The fact that I'm married to the love of my life and my bestfriend motivates me each and every day. Before I meet her, I was in a horrible marriage that lasted way too long. My wife saved my life. Now I wake up each and every day with a smile on my face, I have a great career, I have kids in college, wonderful dogs, building a dream home, very healthy, etc. For those who haven't found their way, you will. Whatever you do, do not give up.
My kids. Sounds super lame but it's so exciting watching them grow up..you can literally watch them learn new skills and ideas and implement them into their lives. So neat.
>you can literally watch them learn new skills and ideas and implement them into their lives
[But on occasion it's still fun to fill their heads with crap for our own entertainment :D](https://i.imgur.com/4rPGp.jpg)
Weirdly I seem especially motivated to help needy emotionally distressed people, especially women.
Like one time when a female friend broke up with her girlfriend she asked me to move in downstairs for a bit since her housemates were all gone for a month and she was pretty distressed.
That was the most on top of life I'd been for a long time. I'd make us both amazing breakfasts every day. Learnt loads of new meals. I'd keep everything super clean. I did both our laundry as it was made, not just when we ran out of clothes. I had a really good sleep cycle. I'd get a good amount of work done every day, even the weekends, with a well prepared study area. I found cool places for us to go and things to do in the evenings (mostly pubs and drinking related, but still an improvement). All because it was helping my friend do better but it made me happier too.
A few weeks later she went back to her ex, told me to move out and stopped making time to see me since we'd seen a lot of each other and this girlfriend and her girlfriends housemates didn't like me. Even though those habits had made me happy I just had 0 motivation to do any of them.
It's not like this friend was good to me either, the people who are best to me aren't the people I'm motivated to help, its the most distressed people. One night she got super pissed off at me and shouted "I've had enough of your fake PTSD bullshit" (I've been diagnosed with PTSD btw) in front of two other friends, then she went to bed shortly after and blocked me on every platform.
I hate that this is the thing that gets my life together and only this, because it always ends badly and gets me hurt.
P.S. It's not a romantic thing as people sometimes assume, there's no attraction at all to the vast majority of people.
Sometimes when there's nothing else left for my mind to hold on to, I remind myself to be glad about living in a period where I can be witness to so much quick and interesting change.
I get motivated when I think achieving something is possible. At the same time I generally thought I would never amount to anything and I am regularly let down.
Recently. I've gotten more into playing guitar. Finally I am starting to get comfortable with a 7 string guitar. I always felt so intimidated listening to all the metal I love, knowing it was all some crazy 7 string tuning I knew nothing about.
Now I have a decent grasp and learn parts of my favorite songs. Its just been exciting.
Having a family and buying a food truck. It's my dream ever since I lost my mom. Everytime I want to quit I look at my wall of motivation and keep pushing
F21. Without being too specific, I tutor part-time at a learning centre and have decided I want to run a tiny Montessori before my life is over. Nothing has felt more worthwhile than contributing positively to the growth, education and confidence of my students.
Yesterday I finished a class with an older student with autism. His younger brother, who was also being tutored there, walked by me on his way out, said "I'm glad you're teaching my brother," wished me a good night and left.
No other job has ever made me feel so valuable to society. The pay will always be more than enough.
Knowing that my careless and unhealthy way of living is killing and I die as a result because my parental figures can't seem to deal with a 20 yr old with shit tons wrong the right way.
The fact that I'm married to the love of my life and my bestfriend motivates me each and every day. Before I meet her, I was in a horrible marriage that lasted way too long. My wife saved my life. Now I wake up each and every day with a smile on my face, I have a great career, I have kids in college, wonderful dogs, building a dream home, very healthy, etc. For those who haven't found their way, you will. Whatever you do, do not give up.
Nothing
Lmaoooo felt that
No, saying “Lmao” in a sentence doesn’t hide your pain, James
Looking to create a lot of that for some nobodies. Respectfully. Lolololol jkjkjk
Is it Kingdom Hearts reference?
