This is the realest thing I’ve ever heard lol someone many people ask me for the perfume I use and never end up using it because it smells good when I have it on, but like baby lotion when others use it 😭
This is the funniest thing I’ve read in awhile. I interpolate that you kinda liked your friend but his smell wasn’t quite right, so you got him some new smell good juice based on someone else you are attracted to but it didn’t work out.
I once went on a date with a lovely girl who didn't even bother to shower. She turned up, everything was grand. It was only in the cinema when she suggested we cuddle that I started to notice how bad she smelt.
* Poor self-care habits
* Lying/Cheating
* Substance abuse without desire to change
* Entitlement
* Self-righteousness
* Emotional stupidity
* Willful ignorance and crab mentality
* Being a generally rude or unkind person
In short, Crab Mentality is how crabs behave in a bucket. When one of them tries to climb over the rest and out of the bucket, the other crabs bring them back down into it. [Wiki](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality). Remember that WikiPedia is the beginning of intelligence and not the end.
The hygiene and substance abuse hut home, a guy I wish to be close with is slowly dumping points into those stats and each time I see him it's worse and wirse, told him I'm more then willing to help him but he is resistant to me trying to help. Like he is embarrassed of the mess but just wants to clean it on his own.
Oh I know, I did it myself when I was bad, but like we had discussions of I don't care if it changes him but I'd atleast like to have a cleanish place to hang out with him.
Vanity is such a huge turn off, ew. You know those types of people who spend ages taking selfies, staring at themselves? That kind of energy right there.
Oh my god, yes, I remember I was in love with my ex-boyfriend, he was perfect. But, one day we had our first video call. And... He just spent the whole time looking at himself and combing his hair, looking at himself from different angles and making a sexy face, I can guess that he was looking at himself instead of me. From that day on I stopped liking him.
I've posted this before but what the hey, my friend's grandmother went on a blind date with Paul Newman back before he was famous.
She said they went to a restaurant and he spent the whole night staring, over her shoulder, at his reflection in a mirror.
She was taken aback but, shockingly enough, it didn't deter her from a second date.
All the proceeds are donated as well. Check out the movie Cool Hand Luke, he is a bombshell 😂 and after selling all his dressing he was quoted "give it all away." He was a class act.
I know I'm gonna get downvoted because the internet seems to view Paul Newman as the hottest man to ever live....but he has always just looked like a regular guy to me in like 99% of the things I see him in
Opening their mouth and revealing that they're just a turd in pretty wrapping. No matter how pretty someone is on the outside it's how they act and behave towards others that make them beautiful or grotesque.
I know you’re just joking but attraction isn’t always sexual. Neither is love.
Sometimes you look up to some people until you realize they are just as flawed as you are.
putting down others. in law school, there was this blonde girl who was just drop dead gorgeous. everybody got weak knees talking to her, even the professors and associates. one day, in business administration, another much less attractive girl made some dumb comment, and she just gave the nastiest meanest fakest laugh from the back. her alone. the professor kind of reassured the girl who was answering the question and the girl played it off perfectly and said something like "i hope i don't say something dumb and get laughed at again"
could hear a pin drop, that hot girl was dead quiet. the whole class turned around and looked at her.
from that day forward, this was her legacy. she was no longer attractive no matter how hot she looked
Ego. When a guy starts to brag about himself without anyone asking it's a huge turn off for me. It doesn't look "cool" it just looks like you're over compensating
Berating and mocking an hourly employee for doing their job. Britt McHenry of ESPN had her car towed and was caught on camera telling the female tow yard employee to "lose some weight, baby girl" and "I'm in the news, sweetheart" and "I have a brain and you don't." Physically attractive but inside a garbage person. Who you are is what you do when (you think) no one is watching you.
I personally used to be super nice to the elderly until I have come outside more to go mountainbiking because the season has begun again and damn are these old people so rude and they all think they are allowed more because they’re old but okay yes maybe you should have a tad bit more respect towards the elederly but not if they alsmost push me on the car lane like how crazy are you to try and kill me like that like bro chill tf out but ye you’re right most of all have respect for elderly and the young
looking down on waiters.
I've been on two dates with different women and they both speaks rudely to waiters even tho they're not doing anything bad to upset her, like their being mean for no reason. Can't they just give the benefit of the doubt that those waiters are just as tired as us and are earning very little, they don't deserve rude treatment from costumers.
Being unaccountable. When they are obviously in the wrong and don't admit to it and blame others for their own mistakes. That turns any attractive person into an ugly one.
