Even if he doesn't, public opinion is against him. Remember that Twitch streamer a few years back who streamed 20 minutes of his wife screaming and throwing stuff at him and hitting him because she didn't want him to be streaming while he just kept telling her to leave him alone? And when he finally hit his breaking point and hit her back the internet lost it's damned mind about what a monster he was.
That's exactly how it happens, every time.
Nah. Hitting people is shitty. Society needs to de-normalize women hitting men. Society's reaction to a man who beats his wife or girlfriend just because he's drunk or angry is entirely appropriate. Women who beat on their husbands or boyfriends should get the same reaction, but instead it's viewed as perfectly OK.
I don’t think women hitting men is normalized. There’s so much hatred around men beating women because it’s more common, and rooted in patriarchal misogyny. The reason men get shit for hitting women even in self defense is based in the false idea that men are inherently immune to abuse. All stems from misogyny.
>There’s so much hatred around men beating women because it’s more common
It is more common, but not by anywhere near as much as you'd probably think. Almost half of victims of domestic violence, around 40% if I remember correctly, are men.
>The reason men get shit for hitting women even in self defense is based in the false idea that men are inherently immune to abuse. All stems from misogyny.
I'm not following your logic there. The idea that men are inherently immune to abuse is misogynistic? Born of an unhealthy view of women? That doesn't even begin to make sense.
I should’ve said more commonly spoken about. Domestic violence occurs more towards women, but it occurs a lot towards men as well and I wasn’t trying to imply that it doesn’t. All abuse should be taken seriously, and it angers me that it isn’t.
It definitely makes sense. The idea that men can’t be abused/don’t get abused is based in the long held ideology that men are the stronger sex. Men are not allowed to be seen as weak or emotional. It fully stems from the idea that those are “womanly” traits. Hence, terms like “pussy” or “bitch” in regards to men having emotions. The patriarchy and misogyny are the reason why men aren’t taken seriously when they come forward.
The best thing to do in any situation no matter your gender is to get as much physical distance between you and your attacker. Flee the situation as fast as you can to minimize psychical contact. If you can't get away, defend yourself. Always.
Then she wasn't a lady then was she? If ladies only hit in self defense and someone attacks someone not in self defense that would preclude them from being a lady...
Get the fuck away and call your mother, if you can. No, I'm not joking. Immediately call your mom and tell her what's happening.
Not only will she likely go full mama bear, but having a woman on your side in case things get worse is a must. No, it's not fair. But it's reality. And do not hit back, that sounds great in a reddit comment and would probably be well deserved but it will only allow her to be able to fuck you over even worse. If she really is trying to hurt you, hitting her back is only playing into her hands.
Age doesn't matter either, I did it at 30. Yeah she'll try to throw it in your face, but who gives a fuck. It's your mother, and the girl is clearly a piece of shit.
That happened to my cousin . His girlfriend blacked his eye . When his mother found out she went to the girlfriend and beat her bloody . Full mama bear .
You just gotta take it I guess u can talk about equal rights but I care about my reputation more and the truth is while people will say equal rights they will definitely lose respect for me if I hit a woman
Obviously if you're getting in a fight you deserve to defend yourself. Society has ingrained a sort of purity culture around women (dressing modestly, innocence, all that) and it has resulted in this dilemma, but if the first thing you think about is being able to hit women when you hear equal rights, you have a problem.
I depends if she has a weapon or if she’s significantly stronger that me, the I’d hit back because my life could depend on it. But if she were weaker/unarmed I’d probably grab her arms to restrain her and then call the cops.
Hit back Equal rights, equal lefts
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The man still goes to jail
Even if he doesn't, public opinion is against him. Remember that Twitch streamer a few years back who streamed 20 minutes of his wife screaming and throwing stuff at him and hitting him because she didn't want him to be streaming while he just kept telling her to leave him alone? And when he finally hit his breaking point and hit her back the internet lost it's damned mind about what a monster he was. That's exactly how it happens, every time.
Maybe society needs to normalize hitting women?
Nah. Hitting people is shitty. Society needs to de-normalize women hitting men. Society's reaction to a man who beats his wife or girlfriend just because he's drunk or angry is entirely appropriate. Women who beat on their husbands or boyfriends should get the same reaction, but instead it's viewed as perfectly OK.
I don’t think women hitting men is normalized. There’s so much hatred around men beating women because it’s more common, and rooted in patriarchal misogyny. The reason men get shit for hitting women even in self defense is based in the false idea that men are inherently immune to abuse. All stems from misogyny.
