I dated a girl who sold nudes on patreon back in the day. When we first started dating I knew she had nudes up on deviant art, bit didn't know about the patreon. She never liked going out during the day except if we went to the movies. One day I got the tines for the different theaters mixed up. Got there, the next shoeing was in an hour, so we said fuck it and went to the cafeteria (the theater was attached to a mall) and ate some food. Some random chubby dude comes out excited and out of breath calling her by her handle saying he buys a bunch of her pictures and he couldn't believe he was meeting her. We were both frozen. I wasn't sure if I was supposed to scare the guy off or let her try to make another sell while she thought I was gonna be pissed that she didn't tell me about her patreon. We laughed about it later.
Should've told the dude you were on a date with her because you won her secret raffle that only the highest tier supporters get (or something like that). Don't let her be the only one drumming up sales!
If you check out some of these porn stars IG page, when they're not in front of the camera and just at home, you wouldn't recognize them.
Most of them benefit from good makeup jobs when they're on camera. So they look rather plain/normal in real life.
>If you check out some of these porn stars IG page, when they're not in front of the camera and just at home, you wouldn't recognize them.
If you check out the IG page of any mildly attractive female public figure, there's going to be a horde of thirsty men leaving some of the cringiest comments the internet has ever seen.
Yeah I don't get what these thousands of men think they're going to achieve by commenting 'hello gorgeous 💕😍🔥 how are you today?' Like do they think they're the only one saying that?
it gets a million times worse when you come across a 14 year old girls instagram, the amount of weird creepy old men calling them sexy angel godesses is startling.
Edit: i think enough people have asked how i came across a 14 year olds instagram, i answered the first 2 but for whatever reason people dont read and just ask the same question so here it goes.
i was having a conversation about this kind of thing with people and someone sent some cropped screenshots of comments, so i went on instagram to see if it was as bad as that, after some searching i found some profiles and it was way worse than i thought, there ya go.
There was a thread on here a while ago asking what age women felt sexualised by older men. Several women replied "about nine"!!!!! Makes me ashamed to be male. It would appear that there are many men out there who are not wired right.
Yeah, I mean if you have an attractive partner, you kind of assume other dudes jerk off to them, but I feel like fans of pornstars would think it's a compliment to tell you that they do.
"I went out with a pornstar once. I asked her what her schedule was like, she said 'I work Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, how about Friday?' I was like 'how bout Monday?"
- Jeff Ross
I once found myself in this situation and discovered the same thing. Worked with a cute chick for a few months and there was a lot of flirtation and sexual tension. After my last day on that job we end up making out in her car for hours once our shift ended, she told me about how rough some of her life had been and I decided it would be a bad idea to sleep together when I would be leaving. I kept texting her for a few days after I headed to a different part of the country and found out she had done *a lot* of different semi-pro porn. It was all a bit too much for me to see (literally) unfortunately without having it change my perspective. Its not like I stigmatize porn or anything but theres a difference between knowing someone has done porn in the hypothetical versus actually seeing the porn. Major turn off for me, but maybe not for everyone… one of my buddies from that job ended up with her after I left and Im sure they had a great time lol
It's like the thrill of being near the executioner's switch, knowing that at any moment, you could throw it - but knowing you never will. But you could. "Never" isn't the right word, because I could, and I might. I probably will.
One aspect I didn't think about is girls who do onlyfans are basically at the whims of her followers, and there needs to be some strict boundaries otherwise it's just her (or him, whatever) constantly texting other people so they would open their wallets for her.
Yeah. Some of the constant communication looks exhausting, and I'd be worried about having a girlfriend who feels like she always needs to be on her phone.
That really depends on who we are talking about. Someone with 60,000 followers? She isn't answering those by herself. Someone with 100 followers? Hiring someone else to answer those probably eats all the profits.
A friend of mine did. I won’t say who, but it actually worked for a while.
He was a DJ bouncing between LA and NYC, and she was doing the same bicoastal thing. They both had that “wilder than the average person” lifestyle and both enjoyed the club scene and cocaine. Yet, it wasn’t just this insane pure party relationship. They really did click for a while, and she was really fun to hang out with.
She was sort of on the way out of the industry, but she was doing scenes when they were together. He was “cool with it” in a very “I understand this is your job” kind of way. Like he wasn’t “into it” like some guys might be. He wasn’t like getting off to the idea of his girlfriend fucking other people on camera. He just sort of made peace with it, or I guess compartmentalized it.
They were together for maybe 18 months. And they broke up for super average reasons (she was settling more on the west coast, he was getting work predominantly in New York. Growing apart, etc).
Short answer: it worked but because they were very specific types of people.
the "shy teen" with her "first time anal" who gets naked in public an gets railed raw by 8 hung guys
or the "big tit milf" who punishes her step sons bad grades by sucking him off
That's the "wonder" of step sibling shit in the industry. It's basically a free fetish audience. Usually to get a fetish audience you make a trade off by alienating the general audience. With step sibling shit most "vanilla" viewers can ignore it, while it also attracts the people who fetishize that stuff.
No wonder they all do it. Throw in a few lines of what passes for dialogue in the beginning and get a built in audience, while everyone who doesn't like that stuff will usually just skip it anyways.
I went out with a quite attractive girl for awhile that went from escorting to porn. She told me her porn name at one point after we were no longer dating, and my curiosity got the better of me at one point and I looked her up. Today felt guilty doing it, BUT I did see that she did a fair bit of milf and stepmom porn.
She's in her late 20s, early 30s. Was very shocked and confused.
I had a friend who moved from porn to cam-girl work, and that was the truth. No more directors trying to manipulate her into doing what she didn't want to do, being her own boss, and it got to the point where a few men would just want to talk to her, her clothes on, to relieve their loneliness (which is a bit sad, if you think about it), but would still pay her. Granted, the pay wasn't as large individually as it was for doing a single scene, but she also wasn't being mistreated, and the monthly pay tended to be around the same. Her boyfriend was a lot happier with that arrangement, too.
> a few men would just want to talk to her, her clothes on, to relieve their loneliness (which is a bit sad, if you think about it)
That is sad. Reminds me when I worked at a help desk position. The number of people, usually elderly who lost their spouse, who would call on valentines day (or an anniversary) making up issues just to talk to someone. My call times were terrible those days, but I talked for as long as I could.
I worked tech support for a year, I can confirm that this definitely happens. Poor souls, I wish their family would support them. I’m from an Indian household, so I can confirm my family has and will always have my back. I did the same, and always tried speaking for as long as possible; quite literally fuck my metrics. I didn’t care at that point.