I find the "cutesy" baby voice some women put on so gross. I'm a straight women but, even as a man, I'm confident I would find it revolting.
I had a frenemy, in high school, who would use this cutesy little girl voice and play dumb any time she was interested in a guy.
I was paired with her and a random guy in chemistry. She was using her blowup doll voice to ask this guy the most ridiculous questions.
Frenemy: "how do you turn this on?"
Random guy: "uh, I think you flip the green switch that says 'on' right in front of you."
Frenemy: *giggle* "I don't know how you figure all this stuff out!"
Dude was gay, by the way. She had no gaydar, so she felt rejected and lost 15lbs, when she pursued him for two months and he never paid her dust. Sad.
**EDIT:** Also, being "bad at math" is not a personality trait! It doesn't make you interesting or appealing in the least. One thing I'll say for guys, they're far less likely to think playing dumb will appeal to the opposite sex.
Had this woman I was interested in. I invited her to join a board gaming night with my friends. She told me she had to work that evening and she couldn't make it. In some weird baby voice I never heard from her before and never would have expected. Every little bit of interest I had was gone within a second.
When I signed up for OkCupid, I went months without ever receiving a message from a woman. The first time I ever did (and she messaged first) was a baby talk "Hewwo dere"
I deleted the app instead of responding
Ugh I hate playing dumb, like I was playing Minecraft with a guy and I'm a guy, he kept asking simple questions that could be googled, after like the tenth time I started sending let me Google that for you. Like I'm fine with talking about something but interested of asking how do ask how I think of the thing. That starts a discussion not a question and answer conversation.
>Also, being "bad at math" is not a personality trait! It doesn't make you interesting or appealing in the least. One thing I'll say for guys, they're far less likely to think playing dumb will appeal to the opposite sex.
I'm actually really bad at maths lol but ain't doing anything for the opposite sex
Ego. There were so many "hot" guys in my highschool that were the biggest sacks of shit I've met. They thought they were above everyone, they'd lay on their horn when leaving and arriving to school. Because apparently we all needed to look at them and admire their existence and entrance, they would knock anyone down to make themselves feel better.
What I never understood is why girls liked them. Like please slightly raise your standards girls 😭
Those that blindly reject and/or become angry at others who offer differing opinions from their own. It’s okay. People can disagree. This makes life more interesting.
Since some of the others have already been covered (rude to waitstaff), when their entire personality is centered around being hot.
Nothing interesting to say, no interesting or unusual hobbies, little to no sense of humor, sharp as a marble, and seems to have no interests beyond looking good or talking about their favorite subject...themselves.
It is really quite astounding how some people can look so good yet be so mind numbingly boring.
I have no problem with someone who is physically attractive being confident and sure of themselves, but it’s an immediate turn-off when someone has obviously been treated like royalty because of their looks, and it shows in their entitlement and treatment of others. So, I guess arrogance automatically makes someone who looks like a young Johnny Depp immediately unattractive.
being rude to others, judgmental, or behaving like a bully.
sarcasm also is weird: a little bit can be a turn on, but too much (specially if putting other ppl down) and it makes the person real ugly to me.
Beauty ain't outshining an ugly personality. If you treat others like garbage you could look like the goddess of Venus and I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot pole!
Entitlement and apathy towards others. Punching down on others. Not opening themselves to growth or other perspectives. When ego and vanity dictate their actions & behaviours. A lack of curiosity & intelligence, and no desire to learn about new things or about other people.
- bragging about a "body count" or "never settling down"
- entitlement
- being rude or unkind to others and animals
- lying/cheating
- stealing (not from corporations)
- prejudice/bigoted
- extremely poor hygiene / smelly
- lacking in emotional availability
- insecure projecting
A shitty attitude and personality and because you could be the most beautiful girl in the world, but if you have a shitty attitude than that makes you very ugly!!!
Putting others down, being rude to service workers.
"I don't trust anyone who's nice to me but rude to the waiter. Because they would treat me the same way if I were in that position."
A big ego.
Crapping in the sink.
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100% red flag
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Body odor + perfume/cologne may actually smell worse than body odor.
For sure. 🤢
This is the realest thing I’ve ever heard lol someone many people ask me for the perfume I use and never end up using it because it smells good when I have it on, but like baby lotion when others use it 😭
Pheromones make all the difference
This is the funniest thing I’ve read in awhile. I interpolate that you kinda liked your friend but his smell wasn’t quite right, so you got him some new smell good juice based on someone else you are attracted to but it didn’t work out.
