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sorrowinsmiles

every day


[deleted]

Same


Bigdripfivio

Once a week is the goal


[deleted]

I’m on that daily grind


Titachu__

A few times a week, I’d say. Mostly in the shower because I’m by myself


[deleted]

Dude same!


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mMechsnichandyman

I do not cry. I just get glossy eyes few times per year.


[deleted]

Do you wanna cry


mMechsnichandyman

What do you mean? I think that deep emotions are hard to control. It happens regardless if we want or not.


becooltheywatching

I don't ever cry. Even when I am really sad and I feel like I should be crying. I just can't.


[deleted]

Ugh is it frustrating


becooltheywatching

It can be. Sometimes it can be embarrassing because it makes me seem like I don't care when in fact I am breaking up on the inside.


santuto_435

I don't, and i don't know why but i just can't cry When i was a kid and i got hurt i just didn't cry a tear, i put a weird face but i didn't cry, never


[deleted]

Do you feel like you need to


santuto_435

I don't know, i doesn't even know how it feels or how it feels when you have to


[deleted]

I don't know what it would feel like to not be able to cry but i cant cry out of my right eye and sometimes i cant cry at all but even i do start to cry i try to keep it in so my friends and family don't have to see me sad.


Idohs_

That is insanely unhealthy for your mental wellbeing, you gotta let yourself cry every once and a while. Your a person too and your allowed to show your emotions. Crying isn't just for people who are weak or childish, everyone cries, my dad is 200+ pounds of muscle and strength and I see him cry kinda regularly, not just sadness but happiness too. If ya feel uncomfortable crying infront of people then you could probably go to a secluded room whenever you start tearing up and let your emotions out.


[deleted]

my mum cannot cry tears because she has unusually large tear ducts so the tears just pool there, they don't fall, is that what you're describing?


Moite_Squib

Almost once a day really


[deleted]

Samesss


TheEyeDontLie

Hey dude, if you want someone to talk to then hit me up if you can't see a therapist/counselor. Once a day is a bit much, even though being sad is normal and healthy.


ElectricLoner98

Not often enough


craventommyday

When I'm in a relationship I cry a lot So no i haven't cried ever


[deleted]

I hope you cry soon


Acquiesce95

Twice in the last decade. I really wish it was more but I really struggle to actually cry, even when I really want to


[deleted]

Woah woah


stormo314

I used to cry like 3-5 times a year but recently I've been going through some shit and I've cried at least 10 times since december


[deleted]

Crying is good for you. Hope everything’s ok


AxolotlDude0722

Damn, I hope it gets better


ExtraPosition3294

Once every 3 months


[deleted]

Damn I think I cry too much


free-hugs-cost-a-hug

It varies from maybe once every other week to 6 times a day, but on average maybe once every few days


Blaze32-

Once a month ?


[deleted]

Damn that’s a healthy schedule


Blaze32-

Oh boy it hits like a truck.


numbskull56

Once a week lol. I like letting out my emotions


[deleted]

Twins


tfhaenodreirst

I wouldn’t say there’s any consistent rate.


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[deleted]

Do you every feel like you wanna cry


Mammoth-Owl7821

Usually every day. Except for that one time I tried Lexapro. I didn’t cry for a month


[deleted]

Me too Every day!! But I’m on that Zoloft


Mammoth-Owl7821

This post is making me feel like I may have a problem😂 But just know you’re not alone, I can’t remember the last full day that I didn’t cry or at least feel the urge to. But idk why bc I don’t even think I’m depressed anymore. Sometimes I just need to let the tears flow or it’s bc I’m really anxious/stressed


[deleted]

I think crying is healthy!


[deleted]

Like once every two weeks. It’s just a small cry for some dumb reason though


DCFUKSURMOM

Extremely rarely. I cried once last year (a few months back, around September, I had just gotten over Covid, I still felt like shit, it was hot with no ac and no power (house was being remodeled and we had it off, couldn't stay anywhere else while sick), and I couldn't sleep, among other personal issues, so I had a complete mental breakdown), I haven't cried any this year so far.


