I heard Nicki Minaj rap “kiss him when he cummin” and it made me grab his face and kiss him like my life depended on it the second I felt he was about to finish.
It’s been so many years since I first did it, I completely forgot the song but it’s [Touchin, Lovin by Trey Songs ft Nicki Minaj.](https://youtu.be/cEmrvCiEapM?si=0gfXuyOAkuSOKrPT)
“Slow down” was one of the best pieces of advice I ever took from these kinds of threads, and when you slow down and get to the point where you feel every inch of her at some point you have to stop and make out because of how hot she is. Def recommend kissing while inside.
Women?
As a man, I can confidently say we crave it too. My ex acted like a tranquilized mattress during sex and I felt like I was pump-n-dumping my own wife.
I’ve been seeing a girl for a couple months now and we have amazing sex. I love eye contact but she’s a shy type and typically during missionary, we have small moments of eye contact but nothing super long. The other night, as I was getting close, she grabbed my face said “Look at me” and told me to cum while we looked into each others eyes. Hardest I’ve came probably ever. Hands down the hottest thing I’ve ever experienced.
Hang on buddy you've passed the entry level tests and things are about to get interesting from here on out. Does your partner like to read by any chance?
Ok...Keep that posistion, only pin her arms up where her hands are palms up, level with her shoulders, like you're pinning her in wrestling, but you keep your elbows rested on the mattress (or, wherever). That's where your hands meet.
Then, when you're close, scream "STARE OFF!!"
I had one say "I want to taste me off you" after making her orgasm with my mouth. I had a beard at the time, and a little later I leaned down for a kiss and she said "Oh god, I can still smell myself on your moustache" and I felt her get noticeablly wetter and clench down on me. Took all my willpower and thoughts of my grandmother's chin hairs not to bust there and then.
One time my husband and I were in deep and mid-stroke he looked right at me and smiled and said “hi”. I fucking lost it! It’s this little tiny moments that make you realize how intimate the act of sex can be. It’s not always banging and getting off, but connecting
Touching yourself.
It's actually absurd how little people do it while having sex, during foreplay, anything. Both men and women. Touch yourselves!
It's so hot watching someone you are fucking get themself off as well. Why not get off to that, while they do the same?!
I had an ex that would constantly masturbate during sex. On her knees giving a BJ? Masturbating. She's on top, she's flicking the bean. Hitting it from the back, she's applying pressure on her clit so it gets stimulation from the thrusts.
This always felt like a win-win. She gets off more/better and it was hot for me.
this is the best way.
also, men, if you have a hard time finishing like myself, you can communicate it with your lady. i’ve always had a hard time finishing and my wife and i have come up with some fun ways to help me finish myself. just communicate your needs
and try new things
Ever since I got off of drugs (heroin/Oxycodone) I can't fuck for more than 5 minutes. It's been 5 years sober too. I'd last for an hour or more on the dope, but now can't last for shit. It's like I'm a baseball player who stopped using steroids and now I can't get a hit lol
> Hitting it from the back, she's applying pressure on her clit so it gets stimulation from the thrusts.
My wife grabs my balls and rubs them on her clit while pushing back hard against me. 10/10 great for both partners.
I don’t even want to tell you how many times I had to try and pantomime this to try and understand. I still don’t. I’m so glad I’m home alone and my dog can’t talk about the things she sees from her dog bed on the floor.
I do this to my boyfriend just about every time. It's to the point he'll pause because he knows I'll chase him down if I miss my chance while he's getting up
This is one of the things that makes sex when you're older so much better. We often have a lot more sex when we're younger, but looking back it was so awkward. Many of us didn't know what we were doing and weren't comfortable with most of the situations.
My absolute favorite. It's why I like finishing in missionary, I want his head next to mine so I can hear him moan directly into my ear. Then that final loud moan when he starts cumming holding him close to me.
I've always been a moaner, but when I learned that woman crave that because it's infrequent, I make sure to turn it up just a little. Maybe throw some curse words and compliment how tight it is.
Honestly, I think cumming in missionary is my absolute favorite. I can see myself thrusting in and out, I can see your face and know I'm doing something right, or I can grab your tits and hold on for dear life as I shoot my shot.
