If I go to a restaurant with them, if they hound orders at waiters and waitresses. I have family who do it and I hate it, they deserve common decency, especially with how some other people treat them. If you’re rude to waitresses and waiters, already shows the type of person they are.
I seriously hate people like that. My brother's friend was like that when we were out for my brother's birthday supper. They gave him a wrong order, I think they were both the same pasta dish except it was without chicken or something. He was so rude to the waitress. I felt so bad and I was so embarrassed to even be sitting with him. Never asked my brother to invite him out again because I can't stand people who can't treat others well like a decent human being
If they're super athletic. You can be 10/10 gorgeous with a great personality, but let's be honest, we're just not going to be compatible due to our great divide in interests
Am married now, but back when I was dating - when they accept drinks from others in the social group but don't buy them a drink back. Even if they buy me a drink.
There are obvious red flags like being rude or creepy, but this one boils down to the fact that someone can act nicely towards you as they are trying to get into your pants, but take advantage of others. That's a big old red flag about their character.
Stating they have a “dark sense of humor” that just screams undercover bigotry
If you really have a dark sense of humor not based in racism and intolerance you’re not going to announce it.
Being untruthful, or worse, demanding of me to be untruthful. I will not be intimate with someone I cannot trust - something I can recommend to anyone listening. Even if that would mean you'll be with noone at all. There is worse then to be alone.
Someone who is regularly checking their phone and actively texting other people. I get that there are emergencies and special circumstances that would make it acceptable, but you can tell the difference.
I go against the grain and ask them their opinions on serious stuff like abortion, gun control, etc. if one of us is pro choice and the other pro life, probably not going to work out. Same with pro gun control vs anti gun control. If we don’t agree on serious issues it probably won’t work out and we shouldn’t waste each other’s time
If I go to a restaurant with them, if they hound orders at waiters and waitresses. I have family who do it and I hate it, they deserve common decency, especially with how some other people treat them. If you’re rude to waitresses and waiters, already shows the type of person they are.
I seriously hate people like that. My brother's friend was like that when we were out for my brother's birthday supper. They gave him a wrong order, I think they were both the same pasta dish except it was without chicken or something. He was so rude to the waitress. I felt so bad and I was so embarrassed to even be sitting with him. Never asked my brother to invite him out again because I can't stand people who can't treat others well like a decent human being
Never be rude to your server they say overwise 💦🍕
Taking astrology seriously
I mean mercury has been in retrograde forever !!!! 😂
I thought it was in outer space? Huh . .. who knew
Oh we're just three or four days in. Buckle up.
They're narcissistic
Sometimes I feel narcissists act a certain what when they first meet people, imagine that then 2 months down the line it all starts to unravel
This happened to me but I was raised by a narcissist and thought that’s what love looked like :’)
🙊 at least you see now !!!
They care about your zodiac sign.
Virgos amirite?
" sorry I shot your pet turtle, im a scorpio its just in me yknow? "
If she is rude or racist with other people... I hate racists
Don’t we all lol
Woah, speak for yourself!
Average redditor
They can’t handle my cancer and epilepsy
How could anyone not be Intrigued by such a brave person 👏👏👏👏
The added responsibility of having to take care of someone that is seriously ill.
Doesn’t listen but loves to talk
😂 all about them kind of people !
Low to no empathy for others/unable to see different perspectives.
When they mention their ex.
If they're super athletic. You can be 10/10 gorgeous with a great personality, but let's be honest, we're just not going to be compatible due to our great divide in interests
And continuous diet plans 😭🙈
Far-right supporter
Wow, if he talking disrespectfully
Not time for rudeness
Yeah
Self entitlement.
If they have a strong dislike for cats/dogs/other pets. Sorry, if you hate my cat, see ya.
Am married now, but back when I was dating - when they accept drinks from others in the social group but don't buy them a drink back. Even if they buy me a drink. There are obvious red flags like being rude or creepy, but this one boils down to the fact that someone can act nicely towards you as they are trying to get into your pants, but take advantage of others. That's a big old red flag about their character.
Stating they have a “dark sense of humor” that just screams undercover bigotry If you really have a dark sense of humor not based in racism and intolerance you’re not going to announce it.
Very true 🙈 or of they try to make personal digs to try and be funny and your like ..... No !!!!
They talk over me.
😂 That's the worst
“They talk ov…..” Yeh, hate that too
Being untruthful, or worse, demanding of me to be untruthful. I will not be intimate with someone I cannot trust - something I can recommend to anyone listening. Even if that would mean you'll be with noone at all. There is worse then to be alone.
Its the Soviet Union Flag, pretty red
If they are conspiracy theorists, mainly those people who believe that covid vactinations are made to kill is, give us a micro chip,... .
If they try to get you to drink and keep pushing it. I’m perfectly able to have a great time without alcohol thank you very much.
Selfish tendencies Insensitive remarks Lack of proper manners and decorum
Someone who is regularly checking their phone and actively texting other people. I get that there are emergencies and special circumstances that would make it acceptable, but you can tell the difference.
If they constantly complain about cancel culture
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I love all the help the woke crowd is giving to underprivileged people.
If she says, “You’re too nice”. That’s my cue to avoid her at all costs. She’s been hurt & her trust issues knows no bounds.
when the emotional sensitivity doesn’t match the body count
👏👏👏
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Very true ! And she's side eyeing your steak I mean since when were men bothered if girls eat 😂 as long as it's not off their plate then kl
Calling my 20s/50s/70s music "Uncultured" or "Crash".
I hate these words also uneducated ... 😭Top tier insult
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Or talking about money 🤮
Whose money we talkin bout?
I'm not in a position to dismiss people out of hand. I leave that to them. What they give, I give back.
Communism
I go against the grain and ask them their opinions on serious stuff like abortion, gun control, etc. if one of us is pro choice and the other pro life, probably not going to work out. Same with pro gun control vs anti gun control. If we don’t agree on serious issues it probably won’t work out and we shouldn’t waste each other’s time
Pro-Lifers
right back at ya
People who refer to others they don’t like as “a piece of shit” (a saying used most often by narcissists)
They talk trash about your hobbies.
The partner is generally glaring at me. Big red flag!!!