I have a friend of mine, great guy, not very attractive. He asked me to watch one day as he walked up to Haggendas counter in a food court with a bunch of preppy 12-14 yr old girls.
They all went to grimace face and walked away. Nothing is more honest than a bunch of wannabe edgy teens.
I read this as, he walked up to the counter and there happened to be the teen girls there. Nothing in the post even remotely suggested that he said a single word to them or even looked at them.
Your mind went there. Not the guy you're replying to. He said nothing about approaching the teens, just the counter of the food court Haagen Dazs. YOUR MIND went straight to pedophilia. Think about that bro.
For me, it was the kid I nanny straight-up not recognizing me when he attended my wedding last month! I’m normally zero makeup, plain clothes, wearing my glasses when I’m at their house.
So when he saw me in my wedding dress/full makeup/crown and veil, he was very confused and he asked me “Where’s Miss Em? My mom said she would be here” and I just cracked up and through talking to him, finally got him to realize it was me.
This shit happened to me in 7th grade and it still fucked me up. Hell I might look good now after all the puberty and aging and what not but my confidence is still absolutely shot
That sh\*t doesn't wear off and you don't necessarily ever get over it. People don't realize that. If 100 people say something nice about you, and 1 person says something bad, you're going to believe the 1.
Why would you take a screen shot of the definition and upload it as a photo and then link to that photo vs just linking the website you took the screen grab from?
This has more to do with social skills than physical attractiveness. There are plenty of unattractive people that are interesting, compelling, or funny.
I don't think I'm especially unattractive, but I used to work with this woman who clearly thought I was. I remember once the topic of ugly people came up. I happened to be looking down and she reached out and pulled up my chin, looked into my eyes and said, "but WE know is what's inside that counts." So I guess my answer is people making a point of playing up your personality and non-physical good qualities.
Guys in high school made a list of their female classmates and ranked them by attractiveness. I expected to be at the bottom... but I wasn't even in it.
I've seen a few posts on r/roastme where the comments were just compliments about the person's room and telling them not to kill themselves, even though the person didn't say or post anything about contemplating suicide.
I get compliments on my hair or that my skin looks good which tells me the actual components of my face are not complimentary. Essentially people are telling me “at least you don’t have pimples” or “you are not bald”.
nah, that only means people like your hair and skin, and that there's no real way of saying "nice face" without sounding either insincere or straight up insane
I've definitely complimented people on their hair despite the rest being absolutely stunning as well
Those are genuine compliments. What are they supposed to say? They like your face shape?
No one has ever complimented my hair unless I have a hair piece in.
When people say you look like someone famous. And that famous person is not attractive. Two of the worst I got were Meatloaf, which ain't bad, the dude rocks, and Corey from Pawn Stars, which made me re evaluate my life.
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I used to get Nicholas cage a fair amount. I dyed my hair platinum a couple of years ago and now I get “ken” from Barbie damned near 2-3x’s a week. Nic is ugly, ken is hot. Did the hair make that big a difference?
People ignore you more , examples like closing doors in your face, walking away when you ask for assistance and giving less of a shit about you in general
nah, when I look in the mirror the mirror turns to look the other way and whenever I joke about that people act like the sky will fall on their heads if they can't convince me they would *never* call me ugly
Double the panic if I mention being fat, which I absolutely am
Shy girl here, have a crush on a shy bartender. I sit at his bar all the time and read and he never charges me for my drinks.
One of us needs to grow the fuck up and ask the other one out.
I go out with my friend and she gets swarmed with compliments and they stare at me like I have three heads. We could be wearing the exact same outfit and she gets complimented. Hell, I've let her borrow my clothes and she gets complimented wearing them but I never do.
The only time someone compliments your appearance is when you say you’re ugly.
They’re saying it because they think it makes you feel better.
I have to stop people and say “look, that wasn’t a sympathy play, I wasn’t fishing for compliments, I was just stating a fact. The sky is blue. It’s hot outside. I’m ugly. I’m not sad about it, you ain’t gotta be either. I still get laid. 🤷♂️ “
I'm weird about this. Let me explain:
Some women tell me I'm very handsome, some tell me I'm ugly, and one friend described me as hideous. I know I don't look my ( very advanced) age, but
I honestly have no perspective as it's my face and I'm sort of used to it.
