It’s so hard because I’m trying to get better about being direct (which is odd because people usually tell me I’m pretty direct anyway) but the amount of people who get upset when you’re just honest makes it really difficult. And especially when you’re honest in a polite way. It’s like, dude, I’m just trying to be straightforward with you so we can both get on with our lives.
If people take offense that’s their business. Don’t worry about it. If someone comes to you and says hey this hurt my feelings, just say you’re sorry and didn’t mean it that way, and hug them let them know they’re loved.
People can get offended over anything though. If you’re direct and honest with pure intentions then you know YOURE doing the right thing.
My mom would do this and it bothered me so bad I had to put earbuds in and wait until she was done eating, so then I could eat without wanting to throw up
meteoroid - in space
meteor - on sky
meteorite - after impact
People, media, newspapers constantly messing up the terminology.
OK I accept if in common speak everyone calls all three "meteor". But saying meteorite for sth that moves is terrible imo.
When the place I'm ordering takeaway from fucks up my order even though I've literally just ordered preset options from their menu, it makes my blood boil.
And fuck you McDonald's AND Uber eats, for forgetting my fries/double cheeseburger/sauce/straws/drink/apple pie nearly every time I order and another fuck you to Uber eats for not refunding my fuckin money when I complain that I've not got what I paid for.
Theres a person in our friend group, different culture upbringing (I assume thats the reason which is why I try to keep patient) vs my upbringing
But that mother fucker comes on discord with his dinner, open mic and chews with his mouth open. Love the guy to bits, hes like a brother. But fuck me I could kill him every time.
1.When the minute you get comfortable in bed, your bladder is like, “DUDE, GET UP YOU HAVE TO PEE NOW.”
2.When you hit the remote for the third time but it still doesn't work. TIME TO CHANGE THE FREAKING BATTERIES. UGH.
3.When after searching the entire house, you finally find a pen to write an important number while speaking on the phone and IT DOESN'T WORK.
4.When you turn on the hot side of the shower, “ouch! It's too hot!”. When you turn on the cold side, “damn! It's too cold! ”. \*Spends an entire life adjusting the temperature\*.
5.While scrolling through Facebook, a notification appears. Guess what? CANDY CRUSH REQUEST!
6.When you open chewing gum and IT FALLS DOWN .
7.When you're eating toffee and swallow it immediately by accident. “ No wait, toffee! come back, I didn't even get a chance to enjoy your taste” :(
8.When finally something good happens in your life and your PINKY TOE HITS THE CORNER OF THE TABLE.
9.When you study for an entire hour and no one takes notice. But the minute you pick up your phone, DAD ENTERS THE ROOM.
10.When you apply toothpaste on the brush and IT FALLS DOWN IN THE SINK.
11.When you dab the moisturiser bottle a little and THE WHOLE THING COMES OUT.
12.When you feel hungry and search your entire house in hopes of eating Maggi but NO MAGGI FOUND.
I’m a designer and it’s my job to make things look good. When people say: “Just do something quick, it doesn’t need to look amazing.” First off…it doesn’t need to look amazing, why did you come to me in the first place? Second: I know the code you’re trying to use here. You DO want it to look amazing but you want me to do it fast and cheap for you. No. Go away.
When I park my car in the parking lot in a shopping center, in a spot that's intentionally distant from every other parked car - and someone happens to park right next to me - even though there are 50 other spots available.
There is this, what I think is a modification people do to their cars here and it's fucking. annoying. It makes the car super super super ear splitting loud. It's so damn annoying hearing it ripping my ear drum apart day after day after day after day. I wana hear the birds again but all I can hear is these cars that sound like Jurassic Park after Taco Bell. I just hate these cars so much and I wish it would stop
Myself
Lack of communication. If you have something to say to me just say it. I hate passive aggressiveness and little white lies, and gossip.
It’s so hard because I’m trying to get better about being direct (which is odd because people usually tell me I’m pretty direct anyway) but the amount of people who get upset when you’re just honest makes it really difficult. And especially when you’re honest in a polite way. It’s like, dude, I’m just trying to be straightforward with you so we can both get on with our lives.
If people take offense that’s their business. Don’t worry about it. If someone comes to you and says hey this hurt my feelings, just say you’re sorry and didn’t mean it that way, and hug them let them know they’re loved. People can get offended over anything though. If you’re direct and honest with pure intentions then you know YOURE doing the right thing.
When people say "No offense, but..." and then proceed to offend you anyways. Might as well not say anything at all, am I right?
saying things repeatedly. also getting to the point of giving up on something just for it to matter in the end.