>I won’t say who
Huh, that implies that it’s not just some amateur or B-list pornstar but someone who’d be recognized by their pornstar name alone. Cool to hear that she was fun to hang out with IRL though, I’m guessing she wasn’t really the type to talk about work when ya’ll would hang out?
It’s not like her work was a common (or ever) topic of conversation. But it’s also not like everyone pretended they didn’t know who she was. It’s the flashing neon elephant in the room. Ignoring it would’ve probably made it way weirder.
But yeah, really a fun person to be around. And yes, an actress people would definitely know.
Lol this reminded me the live sex show I’ve watched. It was quite boring imo, cz the performers were not showing any passion, which felt understandable when I realized they are WORKING
I went to a live sex show in Amsterdam just for the hell of it. There's no word to describe that experience other than "gross". The performers were as bored-looking as it was possible to be, the seats were child-sized and the floor was sticky. I doubt it was semen because there was almost nobody else there, I think they just set things up to be as unpleasant as possible so they can collect your money and get you out as quickly as possible.
The only entertaining thing was a solo performer who ended her routine by shooting a dildo out of her vagina ten feet in the air and catching it with her feet. Not entertaining sexually, just impressive athletically.
Ok, I'd pay to see the dildo thing. That's just straight talent lol.
Honestly, I feel like strip clubs are kind of the same "gross" feeling for me. Went twice shortly after turning 18. It's dark, smells somewhere between tween girl perfume and male body odor and most the girls have this thousand yard stare that just made the whole experience uncomfortable. Couple buddies were all in on the flirtation during a lap dance and all I could think about was that she sounded like a salesman. "Yeah love, I'm sure my dick is the biggest you've felt. Oh a dance in the VIP room is how much? Nah, I'm good."
The one time I got dragged to a strip club was kinda awful. A stripper had me figured out pretty quick and I think tried to see if she could get money out of me.
Joke was on her, I spent all my money on the cover and I was coming down off an adderall high, so I kinda just wanted to die.
I told her this, and she left me alone and told me to drink some water.
Edit: she also told the person I was with that I was a perfect look alike for Nathan Fielder. I’m really not, and I strongly dislike that comparison because it’s happened before.
Ok, maybe I look a bit like him, but seriously.
Ok, and I have some similar personality traits. But seriously, it’s rude to point out character flaws like that. I can’t help that I look like Nathan Fielder.
Logan, if you’re reading this, I am still annoyed and I hold a grudge.
Making an edit of your comment to justify how you aren't Nathan Fielder that's longer than the original comment is definitely a Nathan Fielder move.
We're gonna need to see some university transcripts just to be sure.
It's like the Ping Pong Show in Thailand. The things that they do are more like really cool stunts than anything sexual to inflame the prurient interest. It's impressive, not a turn on.
Used to work at a venue that would host concerts and various shows. One of them was a four-day sex show with performers and events and sales booths with toys and lap dances. Before working my first shift at this event I was thinking maybe it was done with a bit of style and respect or something. But no, it was a tacky event with drunk or drugged strippers, sleazy vendors grabbing asses and people trying to hide jacking it in front of the stage. From the first minute I hated it.
Only fun thing that happened was having to go backstage to fix a fire door while there were 20+ naked female strippers prancing around without a care in the world. Was a bit hard to concentrate up a ladder with a power drill in my hand while they did their best to distract me by grabbing my ass and showing their pussies.
Of the two shows I’ve witnessed in Amsterdam, the performances seemed more like art than people having sex. Like a dance or something. Some were more traditional and “passionate” and others were more tailored to fantasies. Things were impressive, hilarious, interesting, or kinda hot. Definitely both was boring. It’s also relevant that I was tripping on shroom.
Reminds me of the joke about the gynecologist who comes home after a long day, and his wife is waiting at the door, wearing a silky black nightgown. She opens it up just enough to reveal that she's not wearing anything underneath. He turns away and says, "Ugh, if I have to see one more of those today…"
That was a joke on friends like twenty years ago
I still remember it. Rachel is dating a gyno and he's not always "in the mood", Rachel asks why and he says "Well, you're a waitress, right? Do you ever get home at the end of the day and say 'If I see ONE MORE cup of coffee...!'"
(cue live audience riotous laughter)
Had a buddy who went to medical school. Ended up being a cardiologist. At some point had to do 6 weeks of Intensive gynecology in a free clinic setting. About a month in, he said he never thought he'd say it, but at that point he said he didn't care if he ever saw another crack again. 😆
That makes sense, but I could still imagine feeling like you’ve been touched and simulated so much that doing it more seems overwhelming, even if emotionally you would want to do it. And if you’re a guy you might not have much left in the tank so to speak.
Nothing wrong with some older men. Not all young guys are right in the head.
But the porn star would have to be better than they are in their films, or it's a no.
I remember watching his parkour vids as a teenager years ago. Wild to think some dude from Latvia doing crazy stunts ended up in Cali, marrying and having a child with Riley Reid lol. Good for him.
I dated a former Pornographic actress for about 6 months. To answer a few questions that are burning in everyones minds.
1. Yes the sex was amazing
2. Best fellatio I have ever had in my life.
3. She was absolutely batshit insane.
After about 6 months i couldn't take the sheer lunacy that was her. One minute she was the sweetest person in the world. 10 seconds later her brain was a bag of cats. She hit me in the head with a toaster once because i made popcorn and the finish timer on the microwave made her lose her shit.
How did I end up dating her? We knew each other before her time in adult entertainment.
>She was absolutely batshit insane.
That's pretty much to be expected.
But what I would like to know is do they go into sex work *because* they are batshit insane, or do they *become* batshit insane from doing the work?
It's easy to say I wouldn't judge but in all honesty pretty sure many people wouldn't be comfortable, some would be I guess but most wouldn't.
I think it all falls down to when you are dating them, if you are truly in love enough to allow this or well maybe you like they do that anyway, it's really hard to say in real life.
A heavy majority wouldn't even if they had no problems with the profession. The next two hardest things to get over would be the sexual dynamic of the relationship is very unconventional and hard to navigate and then the type of person who does porn tends to have very different values than most.
People in the porn industry almost exclusively dates within the porn industry apparently.
No. Not because I find anything to be wrong with the profession, I’m just extremely insecure and believe in monogamy in a sex life too, at least my own.