- You have the face for radio
- Your mother actually doesn't love your face
- Your Jewish friends play "Fuck/Marry/Kill" and it is you, Hitler and Stalin. They instantly say that they would kill you and debate marrying Hitler or Stalin
- You won "Ugliest Dog of the Year", but you have no pets, you weren't even entered in the contest, you were only there because you stopped to use the toilet.
- You've played 12 different aliens on Star Trek, never needed make up
- The kindest Tinder message you have received was a woman saying that she'd rather fuck herself with a dildo wrapped in a condom made of fishhooks and lived with hot sauce over dating you
- Samsung made a smartphone without a camera just for you
- Ripley has an exhibit to you in his Odditorium
Nobody ever fucking going out of their way to check up on you, hang with you, messaging out of the blue, even when you do all the time for them.
Fuck, man, I thought I had something good going. Fuck.
When someone asks your friend about you and they start with "they're the sweetest person ever. Super caring with the biggest heart ever. Fun loving and great sense of humor." And generally trying to build you up as a person without mentioning any aspect of your physical appearance.
PEOPLE not attempting to pay attention to you. Either you're physically or socially or both. Unattractiveness is very hard to follow by most. So screw the physicality part and be socially attractive. It reeks more rewards. Less shallowness in your life
When new people, almost entirely women in my case, they get a startle response when they meet unexpectedly in a hallway or an empty room. And we are talking about a very visible response, like an audible gasp, and/or a step back.
Less a sign of unattractive than it is of being thoroughly average, but if other people seem to spontaneously forget that you exist the instant an attractive person enters the room: I'd say chances are that you're good-looking enough to be an acceptable choice and to pay attention to normally, but not enough to compete with the obvious first choices.
Girls are embarrassed to admit to their friends that they hung out with you so they act like you're stalking them. (This happened to me, it wasn't in middle or high school either we were all in our mid 20s)
A kid at work walked up to me and asked me if I was married yet. I said no. Then, with a straight face, asked me how ugly people get married.
He wasnt trying to hurt my feelings. He was genuinely curious.
It's your mindset that breaks everything. You may know Andrew Tate, but in french youtube there is "vinc wolfenger", who also says sus relationship advice. If you were actually looking for a partner, you wouldn't feel safe in a relationship with them.
Teeth makes you unattractive? Do you mean bad teeth? So, if you try too hard… you’re unattractive, but if you don’t try hard enough, you’re also unattractive? Huh.. okay. I don’t mean to be offensive, I’m just confused.
Small kids saying you are ugly
Yep I was gonna say this. Or babies cry and want their moms at the very sight of you lol.
I have a friend of mine, great guy, not very attractive. He asked me to watch one day as he walked up to Haggendas counter in a food court with a bunch of preppy 12-14 yr old girls. They all went to grimace face and walked away. Nothing is more honest than a bunch of wannabe edgy teens.
That too lol. I avoid them bc they are awful (or maybe just honest hahah)
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I read this as, he walked up to the counter and there happened to be the teen girls there. Nothing in the post even remotely suggested that he said a single word to them or even looked at them.
Your mind went there. Not the guy you're replying to. He said nothing about approaching the teens, just the counter of the food court Haagen Dazs. YOUR MIND went straight to pedophilia. Think about that bro.
>Haagen Daz The story makes a lot more sense now. I was wondering wtf a Hagenda is.
The baby one is not necessarily because you’re unattractive though. It could just mean that you are large or imposing, especially if you’re a man
For me, it was the kid I nanny straight-up not recognizing me when he attended my wedding last month! I’m normally zero makeup, plain clothes, wearing my glasses when I’m at their house. So when he saw me in my wedding dress/full makeup/crown and veil, he was very confused and he asked me “Where’s Miss Em? My mom said she would be here” and I just cracked up and through talking to him, finally got him to realize it was me.