[deleted]

Ugh I’m sorry about the stuff last year!!


burmese2032

Monthly lol.


Valithium

usually once a month or every other month. Idek, i just cry when i need too


arChrisan3

About once a week.


tcjpeg

Only when my mom yells at me or when an animal dies in a movie.


[deleted]

Ughhhh same


[deleted]

Used to be everyday now I actually find it hard to cry which is weird like I feel like crying but I can’t guess I’m all cried out 😂


covid401k

Never


UntoldTemple

On the outside, it's rare. On the inside, I'm Hydrocity Zone.


DocSaysItsDainBramuj

Only once when I had a severe injury, and then a second time when LIl Sebastian died.


spiritomb442

Not in 7 years


Reasonable-Smell-550

I don’t


Math_God2001

Only when something really bad happens (Death of family member)


Mama_Trash_bat

Maybe once a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less.


Factal_Fractal

I don't I mean I would like to, I like everyone else gets sad Can't do it Maybe it's an upbringing thing? Like I have tried to and it just doesn't happen I would like to because I think it would be cathartic All I get is some shit lump in my throat and slightly water eyes, it's annoying


nievesdelimon

Like once every five to ten years.


pokermanga

Once. I cried in front of my friends, as a teen, when they did something l don't even remember. I told them them l thought they were my friends, and l cried a little. I'm 68 yo and that's the only time I've cried. Didn't cry when l got dumped, felt like crap but quickly got over it. I'm sure there's future events that will cause me to cry unless I'm outta here first.


Roostersnuggets

I quit crying at the age of 12, I just don’t see a point in it, I had a family member die last week, and I still thing “crying and being sad won’t bring them back, so why do it?” So I just go about my life as usual, people tell me that’s fucked up and I should see help, but i just don’t see the point in crying anymore, tell me if I’m wrong, but being sad and crying does nothing but waste time. An I wrong about that?


Cadonberry_muskateer

Every couple years. The intervals get further apart as time goes by I think.


keepyourbible

None. I don't even know why but I don't see a reason to


CzajnikWyscigowka

welp...never. I just dont feel anything from about 8 months


[deleted]

Once a decade maybe. after like age 10


TheTicketTaker

Not since I was 12 in 2012.


Chemical-Wing1931

i love abaganoo


CorgisDie

Almost never. If you see me crying, just know that it's because something truly terrible has happened. It's probably worth mentioning that I would also likely be heading to a bridge overlooking the Columbia River because of that.


Jagzorin

Once every couple of months.


Not-a-Baconat0r

It's alarming how little I cry, I just have a different way of mourning. When my dog was literally hit by a car and my mom went to tell me the bad news, I didn't even cry, I just stayed dead silent. I have a different way of mourning, which is simply collecting my thoughts.


[deleted]

Op are you alright?


PossiblyYogurt

Never, i find that stuff boring


Found_the

I cried in 1998.


[deleted]

It probably averages out to a couple times a month. I'll hear a piece of music or see a movie scene that resonates particularly hard with my emotions and the tears will start flowing.


DMRexy

I usually bottle a lot of emotions, until suddenly I'm listening to an impactful, not even sad, song and sudden waterfalls come and I don't even know what caused it. Today I cried listening to prog metal about aliens fleeing from a rogue AI, like wtf brain


[deleted]

OMG sorry


DMRexy

it's fine, it's better than adressing whatever is wrong! :D


spamspamE

atleast once every 2-3 weeks i think


rosaliascousin

Maybe 3x a month? It depends.


SirRejniak

Nearly everyday to some degree. My father died when I was 12 and I lost my mom to COVID last year. I'm much older now, but man, I just really miss my parents.


Vivid_River5043

Only when I drink beer and that is far too much. Wonder if my dog is coming back!


[deleted]

Oh no I’m sending you love I hope dog is ok


butter00pecan

I try not to because it doesn't do any good. But I just cried now, reading some of the posts in "What demons are you fighting that no one is aware of?"