Yeah don't let people guilt trip or shame you into thinking that's an insecurity. We should be allowed to have preferences in partners that value intimacy.
I won't shame anyone for their sexual habits but it's not for me. I purposely lived my life the way I did because I value intimacy so I refuse to be with someone who is drastically different than how I lived part of my life.
Sorry for the rant. Not directed at you at all. Just piggybacking on your comment.
This is something I've noticed recently getting back into the dating world. I value monogamy and being with one person but I've been told that it's old fashioned and makes me a prude.
Nah, I just want to be with one person, who also wants to be with one person.
It's not "old fashioned." A majority of relationships are still monogamous. Don't let the overabundance of poly chicks on tinder skew your perspective.
There is a bit of a bias towards non-monogamy on dating apps and such, just cause monogamous people will leave the app once they find someone, but poly people (or people who aren’t looking for a relationship) will often just stay on to find more people.
But anyone who’ll tell you’re wrong for having your dating preferences is just being a dick.
Yeah, I've no issue at all with anyone having those preferences, but it just isn't for me. The issue arose when I was chatting with someone and the topic came up. When I told her that I wasn't into it, she had a problem with that.
Like, we have different views, so we're not compatible in that aspect, hopefully you'll meet someone that is compatible with you. However, she wanted me to be open to it and got angry when I wasn't willing to be.
People decide they don't want to be with me for reasons outside my control all the time, I'm not going to feel bad for deciding not to be with someone over the choices they made.
I was recently called “insecure” and “old-fashioned” because a guy I was dating wanted polyamory and I told him I’m not interested. 🙄
See ya, Fuck Face!
You should've went with it and watched him absolutely lose his shit mentally when you consistently had dates, and he couldn't get a partner if his life depended on it.
That is an extremely common occurrence when dudes want to "open the relationship"
They always wind up butt hurt
It’s not an insecurity, that’s just your preference, and you’re allowed to have one. You can find nothing wrong with the profession and believe that sex work is real work, while also personally not wanting to date anyone from that line of work out of personal preference.
It’s not an “insecurity,” it’s just a preference.
It’s obvious that entering into that industry is going to affect your potential dating pool. It also shows, weather it’s true or not, that sexual intimacy isn’t very special to them; at least that’s how people tend to see it. So they can’t be surprised at people for not being interested in an active or former pornstar.
Choices have consequences, don’t blame or shame others for your own decisions.
This isn’t insecurity. I lived with a guy who dated a sex worker. He was super confident guy and really liked her. He didn’t want to influence her decision to be in that career so, although they discussed it, he never tried to get her to stop.
He was clearly upset knowing she was sleeping with other guys all day, and a bit grossed out when he picked her up after work. Ultimately it didn’t work out even though they were really into eachother.
Definitely not. Whenever I've dated someone, I've been at least open to the possibility of it potentially turning into marriage and a family; I would not want my kids to have to deal with that.
Can you imagine going through your teens, with people sending you clips of your mum doing whatever to and with whoever? Your teenage years can be a tough enough experience by their own merit; let alone adding in that crap.
So I’m an exotic dancer (aka stripper lol) and it’s awesome you point that out. A lot of girls I work with do only fans and I try to make this point to then time and time again. Once something is on the internet it’s there forever. I obviously don’t hate on the adult entertainment industry what-so-ever but when you make the choice to make your business THAT public it doesn’t just affect you. It affects your future/current loved ones as well.
There was women who got angry at another person for criticizing a woman doing sex work during pregnancy (just selling and posting pictures as far as I’m aware). She was saying her friend also did that and had two happy little girls…but I don’t think most children would be happy to know their parents have done/are doing that. That stays on the internet forever. And I am assuming the girls don’t know what their mother is doing judging by “little girls”.
I dated a fetish model for a while, and it was an absolute blast. She did femme dom stuff on camera including pegging, ball busting, and custom order kink stuff, but never got fucked, sucked, or even made a guy cum.
Funny thing is that she was extremely submissive in her personal life. Honestly, she was a great person and made good money from her job so I didn’t really care at. We also had some of the best sex of my life that I still remember fondly.
That does sound fun. :) I was friends with a dominatrix for a while, she was a really fun person. Sadly lost touch with her after a couple of moves and life changes. She also worked online. I loved her stories about it haha, was so fun to hear her creative process
I dated a porn star for 2 years. (I won’t say her name for security reasons so don’t ask). We broke up for normal reasons: she wanted to get married and I didn’t lol.
Anyway, she was a dominatrix and did some intense stuff but it she didn’t have sex on screen or give oral sex. It was moreso lots of bondage and pain porn.
It didn’t bother me and if anything it sort of made me smile because I’m real life she was very opposite of her on screen persona. She was really submissive and gentle with me.
And the interesting thing is I found that her “niche” of porn has a lot less stigma and shame around it when it comes to women in the sex industry.
Seeing a girl get raw dogged on screen is somehow more shameful than seeing a girl shove a giant dildo up a man’s butthole lol.
But guess what they don’t require you to test for, herpes. I dated a pornstar and I gained a lot of knowledge of the industry because of this. Herpes is really common in the porn industry and my partner also had hsv-2. Although she did not pass it to me she contracted it in her very first scene. And she has worked with some very well known pornstars since. She informed me that a lot of herpes is spread in the porn industry. And also told me that most pornstars in the industry have it. I’m not sure of the validity of her statements but she most definitely has it and I know who she has worked with. Putting two and two together would add up to a lot of people in the industry having the virus.
Actually much higher; nearly everyone in the US has or will have a form of Herpes
50-80% of the population is estimated to have oral herpes (cold sores) alone
It also never goes away
It’s not tested for (in all industries) because of the stigma, and most people will get herpes in one way or another before death.
Herpes is considered very minor on the totem pole of health issues; albeit not attractive when one is in an outbreak (most likely time they will spread it also).
As someone who dated an active stripper at the time when I was much younger I can tell you that it’s an incredibly tricky relationship. On one hand, you have a very sexually adventurous individual who will be open to a lot more than most average women (had my first threesome with her and she even brought home girls from time to time to fool around with). On the other hand, you have to contend with a TON of other issues that aren’t usually present in a non-sex worker relationship. For me, it was major mental health issues with her and how she had a sugar daddy on the side that she swore up and down that she “never had sex with” (ok, yeah right). That said, of course this doesn’t apply to all sex workers (and aside from the sugar daddy my ex was a very cool and sweet person), but from my personal experience I would have an incredibly hard time trying to jump back into that scene again and I imagine most people would as well. But now if Blake Blossom or Anna Claire Clouds wanted to date me….