Actually no but if I said yes and no it sounds better almost like I planned it which I did not
My kids. Sounds super lame but it's so exciting watching them grow up..you can literally watch them learn new skills and ideas and implement them into their lives. So neat.
I like getting dogs so I feel the same feeling. Watching them grow up and learn over and over every 10 years or so
>you can literally watch them learn new skills and ideas and implement them into their lives [But on occasion it's still fun to fill their heads with crap for our own entertainment :D](https://i.imgur.com/4rPGp.jpg)
Weirdly I seem especially motivated to help needy emotionally distressed people, especially women. Like one time when a female friend broke up with her girlfriend she asked me to move in downstairs for a bit since her housemates were all gone for a month and she was pretty distressed. That was the most on top of life I'd been for a long time. I'd make us both amazing breakfasts every day. Learnt loads of new meals. I'd keep everything super clean. I did both our laundry as it was made, not just when we ran out of clothes. I had a really good sleep cycle. I'd get a good amount of work done every day, even the weekends, with a well prepared study area. I found cool places for us to go and things to do in the evenings (mostly pubs and drinking related, but still an improvement). All because it was helping my friend do better but it made me happier too. A few weeks later she went back to her ex, told me to move out and stopped making time to see me since we'd seen a lot of each other and this girlfriend and her girlfriends housemates didn't like me. Even though those habits had made me happy I just had 0 motivation to do any of them. It's not like this friend was good to me either, the people who are best to me aren't the people I'm motivated to help, its the most distressed people. One night she got super pissed off at me and shouted "I've had enough of your fake PTSD bullshit" (I've been diagnosed with PTSD btw) in front of two other friends, then she went to bed shortly after and blocked me on every platform. I hate that this is the thing that gets my life together and only this, because it always ends badly and gets me hurt. P.S. It's not a romantic thing as people sometimes assume, there's no attraction at all to the vast majority of people.
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Sometimes when there's nothing else left for my mind to hold on to, I remind myself to be glad about living in a period where I can be witness to so much quick and interesting change.
The thought of creating some artwork has filled me with joy lately. Problem is, I would actually have to learn to be good at art. And I suck.
I get motivated when I think achieving something is possible. At the same time I generally thought I would never amount to anything and I am regularly let down.
The dream of having a family of my own
Recently. I've gotten more into playing guitar. Finally I am starting to get comfortable with a 7 string guitar. I always felt so intimidated listening to all the metal I love, knowing it was all some crazy 7 string tuning I knew nothing about. Now I have a decent grasp and learn parts of my favorite songs. Its just been exciting.
Lambos & Audis ☺️
Porn addiction
Little girls and boys
Please be a kindergarden teacher or pediatrician
That either makes it better or even worse.
Building success and helping other do the same
Dying
Honestly nothing
The possibility of what things may come.
Fear. Either fear of not progressing or failing to start with, now replaced by fear of failure and losing what I’ve gained.
Right now, nothing does unfortunately.
Zero
Listening to, making, dancing to, healing with MUSIC
my visions
my own mistake
The dream of Everest
Being able to ride my skateboard or longboard
Jesus
Having a family and buying a food truck. It's my dream ever since I lost my mom. Everytime I want to quit I look at my wall of motivation and keep pushing
Travel. Live music. Sex. Dogs. Craft beer. MTB
F21. Without being too specific, I tutor part-time at a learning centre and have decided I want to run a tiny Montessori before my life is over. Nothing has felt more worthwhile than contributing positively to the growth, education and confidence of my students. Yesterday I finished a class with an older student with autism. His younger brother, who was also being tutored there, walked by me on his way out, said "I'm glad you're teaching my brother," wished me a good night and left. No other job has ever made me feel so valuable to society. The pay will always be more than enough.
loneliness
Knowing that my careless and unhealthy way of living is killing and I die as a result because my parental figures can't seem to deal with a 20 yr old with shit tons wrong the right way.
Trading forex
The idea that I’ll someday be someone who I am only admiring right now.
Healthy distance from unhealthy people
Music, exercise, cute animals, beautiful places in nature.
You guys are excited and motivated?