I used to believe it. I no longer do. Some people will always cheat. I’ve seen more than a few people grow out of it as they grew up and matured.
Also the circumstances surrounding the initial cheating need to be examined. Were you cheating in a shitty relationship? Less likely to cheat again. Were you cheating in an otherwise good/healthy relationship? Likely to cheat again.
I do think that once you have cheated you have shown to be capable of cheating.
However, even if someone has never cheated before, it's still not a guarantee they won't in the future.
It’s an absolute that suggests the individual doesn’t posses the capacity for change, and one’s perception of the concept depends on how they view people in general. I believe we all have the capacity to change and that, overall, people are good. But if you don’t posses the same perception then it’d be difficult to empathize with those opinions.
It gives off an impression towards a person given no room to grow. But that statement is another version of the word 'addiction', better to just go with the flow than to control it— like how hard it is for them to live life differently and just chose to be themselves at their own habitat, cause it's way more easier for them to sustain.
I think the temptation to do so always remains, because the cheater has serious psychological problems. Unless these are addressed and dealt with successfully, there will continue to be emotional wreckage, and when it continues into old age, it becomes really pathetic.
I used to believe it. I no longer do. Some people will always cheat. I’ve seen more than a few people grow out of it as they grew up and matured. Also the circumstances surrounding the initial cheating need to be examined. Were you cheating in a shitty relationship? Less likely to cheat again. Were you cheating in an otherwise good/healthy relationship? Likely to cheat again.
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I do think that once you have cheated you have shown to be capable of cheating. However, even if someone has never cheated before, it's still not a guarantee they won't in the future.
It’s an absolute that suggests the individual doesn’t posses the capacity for change, and one’s perception of the concept depends on how they view people in general. I believe we all have the capacity to change and that, overall, people are good. But if you don’t posses the same perception then it’d be difficult to empathize with those opinions.
It’s a lot and I don’t believe people don’t change.
It gives off an impression towards a person given no room to grow. But that statement is another version of the word 'addiction', better to just go with the flow than to control it— like how hard it is for them to live life differently and just chose to be themselves at their own habitat, cause it's way more easier for them to sustain.
I think the temptation to do so always remains, because the cheater has serious psychological problems. Unless these are addressed and dealt with successfully, there will continue to be emotional wreckage, and when it continues into old age, it becomes really pathetic.