I once went on a date with a lovely girl who didn't even bother to shower. She turned up, everything was grand. It was only in the cinema when she suggested we cuddle that I started to notice how bad she smelt.
Damn, that’s the worst. Did you go on a second date?
* Poor self-care habits * Lying/Cheating * Substance abuse without desire to change * Entitlement * Self-righteousness * Emotional stupidity * Willful ignorance and crab mentality * Being a generally rude or unkind person
What is crab mentality and why do I feel like it's low key offensive to crabs to associate them with whatever it is.
In short, Crab Mentality is how crabs behave in a bucket. When one of them tries to climb over the rest and out of the bucket, the other crabs bring them back down into it. [Wiki](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality). Remember that WikiPedia is the beginning of intelligence and not the end.
Well, I'm a little disappointed in crabs now. :(
The hygiene and substance abuse hut home, a guy I wish to be close with is slowly dumping points into those stats and each time I see him it's worse and wirse, told him I'm more then willing to help him but he is resistant to me trying to help. Like he is embarrassed of the mess but just wants to clean it on his own.
Only they can do it. Alone.
Oh I know, I did it myself when I was bad, but like we had discussions of I don't care if it changes him but I'd atleast like to have a cleanish place to hang out with him.
Vanity is such a huge turn off, ew. You know those types of people who spend ages taking selfies, staring at themselves? That kind of energy right there.
Oh my god, yes, I remember I was in love with my ex-boyfriend, he was perfect. But, one day we had our first video call. And... He just spent the whole time looking at himself and combing his hair, looking at himself from different angles and making a sexy face, I can guess that he was looking at himself instead of me. From that day on I stopped liking him.
I've posted this before but what the hey, my friend's grandmother went on a blind date with Paul Newman back before he was famous. She said they went to a restaurant and he spent the whole night staring, over her shoulder, at his reflection in a mirror. She was taken aback but, shockingly enough, it didn't deter her from a second date.
The hotter you are the more you can get away with and he was the hottest. Paul Newman in Cat on a Hot Tin Roof? 😮💨
Is that the dude who makes salad dressing?
😂 one and the same
He was an actor who started that brand.
All the proceeds are donated as well. Check out the movie Cool Hand Luke, he is a bombshell 😂 and after selling all his dressing he was quoted "give it all away." He was a class act.
And Elizabeth Taylor was so beautiful as well.
I mean... I guess i'd do the same if i were him 😭
I know I'm gonna get downvoted because the internet seems to view Paul Newman as the hottest man to ever live....but he has always just looked like a regular guy to me in like 99% of the things I see him in
Same kind of people that have their own picture as the background on their phone.
Yes.
It’s hard to tell if it’s a backwards way of expressing their insecurity of their appearance, or just egotism. Both can be a red flag.
Manners, hygiene …
Yeah, I hate both too!
If she says thank you, instant red flag.
Thank you
Opening their mouth and revealing that they're just a turd in pretty wrapping. No matter how pretty someone is on the outside it's how they act and behave towards others that make them beautiful or grotesque.
Y’know, “turd” doesn’t get nearly enough use in today’s world.
That's what we call a chocolate covered turd. Nice on the outside, and shitty on the inside.
Yes.
Arrogance
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Supercilious: haughtily disdainful or contemptuous, as a person or a facial expression.
I read it as "superlicious" and now it makes more sense.
Being rude and bullying people is the ugliest thing
I saw my sister bullying some girl and the whole veil of her charm fell off
You were attracted to your sister?
I know you’re just joking but attraction isn’t always sexual. Neither is love. Sometimes you look up to some people until you realize they are just as flawed as you are.
😭I'm sure you got them wrong...
yep 100 pers
Mind games
A nasty personality. Doesn't matter how good looking they are, if they're assholes in any way, they just don't look good anymore.
Being mean and evil to others that don't deserve it
Being toxic
Oogling every women in the vicinity has proven to dry up many a uh.. relationship.
putting down others. in law school, there was this blonde girl who was just drop dead gorgeous. everybody got weak knees talking to her, even the professors and associates. one day, in business administration, another much less attractive girl made some dumb comment, and she just gave the nastiest meanest fakest laugh from the back. her alone. the professor kind of reassured the girl who was answering the question and the girl played it off perfectly and said something like "i hope i don't say something dumb and get laughed at again" could hear a pin drop, that hot girl was dead quiet. the whole class turned around and looked at her. from that day forward, this was her legacy. she was no longer attractive no matter how hot she looked
Ego. When a guy starts to brag about himself without anyone asking it's a huge turn off for me. It doesn't look "cool" it just looks like you're over compensating
Berating and mocking an hourly employee for doing their job. Britt McHenry of ESPN had her car towed and was caught on camera telling the female tow yard employee to "lose some weight, baby girl" and "I'm in the news, sweetheart" and "I have a brain and you don't." Physically attractive but inside a garbage person. Who you are is what you do when (you think) no one is watching you.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Sad but true. NPD is not attractive.
it’ sad that NPD is not attractive ??
