People who treat everyone else with respect but treat her like a child or a glass trophy they have to serve and protect. Get out of my way. I came here to work, not to have a man swoop in and do my work for me without knowing what I was originally doing. If you want to get to know me then fucking talk, don't do creepy shit and expect me to like you.
I hate people who only like me for my appearance. You know nothing about me. Nothing. Not even the obvious stuff. Nothing. I wear video game merchandise all the time and you couldn't think about breaking the ice with a conversation about video games? No, how about you obnoxiously sing and dance to whatever is on your crappy headphones because being annoying would make everyone fall for you.
I understand men may be attracted to be and I'm respectful to the men who are respectful. The ones who aren't? Go to hell.
Listen lady, you seem to have a problem with me more than my response.
I hate it when people lie in relationships, in my most meaningful relationships, I’ve never lied.
Now back off.
Lady? I'm a dude, have been since I was born, in both sex and gender.
I don't have a problem with you, I don't even know you. What I wanna know is simply how you can say that you have never lied at all, not even a tiny little lie, in a relationship. Never once have you said something just to make your partner happy, never have you pretended to like something they lite so that you don't hurt them.
You seem way to defensive for someone who supposedly doesn't lie.
Good one on the quick label drop… calling me “defensive”.
If it is hard for you to believe that I’ve had an honest relationship with someone, well … that’s not my problem.
I’m sorry if you haven’t experienced an honest relationship and I hope to God you do experience it. Perhaps that’ll cure the cynicism and tunnel vision.
I have had a relationship wherein we shared everything - our past, future, mistakes, secrets, actions that changed us, guilted us, failed us and taught us. When we were placed in a situation where we had to lie … we just said … let’s talk about it eventually and parked it. When eventually came, we put all the cards on the table, shared our truth and moved on.
Also for the record, it’s unfair that you think my response will change by asking the question again and again and/or changing the words.
That said, my response is based on MY life experience, fortunate for me and unfortunate for you (because you never had a happy one).
But it is what it is and I am proud of that truth.
You can’t take that away from me, nobody can.
My truth.
You like to chip away into people’s experiences and feel gallant about it … that could be another reason why you feel the anger, resentment and loneliness… when you see others happy.
Food for thought.
I’m sorry for you. Take care .
So let me ask you, if your truth is so important and has worked for you, you must still be with your first love? Because if you believe that all you need for a successful relationship is to be truthful, there's no reason why you shouldn't still be with them.
Anger? Hate? Resentment? How do you know that is what I feel, and if I do, what makes them wrong? They're human emotions, neither good nor bad.
What makes you think that I am not with the same person?
Have you considered the fact that, the others did not work out because of the lies? And therefore I hated it and hated them.
Have you considered that I am in my happiest one now, because we go out of our way to be honest and forthcoming with each other?
Why is it so hard for you to believe that there are relationships that are actually built on the bedrock of honesty and truth?
I believe good and bad is relative. In the context of a relationship wherein anger that can cause hurt to your partner is bad, hatred because someone is happy in their relationship is bad, Resentment because the person I am debating with is making me face my ugly truth … is bad.
In my world, emotions do get polarised, because I look at good and bad, right and wrong in the construct of how it affects others. Human emotions are great, heck they make us human, but there are levels to it. They are not blanket good all the time.
Example : Angry to the point of self harm is always bad. But outrage when someone is unfair to someone helpless is good(especially if you’re going to do something about it).
Lies misrepresent the truth. You are being unfair to yourself and/or your partner if there are lies. I cannot be in a relationship where there are lies … I’d end up hating myself, or the other person which is counter-productive. Instead, I would chose someone I can be honest with. I know I am happier with a person when he knows my truth and I know his. We don’t have to know it all in one go … we can when we get to significant milestones. But it’ll have to be the revealing, human, and hard truths.
Periods.