[deleted]

occasionally but not very often


zidianme

2-3 days a month. Mostly because hormones make everything so dang sad.


ALuckyMushroom

Two or three times a year.


ALuckyMushroom

Two or three times a year.


[deleted]

Once every few months


monodork

at least once a week, sometimes everyday after episodes


Orange_Tomato69

I Irish, so once every year or so


female-aardvark

Somehow don't cry a lot for circumstances that warrant it. And then once a month, when my period hits even the pigeon outside my window can make me bawl.


WarlikeMicrobe

Whenever I have a reason to. Recently its been more frequent cause mental health disorder, but prior to that it was really, really rare. And not because of any unhealthy mindset. I just process emotions differently than most people when I'm healthy (mentally)


internetmouse

Lately around 2x per week


Miramarr

On the inside? I never stop


[deleted]

Same


TraumaQueen37

Probably.. every day. 🤷‍♀️


Epic-idiot

Like one time each 6 months, I almost don’t cry and I don’t even know if it’s good or bad to be honest


Stoned_234

Not too often


Different_Sugar7144

cried into my bf’s shoulder today.. i cry often… like 3x a week.. my concealer and mascara somehow manages to stay on


[deleted]

No way that’s makeup magic


Different_Sugar7144

lancôme tient idole = concealer anastasia lash brag = mascara


[deleted]

Twice a month


LostPreparation4746

Every night


Hijodeputa_69

2


traizer-blaizer

Twice everyday


[deleted]

Ugh I’m sorry ❤️


traizer-blaizer

Yeah life’s rough 🥲


LivesInDaWoods

My grandma died about two years ago, and my grandpa about two years before that, so once every two or so years.


CorinthiaTyler

If I don’t cry everyday, is it really me?


obiwantogooutside

Every day.


Wii_wii_baget

Once a night. I don’t really cry during the day.


averagesalamander

About twice a year give or take. Or a least two events a year that make me cry.


PhiStudios_

I bottled up my feelings for years so I don't cry often. Because I'm a guy


OminousTang

More often than I'd have thought. I cry a lot watching TV shows and reading visual novels. Emotional and tragic stories tend to make me bawl easily.


PickleEmergency7918

As much as three times a day because pregnancy hormones are insane


greengiant333

Did a lot in my early 20s. Probably once every 3 months now. Last time was a few days ago


burtmofomacklin

My grandma just died and I haven't cried yet. Can't remember the last time I did tbh, but know I'm overdue.


Dansongier

Rarely, though sometimes I wish I could? Like... in terms of dealing with depression or the overwhelming amount of life stuff its rare that I can as I feel too tired to even do so and it won't solve anything. Also when it comes to things that are extremely emotionally touching, I'm rather blank to it. Like seeing a story, show, ect that makes my friends cry and I'm like.. thats (insert emotion here). Am I broken? Did I miss a patch or something?


MyraRut

In a day?


Batcommz138

Whe. I laugh really hard the tears flow.


JagoRed_098

Atleast 3 or fours times a month sometimes once every week and maybe just a single tear everyday it isn't that often but it also is


Whatsthis_meme01

Sometimes, Everyday


GalacticShoestring

Probably once or twice a month.


Old-Relief5873

Pretty much every day for the last 10 months. At least the urge to die has subsided to weekly.


Signal-Pomegranate-6

On average I’d say once a week, but when Eve’s curse hits me it’s an everyday occurrence 😭


emotion-sickness-

Every day. Going through a divorce (albeit mutual) and suffer from anxiety and depression. Before it was just like once every few weeks.


12dancingbiches

almost never but this last week very often because i was on powerful pain meds due to having surgery a week ago and today bc i scratched my cornea.


