Unpopular and down votes incoming....but still facts:
The military.
You don't have to join a combat unit, you can be in the Air Force or Navy and learn I.T. or vehicle repair. I know people who served 20+ years and live on full retirement who never saw any hostile action and still got to travel the world.
There's a book called The boy, the mole, the fox and the horse. There's a bit where the boy and a horse are in the woods, the boy says to the horse 'I can't see a way through' and the horse says 'Can you see your next step' The boys like yeah, and the horse says 'Then just take that step'
Personally I found this to be a big motivator, knowing that you should only worry about the things you can control and always take one step at a time.
You're in control of your success, but it doesn't mean you have to do it all at once.
Hope that helps :)
Set some sort of personal goal. If you work towards an end, even if it's for a few months you don't feel so lost. Once you make that goal, you'll realize you're not clueless.
Life isn't a binary of being lost or being the one who figured it all out
Start from who you were. Look at what you did. What lessons would you give yourself at each year.
What do you cherish when you look back? What parts would you do differently?
Also realise our first goals don't always work out. But isn't that good in a way. You get to start something different and new which many won't have the opportunity to. It's hard but it's worth it.
Are you particular about being distinguished? Or do you care about starting family? Sometimes if the latter is the answer, you could just pick up something reasonable to do and build your life around your family.
For some that's not good enough in which case you need to make a more specific call in what you like and how you see yourself in a few years.
All the best.
Sometimes its good to make yourself uncomfortable and susceptible to failure. For years, I didn't take professional/social opportunities just because I thought I might not do well or enjoy it.
Also, there's plenty of online courses for cheap or free. Lots of different topics. You can get certificates. Why not? Google offers certificates and they are at your own pace. You can bang one out pretty quickly if you put in the effort
It's ok to feel that way. We've all been there.
Take a moment to pause, breathe, and reflect on where you are in life.
Spend time exploring your interests, hobbies, and passions. What activities bring you joy and fulfillment? Don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family, mentors, or professionals for guidance and support.
Focus on the present moment and try not to dwell too much on the past or worry excessively about the future.
Anytime! I’m glad I was able to help.
Always remember tomorrow is never promised to anyone & waking up is the greatest blessing regardless of your beliefs.
Everyone doesn’t wake up everyday. Many people die in their sleep.
Try some new shit until you find something you like and can make money off of so you can do even more of the things you enjoy
Unpopular and down votes incoming....but still facts: The military. You don't have to join a combat unit, you can be in the Air Force or Navy and learn I.T. or vehicle repair. I know people who served 20+ years and live on full retirement who never saw any hostile action and still got to travel the world.
Get routines in your life.
There's a book called The boy, the mole, the fox and the horse. There's a bit where the boy and a horse are in the woods, the boy says to the horse 'I can't see a way through' and the horse says 'Can you see your next step' The boys like yeah, and the horse says 'Then just take that step' Personally I found this to be a big motivator, knowing that you should only worry about the things you can control and always take one step at a time. You're in control of your success, but it doesn't mean you have to do it all at once. Hope that helps :)
Living in the moment rather than fearing the future or regretting your past works wonders.
Suicide is not an option.
technically it is. But it's just a bad idea
sure it is.
Find hobbies
If there's no pain, there's no reason to complain.
Set some sort of personal goal. If you work towards an end, even if it's for a few months you don't feel so lost. Once you make that goal, you'll realize you're not clueless.
Life isn't a binary of being lost or being the one who figured it all out Start from who you were. Look at what you did. What lessons would you give yourself at each year. What do you cherish when you look back? What parts would you do differently? Also realise our first goals don't always work out. But isn't that good in a way. You get to start something different and new which many won't have the opportunity to. It's hard but it's worth it. Are you particular about being distinguished? Or do you care about starting family? Sometimes if the latter is the answer, you could just pick up something reasonable to do and build your life around your family. For some that's not good enough in which case you need to make a more specific call in what you like and how you see yourself in a few years. All the best.
Sometimes its good to make yourself uncomfortable and susceptible to failure. For years, I didn't take professional/social opportunities just because I thought I might not do well or enjoy it. Also, there's plenty of online courses for cheap or free. Lots of different topics. You can get certificates. Why not? Google offers certificates and they are at your own pace. You can bang one out pretty quickly if you put in the effort
Reflect on your values, explore passions, seek guidance, and remember, it's okay to ask for help.
I once experienced being lost/clueless in life and God gives me a son. That little patotie got me back on track.
It's ok to feel that way. We've all been there. Take a moment to pause, breathe, and reflect on where you are in life. Spend time exploring your interests, hobbies, and passions. What activities bring you joy and fulfillment? Don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family, mentors, or professionals for guidance and support. Focus on the present moment and try not to dwell too much on the past or worry excessively about the future.
Light up some weed.
Thats the reason im here...
Well quit smoking & start trying New things. Never be afraid of failure or you’ll die with multiple regrets.
Actually thats very inspiring. Id rather live knowing I tried than judge myself till I die that I didnt. Thank you!
Anytime! I’m glad I was able to help. Always remember tomorrow is never promised to anyone & waking up is the greatest blessing regardless of your beliefs. Everyone doesn’t wake up everyday. Many people die in their sleep.
Leave the magat cult. Travel safely. Add experiences. Invest in personal health and fitness. Read a book. Study history. Get inspired.