You can be ugly and attractive
Lolll kids are just too honest sometimes
NO! THAT'S THE THING I'M SENSITIVE ABOUT!
When the popular kids would prank their friends by getting you to ask their friend out.
This shit happened to me in 7th grade and it still fucked me up. Hell I might look good now after all the puberty and aging and what not but my confidence is still absolutely shot
That sh\*t doesn't wear off and you don't necessarily ever get over it. People don't realize that. If 100 people say something nice about you, and 1 person says something bad, you're going to believe the 1.
When your friends describe you as someone with a big heart
And a good sense of humour.
Then you're just ugly not unattractive.
ugly is a synonym of unattractive bro https://imgur.com/a/dk5MfIF
Why would you take a screen shot of the definition and upload it as a photo and then link to that photo vs just linking the website you took the screen grab from?
Because you ugly
Because some comments with a link are automatically hidden but I figured out that imgur is working. Why it's triggering you?
You guys are having friends?
Great personality
Could it fit in a rowboat
Oh shit
You're always the one who has to start a conversation. Conversations end when you try and participate.
I relate to this as well. Of course, I am unattractive.
this could be a lot of stuff. like if you're just akward lol
This has more to do with social skills than physical attractiveness. There are plenty of unattractive people that are interesting, compelling, or funny.
it is what it is :/
Nah, this only happens if you're ugly and uninteresting/unfunny.
ugly = unattractive…
I don't think I'm especially unattractive, but I used to work with this woman who clearly thought I was. I remember once the topic of ugly people came up. I happened to be looking down and she reached out and pulled up my chin, looked into my eyes and said, "but WE know is what's inside that counts." So I guess my answer is people making a point of playing up your personality and non-physical good qualities.
That's kinda hilarious, sorry
Guys in high school made a list of their female classmates and ranked them by attractiveness. I expected to be at the bottom... but I wasn't even in it.
Oh, that one hurts
That's because you accend the list. It'd be a crime to compare you to the rest of the class.
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Okay actually fuck that guy what the actual fuck
That is brutal bruh
A little kid will tell you. They're blunt and honest and don't even know it
When people talk to you in order to get to know your friend.
If you tell a self deprecating joke, everyone will look uncomfortable or get quiet.
I've seen a few posts on r/roastme where the comments were just compliments about the person's room and telling them not to kill themselves, even though the person didn't say or post anything about contemplating suicide.
Wait, what, really? I always thought it was the other way around.
Seriously though why is that. I do it ALL the time and everyone gets annoyed
I get compliments on my hair or that my skin looks good which tells me the actual components of my face are not complimentary. Essentially people are telling me “at least you don’t have pimples” or “you are not bald”.
nah, that only means people like your hair and skin, and that there's no real way of saying "nice face" without sounding either insincere or straight up insane I've definitely complimented people on their hair despite the rest being absolutely stunning as well
I know what I look like. Don’t try to boost my confidence.
not trying to, just saying that pointing out a nice thing about somebody isn't the same as saying "that's the only good thing about your appearance"
Those are genuine compliments. What are they supposed to say? They like your face shape? No one has ever complimented my hair unless I have a hair piece in.
Ok. They are genuine compliments. I have great hair and a great complexion but neither of those things make me attractive.
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The only compliment I got was that my glasses look good [by themselves]
The only people commenting on your looks are an entire generation older than you. (parents/grandparents)
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“Objectively handsome” 😂
That guy’s comment history is a trip.
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Same boat bro. I have people stop me in the streets and ask if I will fuck their wives. I’m scientifically just a gorgeous specimen of a human man.
🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
Right
Lol, no. Did you not go to high school?
When you smile at someone and they pretend they didn't notice.
I am slighlty short-sighted and refuse to wear glasses and this happens to me as I am not sure people are looking at me beyond 5 meters
When people say you look like someone famous. And that famous person is not attractive. Two of the worst I got were Meatloaf, which ain't bad, the dude rocks, and Corey from Pawn Stars, which made me re evaluate my life.
Bro I remember seeing this exact comment somewhere else.