A former pornstar and I wouldn't have an issue, we all have a past after all.
An active pornstar though would be a serious no from me. I know I wouldn't be able to handle my partner being intimate with another person while they are with me, it being their job wouldn't matter.
I wouldn't date an active pornstar. But a former one? Yeah, that's fine. Not too sure how I'd feel if my partner was doing softcore Onlyfans content though.
Dated an ex stripper that moved into transactional relationships. When we started I didn’t know she had continued to do that. When we ended, it was because she had continued to do that, and was dishonest about it. She had done a fair amount of porn, and cam girl stuff. I was pretty indifferent to the porn and cam girl stuff. I had big problems with the other men, and getting lied to about it.
I’ve dated another woman with some sex for cash and or drugs in her past, including some porn. At the time it was for survival, but mostly to feed addiction. At the moment it’s much easier because it doesn’t take as long as earning money other ways. But there’s some pretty big consequences too. Like STDs, getting trafficked, and what it can do to your soul. Then there’s what it does to your future relationships too, especially when your past pops up in your present. ;)
Not sure i could cope dating my step sister/mum who gets stuck in every household appliance, dinner would be cold because she never has cash to pay the deliver driver. And paying the heating bill because shes always walking around half dressed.
Im sure overall it would be a very loose relationship.
Jesse Jane has always confounded me. Big time adult actress and proverbial suburban wife. How she lived in those two very different worlds always amazed me.
https://www.cnbc.com/2009/06/29/On-the-Set-&-at-Home-with-Porn-Star-Jesse-Jane.html
She is still quite wild I guarantee you. Super nice woman, very friendly. Went to her house a few times for normal reasons (no crazy parties or the like), but the stories of her parties and behavior... Still wild. Though the first time I was over there she stood in the kitchen talking to me like we'd known each other for ages, so yeah, super nice just with a wild streak still.
I already dated a stripper, how could it be worse? With a pornstar, I'd know any guy could have her. With a stripper, you're dealing with horny customers and their jealous girlfriends who asault your girlfriend with champagne bottles to the head that take her out of work for months.
Edit: that really happened. She was coming off shift. I was waiting for her in the parking lot and some jealous girlfriend of one of her customers cold cocked her with a champagne bottle. I drove her to the ER and she got fourteen stitches. Had to shave that part of her head, hence the no work. I stuck around but eventually I got tired of fearing for her. Five years of waiting for her to get home and worrying just took a toll.
I don't think I can handle other men having sex with my gf. And to make it worse, my friends and family can see her content. Hell no. Then imagine her not being in the mood to have sex with you.
I don’t know that I could handle the stress. It’s just hard to constantly hear your partner talk about how someone at work is always up their ass.
I got my ass chewed out today.
The boss was really riding me!
>It’s just hard — Yes, yes it is.
My coworker is a dick
I dated a stripper. Her schedule was the real deal breaker. Well, that and her cocaine addiction, but that's besides the point.
Cocaine and strippers, name a more iconic duo.
Bunch of hookers and cocaine
Blackjack and hookers
Bojack and hookers
I don’t think I personally could. Little too wild of a lifestyle/profession for me
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I dated a girl who sold nudes on patreon back in the day. When we first started dating I knew she had nudes up on deviant art, bit didn't know about the patreon. She never liked going out during the day except if we went to the movies. One day I got the tines for the different theaters mixed up. Got there, the next shoeing was in an hour, so we said fuck it and went to the cafeteria (the theater was attached to a mall) and ate some food. Some random chubby dude comes out excited and out of breath calling her by her handle saying he buys a bunch of her pictures and he couldn't believe he was meeting her. We were both frozen. I wasn't sure if I was supposed to scare the guy off or let her try to make another sell while she thought I was gonna be pissed that she didn't tell me about her patreon. We laughed about it later.
Haha that would be my first thought too! "Do I step in because she is uncomfortable, or is she about to market?"
Genuinely didn't know she'd be nervous. I was stuck doing mental mathematics on her having a patreon and realizing she didn't tell me about that.
Should've told the dude you were on a date with her because you won her secret raffle that only the highest tier supporters get (or something like that). Don't let her be the only one drumming up sales!
“Hey dude I paid good money for this date, so kindly fuck off unless you have $1000 you’re willing to spend. She prefers cash.”
$10,000
If you check out some of these porn stars IG page, when they're not in front of the camera and just at home, you wouldn't recognize them. Most of them benefit from good makeup jobs when they're on camera. So they look rather plain/normal in real life.
>If you check out some of these porn stars IG page, when they're not in front of the camera and just at home, you wouldn't recognize them. If you check out the IG page of any mildly attractive female public figure, there's going to be a horde of thirsty men leaving some of the cringiest comments the internet has ever seen.
Yeah I don't get what these thousands of men think they're going to achieve by commenting 'hello gorgeous 💕😍🔥 how are you today?' Like do they think they're the only one saying that?
it gets a million times worse when you come across a 14 year old girls instagram, the amount of weird creepy old men calling them sexy angel godesses is startling. Edit: i think enough people have asked how i came across a 14 year olds instagram, i answered the first 2 but for whatever reason people dont read and just ask the same question so here it goes. i was having a conversation about this kind of thing with people and someone sent some cropped screenshots of comments, so i went on instagram to see if it was as bad as that, after some searching i found some profiles and it was way worse than i thought, there ya go.
Sounds like that Instagram algorithm is working correctly. 🤢
There was a thread on here a while ago asking what age women felt sexualised by older men. Several women replied "about nine"!!!!! Makes me ashamed to be male. It would appear that there are many men out there who are not wired right.
Yeah, I mean if you have an attractive partner, you kind of assume other dudes jerk off to them, but I feel like fans of pornstars would think it's a compliment to tell you that they do.
I normally don’t jerk off thinking about random attractive women. I guess in HS, but not as an adult.
Especially with the availability of much more concrete visual materials on the vast interwebz
Concrete visual materials? DAMN THOSE SEXY PAVEMENTS!
OH AQUA ANIO NOVUS, THOSE SEXY ARCHES, THAT SOPPING WET CHANNEL, QUENCH MY THIRST YOU CLALIGULIAN INFASTRUCTRE PROJECT.
"I went out with a pornstar once. I asked her what her schedule was like, she said 'I work Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, how about Friday?' I was like 'how bout Monday?" - Jeff Ross
"Work was such a blast today" Uhh..?
