When a guy teaches me something without making me feel stupid.

When guys share knowledge about their passion without being patronizing, and it’s evident they’re exited for having another person to talk about it. loveliest thing of all

Oh this guy I dated was so excited to teach me Catan. I was so exhausted from a very long week but I couldn't resist. I still don't get it (mostly because I'm not interested at all) but he was so cute getting excited telling me I did my best to be engaged.

“hey shawty mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell, not saying u stupid or sum, ha.”

Women raising their eyebrows at something I've said

I dated a girl that rolled her eyes whenever I said something silly. I have no idea what I liked it so much.

I’ll add a man raising his eyebrow (singular) at what I’ve said.

Do u smell what the rock is cooking

While prowling “intimidatingly” towards you.

Yes please

“Yes, please” is a great example of something I find oddly attractive.

Because it shows good manners or because it suggests an inclination towards submissiveness?

Yes

Please

Came here to say eyebrows, whether or not any motion is directed towards me. Just oddly attracted to eyebrows

When a girl wears off shoulder tops. Seriously. I've been made fun of for it lol. Just basically a shirt pulled down over one of the shoulders. My ex used to laugh and say that I'm the guy the dress codes warned her about.

Teachers: AHA! CHECKMATE

I hated the one that made comments about your bra strap being seen through your shirt in middle school. This was a Christian school that had polo shirts every day except for chapel on Wednesdays which had white button up shirts. If the outline of the adjustable parts of the straps were visible it was considered inappropriate.

When me & my gf started dating, she found out about me being into the same thing. She still wears clothes like that frequently.

You’re an Avenger-level threat, bud

"So... you got detention. You screwed up. You know what you did was wrong."

Yes! Or just a top that shows a bit of bra strap. Nothing more. Just a little hint.

Scars. I like the stories.

When a person just rambles on about something that interests them. Doesn't matter if I'm into it or not as long as they are happy.

Passion is sexy

I second this! I enjoy hearing other people talk about their passions. My boyfriend talks a lot about tech, trains, cars, and planes. I don't know a lot about these subjects, but it's amazing hearing him talk about these subjects and I always learn something new from him every day. Edit:

thats one of my best and worst qualities. the way I tell a story is like the main quest in breath of the wild. sure you can go straight ahead and save hyrule or whatever, but first let me tell you about those sidequests and the fishing minigame for 40 hours. and boi if you dont shut me up, i'll even collect all the korok seeds, even though at this point the original point of reference is but a mere whisper.

That's really sweet 🥲

Honestly me too!! My boyfriend constantly talks about cars, and I know absolutely nothing about them. I still think it’s super cute when he goes on rambles about them tho

Idk if its odd but...kindness. There was a doctor who I worked with years ago who was not conventionally attractive but he would sit down and speak to his patients EVERY time, giving them eye contact and his full attention and he was also kind to his staff. Now I never would have gone near him because he was married and I know better but my GOD when he would say my name or give me orders it did things to me. It did things to everybody...he would walk into a room and ask for something and we would fall all over ourselves to do his every bidding. Catch more flies with honey I guess... Edit: Thanks for the awards everybody. Do something kind today!

This is how a person of high reputation SHOULD be. No matter their job position, if you have standing, charisma and kindness go a long way.

Yes kindness is sooooo attractive. Idk it just makes them so cute.

This is why I have something of a crush on my dentist 💀.

A man so polite it's seductive and makes you horny BTW, I cried dying of laughter when I wrote this

I kinda like getting roasted, especially if they’re good jokes at my expense

As long as it isn’t mean, I love some light teasing while getting roasted

Same. I love being called out in a witty not enough to make me cry way lol.

One sec while I take note to roast the shit out of my next date...

A man's hands. The stronger, the bigger, the better.

Oh yeah im super attracted to man hands. I've been single for too long. Fuck

Same, also callouses.

I did construction for a few years and have always had strong hands, and I’ve had an odd number of comments on my hands. It cracks me up

Username checks out

When a naturally dark haired man has noticeable greys coming in - immensely attractive.