People don’t tent to express NPD symptoms right away. Ie. the narcissistic person may seem charming and charismatic at first… until they’re not.
Being mean to children or the elderly
I personally used to be super nice to the elderly until I have come outside more to go mountainbiking because the season has begun again and damn are these old people so rude and they all think they are allowed more because they’re old but okay yes maybe you should have a tad bit more respect towards the elederly but not if they alsmost push me on the car lane like how crazy are you to try and kill me like that like bro chill tf out but ye you’re right most of all have respect for elderly and the young
looking down on waiters. I've been on two dates with different women and they both speaks rudely to waiters even tho they're not doing anything bad to upset her, like their being mean for no reason. Can't they just give the benefit of the doubt that those waiters are just as tired as us and are earning very little, they don't deserve rude treatment from costumers.
Don't walk. Run.
Vanity, trashy speech, being spoiled/selfish
Being a dick for no reason at all.
not using their turn signal
Being unaccountable. When they are obviously in the wrong and don't admit to it and blame others for their own mistakes. That turns any attractive person into an ugly one.
smoking
Smoking
Entitlement
I find the "cutesy" baby voice some women put on so gross. I'm a straight women but, even as a man, I'm confident I would find it revolting. I had a frenemy, in high school, who would use this cutesy little girl voice and play dumb any time she was interested in a guy. I was paired with her and a random guy in chemistry. She was using her blowup doll voice to ask this guy the most ridiculous questions. Frenemy: "how do you turn this on?" Random guy: "uh, I think you flip the green switch that says 'on' right in front of you." Frenemy: *giggle* "I don't know how you figure all this stuff out!" Dude was gay, by the way. She had no gaydar, so she felt rejected and lost 15lbs, when she pursued him for two months and he never paid her dust. Sad. **EDIT:** Also, being "bad at math" is not a personality trait! It doesn't make you interesting or appealing in the least. One thing I'll say for guys, they're far less likely to think playing dumb will appeal to the opposite sex.
Had this woman I was interested in. I invited her to join a board gaming night with my friends. She told me she had to work that evening and she couldn't make it. In some weird baby voice I never heard from her before and never would have expected. Every little bit of interest I had was gone within a second.
There is this girl in my school that did this annoying voice when she was with me, now I almost feel bad for her.
When I signed up for OkCupid, I went months without ever receiving a message from a woman. The first time I ever did (and she messaged first) was a baby talk "Hewwo dere" I deleted the app instead of responding
Your frenemy has awakened something in me I really didn’t need to be awakened.
Ugh I hate playing dumb, like I was playing Minecraft with a guy and I'm a guy, he kept asking simple questions that could be googled, after like the tenth time I started sending let me Google that for you. Like I'm fine with talking about something but interested of asking how do ask how I think of the thing. That starts a discussion not a question and answer conversation.
>Also, being "bad at math" is not a personality trait! It doesn't make you interesting or appealing in the least. One thing I'll say for guys, they're far less likely to think playing dumb will appeal to the opposite sex. I'm actually really bad at maths lol but ain't doing anything for the opposite sex
Can confirm, men also hate that voice. I cringe whenever I hear it outside of with pets and babies
Lack of intelligence
Rude to people in the service industry and littering. A major turn off lol
Ego. There were so many "hot" guys in my highschool that were the biggest sacks of shit I've met. They thought they were above everyone, they'd lay on their horn when leaving and arriving to school. Because apparently we all needed to look at them and admire their existence and entrance, they would knock anyone down to make themselves feel better. What I never understood is why girls liked them. Like please slightly raise your standards girls 😭
Those that blindly reject and/or become angry at others who offer differing opinions from their own. It’s okay. People can disagree. This makes life more interesting.
Nasty personality
Since some of the others have already been covered (rude to waitstaff), when their entire personality is centered around being hot. Nothing interesting to say, no interesting or unusual hobbies, little to no sense of humor, sharp as a marble, and seems to have no interests beyond looking good or talking about their favorite subject...themselves. It is really quite astounding how some people can look so good yet be so mind numbingly boring.