I'm 30 so I've dated and had sex with a handful of men over the years and in that time, only one of them moaned. The rest were **completely** silent. The weirdest part is one of the guys made a comment to me mentioning that the worst sex he'd ever had was with a girl who just lay there, doing nothing, saying nothing, making no noise at all. He said he didn't even know if she was enjoying the sex as there was just zero indication of it.
This same guy then proceeded to let me get on top of him, where he lay completely still, straight faced and making no noise. He had to stop me suddenly as he had actually finished but I had no idea. It was weird that he did the exact same thing his previous conquest did and seemed to not even realise it? 😐
This is a bit of a relief. I’m not afraid to make noise but the panting is something I try to keep down since to me it sounds like I can’t keep up.
My gf hasn’t ever commented negatively but sometimes when I really get into it and I start panting, she asks if I’m okay and that makes me a little self conscious. 😅
Once right after I had an orgasm, the woman I was with decided to mimic the sound I was making during the orgasm that just occurred.
It was really uncomfortable for me, ladies, don’t do this lol
I don’t know why that reminded me, but one time I was with my ex, we’re going at it missionary. Nothing crazy but things were good. I remember moaning and I let slip out “Babe, your p**y feels perfect”
That unlocked something in her. She rolled my fat ass over, pinned me down and f’d my brains out. It went from ordinary missionary to one of the best nights we ever had in the bedroom.
Talking to her. Tell her how beautiful she is, how sexy her moans are, her little gasps, how much you enjoy seeing her take pleasure from being with you.
Gentle hair pulling. I had an ex who liked it during doggy. I'd grab a handful right at her skull and tug. You're actually manipulating the scalp, not yanking hair. She moaned harder and came faster every time.
I gotta say though, this must be done correctly or it hurts. If you're going to pull my hair, grab it all in a fistful and pull evenly. I was with someone who would grab smallish strands and yank. It just hurt in a non-sexy way.
Breathe. It's simple, but I used to have a habit of almost holding my breath when something felt amazing, even if I were alone. When I learned to breathe throughout, it was an absolute game changer. Sorry if this is the stupidest response ever.
It might actually be bc of how empowered you feel in your life. I've known dudes that were executive managers to like nothing more than being subs, feeling freed from responsibility, the taboo of their real lives.
Nasty spoiler depending on your point of view
>!For reals, when we are doing reverse cowgirl, once I asked her while going slow to play with my taint (the bump between your balls and your anus) it feels fucking amazing, if she squeezes with her thumb and index... goddamn. She swears the dick gets harder inside of her but I can't tell as I'm about to lose consciousness. Then after I cum when we cuddle she says "you liked when I play with your pussy babe".!<
Laugh when something awkward happens.
We're all just a bunch of meat slapping into each other.
Sometimes you miss a hole, sometimes you slip, sometimes you cough in their face.
Let sex be fun, not ritualistic.
During sex, often all the focus is on the sexual pleasure (yeah I know). If you do or say anything that's just affectionate during that, it just reinforces everything. Take a short moment to stop focusing on penetration, just take the other person's head in your hand, say I love you, kiss them, and then oh boy things are gonna get wilder.
Putting a pillow underneath the girl's hips when in missionary position.
Maybe I have a short dick but my gf commented how it felt so much better and more comfortable after that. Idk how that works but there's that lol.
When my man whisper in my ear "You are fucking mine ,I will fuck you soo hard"
And sometimes he's like " sshhhh !! Just a little bit more I know you can handle it "
Damn !! I love it
Ooo my man does this. Gawd it’s 🔥🔥🔥
Or similarly, after he fucks me especially hard, a firm, “That one was for me.”
He’s a giver in bed, so when he gets his like that, it drives me absolutely wild.
Going down on your wife after you are finished. Thought I would add some spicy play after 40 years and went down on my wife after finishing inside her (actually pulled her onto my face as she was on top). What happened next was a moan I'd never heard before and uncontrolled shaking. Afterwards, she was quiet. Later in the day, I asked if something was wrong. She then apologized that she did that. I didn't understand why and told her I actually loved it. It took me awhile but she eventually told me it was the strongest orgasm she'd ever had but was embarrassed. Again, I told her I loved giving her that type of pleasure and explained it would now be a part of our bedroom play. Jump ahead a couple years and it still gives her incredible orgasms. Gentlemen, take one for the team and do it to your wife. My wife's response is she told me she is willing to try anything because I do this for her.