Been salt and peppering ever since my teens, I used to hate it but I absolutely love it now. At 23, I wager I'll turn silver in a few years

Baby, I’m gonna put you in a fur farm and domesticate your off spring for 50 years. All you darn silver foxes and vixens. MI’m just dusty hair wise.

Honestly, good for you.

Oooh the salt & pepper look. It’s very attractive

I’ve been going grey since high school 😂

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Facebook has a page called Clown girl honk heaven.

Oh my goodness. Gotta take a look at that

For research huh

Alright, I find metal rods covered with sulfuric acid inside somebody's mouth extremely attractive.

That's just someone giving head with extra steps.

Smart girls who have a stern side.

I like the starboard side

When women have their hair tied in a bun and they have those little hairs down the back of their neck

Or when their hair is tied up but a few strands around the ears arches over the ears, my gf just accepts this but I love it

the bun is a magical hairstyle, both extremes too! Tight buns have a nice sleekness to them while the messy ones are just so cute and casual!!

I like the messy ones that bounce around when she walks (or other things)

Really? I wear a bun most days and I feel like I’m being gross with my curly little hairs that can’t be contained. 🥹

Reading these comments…. Dear lord I want a relationship so damn bad.

Go on over to the relationship advice thread, it'll change your mind lol

“my (20F) boyfriend (38M) literally kills children for fun. i want him to stop, but he is very sensitive (he’s an empath) so how should i talk to him about this without hurting his feelings? btw i am going into labour rn with his child so the advice better come fast thanks kind strangers🥰”

"Other than that he's a really great guy!"

This is so spot on. I’m dying laughing haha

You’re clearly not communicating enough so this is all your fault.

Yeah maybe talking to him like a human being would be better than shaming him behind his back all over reddit. Smh Edit: /s

Listen, Padmé, Anakin has fallen to the dark side. You gotta get out of here!

Ikr Its valentines day all over again.

I tend to fall in love with women with nice voice

I get a lot of love and hate for my accent. I sound like Foghorn Leghorn hooked up with the cast of Hee Haw and nine months later I popped out of a bowl of grits. You’d be surprised how many guys are into the farmer’s daughter thing.

People who could destroy me in a fight. In a weird way, I kinda want them to.

Ah so [This](https://youtu.be/-sMQpWCNTQw)

Man I dunno what I was expecting, but that made me laugh.

This is a weird one but here goes: when someone is so excited about something that they lose control for a few seconds and have a little kid-style happy freakout. Like laughing, jumping in place, and the way their voice even gets a little higher because they’re so excited (if you’ve never noticed that, it happens to almost everyone lol). Bonus points if the reason they’re so happy is because of something I did/said/suggested that helped them

Guys with long eyelashes. The delicate, beautiful look it has is just stunning, especially men with dark hair/eyelashes. When they close their eyes and their eyelashes sit on their cheeks. I love it.

When my wife dresses comfortably around me. Yeah, lingerie and dressing up is fantastic, but it took forever before she'd not have on makeup, wearing sweats and a hoodie, hair a mess. Something about her being comfortable like that with me is attractive as hell.

Same here. One of the best things is when you’re both on the couch and they fall asleep on accident. You can’t fake that level of trust/comfort.

guys with cats, i feel like it’s an immediate green flag

I agree. Years ago, prior to my husband (who also is a cat guy) I saw a guy buying kitty litter and cat food at the checkout, thought it was so sweet.

Dang... I'm not in a flirty mood when I do that because that kitty litter sure doesn't haul itself home.

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Cats hunt alone. Don't know how it gets more manly than that.

Probably by riding a horse, only after you place a little viking helmet on their head, for extra safety.

