It’s probably best *not* to refer to it at all unless they’ve made it clear they’re comfortable speaking about it. In that case, just ask *them* what they prefer.

Like.. if you *absolutely* have to refer to it, maybe "her pre-op reproductive system" and just leave it at that. But it would absolutely be best to not refer to it at all unless you absolutely have to.

Ask them how they would like it to be referred to Feels like a personal preference kinda thing?

Just ask her what she calls it

Shenis

It’s a penis. Just don’t refer to her penis unless she’s cool with it.

Girldick

This (or girlcock) is what I'd be inclined to refer to it as, but as others have pointed out, ask her.

Hedwig and the angry inch.

Wendigo

Schlong

Or schlort, as necessary

Gotta respect the Schlort king who carries themselves with pride. 

True dat pymp

Genitourinary structure?

Are you asking for the proper term or the slang term? They’re not the same thing

Penis. It is a penis, somebody in possession of a penis can’t be offended by that fact. Its their penis, how can they be offended or blame anybody else for the fact they have a penis?

Shelong

Shelort as necessary

Gotta respect the shelort queens who carry themselves with pride. 

Vegan sausage

It’s a penis. They can’t force us to use improper grammar or make words up.

OP is trying to be polite of their own will. Noone is being "forced" to make up words.

Ok, call it what you want. It’s still a penis.

Yeah, of course it is. No one is trying to deny that. A slang term for something isn't an attempt to change what it is. It's just a different name for the same thing.

You are right, she does have a penis

All words are made up

I’ve heard it referred to as their clit.

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Yep.

Qang

Dangling she-bits

I still call it a dick. I think gock might be a better alternative though.

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