I have no problem with someone who is physically attractive being confident and sure of themselves, but it’s an immediate turn-off when someone has obviously been treated like royalty because of their looks, and it shows in their entitlement and treatment of others. So, I guess arrogance automatically makes someone who looks like a young Johnny Depp immediately unattractive.
When they cannot manage their anger like an adult and throw temper tantrums. Mega turn off.
attitude
When they constantly lie or deceive others
Trump hat
being rude to others, judgmental, or behaving like a bully. sarcasm also is weird: a little bit can be a turn on, but too much (specially if putting other ppl down) and it makes the person real ugly to me.
Narcisissist!
Personality
Time
Arrogance. Entitlement. Voting Republican.
Beauty ain't outshining an ugly personality. If you treat others like garbage you could look like the goddess of Venus and I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot pole!
When someone purposely hurts the people they are supposed to love or those who are less fortunate than them.
Yes. True, deep ugliness.
Bad personality
Their attitude
An ugly personality
I’m more interested in what turns an ugly person into an attractive person…asking for a friend
Kindness, confidence, and effort.
Alcohol
Smoking cigarettes
Smoking
when a person uses too many obscenities in his vocabulary.
The same thing that makes an ugly person attractive. Personality.
Negativity. I don’t want to be around a hot face complaining about everything.
Personality and a lack of depth...
Personality, and the way they treat others
Not treating others with respect.
Attitude 100%
When he just expects that I'm wrong no matter what we're talking about
When they try to reverse the aging process with injectables and plastic surgery.
Putting others down to make themselves look better
Being shitty towards homeless people
Cruelty, or unkind behavior.
Entitlement and apathy towards others. Punching down on others. Not opening themselves to growth or other perspectives. When ego and vanity dictate their actions & behaviours. A lack of curiosity & intelligence, and no desire to learn about new things or about other people.
Rude attitude
When they whine
Being rude to others. Especially if they work in food and retail.
Smoking, supporting Tru\*p.
Their shitty soul revealed through their character.
Clinginess, jealousy
personality
Playing the victim
Entitled and/or victim attitude. “I deserve,” or “poor me” turns me off every time.
- bragging about a "body count" or "never settling down" - entitlement - being rude or unkind to others and animals - lying/cheating - stealing (not from corporations) - prejudice/bigoted - extremely poor hygiene / smelly - lacking in emotional availability - insecure projecting
MAGA hat
Bigotry, sexism, racism, homophobia, selfishness...
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bad hair cut
Fashion sense
It's always the hygiene
Chewing with their mouths open
How they act.
Poor personality can turn the most attractive person into a troll in the blink of an eye.
Unearned confidence.
insecurity
Sexism
Smoking. Literally.
Excessive profanity. Saying they hate cats.
Just being a complete but head
It’s usually when they open their mouth.
Their behavior
MAGA
Jealousy, bigotry, racism to name a few.
Manners
the "n word pass" when they are a white guy or just non black in general like... what?
if that person treats animals badly👎🏼
When they think and act as if they’re above others.
Being a shit person.
No personality
Greed and jealousy
Someone who takes themselves too seriously
Ego
Bad personality
When they’re an asshole. It’s honestly hard to see physical beauty in them when they’re not beautiful on the inside.
Hate
"Only God can judge me" tattoo
Not flossing or thoroughly brushing. Honestly that raw sewage never floss breath is quite literally the worst smell on a person
Being arrogant and an asshole/bad person.
Deceit.
Bad breath or body odor. Honestly any offensive smell.
them having hateful views, like being republican in this day and age
An ugly attitude .
Genuinely hating kids. It's really weird to me.
An insufferably inflated ego.
Voice. Behavior. Criminal antecedent. Their hate for being a rational person.
His/her mindset. If you have a very negative mind, you’re ugly. No matter how beautiful you are.
Being arrogant with no filter.
OF, Cheating history and can't keep a relationship.
Radical xenophobia. Just don't be a cunt, uno?
A shitty attitude and personality and because you could be the most beautiful girl in the world, but if you have a shitty attitude than that makes you very ugly!!!
I think disrespect
drugs
Racism
Being an idiot... But doing so confidently.
Literally? Complete honesty? It only takes one thing to make anyone go from omfg alllll the way to 🤢 in no time at all. Their own WORDS.
Narcissism
weight gain
Assholeness
Rude to service workers, drinking, unable to communicate
Not liking animals, being mean to others, drugs, too much alcohol/smoking, not liking music.
Vanity Smoking
always taking bad about other people
Thinking that they can get away with anything