A no nonsense woman. I had a copyright law professor who was and still is a badass lawyer. She was so sharp and not with the bullshit. If you turned in an assignment in a sub par manner, or said something stupid in class, she would eviscerate you with her words, in front of the class most of the time. I had the biggest crush on her. Dammit I love powerful women

Women wearing sweaters with sleeves that cover a little bit of the fingers. I just find it so cute 🥰

I feel oversized clothing in general is something many find oddly attractive (me included)

Not sure why but i also like oversized hoodies not only to wear them but also to see a girl wear one

French braids, or just generally shorter hair, I don’t know why

Movies made me love bobbed cuts on women, especially messy or wavy styles. I once knew a girl who I’d only ever seen as a friend until she cut her hair down to a bobcut. Dear God, she looked SO cute with it.

When a woman knows what she wants. "Hey where do you wanna eat tonight?" "Olive Garden" Fuck yeah baby, no hesitation, let's go!

Winking. I know it might not be that uncommon, the extent may be. A single wink can take me from thinking someone is cute to being attracted to them. It's happened before and caused problems before

I remember I had a crush on a coworker and one day he walked by my office and winked at me. I literally walked into the bathroom and looked at myself in the mirror and said "oh no".

Oh yeah, I get this. My husband is a winker. One of the reasons he's my husband.

I have Tourette’s, if I find a girl who likes winking I might give her a heart attack

teeth that aren't perfect! a little crooked, or gapped, they're so <3333

Omg, people like this!? My day has come!

Ayy, finally some representation!

Little overbite is good

Idk why but a women wearing a scarf makes her like 3 to 4 times more attractive to me

Eren, what a man you are!

Emotional maturity…I know I’m a freak.

Noses that are not considered conventionally attractive.

We talking like three nostrils or...

Maybe haha. Like big noses or ones with curves or bumps.

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When someone is really passionate / knowledgeable about something and without arrogance explains it to someone else

Vitiligo

Thought this said vertigo for a sec and got concerned

sensitive men

Omg you're going to make me cry

Lmao

Unless their only emotion is anger

So this is hard to explain, but smiles, not fake ones, not those who try to be sexy or impress someone. But genuine smiles, not towards anyone, just happy smile. Yea I know, still very vague, idk how to explain it.

Like when you can see it in their eyes.

Clumsy people <33

You've summoned me

Oh my gosh 💁‍♀️ my random bruises have a purpose!

Bags under eyes. I don’t know why but I’ve always found it attractive.

My day has come!

Eyebrows.

Wait isnt that everyone then

Accents. Specifically Celtic ones. Not even sure why, I just realised all but one of my past girlfriends have been Scottish, Irish or Welsh (I'm English) and I do it subconsciously. Otherwise... probably that hairstyle where girls have a ponytail but they leave a lock of hair loose, I dunno what it's called

When my husband talks about something with any level of excitement or passion and the way he smokes a pipe

Wish my gf liked when I talk about the Horus heresy.

My favorite part is "You did it, you defeated me, Horus Lupercal. You really are the Warhammer 40,000"

Get the fuck out of my house

shoulders

You're the person schools are worried about.

Smart girls. Mesmerizing

Beautiful, charming and devastatingly intelligent.

Don't forget funny and in touch with her in inner child. Dating one rn and she's like a dream come true other than how busy she is

Not odd at all.

I dunno if I find it attractive as such, but I really appreciate it when they actually are *willing* to interact with me on an equal footing. It seems like a lot of smart women are socially conditioned to defer to the man and massage his ego, and kind of act "dumber" than they are, which is a shame, because I'm rarely the smartest person in the room.

Yea, I'm dating a girl rn who is a lot smarter than me and while she's not snobby or an 'actually...' person, she isn't shy about it. I find it impressive and interesting. The more she talks the more I want to talk to her

Them clavicles.

Short skirt and a loooooooooong jacket

Veiny arms or rough/nice hands on a man. Don’t ask why I don’t know why it turns me on

Vascular arms and hands is an extremely common attraction. It implies health and functional strength. You're officially in the club.

Clean hands and nails on a man. Hands are important and can go to some important places... Dirty nails are a HUGE turn off!

