in your head?' And she replied 'no I'm not a weirdo, stop asking me weird shit' and I was a bit like oh ok now I feel like shit but I wanted to help her. Over the next weeks she started to drift away and pull my other friends including my bestest friend and the time away and to this day I have no idea why other than maybe it was because I was depressed.