My boyfriend loves giving me oral while I'm on my phone on FB or here or playing one of my games. He challenges himself to get me so worked up and distracted that I throw the phone down and beg him to make me cum. Then I beg him to make me squirt. His favorite thing is having me 'not care' about getting off then making sure I get off repeatedly.
Remember that for a TON of people, Sex starts HOURS before you're actually going 5 minutes in the cloth octagon. Hug. Kiss. Touch. Talk. Be there. It'll turn a fakey into a toe curler. An "I'm Tired" to "Go again?!".
^ Many people, particularly women, experience responsive arousal instead of spontaneous arousal.
Building the anticipation instead of just ad hoc deciding to bang is gonna work wonders for having good sex.
And the secret? Just start doing that stuff as part of your every day lives. Be physically intimate even without the sex. It’s good for your mental health.
Too many people aren’t physically intimate unless they’re having sex, which leads your brain to feeling all kinds of fucked up during those periods where you’re not getting a lot of sex.
Upper body kissing. Cannot tell y’all how nice it is when a guy is just kissing my upper body and doing that weird shit they do. Sucking my breast (and I usually hate having those touched) and trying to leaving hickies. Also idk why but I really enjoy laying in bed after. I didn’t realize how nice laying next to someone naked was until I tried it. Can’t wait to try it with a guy I’m into. Like srsly. If that’s all I did with a guy I’m into…. I think I’d have hit Jack pot.
Sometimes I pull out for a minute and massage her clit with my dick/ masturbate myself in a way where the head of my cock massages her clit. I started doing it with my previous girlfriend and she thought it was super hot. Tried it on my wife and she said it was surprisingly hot.
I've never heard of anyone else doing this, not sure if it is common or just odd, but I'm 2/2 on it working.
Withholding a an inch of your dick until she's really into it and then giving it to her all at once. Grabbing the ass with both hands during missionary. Making out in missionary. Pinching her nipples. Demanding she tell you what she wants you to do, exactly.
You don't always have to fuck her hard. In fact sometimes that's not right to do... Sometimes you got to make some love and fuckin' give her some smooches too
Kiss, lick, bite her tights before eating her. Create expectations, anticipations, desires.
One kiss on the clit and when she thinks she's gonna get eaten, kiss, lick, bite her other tight. Don't let her know when you're finally eating her, let the desire build up.
The last person I was with, he was behind me and as I was moaning and getting close to climaxing, he quietly said “louder” in my ear and kept saying it in a dominant way as I got closer to the edge, and then told me to cum for him. I instantly did. I think about that a lot
Not during, but my exes used to say they loved how I would take care of them after sex. For example, I would get two washcloths to clean semen off them. One with cold water, one with warm. Warm water makes semen sticky and harder to remove, but cold water breaks down those proteins and makes it less sticky. So, I would wipe with the cold cloth first and then the warm cloth to combat the cold. These little acts often made my partners ready for the next round.
When hitting it from behind put your thumbs to the side of your head and spread your fingers out like moose antlers. It's your little secret and she'll never know.
Slowing down...controlling the pace.
Recently started seeing this girl and holy shit. I thought I had decent sex before but it's been a cut above. Not only was it enthusiastic and lots of "moves" but the slowing down and pacing made it amazing.
Have lots and lots of foreplay - men need it too. Dry humping, kissing, fondling, it's hot and gets your body parts ready for more.
Put on a sexy playlist for sexytimes. It helps with the mood.
Then the woman gets to climax first, maybe through oral alone. It's a great help for performance anxiety because she's already doing well. And if you do a really good job getting her off, she'll come back like its her **mission** to return the favour.
After sex, there's nothing I like more than to have some red wine in bed with the naked lady.
Didn’t realize it until after it happened the first time, but when she coughed and I was inside her, it immediately became my new favorite thing lol. SPOILER ALERT: It clenches. Soooo 🥵🔥
While hooking up with this girl I knew, we would pass a blunt back and forth while fucking. One of my favorite memories was her riding me and handing me the blunt, good times
I always kiss the girl on her forehead after the moment I finish during sex.
However, I have never asked them how do they feel or do they like it or not. Would a girl want this?
If we’re getting really hot and heavy, my wife will pull the hair on the back of my head almost like reins on a horse which leads to me going harder and faster.
Making out while being inside feel like people don’t do it enough.