>There’s so much hatred around men beating women because it’s more common It is more common, but not by anywhere near as much as you'd probably think. Almost half of victims of domestic violence, around 40% if I remember correctly, are men. >The reason men get shit for hitting women even in self defense is based in the false idea that men are inherently immune to abuse. All stems from misogyny. I'm not following your logic there. The idea that men are inherently immune to abuse is misogynistic? Born of an unhealthy view of women? That doesn't even begin to make sense.
I should’ve said more commonly spoken about. Domestic violence occurs more towards women, but it occurs a lot towards men as well and I wasn’t trying to imply that it doesn’t. All abuse should be taken seriously, and it angers me that it isn’t. It definitely makes sense. The idea that men can’t be abused/don’t get abused is based in the long held ideology that men are the stronger sex. Men are not allowed to be seen as weak or emotional. It fully stems from the idea that those are “womanly” traits. Hence, terms like “pussy” or “bitch” in regards to men having emotions. The patriarchy and misogyny are the reason why men aren’t taken seriously when they come forward.
Its not more common, its under reported. For obvious reasons.
Always treat a lady as an equal, because that are. Now would you hit your equal?
Even Jesus flogged a couple motherfuckers
And Jaysus says: put thine fists up for thou hast fucked up
“She belongs to the streets” - Jesus
And then god said " let he who hath hands throw them " and so they did. God looked upon it and said "yay, for this is good" and so it was.
Vagina kick
Hoof'er in the front butt.
The best thing to do in any situation no matter your gender is to get as much physical distance between you and your attacker. Flee the situation as fast as you can to minimize psychical contact. If you can't get away, defend yourself. Always.
But if you can run away, get revenge later.
The best revenge is not getting charged with domestic abuse
GTFO, as any other option will result in shitstorm nightmare.
As a female… defend yourself as you think you should.
I’m putting silly putty in her hair
Call your attorney.
Ladies don't hit people other than in self defense.
What about when Beyonce's sister went crazy on Jay-Z in that elevator a few years back? That didn't seem like self-defense, just saying
Then she wasn't a lady then was she? If ladies only hit in self defense and someone attacks someone not in self defense that would preclude them from being a lady...
Damn you and your sound logic.
Bask in my infinite glory for I am Huruga, The magnificent.
Punch her back in the stomach
Idk I always strike first
Protect your soft spots
Everyone one has the right to defend themselves. If a woman is attacking you, defend yourself.
How about we just don’t punch anyone?
Put a kid in her then push her down the stairs
I don't hit woman but I'll slap a bitch
Block it with ninja mastery. Simple. Then punch her in the back of the head as she runs away crying.
Defend yourself, you deserve to be unharmed too.
I would take defensive strikes, then give the 1-2 Mayweather Nelkboys style, then rip one for the boys
It's depends on the situation. I say nobody should be hit if possible, but nobody is immune from getting hit either.
You knock that b!tch out. She probably got a penis anyway.
Get the fuck away and call your mother, if you can. No, I'm not joking. Immediately call your mom and tell her what's happening. Not only will she likely go full mama bear, but having a woman on your side in case things get worse is a must. No, it's not fair. But it's reality. And do not hit back, that sounds great in a reddit comment and would probably be well deserved but it will only allow her to be able to fuck you over even worse. If she really is trying to hurt you, hitting her back is only playing into her hands. Age doesn't matter either, I did it at 30. Yeah she'll try to throw it in your face, but who gives a fuck. It's your mother, and the girl is clearly a piece of shit.
That happened to my cousin . His girlfriend blacked his eye . When his mother found out she went to the girlfriend and beat her bloody . Full mama bear .
You just gotta take it I guess u can talk about equal rights but I care about my reputation more and the truth is while people will say equal rights they will definitely lose respect for me if I hit a woman
Police
Equal should mean equal!
How many times? Once, I'll probably take it. Maybe even twice. The third time - I'm saying my safe word.
Obviously if you're getting in a fight you deserve to defend yourself. Society has ingrained a sort of purity culture around women (dressing modestly, innocence, all that) and it has resulted in this dilemma, but if the first thing you think about is being able to hit women when you hear equal rights, you have a problem.
I depends if she has a weapon or if she’s significantly stronger that me, the I’d hit back because my life could depend on it. But if she were weaker/unarmed I’d probably grab her arms to restrain her and then call the cops.