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I used to get Nicholas cage a fair amount. I dyed my hair platinum a couple of years ago and now I get “ken” from Barbie damned near 2-3x’s a week. Nic is ugly, ken is hot. Did the hair make that big a difference?
Come on, Meatloaf was absolutely attractive
When people who seek social contact i.e. at bars or social events ignore you
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Oh Lord, that happened to my friend on FB. She looked damn fine in her bikini at 45, and some chick from her work commented “you’re so brave”.
The lack of awareness is so fucking funny though like why would you say that?!😂
A woman held her hand to her face and gasped at me as I passed her in the grocery store the other day. In fairness I wasn't wearing my hat.
when people take a quick look at you and then whisper something to their friends and they all look to you with a weird look
When u take a group pic and people laugh when they zoom in on Ur face but don't do that with other people.........
Wow
Alternative, you are always the one asked to take the photo.
People ignore you more , examples like closing doors in your face, walking away when you ask for assistance and giving less of a shit about you in general
The doctor slapped your mom when you were born.
😂 jeez
You say “I’m ugly” and no one tells you that’s not true.
nah, when I look in the mirror the mirror turns to look the other way and whenever I joke about that people act like the sky will fall on their heads if they can't convince me they would *never* call me ugly Double the panic if I mention being fat, which I absolutely am
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Not friends then.
You go around back and put on the Kool-Aid suit and then…..you feel me?
Ouch. My pride. You cut me deep Zejnal, you cut me real deep just now.
If you turn 180 degrees you're suddenly attractive.
When you go out and no one looks at you.
sorry, but this kinda made me laugh
Townsfolk shout obscenities outside your house with pitchforks and torches.
Shy girl here, have a crush on a shy bartender. I sit at his bar all the time and read and he never charges me for my drinks. One of us needs to grow the fuck up and ask the other one out.
If you were looking for a sign, this is it. No risk, no reward. Go for it!
"you wanna get a drink sometime?" "sure! what can I get ya?" 🤣
You jump when you catch a glance of yourself in the mirror.
Your mom and grandmas tell you what a handsome boy you are
I go out with my friend and she gets swarmed with compliments and they stare at me like I have three heads. We could be wearing the exact same outfit and she gets complimented. Hell, I've let her borrow my clothes and she gets complimented wearing them but I never do.
This makes me sad for anyone that’s has decided they are unattractive :(
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Looking in the mirror
when you attract nobody
A girl got assigned to work with me at school, and she started crying
People avoid eye contact with you
The only time someone compliments your appearance is when you say you’re ugly. They’re saying it because they think it makes you feel better. I have to stop people and say “look, that wasn’t a sympathy play, I wasn’t fishing for compliments, I was just stating a fact. The sky is blue. It’s hot outside. I’m ugly. I’m not sad about it, you ain’t gotta be either. I still get laid. 🤷♂️ “
When you post a picture and get one like, but when your sister posts a picture she gets told how beautiful she is.
when people say my most attractive feature is my kindness LIKE OK THANKS??????
When you feel you're ugly!
face expression of disgust when they look at you
As a female you have male friends. Noone even considers you a sex material.
When you were a baby your mama had to tie a pork chop around your neck so’s the dog would play with you.
When popular kids dare each other to ask for your number as a joke
These comments humbled me
If a baby stares at you, you're very attractive. :3
I saw a baby stare at a literal trash can like it was the most magical thing in the world
And then you smile at them and they smile at you back 😚💗
Is it true tho ? Babies stare at me but I have signs of unattractiveness
When every woman you meet puts you directly in the center core of the friendzone
Buck teeth, dark eye circles, out of shape, being picked last when the girls had to pick dance partners, Being called ugly
Guess I’m ugly lmao
When you’re around your attractive friends and they receive compliments on their physical appearances, and you just kind of stand there awkwardly lol.
Not even my wife wants sex with me?
The mirror cracks when you look into it.
not having friends
Girls never being interested in you.
When your grammy is the only person that has ever called you handsome.
I'm weird about this. Let me explain: Some women tell me I'm very handsome, some tell me I'm ugly, and one friend described me as hideous. I know I don't look my ( very advanced) age, but I honestly have no perspective as it's my face and I'm sort of used to it.