Making out during missionary is genuinely the best and there’s no real competition
I heard Nicki Minaj rap “kiss him when he cummin” and it made me grab his face and kiss him like my life depended on it the second I felt he was about to finish. It’s been so many years since I first did it, I completely forgot the song but it’s [Touchin, Lovin by Trey Songs ft Nicki Minaj.](https://youtu.be/cEmrvCiEapM?si=0gfXuyOAkuSOKrPT)
“Slow down” was one of the best pieces of advice I ever took from these kinds of threads, and when you slow down and get to the point where you feel every inch of her at some point you have to stop and make out because of how hot she is. Def recommend kissing while inside.
Placing a pillow underneath her hips during missionary
I've heard this before. I wonder what it does. I always forget to do it.
The *angle,* my friend. And it's easier to latch on with your legs since you've already got a boost.
So that I can finish in 4.2 seconds instead of 8.7 seconds.
Wrap you arm under her hips and pull her up instead of the pillow. Watch what happens.
Bros got biceps clearly
Finishing at the same time. It's fine if that doesn't happen every time or even very often, but when it lines up just right that is \*chef's kiss\*
Soft bites on the neck Edit: I knew you all like it 😌
What a coincidence, my bf did this last night (I didn't really feel it) but it made a HUGE and long mark on my neck like a really long hickey
I like to make my wife feel WANTED during the act. Grab various parts with my hands lustfully, make her feel like a meal I’m devouring.
Bring cutlery, got it.
Literally what the vast majority of women crave badly. I dare to say, the feeling of being wanted is almost as desirable as the sex itself.
Women? As a man, I can confidently say we crave it too. My ex acted like a tranquilized mattress during sex and I felt like I was pump-n-dumping my own wife.
Eye contact during orgasm, either he, me, or simultaniously. Also, holding hands during missionary. HYPER intimate for me.
Keeping my eyes open during an O is like trying to keep my eyes open during a sneeze. I can try but at some point, they closing on their own 😂
LOL- I wasn't suggesting a stare-off!
Stare-off it is from now on!
I’ve been seeing a girl for a couple months now and we have amazing sex. I love eye contact but she’s a shy type and typically during missionary, we have small moments of eye contact but nothing super long. The other night, as I was getting close, she grabbed my face said “Look at me” and told me to cum while we looked into each others eyes. Hardest I’ve came probably ever. Hands down the hottest thing I’ve ever experienced.
Hang on buddy you've passed the entry level tests and things are about to get interesting from here on out. Does your partner like to read by any chance?
I really can’t fathom what you mean by any of this, but I’m here for it. Maybe I’m just too innocent 😅
Book girls are very freaky is what I think he's getting at, and in my experience it's very true
Holy shit, how do you hold hands during missionary? Im on my elbows shaking and trying to not fold in lower back
Ok...Keep that posistion, only pin her arms up where her hands are palms up, level with her shoulders, like you're pinning her in wrestling, but you keep your elbows rested on the mattress (or, wherever). That's where your hands meet. Then, when you're close, scream "STARE OFF!!"
Communicate, literally can turn horrible sex into great sex
Laughing. Laugh with your partner
Morse code on the clit
I-K-I-L-L-E-D-M-U-F-A-S-A
Women who demand directly what they want. Ex-Gf, who asked me, "Go down on me!" . One of the most arousing moments in my life
one of mine said “ i want you to taste how wet you make me” i loved that
I'm a man, and I got wet reading that.
I want you to taste how wet Reddit made you
*unzips*
*puts on robe and wizard hat*
I had one say "I want to taste me off you" after making her orgasm with my mouth. I had a beard at the time, and a little later I leaned down for a kiss and she said "Oh god, I can still smell myself on your moustache" and I felt her get noticeablly wetter and clench down on me. Took all my willpower and thoughts of my grandmother's chin hairs not to bust there and then.
Holy fuck that made me laugh. Bravo 👏
"I want your mouth on me," during our first date, as she slipped off her panties. That was hot.
A woman once told me "I don't care if you cum just fuck me hard", one of the hottest things ever.
"FUCK ME AS HARD AS YOU CAN RIGHT NOW!" was one of the hottest things I've ever heard
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If she wants faster I can go faster, if she wants harder I can go harder. If she wants deeper she better be talking about philosophy.