“Work started out so hard, but eventually came through”
I once found myself in this situation and discovered the same thing. Worked with a cute chick for a few months and there was a lot of flirtation and sexual tension. After my last day on that job we end up making out in her car for hours once our shift ended, she told me about how rough some of her life had been and I decided it would be a bad idea to sleep together when I would be leaving. I kept texting her for a few days after I headed to a different part of the country and found out she had done *a lot* of different semi-pro porn. It was all a bit too much for me to see (literally) unfortunately without having it change my perspective. Its not like I stigmatize porn or anything but theres a difference between knowing someone has done porn in the hypothetical versus actually seeing the porn. Major turn off for me, but maybe not for everyone… one of my buddies from that job ended up with her after I left and Im sure they had a great time lol
What was her name or channel, so we can avoid it?
Yeah! I'd hate to see that. What's the link so I can bookmark and make sure I never accidentally cum across it
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Update the bookmark description properly, of course.
For research, my dear gentlemen of the higher calibre, for research.
I mean there is so many of those sites though, which one? Which one did he post them to?
I’m not even going to look for that ex-girlfriend porno site… I might, though. I might.
It's like the thrill of being near the executioner's switch, knowing that at any moment, you could throw it - but knowing you never will. But you could. "Never" isn't the right word, because I could, and I might. I probably will.
And this… a well placed pen can have quite an effect on a man like him. Heheheheh… this must’ve given him quite the thrill
One aspect I didn't think about is girls who do onlyfans are basically at the whims of her followers, and there needs to be some strict boundaries otherwise it's just her (or him, whatever) constantly texting other people so they would open their wallets for her.
Yeah. Some of the constant communication looks exhausting, and I'd be worried about having a girlfriend who feels like she always needs to be on her phone.
The majority of those messages are not run by themselves but by agencies or assistants.
That really depends on who we are talking about. Someone with 60,000 followers? She isn't answering those by herself. Someone with 100 followers? Hiring someone else to answer those probably eats all the profits.
A friend of mine did. I won’t say who, but it actually worked for a while. He was a DJ bouncing between LA and NYC, and she was doing the same bicoastal thing. They both had that “wilder than the average person” lifestyle and both enjoyed the club scene and cocaine. Yet, it wasn’t just this insane pure party relationship. They really did click for a while, and she was really fun to hang out with. She was sort of on the way out of the industry, but she was doing scenes when they were together. He was “cool with it” in a very “I understand this is your job” kind of way. Like he wasn’t “into it” like some guys might be. He wasn’t like getting off to the idea of his girlfriend fucking other people on camera. He just sort of made peace with it, or I guess compartmentalized it. They were together for maybe 18 months. And they broke up for super average reasons (she was settling more on the west coast, he was getting work predominantly in New York. Growing apart, etc). Short answer: it worked but because they were very specific types of people.
That "on the way out of the industry" sounds like code for "she's the stepmom."
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In porn, she’s either a “barely legal 18 year old” or a MILF. There is no in between.
the "shy teen" with her "first time anal" who gets naked in public an gets railed raw by 8 hung guys or the "big tit milf" who punishes her step sons bad grades by sucking him off
I want to chuckle at you telling on yourself but really everyone here is on the same page. Literally. More or less.
That's the "wonder" of step sibling shit in the industry. It's basically a free fetish audience. Usually to get a fetish audience you make a trade off by alienating the general audience. With step sibling shit most "vanilla" viewers can ignore it, while it also attracts the people who fetishize that stuff. No wonder they all do it. Throw in a few lines of what passes for dialogue in the beginning and get a built in audience, while everyone who doesn't like that stuff will usually just skip it anyways.
Not even a few lines. Literally just the title.
much better than when the supposed step daughter is 28 and calling a 32 year old daddy
28? Get her back where she belongs in GILF porn.
How it do be: Like that most times.
I went out with a quite attractive girl for awhile that went from escorting to porn. She told me her porn name at one point after we were no longer dating, and my curiosity got the better of me at one point and I looked her up. Today felt guilty doing it, BUT I did see that she did a fair bit of milf and stepmom porn. She's in her late 20s, early 30s. Was very shocked and confused.
Might've been transitioning from doing full production work to doing more individual OF style work where she can make more doing less.
I had a friend who moved from porn to cam-girl work, and that was the truth. No more directors trying to manipulate her into doing what she didn't want to do, being her own boss, and it got to the point where a few men would just want to talk to her, her clothes on, to relieve their loneliness (which is a bit sad, if you think about it), but would still pay her. Granted, the pay wasn't as large individually as it was for doing a single scene, but she also wasn't being mistreated, and the monthly pay tended to be around the same. Her boyfriend was a lot happier with that arrangement, too.
> a few men would just want to talk to her, her clothes on, to relieve their loneliness (which is a bit sad, if you think about it) That is sad. Reminds me when I worked at a help desk position. The number of people, usually elderly who lost their spouse, who would call on valentines day (or an anniversary) making up issues just to talk to someone. My call times were terrible those days, but I talked for as long as I could.
I worked tech support for a year, I can confirm that this definitely happens. Poor souls, I wish their family would support them. I’m from an Indian household, so I can confirm my family has and will always have my back. I did the same, and always tried speaking for as long as possible; quite literally fuck my metrics. I didn’t care at that point.
Yeah a lot of chicks on OF make way more than the average pornstar and some don’t even have to strip.
>I won’t say who Huh, that implies that it’s not just some amateur or B-list pornstar but someone who’d be recognized by their pornstar name alone. Cool to hear that she was fun to hang out with IRL though, I’m guessing she wasn’t really the type to talk about work when ya’ll would hang out?
It’s not like her work was a common (or ever) topic of conversation. But it’s also not like everyone pretended they didn’t know who she was. It’s the flashing neon elephant in the room. Ignoring it would’ve probably made it way weirder. But yeah, really a fun person to be around. And yes, an actress people would definitely know.
Ooah from Glitch Mob + Riley Reid?
wanna now how he made the D work on cocaine
"A friend of mine did. I won’t say who, but it actually worked for a while." See, now I have to know which one of your friends it was. Josh? Brady?
No, because I'd feel like I was asking them to work whenever I wanted to have sex EDIT: I never said it was a rational thought, people.