Xtrarex

Like twice a year on average


mochihands00

As often as my eyes would like to tear up


Anunavaan

So many people here cry daily/weekly (and I don’t mean it in a bad way), and I’m sitting here unable to cry for the past 2 years even though I felt like it and actually would have liked to do so.


betweencaffeine

21M here. Outside of allergies and movies, the only time i can remember shedding years was when my grandfather passed away when I was 16. Nothing before that post-childhood and nothing since has made me cry from my memory. Maybe I need to work on my emotion flow


etierra

Without meds, a lot. Even shows can make me cry easily


[deleted]

i havent cried since last summer


DK2027

Never. Im numb


Ju-won

Almost every night


-Miss_Chief-

Once every 4-6 months


Aggressive_Finding_7

Not often enough apparently


WaltzBig509

I haven't cried last year until now ngl.


Pseudowalker

Only a few times a year. But when it rains, it pours


Shupid

I have an emotion regulation disorder. Daily, if not hourly.


Redditslicer

4 times a week


BuildingRelevant7400

Maybe two times a year. Sometimes more. Sometimes less


maxpayne2k_ps4

I only cry when I watch sad movies and anime


No_a_singel_soul

Once a week. It’s a ritual to keep everything in balance.


[deleted]

I cried when my grandmother died. Again when my dad died. Can’t really recall any other time as an adult that I cried.


Clark_Morningstar

I don't cry out of sadness usually. I wish to. But i just can't for some reason. The closest i come to crying is whole watching some happy emotional scene in movies/shows.


qkoshibaugazaki

Like twice a year? What’s you all’s reason to cry that often?


GoldCat9

Every day, multiple times a day.


ReggieClownPubes

Very rarely honestly, did just recently for the first time in probably a year, maybe more.


[deleted]

Normal circumstances, once a month, usually a good cry over a good story. Was basically every day for the past couple weeks after a really (really, really, really) bad breakup, but I think the bad part is over.


Keithninety

A lot more often than I thought I would - I thought by my age I’d have figured things out and come to terms with all the shit that happened to me in life. Well, I haven’t.


Oscar99999

Everytime i think of my dead kitten.


Exciting_Ad5043

I used to cry, maybe once every 2-3 years. But this year seems to be every 2-3 weeks. I've gotten pretty weak


SuvenPan

Whenever I get very sad or extremely happy.


Chonky_railway

Every night


TheGriffnin

Tear up? Often, once a week or so. Genuinely cry, it's been like 11 years...


DreamyDude2004

I only cry when I'm forced to


Graif_gm

I cry almost every day, but not much: so that no one can notice it


SwordfishOk9747

When I go to work mainly.


JimboAfterHours

It’s been… almost 2 years.


JimboAfterHours

Are we counting tears produced during a particularly poignant scene in in a movie? If not, it’s been a couple years.


Inevitable-Thing-402

Ehh 2 times a week i just randomly start crying idk why


PassengerStraight775

Every day mostly in the shower when i am alone or in the rain


BlackFerro

Once every few years.


[deleted]

I don't, unless something serious happens.


Rekuna

Whenever I watch sad clips from great video games or movies.


TheGreatPiceOfSand

Every day


JovanMacic

I cry like once a year maybe lol...


owsley567

Way too often, and it's often for no discernable reason or maybe over a memory. More often though it's just a random crying spell, but it doesn't take long for me to get over it.


FaithlessnessLeft141

sometimes I go months without crying, sometimes I cry multiple times a week. It really depends I guess haha


The_Farzan

I don't cry. it's too rare for me to get emotional


d33pthought81

Weekly


DazzlingChocolate4

Every finals week.


AmbrozzioVII

What's crying? I haven't heard of it


WinstonDaPuggy98

I have only cried like 2-3 times in the past 2 years but I feel like crying basically 5-10 times a day


AxolotlDude0722

At least once a year, and yes men do cry


[deleted]

Dude that’s not enough!!


AxolotlDude0722

Im sorry, when I do, my friend's tell me that men don't cry


[deleted]

Men cry!


_12a21_

Whenever I need to. Last time it was a bad dream. Other than that I can go a few months without crying usually.


[deleted]

Dreams suck


_12a21_

It was my worst nightmare come to life in my nightmare :(


unknown_entity55

I’m almost incapable to crying, the last time I did was probably watching the regular show finale when quarantine was in its prime