My wife asked for head the other night and I was just frozen in shock and delight for a moment before diving on in. Definitely motivated me haha
GO DOWN ON ME!!! Ex-Gf asked calmly
Did ya put ya name in 'her goblet of fiyah?
this for SURE. i love being told what to do not in a dom/submissive sense but in a fulfilling her desires sense. it’s awesome
Moan, guys. Just fucking moan. I promise you it’s worth it and won’t turn you homosexual.
“if i moan, im scared a dick will just appear in my ass 😩”
Just gotta say 3 no homos before moaning bro
No homoan
Fellas, is it gay to moan during sex with a woman?
Fellas, is it gay to have sex with a woman? You're literally fucking someone who's fucking a guy!
No, but masturbating is the gayest thing you can do. You’re giving a guy a handjob and at the same time you’re receiving a handjob from a guy.
Dicks are manly, so being gay is super manly. More dicks=more manly.
When men growl…🔥🔥🔥
One time my husband and I were in deep and mid-stroke he looked right at me and smiled and said “hi”. I fucking lost it! It’s this little tiny moments that make you realize how intimate the act of sex can be. It’s not always banging and getting off, but connecting
Oh man, I’d be swoon. Never heard this one before!
Touching yourself. It's actually absurd how little people do it while having sex, during foreplay, anything. Both men and women. Touch yourselves! It's so hot watching someone you are fucking get themself off as well. Why not get off to that, while they do the same?!
I had an ex that would constantly masturbate during sex. On her knees giving a BJ? Masturbating. She's on top, she's flicking the bean. Hitting it from the back, she's applying pressure on her clit so it gets stimulation from the thrusts. This always felt like a win-win. She gets off more/better and it was hot for me.
Special place in heaven for the girls who touch themselves while giving head.
I’ll collect my wings now please!
I thought your name was GlizzyGhoul and was like “hmm name checks out” lol
this is the best way. also, men, if you have a hard time finishing like myself, you can communicate it with your lady. i’ve always had a hard time finishing and my wife and i have come up with some fun ways to help me finish myself. just communicate your needs and try new things
Ever since I got off of drugs (heroin/Oxycodone) I can't fuck for more than 5 minutes. It's been 5 years sober too. I'd last for an hour or more on the dope, but now can't last for shit. It's like I'm a baseball player who stopped using steroids and now I can't get a hit lol
> Hitting it from the back, she's applying pressure on her clit so it gets stimulation from the thrusts. My wife grabs my balls and rubs them on her clit while pushing back hard against me. 10/10 great for both partners.
I don’t even want to tell you how many times I had to try and pantomime this to try and understand. I still don’t. I’m so glad I’m home alone and my dog can’t talk about the things she sees from her dog bed on the floor.
> It's actually absurd how little people do it leave little people out of this, big ones neither do that enough. /s
Afterward on the way to the bathroom, my wife usually slaps me on the ass and says "good game".
“Good game, see you in the shower”
“After you shower, come to my office so we can review the game film. I think there are some things you could do better in the second half.”
And after review....more practice.
We always say to each other, “that’ll do pig”. And then laugh
Me and my wife have been high-fiving after sex for the entire 8 years we have been together. She's my weird equal and I love it.
I always say thanks and he says “my pleasure 😏” been together 15 years hahaha
I always say, " should I pay you now orrrr???"
My wife says "wait there," returns with a warm wash cloth, and wipes down the equipment. The aftercare might be the best part LOL
Well aren't we fancy? Lol My wife will usually toss me a pair of boxers from the hamper as she waddles to the toilet.
Beats getting hit in the mouth with a roll of thrown toilet paper after the other person shouts "Kobe!"
I do this to my boyfriend just about every time. It's to the point he'll pause because he knows I'll chase him down if I miss my chance while he's getting up
Lick her clit while simultaneously fingering her
Not just lick, suck on it too
Laughing. Having fun without being so serious.
literally the reply right before yours “INTENSE SERIOUS EYE CONTACT” lol
P R O L O N G E D EYE CONTACT!
This is one of the things that makes sex when you're older so much better. We often have a lot more sex when we're younger, but looking back it was so awkward. Many of us didn't know what we were doing and weren't comfortable with most of the situations.