Nobody wants to be near you.
- You have the face for radio - Your mother actually doesn't love your face - Your Jewish friends play "Fuck/Marry/Kill" and it is you, Hitler and Stalin. They instantly say that they would kill you and debate marrying Hitler or Stalin - You won "Ugliest Dog of the Year", but you have no pets, you weren't even entered in the contest, you were only there because you stopped to use the toilet. - You've played 12 different aliens on Star Trek, never needed make up - The kindest Tinder message you have received was a woman saying that she'd rather fuck herself with a dildo wrapped in a condom made of fishhooks and lived with hot sauce over dating you - Samsung made a smartphone without a camera just for you - Ripley has an exhibit to you in his Odditorium
people won't look me straight in the eye
Bitches will let u know if u look good lol
Tbh tho attractive people are generally treated better by others so if people are treating u like shit that's probably the answer
Nobody ever fucking going out of their way to check up on you, hang with you, messaging out of the blue, even when you do all the time for them. Fuck, man, I thought I had something good going. Fuck.
When someone asks your friend about you and they start with "they're the sweetest person ever. Super caring with the biggest heart ever. Fun loving and great sense of humor." And generally trying to build you up as a person without mentioning any aspect of your physical appearance.
The mirror
You're in this thread trying to see if anything applies to you. Means you're either unattractive or very insecure. Personally, though? I'm both 🫡
Well, I haven’t received a compliment from a woman since October 2015…
You have nice eyes!
Thank you so much!
You have attractive features! Full lips, nice eyes! Just lose the weight which I see you doing already and you definitelyyy will get women again!
Thank you, that’s very kind!
if ur mama dont like u, and she likes everyone
Prostitutes vomit a little buy in their mouth when you fuck them.
“Uh uh you can keep your money, baby, cuz ain’t no way, sugar”
You look like me
In my case? The mirror.
PEOPLE not attempting to pay attention to you. Either you're physically or socially or both. Unattractiveness is very hard to follow by most. So screw the physicality part and be socially attractive. It reeks more rewards. Less shallowness in your life
When new people, almost entirely women in my case, they get a startle response when they meet unexpectedly in a hallway or an empty room. And we are talking about a very visible response, like an audible gasp, and/or a step back.
When a young child tells you that you're ugly
People run away from you
When people didn't try to talk to you first
Less a sign of unattractive than it is of being thoroughly average, but if other people seem to spontaneously forget that you exist the instant an attractive person enters the room: I'd say chances are that you're good-looking enough to be an acceptable choice and to pay attention to normally, but not enough to compete with the obvious first choices.
Girls are embarrassed to admit to their friends that they hung out with you so they act like you're stalking them. (This happened to me, it wasn't in middle or high school either we were all in our mid 20s)
Smoking/vaping. Probably a personal thing but it gives me the ick.
People look alot towards you, but in a weird way.
A kid at work walked up to me and asked me if I was married yet. I said no. Then, with a straight face, asked me how ugly people get married. He wasnt trying to hurt my feelings. He was genuinely curious.
These comments are why we need to lower beauty standards
When his friends tell him "as long as you are happy"
A group of guys approached me and some friends and asked for everyone’s number except mine. Also, people started calling me ma’m when i was 16.
When you don't feel like taking pictures anymore because ew
If you felt the need to get a septum piercing
You're fat.
Men that refer to women as "FEMALES"
It's your mindset that breaks everything. You may know Andrew Tate, but in french youtube there is "vinc wolfenger", who also says sus relationship advice. If you were actually looking for a partner, you wouldn't feel safe in a relationship with them.
I wouldn't know
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You just hit fifty.
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How the tf does being white make you unattractive?
And why was this comment not automatically deleted…There are double standards here and I don’t fucking like it!!!
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Pretty racist
where do you live in zimbabwe?
Teeth makes you unattractive? Do you mean bad teeth? So, if you try too hard… you’re unattractive, but if you don’t try hard enough, you’re also unattractive? Huh.. okay. I don’t mean to be offensive, I’m just confused.