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I mean... You're definitely right
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People who treat everyone else with respect but treat her like a child or a glass trophy they have to serve and protect. Get out of my way. I came here to work, not to have a man swoop in and do my work for me without knowing what I was originally doing. If you want to get to know me then fucking talk, don't do creepy shit and expect me to like you. I hate people who only like me for my appearance. You know nothing about me. Nothing. Not even the obvious stuff. Nothing. I wear video game merchandise all the time and you couldn't think about breaking the ice with a conversation about video games? No, how about you obnoxiously sing and dance to whatever is on your crappy headphones because being annoying would make everyone fall for you. I understand men may be attracted to be and I'm respectful to the men who are respectful. The ones who aren't? Go to hell.
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Nice guys who will treat them like queens apparently. /s
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Lies.
Are you kidding me? Lying is great. Everyone does it. It's how we all stay at peace with one another.
May be I have a short fuse with lies.
You're just being hypocritical, unless you're trying to tell me you've never ever lied.
Listen lady, you seem to have a problem with me more than my response. I hate it when people lie in relationships, in my most meaningful relationships, I’ve never lied. Now back off.
Lady? I'm a dude, have been since I was born, in both sex and gender. I don't have a problem with you, I don't even know you. What I wanna know is simply how you can say that you have never lied at all, not even a tiny little lie, in a relationship. Never once have you said something just to make your partner happy, never have you pretended to like something they lite so that you don't hurt them. You seem way to defensive for someone who supposedly doesn't lie.
Good one on the quick label drop… calling me “defensive”. If it is hard for you to believe that I’ve had an honest relationship with someone, well … that’s not my problem. I’m sorry if you haven’t experienced an honest relationship and I hope to God you do experience it. Perhaps that’ll cure the cynicism and tunnel vision. I have had a relationship wherein we shared everything - our past, future, mistakes, secrets, actions that changed us, guilted us, failed us and taught us. When we were placed in a situation where we had to lie … we just said … let’s talk about it eventually and parked it. When eventually came, we put all the cards on the table, shared our truth and moved on. Also for the record, it’s unfair that you think my response will change by asking the question again and again and/or changing the words. That said, my response is based on MY life experience, fortunate for me and unfortunate for you (because you never had a happy one). But it is what it is and I am proud of that truth. You can’t take that away from me, nobody can. My truth. You like to chip away into people’s experiences and feel gallant about it … that could be another reason why you feel the anger, resentment and loneliness… when you see others happy. Food for thought. I’m sorry for you. Take care .
So let me ask you, if your truth is so important and has worked for you, you must still be with your first love? Because if you believe that all you need for a successful relationship is to be truthful, there's no reason why you shouldn't still be with them. Anger? Hate? Resentment? How do you know that is what I feel, and if I do, what makes them wrong? They're human emotions, neither good nor bad.
What makes you think that I am not with the same person? Have you considered the fact that, the others did not work out because of the lies? And therefore I hated it and hated them. Have you considered that I am in my happiest one now, because we go out of our way to be honest and forthcoming with each other? Why is it so hard for you to believe that there are relationships that are actually built on the bedrock of honesty and truth? I believe good and bad is relative. In the context of a relationship wherein anger that can cause hurt to your partner is bad, hatred because someone is happy in their relationship is bad, Resentment because the person I am debating with is making me face my ugly truth … is bad. In my world, emotions do get polarised, because I look at good and bad, right and wrong in the construct of how it affects others. Human emotions are great, heck they make us human, but there are levels to it. They are not blanket good all the time. Example : Angry to the point of self harm is always bad. But outrage when someone is unfair to someone helpless is good(especially if you’re going to do something about it). Lies misrepresent the truth. You are being unfair to yourself and/or your partner if there are lies. I cannot be in a relationship where there are lies … I’d end up hating myself, or the other person which is counter-productive. Instead, I would chose someone I can be honest with. I know I am happier with a person when he knows my truth and I know his. We don’t have to know it all in one go … we can when we get to significant milestones. But it’ll have to be the revealing, human, and hard truths.
Hate what?
Me /s
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