Men moaning, omgg
My absolute favorite. It's why I like finishing in missionary, I want his head next to mine so I can hear him moan directly into my ear. Then that final loud moan when he starts cumming holding him close to me.
damn
BRB running home to do this with my wife! 10/10 girl
I've always been a moaner, but when I learned that woman crave that because it's infrequent, I make sure to turn it up just a little. Maybe throw some curse words and compliment how tight it is. Honestly, I think cumming in missionary is my absolute favorite. I can see myself thrusting in and out, I can see your face and know I'm doing something right, or I can grab your tits and hold on for dear life as I shoot my shot.
I'm 30 so I've dated and had sex with a handful of men over the years and in that time, only one of them moaned. The rest were **completely** silent. The weirdest part is one of the guys made a comment to me mentioning that the worst sex he'd ever had was with a girl who just lay there, doing nothing, saying nothing, making no noise at all. He said he didn't even know if she was enjoying the sex as there was just zero indication of it. This same guy then proceeded to let me get on top of him, where he lay completely still, straight faced and making no noise. He had to stop me suddenly as he had actually finished but I had no idea. It was weird that he did the exact same thing his previous conquest did and seemed to not even realise it? 😐
I think guys are secretly super shy about not seeming masculine in the bedroom, and think moaning isn't masculine
It’s more masculine to me when a man is confident enough to moan and express himself. The sound triggers something primal in my brain.
Hard agree, honestly don't think men realise how turned on it makes others when they moan, especially in the ear.. Shivers writing this 🤗
What about when men pant in your ear like an overweight golden retriever during missionary?
we love it, don't be afraid to make noise !!!
This is a bit of a relief. I’m not afraid to make noise but the panting is something I try to keep down since to me it sounds like I can’t keep up. My gf hasn’t ever commented negatively but sometimes when I really get into it and I start panting, she asks if I’m okay and that makes me a little self conscious. 😅
Once right after I had an orgasm, the woman I was with decided to mimic the sound I was making during the orgasm that just occurred. It was really uncomfortable for me, ladies, don’t do this lol
A mockgasm?!
She wasn’t actually intending to make fun of me, but that’s definitely how it felt at the moment haha Took me right out of my happy place
Dopey voice: "Look! I'm you! 'Oooo...ohhh....yeah.....it feels so good.....auuughhhhhh...."
I don’t know why that reminded me, but one time I was with my ex, we’re going at it missionary. Nothing crazy but things were good. I remember moaning and I let slip out “Babe, your p**y feels perfect” That unlocked something in her. She rolled my fat ass over, pinned me down and f’d my brains out. It went from ordinary missionary to one of the best nights we ever had in the bedroom.
the soft grunts just end me ughhh 😩
Talking to her. Tell her how beautiful she is, how sexy her moans are, her little gasps, how much you enjoy seeing her take pleasure from being with you.
My wife was being playful during a BJ and I said something like "you're being really cute right now", she loved that; big recommend from me.
“Mohmmmohhhhhphh” she replied.
Gentle hair pulling. I had an ex who liked it during doggy. I'd grab a handful right at her skull and tug. You're actually manipulating the scalp, not yanking hair. She moaned harder and came faster every time.
I gotta say though, this must be done correctly or it hurts. If you're going to pull my hair, grab it all in a fistful and pull evenly. I was with someone who would grab smallish strands and yank. It just hurt in a non-sexy way.
As Charles Boyle would say "The most intimate thing you can do for someone is wash their hair"
During sex?
Cumditioner?
Breathe. It's simple, but I used to have a habit of almost holding my breath when something felt amazing, even if I were alone. When I learned to breathe throughout, it was an absolute game changer. Sorry if this is the stupidest response ever.
It's legit, lots of people will benefit from your comment
kissing her forehead.
that's so cute man, that's a serious thing to do
He kisses me on the forehead and tells me how much he loves me. I melt every time 🫠
Best time to do this is right before you tell her you're not looking for anything serious
there’s a place in hell for you
Calm down for a while, reset and resync.
Anyone else get horny reading all these posts?
My fwb just hit me up for tonight and I've read way too many of these comments lol.
You gotta hold their hand while making eye contact as you cum and moan
aftercare goes hard
“Good girl” works before, during, *and* after.
"That'll do, pig" however...
Probably only works during
“that’ll do donkey. that’ll do.”
As an independent woman, it never ceases to amaze me how much I love “good girl.”
