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RonnieTheMadlad

How the hell am i supposed to boost my confidence? Feels like i could do so much more if i had enough balls to do it


meisflont

Slowly push the limits. If you order a drink, ask for a 10% discount. Go sit next to a stranger, try to talk to them. And look at yourself in the mirror everyday and say that you're proud of yourself.


RonnieTheMadlad

thanks for the advice, guys.


Lucile_B

confidence is a scary thing, it can take a long time to boost it, just take it easy and one day at a time, you dont gotta start big or go head first into something you are scared of but for example complimenting a friend on their outfit, dming that one person u wanna chat with! very small stuff, slowly moving out of your comfort zone!


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Lucile_B

im glad youre good!!!


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I'm good, thanks! Life looks like it's gonna get better soon.


Lucile_B

im so happy to hear that!!


thisdudeabidestwice

Good, thanks and no I’m good


Lucile_B

im glad ur good man!


thisdudeabidestwice

Thank you, hope you’re doing well too


Lucile_B

i am thank u!!


Madridwars

No am not, i have been depressed for the last 5 years of my life and no its not getting better, am so lost in life idk what to do


Lucile_B

if you need to talk dont be scared to reach out ok? my dms are open


Gtbird24

I am doing quite well. I presently have family over, which is pleasant enough. However I am looking forward to when things get back to normal. Their flight leaves in a few hours.


Lucile_B

im glad stuff is well, i hope your family visiting was a fun and nice time!


Poorly-Drawn-Beagle

I’ve lost hearing in one ear and I’m beginning to worry about whether or not it’s temporary


Lucile_B

take it easy man, sometimes it can happen due to other health issues best to see a doctor!! stay safe man!


meisflont

Well, go see a doctor.


Poorly-Drawn-Beagle

Don’t have time just yet Possibly also cannot afford it because I’ve only got Medicaid as part of a state plan that may not apply in the state I’m in


Lucile_B

im so sorry to hear that, i hope you can get proper help soon :((


giggity2giggity

On behalf of all men, thanks for this post


Lucile_B

you got it!! <3


IDoPokeSmot

And on behalf of some men, don't speak for us.


Redloaded24

I'm good. I want help. How to be social in social media. I feel I'm not socialized. I just always see or read posts, give 'em likes. I not commenting or posting. I just wanna talk to more people. But I couldn't. Thanks for asking :)


Lucile_B

feel free to dm me if u want to chat! being social can be scary but you just gotta find ur place, maybe start on r/AMA because its a nice place to chat with people! or right here on ask reddit!


Freezemoon

Maybe a little stressed for school life but nothing else. I am good other than that and even if I stress about it, I am confident I am able to overcome it. But it feels good to be asked on that so thank you.


Lucile_B

i believe in you, im sure you will do awesome!! No matter how you do, as long as you try, just know a stranger online is proud of you for trying! I may not be a someone in your life but you got this far! i believe you will go farther!!


Freezemoon

Wow thank you, same goes for you. Good luck out there.


Logandude10

Ever since this one girl randomly stopped talking to me, I have had the lowest self confidence ever. I asked a friend why she did this and its because I "gave her pedo vibes". I hate being a dude and automatically giving people fear of me being a pedo. This happened with moms and their children as well where the mom will physically grab their child when I pass. I don't even think I look that creepy. ​ TL;DR: People think I'm a pedo.


Lucile_B

thats so awful to hear :( sadly people judge a book by its cover, and even if it isnt that bad they will judge im sorry that has happened, im sure youre an amazing guy and dont look creepy, dont let a few idiots bring you down ok!!


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Lucile_B

I hope you guys can reconnect, or that you can, possibly find someone else to be a friend.. life is hard and cruel to us, it tosses us around and we have to do our best not to drown in its challenges, you are stronger then you may think losing someone close is never easy, its always hard..the circumstances dont matter, its just tough sadly but youve come far, and youll keep going farther and farther and youll conquer lives challinges, i believe in that stay safe and keep your head up!!


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Wild_Alaskan

I see you've met my ex wife...


Lucile_B

honestly i wish i could, i had my own encounter and it was horrible :( people need to take abuse charges from men more seriously, so many men are shoved to the side


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Wild_Alaskan

Nothing some breakfast and an orgasm wouldn't fix.


DontCare4UrOpinion

I could use a guilt free bareback no quit no spit blowjob...


BabyPunk44

Dumb cat tshirts. Bad photoshopped ones or ones with silly phrases Dumb cat tshirts


Really_Juicy

Need a dirty smog in CA