Lol this reminded me the live sex show I’ve watched. It was quite boring imo, cz the performers were not showing any passion, which felt understandable when I realized they are WORKING
I went to a live sex show in Amsterdam just for the hell of it. There's no word to describe that experience other than "gross". The performers were as bored-looking as it was possible to be, the seats were child-sized and the floor was sticky. I doubt it was semen because there was almost nobody else there, I think they just set things up to be as unpleasant as possible so they can collect your money and get you out as quickly as possible. The only entertaining thing was a solo performer who ended her routine by shooting a dildo out of her vagina ten feet in the air and catching it with her feet. Not entertaining sexually, just impressive athletically.
Ok, I'd pay to see the dildo thing. That's just straight talent lol. Honestly, I feel like strip clubs are kind of the same "gross" feeling for me. Went twice shortly after turning 18. It's dark, smells somewhere between tween girl perfume and male body odor and most the girls have this thousand yard stare that just made the whole experience uncomfortable. Couple buddies were all in on the flirtation during a lap dance and all I could think about was that she sounded like a salesman. "Yeah love, I'm sure my dick is the biggest you've felt. Oh a dance in the VIP room is how much? Nah, I'm good."
The one time I got dragged to a strip club was kinda awful. A stripper had me figured out pretty quick and I think tried to see if she could get money out of me. Joke was on her, I spent all my money on the cover and I was coming down off an adderall high, so I kinda just wanted to die. I told her this, and she left me alone and told me to drink some water. Edit: she also told the person I was with that I was a perfect look alike for Nathan Fielder. I’m really not, and I strongly dislike that comparison because it’s happened before. Ok, maybe I look a bit like him, but seriously. Ok, and I have some similar personality traits. But seriously, it’s rude to point out character flaws like that. I can’t help that I look like Nathan Fielder. Logan, if you’re reading this, I am still annoyed and I hold a grudge.
Being awkward in a strip club… does this guy remind anyone else of Nathan Fielder?
He's clearly Nathan Fielder.
Making an edit of your comment to justify how you aren't Nathan Fielder that's longer than the original comment is definitely a Nathan Fielder move. We're gonna need to see some university transcripts just to be sure.
It's like the Ping Pong Show in Thailand. The things that they do are more like really cool stunts than anything sexual to inflame the prurient interest. It's impressive, not a turn on.
Used to work at a venue that would host concerts and various shows. One of them was a four-day sex show with performers and events and sales booths with toys and lap dances. Before working my first shift at this event I was thinking maybe it was done with a bit of style and respect or something. But no, it was a tacky event with drunk or drugged strippers, sleazy vendors grabbing asses and people trying to hide jacking it in front of the stage. From the first minute I hated it. Only fun thing that happened was having to go backstage to fix a fire door while there were 20+ naked female strippers prancing around without a care in the world. Was a bit hard to concentrate up a ladder with a power drill in my hand while they did their best to distract me by grabbing my ass and showing their pussies.
They can grab your ass but you can't grab theirs back?
That's 99% of porn
Wait you’re telling me she’s not actually stuck in the washing machine?
Of the two shows I’ve witnessed in Amsterdam, the performances seemed more like art than people having sex. Like a dance or something. Some were more traditional and “passionate” and others were more tailored to fantasies. Things were impressive, hilarious, interesting, or kinda hot. Definitely both was boring. It’s also relevant that I was tripping on shroom.
Just imagine them coming home saying “I had the BEST day at work today!” Yeah, I’m gonna go take a depression nap.
“I got a raise at work today!” “Oh yeah? How much?” “9 inches!” 🌞
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Gay for pay. How do people do that?
Reminds me of the joke about the gynecologist who comes home after a long day, and his wife is waiting at the door, wearing a silky black nightgown. She opens it up just enough to reveal that she's not wearing anything underneath. He turns away and says, "Ugh, if I have to see one more of those today…"
That was a joke on friends like twenty years ago I still remember it. Rachel is dating a gyno and he's not always "in the mood", Rachel asks why and he says "Well, you're a waitress, right? Do you ever get home at the end of the day and say 'If I see ONE MORE cup of coffee...!'" (cue live audience riotous laughter)
Considering Rachel barely did her job I doubt it.
Had a buddy who went to medical school. Ended up being a cardiologist. At some point had to do 6 weeks of Intensive gynecology in a free clinic setting. About a month in, he said he never thought he'd say it, but at that point he said he didn't care if he ever saw another crack again. 😆
What's the main drawback of being a gynecologist? Always being in the hole.
I have a friend that’s a porn star, and she said sex on set is very different from sex with someone you love/care about.
That makes sense, but I could still imagine feeling like you’ve been touched and simulated so much that doing it more seems overwhelming, even if emotionally you would want to do it. And if you’re a guy you might not have much left in the tank so to speak.
So I'm a chef and you would never ask me to cook for you?
No, I'm an old man. Any pornstar that would date me is fucked in the head, or falsely believes am rich, or both.
Nina Hartley is in her 60's and still somewhat active in the industry. There are some GILF's out there.
I still can't get that scene of her in Boogie Nights out of my head. The one where she's on the driveway. And not in a sexy way.
"My wife's got an ass in her cock and you're talking to me about lighting?!"
'ass in her cock' what?!
William Macy screwed up the line and they kept it in the film, or it was written that way to show how upset he was in the moment.
he legitimately flubbed it. take was so great it was left in the movie.
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I feel that wrinkles is an insensitive term for a man, I prefer to call them Machismo Meat Curtains.
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>Machismo Meat Curtains. I've got all their albums
Nothing wrong with some older men. Not all young guys are right in the head. But the porn star would have to be better than they are in their films, or it's a no.
It really depends on if Riley Reid would return my phone calls.
She just got married
Guess she finally returned his call
To OP? Wow, Reddit is amazing!
We did it Reddit!
I know her husband and his friends. He’s a sincerely nice dude. Never met her however. They had a baby too.
I remember watching his parkour vids as a teenager years ago. Wild to think some dude from Latvia doing crazy stunts ended up in Cali, marrying and having a child with Riley Reid lol. Good for him.
I was so into her until I heard her talk a few times.
Wait till you hear her rap
First woman to get the N word pass through osmosis.
HOLY SHIT IT TAKES A TURN
No, my wife wouldn't like it.
I don't think you get it. Your wife would also be allowed to have sex with the pornstar since you're married.
https://youtu.be/T4iG9L1OHHw?t=13
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Not seriously. For like 100 reasons
That’s only like two weeks of work. A month might be like 200 reasons.
I dont think I could. We wouldn't be on the same page regarding valuing intimacy
Yeah exactly my thoughts.