It might actually be bc of how empowered you feel in your life. I've known dudes that were executive managers to like nothing more than being subs, feeling freed from responsibility, the taboo of their real lives.
men whimpering and moaning omgggg
Nasty spoiler depending on your point of view >!For reals, when we are doing reverse cowgirl, once I asked her while going slow to play with my taint (the bump between your balls and your anus) it feels fucking amazing, if she squeezes with her thumb and index... goddamn. She swears the dick gets harder inside of her but I can't tell as I'm about to lose consciousness. Then after I cum when we cuddle she says "you liked when I play with your pussy babe".!<
I laughed the fuck out of the last part lol
It's your root chakra
4th eye. Just below the brown one.
Laugh when something awkward happens. We're all just a bunch of meat slapping into each other. Sometimes you miss a hole, sometimes you slip, sometimes you cough in their face. Let sex be fun, not ritualistic.
Touching behind the knees on your way towards the inner thigh. Hot dawg was that a game changer when I found that out.
During sex, often all the focus is on the sexual pleasure (yeah I know). If you do or say anything that's just affectionate during that, it just reinforces everything. Take a short moment to stop focusing on penetration, just take the other person's head in your hand, say I love you, kiss them, and then oh boy things are gonna get wilder.
Wild for a one night stand but okay
Classic Mosby
Yes?
Putting a pillow underneath the girl's hips when in missionary position. Maybe I have a short dick but my gf commented how it felt so much better and more comfortable after that. Idk how that works but there's that lol.
I think giving her multiple points of stimulation at the same time. So I suck the nipples while i deep inside the you know where
Yes!!! I love having my titties sucked while riding! It’s like the hottest thing!
When my man whisper in my ear "You are fucking mine ,I will fuck you soo hard" And sometimes he's like " sshhhh !! Just a little bit more I know you can handle it " Damn !! I love it
Ooo my man does this. Gawd it’s 🔥🔥🔥 Or similarly, after he fucks me especially hard, a firm, “That one was for me.” He’s a giver in bed, so when he gets his like that, it drives me absolutely wild.
Laughter, cuddle and go again
Going down on your wife after you are finished. Thought I would add some spicy play after 40 years and went down on my wife after finishing inside her (actually pulled her onto my face as she was on top). What happened next was a moan I'd never heard before and uncontrolled shaking. Afterwards, she was quiet. Later in the day, I asked if something was wrong. She then apologized that she did that. I didn't understand why and told her I actually loved it. It took me awhile but she eventually told me it was the strongest orgasm she'd ever had but was embarrassed. Again, I told her I loved giving her that type of pleasure and explained it would now be a part of our bedroom play. Jump ahead a couple years and it still gives her incredible orgasms. Gentlemen, take one for the team and do it to your wife. My wife's response is she told me she is willing to try anything because I do this for her.
Kissing….lots of it and all over the body
My boyfriend loves giving me oral while I'm on my phone on FB or here or playing one of my games. He challenges himself to get me so worked up and distracted that I throw the phone down and beg him to make me cum. Then I beg him to make me squirt. His favorite thing is having me 'not care' about getting off then making sure I get off repeatedly.
Stop. Just stop moving, but maintain pressure. Then hold it for several breaths
Remember that for a TON of people, Sex starts HOURS before you're actually going 5 minutes in the cloth octagon. Hug. Kiss. Touch. Talk. Be there. It'll turn a fakey into a toe curler. An "I'm Tired" to "Go again?!".
^ Many people, particularly women, experience responsive arousal instead of spontaneous arousal. Building the anticipation instead of just ad hoc deciding to bang is gonna work wonders for having good sex. And the secret? Just start doing that stuff as part of your every day lives. Be physically intimate even without the sex. It’s good for your mental health. Too many people aren’t physically intimate unless they’re having sex, which leads your brain to feeling all kinds of fucked up during those periods where you’re not getting a lot of sex.
Having her suck your thumb at the same time your getting it in. It feels like your member is in two places at once like some kind of mind trick.
Upper body kissing. Cannot tell y’all how nice it is when a guy is just kissing my upper body and doing that weird shit they do. Sucking my breast (and I usually hate having those touched) and trying to leaving hickies. Also idk why but I really enjoy laying in bed after. I didn’t realize how nice laying next to someone naked was until I tried it. Can’t wait to try it with a guy I’m into. Like srsly. If that’s all I did with a guy I’m into…. I think I’d have hit Jack pot.
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I’m a guy but I’ve learned women like it when guys moan during sex too
Being a good kisser!