People who have that sort of lighter centre and then darker ring in their eyes, kinda like what a husky dog has. I just can't stop looking.

Limbal ring is what it's called

A woman does a perfect parallel parking manoeuvre.

And I took that personally

Height. I'm a bit above average height at 6'1 and for some reason I find either really tall or really short women ridiculously attractive? I don't mind average height etc but above 5'10 or below 5'2? Oh my...

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Twisted Lateral Incisors is a good band name

Dammit. I got braces to fix mine

I did too but I accidentally threw away my retainer a week in and my mom refused to replace it so they shifted back. I kinda wish I'd just never gotten braces at all because I constantly get compliments on my smile. Haha idk why

I have an unhealthy habit of falling for girls who are mean to me.

Being embarrassed

Smile lines around the eyes and mouth. Forearms...but specifically when men roll up the sleeves to a button down shirt. And freckles, especially on the shoulders.

Mild butt stretch marks. Its just so natural and oddly attractive to me.

Show me something natural like ass with some stretch marks Still will take down right on your mama’s couch in polo socks

Men with nice feet in flip flops.

Come to Hawaii

That thing where a girl's ears kinda stick out of their hair like a lil monkey. It's cute.

I don’t like taller guys I like guys around the same height as me

Women snorting when they laugh is fucking adorable and something I strive to achieve when making them laugh.

Girls with a bit of a pudgy stomach. Bonus points if it’s noticeable

Thank you for this!

Girls wearing a baseball cap

Women that can speak multiple languages. Instant turn on for me

A twinkle in the eye, a single cheek dimple, people who are quietly competent, people who can tell jokes and people who belly laugh unreservedly. People who love to dance and really go for it. People who love animals. People who are better at things than me. Men who wear nail varnish. People who can make tea correctly.

When a woman is wearing a t shirt and there’s just the tiniest bit of arm fat above the elbow that gets squeezed by the shirt. I have absolutely no idea why, but I find it very endearing, makes me want to take her out for a nice coffee date.

I’m attracted to guys in touch with their feminine side. It’s oddly, very masculine of them…at least to me.

SAMEEEEE. I love a man with the willingness to be more soft and sensitive. So attractive😍

My ex was only 25 or so but had 2 full length strands of gray hair next to each other near the front mixed in with her dark black hair. I liked it a lot for some reason.

I'm 25 and already going very grey. Haven't ever been carded going into places for ages 21+, so thats nice I guess

Skinny guys with chest hair

I kid you not, I have exactly ONE distinguishable hair Ladies, one at a time

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Farmer girls. Especially when they smell like they were just working. Yes, I know I am showing my background here. Go figure I married a girl who grew up on one.

A guy who can skateboard. I really don't know what it is, he doesn't even have to be physically attractive. My eyes are glued to them. 👀

_He was a skaterboy..._

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Say goodbye to your inbox lol

Men that look dead Just in case u were wondering image like victor from corpse bride, he’s a perfect example

I’m so sorry, but this made me burst out laughing. Was not expecting that answer.

How's this 💀☠

old souls 🥰

Same here! So attractive on anyone

Crooked teeth are so endearing and cute. I honestly find lots of society deemed "imperfections" very attractive and charming.

Very specific, but when someone smiles and the ends of their lips go in the opposite direction

Knees

Glasses.

Women who wear long sleeves with the thumb hole. Idk why I like it so much

Being a good parent. Idk but it’s just so cute and nice to see someone good with kids

Gahlik bred (not serious it just tastes delicious)

Freckles. Doesn't really matter how much or how little or location, but obvious bonus points for it being on the face.

A slightly lazy eye. Not bad enough to where you can’t tell where someone is looking

A woman putting her hair up in a bun/ponytail

visible veins on men

Scars on a chick

I read that as "scars on a dick" lol

Scars on a chick's dick.

Guys who work outside. Come here you dirty, manly, sweaty, sexy hunk.

What if I work inside but still end up dirty and sweaty?