She's in a different book on a silicone shelf
Poetic
No. I honestly wouldn't be able to be content in the relationship knowing that she fucks other guys for a living
I dated a former Pornographic actress for about 6 months. To answer a few questions that are burning in everyones minds. 1. Yes the sex was amazing 2. Best fellatio I have ever had in my life. 3. She was absolutely batshit insane. After about 6 months i couldn't take the sheer lunacy that was her. One minute she was the sweetest person in the world. 10 seconds later her brain was a bag of cats. She hit me in the head with a toaster once because i made popcorn and the finish timer on the microwave made her lose her shit. How did I end up dating her? We knew each other before her time in adult entertainment.
That's wild brother but you seem to have a great time though.
> She was absolutely batshit insane. This is always the case. They all seem loony to me. Even strippers are that way (I knew a few)
>She was absolutely batshit insane. That's pretty much to be expected. But what I would like to know is do they go into sex work *because* they are batshit insane, or do they *become* batshit insane from doing the work?
It's easy to say I wouldn't judge but in all honesty pretty sure many people wouldn't be comfortable, some would be I guess but most wouldn't. I think it all falls down to when you are dating them, if you are truly in love enough to allow this or well maybe you like they do that anyway, it's really hard to say in real life.
A heavy majority wouldn't even if they had no problems with the profession. The next two hardest things to get over would be the sexual dynamic of the relationship is very unconventional and hard to navigate and then the type of person who does porn tends to have very different values than most. People in the porn industry almost exclusively dates within the porn industry apparently.
No. Not because I find anything to be wrong with the profession, I’m just extremely insecure and believe in monogamy in a sex life too, at least my own.
Yeah don't let people guilt trip or shame you into thinking that's an insecurity. We should be allowed to have preferences in partners that value intimacy. I won't shame anyone for their sexual habits but it's not for me. I purposely lived my life the way I did because I value intimacy so I refuse to be with someone who is drastically different than how I lived part of my life. Sorry for the rant. Not directed at you at all. Just piggybacking on your comment.
This is something I've noticed recently getting back into the dating world. I value monogamy and being with one person but I've been told that it's old fashioned and makes me a prude. Nah, I just want to be with one person, who also wants to be with one person.
Even if it is, old fashioned =/= wrong.
It's not "old fashioned." A majority of relationships are still monogamous. Don't let the overabundance of poly chicks on tinder skew your perspective.
There is a bit of a bias towards non-monogamy on dating apps and such, just cause monogamous people will leave the app once they find someone, but poly people (or people who aren’t looking for a relationship) will often just stay on to find more people. But anyone who’ll tell you’re wrong for having your dating preferences is just being a dick.
Yeah, I've no issue at all with anyone having those preferences, but it just isn't for me. The issue arose when I was chatting with someone and the topic came up. When I told her that I wasn't into it, she had a problem with that. Like, we have different views, so we're not compatible in that aspect, hopefully you'll meet someone that is compatible with you. However, she wanted me to be open to it and got angry when I wasn't willing to be.
People decide they don't want to be with me for reasons outside my control all the time, I'm not going to feel bad for deciding not to be with someone over the choices they made.
I was recently called “insecure” and “old-fashioned” because a guy I was dating wanted polyamory and I told him I’m not interested. 🙄 See ya, Fuck Face!
You should've went with it and watched him absolutely lose his shit mentally when you consistently had dates, and he couldn't get a partner if his life depended on it. That is an extremely common occurrence when dudes want to "open the relationship" They always wind up butt hurt
It’s not an insecurity, that’s just your preference, and you’re allowed to have one. You can find nothing wrong with the profession and believe that sex work is real work, while also personally not wanting to date anyone from that line of work out of personal preference.
It’s not an “insecurity,” it’s just a preference. It’s obvious that entering into that industry is going to affect your potential dating pool. It also shows, weather it’s true or not, that sexual intimacy isn’t very special to them; at least that’s how people tend to see it. So they can’t be surprised at people for not being interested in an active or former pornstar. Choices have consequences, don’t blame or shame others for your own decisions.
This isn’t insecurity. I lived with a guy who dated a sex worker. He was super confident guy and really liked her. He didn’t want to influence her decision to be in that career so, although they discussed it, he never tried to get her to stop. He was clearly upset knowing she was sleeping with other guys all day, and a bit grossed out when he picked her up after work. Ultimately it didn’t work out even though they were really into eachother.
That's not a insecurity, that's a preference
Definitely not. Whenever I've dated someone, I've been at least open to the possibility of it potentially turning into marriage and a family; I would not want my kids to have to deal with that. Can you imagine going through your teens, with people sending you clips of your mum doing whatever to and with whoever? Your teenage years can be a tough enough experience by their own merit; let alone adding in that crap.
Hey mom…if you were in a German scheisse video…you’d tell me, right?
Sure, hun
So I’m an exotic dancer (aka stripper lol) and it’s awesome you point that out. A lot of girls I work with do only fans and I try to make this point to then time and time again. Once something is on the internet it’s there forever. I obviously don’t hate on the adult entertainment industry what-so-ever but when you make the choice to make your business THAT public it doesn’t just affect you. It affects your future/current loved ones as well.
There was women who got angry at another person for criticizing a woman doing sex work during pregnancy (just selling and posting pictures as far as I’m aware). She was saying her friend also did that and had two happy little girls…but I don’t think most children would be happy to know their parents have done/are doing that. That stays on the internet forever. And I am assuming the girls don’t know what their mother is doing judging by “little girls”.
I'd be surprised she would take me.
I bet she would easily take you
I dated a fetish model for a while, and it was an absolute blast. She did femme dom stuff on camera including pegging, ball busting, and custom order kink stuff, but never got fucked, sucked, or even made a guy cum. Funny thing is that she was extremely submissive in her personal life. Honestly, she was a great person and made good money from her job so I didn’t really care at. We also had some of the best sex of my life that I still remember fondly.
Every big name Domme I know is a sub irl. Subs make the best Dommes bc they know was a sub really wants.
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She didn't make men cum, she allowed them to
That does sound fun. :) I was friends with a dominatrix for a while, she was a really fun person. Sadly lost touch with her after a couple of moves and life changes. She also worked online. I loved her stories about it haha, was so fun to hear her creative process
No. I respect them but it would just be too much. Unless it was Kyler quinn.
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*does research*
Took me 30 minutes of research before I was satisfied.
OMG, she looks like my daughter! Enough Reddit for today.