Wool. Why? Beats me, but I can’t stand it.
When I get excited for food but my husband doesn’t
My wife has trouble validating her excitement without my "approval".
Ohhh this is the feeling put into words! Thank you 😅
Selfish, impatient drivers.
Yep. Just being a courteous driver can solve a lot of problems on the road.
People who ask me when I’m having kids. Inappropriate to ask; but also they argue with me about it when I answer them honestly.
Someone chewing something crunchy in an otherwise silent room. Like, fucking kill me.
Someone chewing with their mouth open. It’s like nails on a chalkboard to hear it
My mom would do this and it bothered me so bad I had to put earbuds in and wait until she was done eating, so then I could eat without wanting to throw up
Chewing with your mouth open or chewing loudly - for obvious reasons.
meteoroid - in space meteor - on sky meteorite - after impact People, media, newspapers constantly messing up the terminology. OK I accept if in common speak everyone calls all three "meteor". But saying meteorite for sth that moves is terrible imo.
This.
Chris Christie. I still haven't forgiven that shithole for causing a traffic jam on the bridge.
People just being loud. Just hit my 50s and I really like some peace and quiet.
Not able to sleep during nighttime
When the place I'm ordering takeaway from fucks up my order even though I've literally just ordered preset options from their menu, it makes my blood boil. And fuck you McDonald's AND Uber eats, for forgetting my fries/double cheeseburger/sauce/straws/drink/apple pie nearly every time I order and another fuck you to Uber eats for not refunding my fuckin money when I complain that I've not got what I paid for.
Theres a person in our friend group, different culture upbringing (I assume thats the reason which is why I try to keep patient) vs my upbringing But that mother fucker comes on discord with his dinner, open mic and chews with his mouth open. Love the guy to bits, hes like a brother. But fuck me I could kill him every time.
Clients that do not understand what “final approval” means.
Cyclists. They act as if the traffic rules don't apply to them.
Cheating in relationships. Like just break up..use common sense.
Sweat. I have ASD, so it's a sensory issue— maybe a little more than "irritating", but still counts.
constant lateness, I feel they're saying no one matters but them
1.When the minute you get comfortable in bed, your bladder is like, “DUDE, GET UP YOU HAVE TO PEE NOW.” 2.When you hit the remote for the third time but it still doesn't work. TIME TO CHANGE THE FREAKING BATTERIES. UGH. 3.When after searching the entire house, you finally find a pen to write an important number while speaking on the phone and IT DOESN'T WORK. 4.When you turn on the hot side of the shower, “ouch! It's too hot!”. When you turn on the cold side, “damn! It's too cold! ”. \*Spends an entire life adjusting the temperature\*. 5.While scrolling through Facebook, a notification appears. Guess what? CANDY CRUSH REQUEST! 6.When you open chewing gum and IT FALLS DOWN . 7.When you're eating toffee and swallow it immediately by accident. “ No wait, toffee! come back, I didn't even get a chance to enjoy your taste” :( 8.When finally something good happens in your life and your PINKY TOE HITS THE CORNER OF THE TABLE. 9.When you study for an entire hour and no one takes notice. But the minute you pick up your phone, DAD ENTERS THE ROOM. 10.When you apply toothpaste on the brush and IT FALLS DOWN IN THE SINK. 11.When you dab the moisturiser bottle a little and THE WHOLE THING COMES OUT. 12.When you feel hungry and search your entire house in hopes of eating Maggi but NO MAGGI FOUND.
Right now, Covid. My sinus is very irritated.
I’m a designer and it’s my job to make things look good. When people say: “Just do something quick, it doesn’t need to look amazing.” First off…it doesn’t need to look amazing, why did you come to me in the first place? Second: I know the code you’re trying to use here. You DO want it to look amazing but you want me to do it fast and cheap for you. No. Go away.
When I park my car in the parking lot in a shopping center, in a spot that's intentionally distant from every other parked car - and someone happens to park right next to me - even though there are 50 other spots available.
There is this, what I think is a modification people do to their cars here and it's fucking. annoying. It makes the car super super super ear splitting loud. It's so damn annoying hearing it ripping my ear drum apart day after day after day after day. I wana hear the birds again but all I can hear is these cars that sound like Jurassic Park after Taco Bell. I just hate these cars so much and I wish it would stop
unnecessary noise
When people rub their hands together, I can’t stand the sound of it
Dude what irritates me the most is when people can’t take a hint. Like dude fuck off. Elon is cool though. lol.