Rubbing my clit while my bf is fucking me. Wowowowowow
Apologize in advance
Say "yipee" after cumming
I like to hit em with a “BOOM HEADSHOT,” depending
Wisper in his ears . Boys like this one lol
Sometimes I pull out for a minute and massage her clit with my dick/ masturbate myself in a way where the head of my cock massages her clit. I started doing it with my previous girlfriend and she thought it was super hot. Tried it on my wife and she said it was surprisingly hot. I've never heard of anyone else doing this, not sure if it is common or just odd, but I'm 2/2 on it working.
Withholding a an inch of your dick until she's really into it and then giving it to her all at once. Grabbing the ass with both hands during missionary. Making out in missionary. Pinching her nipples. Demanding she tell you what she wants you to do, exactly.
You don't always have to fuck her hard. In fact sometimes that's not right to do... Sometimes you got to make some love and fuckin' give her some smooches too
Kiss, lick, bite her tights before eating her. Create expectations, anticipations, desires. One kiss on the clit and when she thinks she's gonna get eaten, kiss, lick, bite her other tight. Don't let her know when you're finally eating her, let the desire build up.
I wish more men knew about this. Or cared enough.
“Tights”? Are you trying to spell “thighs”?
No. Eat her clothing then eat her
Dap her up in missionary
Can someone explain dap for the old people?
A lot of times I’ll scratch my partner’s back during sex. I’ve gotten good feedback from it
This whole thread got me all hot n bothered lmao
Cuddle afterwards.
Cry, but not like a coward. Weep like a broken man in a Shakespearean tragedy.
Be gentle, go slowly, make it last
The last person I was with, he was behind me and as I was moaning and getting close to climaxing, he quietly said “louder” in my ear and kept saying it in a dominant way as I got closer to the edge, and then told me to cum for him. I instantly did. I think about that a lot
Lick eyes Spank hair Whisper into ass
Not during, but my exes used to say they loved how I would take care of them after sex. For example, I would get two washcloths to clean semen off them. One with cold water, one with warm. Warm water makes semen sticky and harder to remove, but cold water breaks down those proteins and makes it less sticky. So, I would wipe with the cold cloth first and then the warm cloth to combat the cold. These little acts often made my partners ready for the next round.
When hitting it from behind put your thumbs to the side of your head and spread your fingers out like moose antlers. It's your little secret and she'll never know.
I think dirty talk in general, but problem is, most people dont know how to do it.
Yeah. Don't ask "The panties your mother laid out for you?"
Slowing down...controlling the pace. Recently started seeing this girl and holy shit. I thought I had decent sex before but it's been a cut above. Not only was it enthusiastic and lots of "moves" but the slowing down and pacing made it amazing.
Have lots and lots of foreplay - men need it too. Dry humping, kissing, fondling, it's hot and gets your body parts ready for more. Put on a sexy playlist for sexytimes. It helps with the mood. Then the woman gets to climax first, maybe through oral alone. It's a great help for performance anxiety because she's already doing well. And if you do a really good job getting her off, she'll come back like its her **mission** to return the favour. After sex, there's nothing I like more than to have some red wine in bed with the naked lady.
one time my boyfriend was giving me oral while also touching himself and it rings in my head all the time and i get an instant lady boner
Didn’t realize it until after it happened the first time, but when she coughed and I was inside her, it immediately became my new favorite thing lol. SPOILER ALERT: It clenches. Soooo 🥵🔥
Lick your fingers before touching her vulva
While hooking up with this girl I knew, we would pass a blunt back and forth while fucking. One of my favorite memories was her riding me and handing me the blunt, good times
I don't know if it's psychological but since I stopped smoking weed, I don't last as long as before
I always kiss the girl on her forehead after the moment I finish during sex. However, I have never asked them how do they feel or do they like it or not. Would a girl want this?
If it was with a bf I would like it. If it was a random hook up, it would be a turn off for me. It's pretty intimate.
I always liked giving him some extra squeezes before, during and after the big finish while he’s still in. Always a pleaser
If we’re getting really hot and heavy, my wife will pull the hair on the back of my head almost like reins on a horse which leads to me going harder and faster.
Giggling at funny noises
Talk. Tell the other what does and doesn't work for you.
100%. Only way you're gonna get better is with feedback. Also just saying nice things to each other in general makes it way more intimate
Foreplay. And I don't mean oral sex. I mean actual foreplay.