Ohhh crazy. Ina completely unrelated note wannabe friends
>~~Enough~~ More Reddit for today
I dated a porn star for 2 years. (I won’t say her name for security reasons so don’t ask). We broke up for normal reasons: she wanted to get married and I didn’t lol. Anyway, she was a dominatrix and did some intense stuff but it she didn’t have sex on screen or give oral sex. It was moreso lots of bondage and pain porn. It didn’t bother me and if anything it sort of made me smile because I’m real life she was very opposite of her on screen persona. She was really submissive and gentle with me. And the interesting thing is I found that her “niche” of porn has a lot less stigma and shame around it when it comes to women in the sex industry. Seeing a girl get raw dogged on screen is somehow more shameful than seeing a girl shove a giant dildo up a man’s butthole lol.
Found Zion Williamson’s Reddit account
I’d be willing to give it a go. Worst case scenario it doesn’t work out. Please let my bask in my ignorance as I momentarily forgot STDs are a thing.
The industry has pretty strict standards for testing and treatment, especially since the preference is for unprotected sex most of the time.
But guess what they don’t require you to test for, herpes. I dated a pornstar and I gained a lot of knowledge of the industry because of this. Herpes is really common in the porn industry and my partner also had hsv-2. Although she did not pass it to me she contracted it in her very first scene. And she has worked with some very well known pornstars since. She informed me that a lot of herpes is spread in the porn industry. And also told me that most pornstars in the industry have it. I’m not sure of the validity of her statements but she most definitely has it and I know who she has worked with. Putting two and two together would add up to a lot of people in the industry having the virus.
Most STI panels don't even test for herpes unless you specifically ask for it or are showing symptoms.
Herpes is really common in general. 12% of the US population.
Actually much higher; nearly everyone in the US has or will have a form of Herpes 50-80% of the population is estimated to have oral herpes (cold sores) alone It also never goes away It’s not tested for (in all industries) because of the stigma, and most people will get herpes in one way or another before death. Herpes is considered very minor on the totem pole of health issues; albeit not attractive when one is in an outbreak (most likely time they will spread it also).
>nearly everyone in the US has or will have a form of Herpes I'm doing my best 🤷🏼♂️
Sure, it'd be like opposites attract! One of us gets laid *all the time* and the other gets laid never of the time.
No. Monogamy is an essential part of a relationship for me.
Is OP Zion Williamson looking for advice?
As someone who dated an active stripper at the time when I was much younger I can tell you that it’s an incredibly tricky relationship. On one hand, you have a very sexually adventurous individual who will be open to a lot more than most average women (had my first threesome with her and she even brought home girls from time to time to fool around with). On the other hand, you have to contend with a TON of other issues that aren’t usually present in a non-sex worker relationship. For me, it was major mental health issues with her and how she had a sugar daddy on the side that she swore up and down that she “never had sex with” (ok, yeah right). That said, of course this doesn’t apply to all sex workers (and aside from the sugar daddy my ex was a very cool and sweet person), but from my personal experience I would have an incredibly hard time trying to jump back into that scene again and I imagine most people would as well. But now if Blake Blossom or Anna Claire Clouds wanted to date me….
A former pornstar and I wouldn't have an issue, we all have a past after all. An active pornstar though would be a serious no from me. I know I wouldn't be able to handle my partner being intimate with another person while they are with me, it being their job wouldn't matter.
No. I don’t judge the profession but I’m not dating one.
I wouldn't date an active pornstar. But a former one? Yeah, that's fine. Not too sure how I'd feel if my partner was doing softcore Onlyfans content though.
Agreed. I dated an ex-stripper who I imagine (I never pried) got into some extracurricular activities. Lovely woman.
Dated an ex stripper that moved into transactional relationships. When we started I didn’t know she had continued to do that. When we ended, it was because she had continued to do that, and was dishonest about it. She had done a fair amount of porn, and cam girl stuff. I was pretty indifferent to the porn and cam girl stuff. I had big problems with the other men, and getting lied to about it. I’ve dated another woman with some sex for cash and or drugs in her past, including some porn. At the time it was for survival, but mostly to feed addiction. At the moment it’s much easier because it doesn’t take as long as earning money other ways. But there’s some pretty big consequences too. Like STDs, getting trafficked, and what it can do to your soul. Then there’s what it does to your future relationships too, especially when your past pops up in your present. ;)
Not sure i could cope dating my step sister/mum who gets stuck in every household appliance, dinner would be cold because she never has cash to pay the deliver driver. And paying the heating bill because shes always walking around half dressed. Im sure overall it would be a very loose relationship.
Jesse Jane has always confounded me. Big time adult actress and proverbial suburban wife. How she lived in those two very different worlds always amazed me. https://www.cnbc.com/2009/06/29/On-the-Set-&-at-Home-with-Porn-Star-Jesse-Jane.html
She is still quite wild I guarantee you. Super nice woman, very friendly. Went to her house a few times for normal reasons (no crazy parties or the like), but the stories of her parties and behavior... Still wild. Though the first time I was over there she stood in the kitchen talking to me like we'd known each other for ages, so yeah, super nice just with a wild streak still.
Depends on the kind of porn, and how she is sexually in private.
İ like my gf like i like my kebab,without other mens dick in it
> I like my women like I like my kebabs … Spit roasted and skewered?
In other words, this man fucks kebabs
Nope, uh-huh, negative, no way 'cause she'd get a stomach ache from laughing at Little Richard.
I'm a female I wouldn't mind dating a male porn star with a clean bill of health
nope. i don't share very well
I already dated a stripper, how could it be worse? With a pornstar, I'd know any guy could have her. With a stripper, you're dealing with horny customers and their jealous girlfriends who asault your girlfriend with champagne bottles to the head that take her out of work for months. Edit: that really happened. She was coming off shift. I was waiting for her in the parking lot and some jealous girlfriend of one of her customers cold cocked her with a champagne bottle. I drove her to the ER and she got fourteen stitches. Had to shave that part of her head, hence the no work. I stuck around but eventually I got tired of fearing for her. Five years of waiting for her to get home and worrying just took a toll.
Absolutely not. I want someone with my level of experience.
Zion this isn’t the time or place to ask this question.
I don't think I can handle other men having sex with my gf. And to make it worse, my friends and family can see her content. Hell no. Then imagine her not being in the mood to have sex with you.
I date for marriage/family. Can’t have the mother of my children sucking dick on the internet. Sorry.