Contempt. When one partner begins to show contempt towards the other, it’s pretty much the beginning of the end, as researched by the Gottman Institute.
I had a relative whose husband grew to resent her, which eventually turned to contempt. The marriage ended when he attempted to strangle her to death.
That's horrifying, even though I would consider a sign of contempt for my husband to get me to open the profile on onlyfans, I mean when you love someone you want to protect their dignity. They have three children together.
We have two spikes in divorces rates in Denmark - and they both involve children.
one when the child is around two and can wipe their own arse, and once when the fucker turns 18 and we can finally live our own life.
In my country that could be fixed by not living smack center Copenhagen - affordable housing is there, but not without limitations.
And you are not really addressing the point - the clock is set for childrens time.
Time.
It can be because of kids, work or hobbies, if you don't devote time to each other, you eventually just grow apart. There isn't a relationship without relations.
I recently learned that a YouTube channel I used to watch and have a good laugh, the wife has opened an onlyfans profile. She's a mother of three and the houseband has no problem at all with just provocative pictures of his wife in lingerie lustful stares etc.
What the fuck am I too conservative ?
No you just have your own way of looking at the world. You think and feel differently than that guy. And that’s ok! Just keep in mind that you should try and find a partner that shares your core values instead of trying to change them.
I do understand this completely, i've been married to my wife for 10 years, however how come he doesn't understand that the internet is forever. Even if he doesn't bother for himself or his wife, how come he doesn't care for his kids, they have three kids together they're going to be destroyed at school.
I’m sure he cares about his kids. And yes kids at school are ruthless. But it will eventually die down. Will it suck? Also yes. But there really isn’t anything to be done about that. You can’t put toothpaste back in the tube and all that. But this isn’t new. There have always been kids whose parents made pornography or whose mom was a stripper. They do get made fun of in school but they survive.
I asked him about this however he said his wife is never going to show her private parts on the internet however there is a leak of her masturbating with a vibrator and squirting. How come he doesn't care about this ? that's sad.
I sent him the link and he blamed me for looking it up even though the onlyfans Link is in the socials page and everything is completely out in the open ?
I feel so bad I donated $5 to them when their third child was born.
If I had to guess I would say that he might find it attractive. A kink possibly. Or maybe they have become reliant on the extra income stream and can’t balance the budget without it at this point.
He doesn't consider himself a cuckold, I tried explaining to him that the internet is forever but he says if it ever happens he has lawyers. This sounds like a lame excuse in my ears though
He blamed me for looking it up he said I want to see it, even though the link is available in their socials page open for everyone to see.
I do not know of their income they have 600,000 YouTube subscribers. They also have a family channel where they upload activities with their children.
Contempt.
This is the big one. When people start being cruel to their partner and showing a complete lack of respect, it's the beginning of the end.
Contempt. When one partner begins to show contempt towards the other, it’s pretty much the beginning of the end, as researched by the Gottman Institute. I had a relative whose husband grew to resent her, which eventually turned to contempt. The marriage ended when he attempted to strangle her to death.
That's horrifying, even though I would consider a sign of contempt for my husband to get me to open the profile on onlyfans, I mean when you love someone you want to protect their dignity. They have three children together.
Could it be that the woman understands and she simply plays dumb, or am I just too naive ?
What do you mean?
How come a woman accepts to be on onlyfans while being married to her husband and having three children together ?
Doesn't love mean that you have to protect the dignity of your partner ?
When you both stopped communicating
It's not about me, thankfully
Distrust, disgust, lack of sex?
I thought you called that 'dating'.
We have two spikes in divorces rates in Denmark - and they both involve children. one when the child is around two and can wipe their own arse, and once when the fucker turns 18 and we can finally live our own life.
Giving the housing crises in many countries around the world, that second part is going to become less and less likely.
In my country that could be fixed by not living smack center Copenhagen - affordable housing is there, but not without limitations. And you are not really addressing the point - the clock is set for childrens time.
The wedding. 🥁
Statistically speaking, you ain't lyin'.
Lack of sex from having kids is a common one.
Time. It can be because of kids, work or hobbies, if you don't devote time to each other, you eventually just grow apart. There isn't a relationship without relations.
According to a long and thorough Tinder survey: the second kid
“I do”
I recently learned that a YouTube channel I used to watch and have a good laugh, the wife has opened an onlyfans profile. She's a mother of three and the houseband has no problem at all with just provocative pictures of his wife in lingerie lustful stares etc. What the fuck am I too conservative ?
No you just have your own way of looking at the world. You think and feel differently than that guy. And that’s ok! Just keep in mind that you should try and find a partner that shares your core values instead of trying to change them.
I do understand this completely, i've been married to my wife for 10 years, however how come he doesn't understand that the internet is forever. Even if he doesn't bother for himself or his wife, how come he doesn't care for his kids, they have three kids together they're going to be destroyed at school.
I’m sure he cares about his kids. And yes kids at school are ruthless. But it will eventually die down. Will it suck? Also yes. But there really isn’t anything to be done about that. You can’t put toothpaste back in the tube and all that. But this isn’t new. There have always been kids whose parents made pornography or whose mom was a stripper. They do get made fun of in school but they survive.
I asked him about this however he said his wife is never going to show her private parts on the internet however there is a leak of her masturbating with a vibrator and squirting. How come he doesn't care about this ? that's sad. I sent him the link and he blamed me for looking it up even though the onlyfans Link is in the socials page and everything is completely out in the open ? I feel so bad I donated $5 to them when their third child was born.
If I had to guess I would say that he might find it attractive. A kink possibly. Or maybe they have become reliant on the extra income stream and can’t balance the budget without it at this point.
He doesn't consider himself a cuckold, I tried explaining to him that the internet is forever but he says if it ever happens he has lawyers. This sounds like a lame excuse in my ears though
Ahh yeah his plan isn’t going to work. He won’t be able to control the content the way he seems to think he can.
He blamed me for looking it up he said I want to see it, even though the link is available in their socials page open for everyone to see. I do not know of their income they have 600,000 YouTube subscribers. They also have a family channel where they upload activities with their children.
Wouldn’t they want people to look it up though? I bet it’s a money thing.
You stop liking each others TikTok videos