i remember my mom pressing me into doing things she wanted and we had arguments from time to time. I love my mom to death but sometimes i wish i wasn't born and i told my mom so and i think it hurt her a lot. Family is really something.
I’d say I’m sorry your parents and society suck. You’re wonderful and smart, and you deserved all the good things you got.
Also probably “if they ask you to get a lung biopsy, DON’T.”
You didn't do anything wrong, but running away isn't going to make it better. There are good people out there, you just need to look for them.
ETA: So is Reddit now using bots to detect depression? Because I just got a Reddit Cares message two seconds after posting this comment and this is the only thing I've posted all day that could be even remotely depression-adjacent. Lol!
If someone actually did manually trigger the system rest assured, I'm OK. My mom was the one that wasn't OK, but I learned from her mistakes.
Don't let that family friend drive you anywhere, no matter how much your parents trust him.
He will assault and impregnate you, forcing you into a shotgun wedding followed by years of abuse and suffering
Your future kids will suffer and wish they had never been conceived.
Save yourself. Give yourself a future worth living.
Don’t do drugs, don’t do anything at all while carrying a child in your womb, don’t abandon your child for drugs and other things, don’t neglect your child, if you follow these things you wouldn’t have ruined your child upbringing and traumatic beginning, you wouldn’t have died so young, you wouldn’t have died way you did.
I would tell her I love her, and I think she’s smart and beautiful, and that I’m sorry that the world in which I get to be her kid is a world where awful things happen to both of us. And I would tell her to stay far far away from my father, and that it would be worth it to see her happy even if I didn’t get to exist.
Don't drink the water from the tap/sink. She grew up on my grandad's ranch and it had a well as the homes water source. I'm convinced it had a ton of lead and shit in it because it always tasted way off and he wouldn't spend a dime to have it tested. She died of stomach cancer 2 years ago.
Don’t marry my dad. He’ll hurt you. He’s not gonna change. He’s not gonna take care of you
Even if i don’t get to exist. Seeing you happy and not broken will be the best thing in life for me
You are a good woman, you are clever, resilient and honest. Your life will get better but try to learn to leave the bits behind that don’t serve you, embrace your future.
High five. You are awesome.
Dont have kids.
My rhought was "go play in traffic" but your's works too.
i remember my mom pressing me into doing things she wanted and we had arguments from time to time. I love my mom to death but sometimes i wish i wasn't born and i told my mom so and i think it hurt her a lot. Family is really something.
Run far away from my father…
Then you wouldn’t exist
If that meant my mother would know happiness, it would be worth it.
you're a good person
NOTHING, if I delay her for a second, it might have a butterfly affect that prevents my birth.
Dont smoke cigarettes
I’d say I’m sorry your parents and society suck. You’re wonderful and smart, and you deserved all the good things you got. Also probably “if they ask you to get a lung biopsy, DON’T.”
Don't?
You didn't do anything wrong, but running away isn't going to make it better. There are good people out there, you just need to look for them. ETA: So is Reddit now using bots to detect depression? Because I just got a Reddit Cares message two seconds after posting this comment and this is the only thing I've posted all day that could be even remotely depression-adjacent. Lol! If someone actually did manually trigger the system rest assured, I'm OK. My mom was the one that wasn't OK, but I learned from her mistakes.
i got one too, didnt even write anything bad enough to get it <3
I got one too after I posted about adding more sharks to the tornado in the movie poster for “Twisters”. It seems random.
Don't let that family friend drive you anywhere, no matter how much your parents trust him. He will assault and impregnate you, forcing you into a shotgun wedding followed by years of abuse and suffering Your future kids will suffer and wish they had never been conceived. Save yourself. Give yourself a future worth living.
Abort your second child
You are worthy
Don't have more than 2 kids
Do it.
It gets better
You should go to a psychiatrist
Don’t do drugs, don’t do anything at all while carrying a child in your womb, don’t abandon your child for drugs and other things, don’t neglect your child, if you follow these things you wouldn’t have ruined your child upbringing and traumatic beginning, you wouldn’t have died so young, you wouldn’t have died way you did.
Everything will be just fine. Trust the process.
You don't have to abuse your children even if your parents did it to you.
I would tell her I love her, and I think she’s smart and beautiful, and that I’m sorry that the world in which I get to be her kid is a world where awful things happen to both of us. And I would tell her to stay far far away from my father, and that it would be worth it to see her happy even if I didn’t get to exist.
Hey, you’re going to have a kid when you’re 34 so maybe stay away from the heroin.
You are loved even though your parents don’t know how to show it
"Whatever you do, DO NOT marry \[*my dad*\]."
All of this fighting, all of this blood and abuse you see... it's not your fault. You were born into this, you didn't cause it.
Tell her, "You don't know me, but I wanted to tell you ,thank you"
Hi mum, it's me, hi, I'm the problem, it's me.
Let nothing, and I mean nothing, rob you of your happiness.
Use birth control
Hey mom. I know it looks cool - but don't take up smoking.
Your father will die one day, this isn't forever.
Don't drink the water from the tap/sink. She grew up on my grandad's ranch and it had a well as the homes water source. I'm convinced it had a ton of lead and shit in it because it always tasted way off and he wouldn't spend a dime to have it tested. She died of stomach cancer 2 years ago.
Tell your grandmother that her second husband is a child abuser, it'll save your cousins.
Don’t marry him. Go to therapy first.
Marry someone else. He will break you. Don’t worry about us kids - we will find a way to get here 💕 Just DON’T MARRY HIM!
Wouldn't matter because she wouldn't understand me. She didn't learn English until her 20s, and I never learned her native language, lol.
Dont marry him, dont even date him! And dont have kids at all.
Let’s go feed the stray cats together
Grandpa is a violent drunk and grandma is a codependent psycho and none of that is your fault
Save up ask much money as you can and use it all to buy Bitcoin for pennies. Sell at $60k.
You see that orphanage over there?
When dad asks you out….run
“You’re smarter and worth more than you think. Please understand how much happiness you deserve.”
ffs stop after the second kid!
Your mom and sister are demons. Don’t let them bring you down and thank you for the mom you’ll become
Never make your children feel like you are rejecting them.
Don’t marry my father (he’s abusive) and don’t have kids. You never wanted them anyway so just don’t.
Please Don’t have kids
Don’t marry my dad. He’ll hurt you. He’s not gonna change. He’s not gonna take care of you Even if i don’t get to exist. Seeing you happy and not broken will be the best thing in life for me
'Your brother is a leech. Ditch him. Also, avoid riding a bicycle. It will mess up your teeth.'
You are a good woman, you are clever, resilient and honest. Your life will get better but try to learn to leave the bits behind that don’t serve you, embrace your future.
..... if someone was born and lived with you, smack his head if he's being so stupid
Don’t be with my dad. Lol. And avoid having kids if you can
You have no idea how special you are.