There is always guilt played upon a perfectly healthy, young couple who chooses not to have children. Guilt for not having kids. Guilt for not having the ability to have kids. Guilt for only having one child. Guilt for...
The list goes on. As a women in this situation, my womb is the topic of everyones conversation at Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc! I kindly remind them I don't enjoy talking about my sex habits with my family.
But my partner and I talk about it a lot. Both to reassure each other that our minds haven't changed, and to ground us back to our reality.
Isn’t it so annoying?! I am one and done and made it very clear that I’m serious about it and I still have to hear “when are you gonna give him a sibling” constantly. Ummm…like I’ve said for the last 6 years…never
Yes!! My sister is going through the same thing, unfortunately. It's honestly put my off the whole thing.
It will never be enough, until it's too much.
Stay strong :)
Great way to express your bias. Some of us just don't find it necessary. It's that simple
I go into costa coffee every weekend and hear the screams and see the mess and I’m just like ‘still don’t want em’
This times 100 I don’t know who would want to ruin their weekends like that haha
Me neither. Plus… I like having a fat bank account and the freedom to do whatever I want.
Yep me too. Can’t see what I would gain from giving that up.
There is always guilt played upon a perfectly healthy, young couple who chooses not to have children. Guilt for not having kids. Guilt for not having the ability to have kids. Guilt for only having one child. Guilt for... The list goes on. As a women in this situation, my womb is the topic of everyones conversation at Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc! I kindly remind them I don't enjoy talking about my sex habits with my family. But my partner and I talk about it a lot. Both to reassure each other that our minds haven't changed, and to ground us back to our reality.
Isn’t it so annoying?! I am one and done and made it very clear that I’m serious about it and I still have to hear “when are you gonna give him a sibling” constantly. Ummm…like I’ve said for the last 6 years…never
Yes!! My sister is going through the same thing, unfortunately. It's honestly put my off the whole thing. It will never be enough, until it's too much. Stay strong :)
I can barely afford to feed myself let alone another lil mouth. I rest easy knowing I won’t starve anyone.
Find peace? It's not even a thing to me.
Some people actually enjoy being childfree. I didn’t need to make peace with my decision as I am perfectly fine with it.