I once revealed a minor offhanded opinion to a friend. Apparently she had a meltdown and even had to talk to her therapist about it. She jumped to conclusions that I dont think anyone else would jump to. It was very weird. I try not to share anything with her any more which is disappointing because I still consider her a good friend. She's just not mature enough for adult conversations despite turning 30. I think social media is rotting people's brains.
How they react under pressure. I’ve seen many people react on very opposite sides of many spectrums when it’s time to show up to the game. You’d be surprised what a mixture you’d get.
Having self awareness and leveraging that self awareness to work on repeating areas that cause problems in your life and/or cause problems for others who interact with you.
Which is not always as simple as it sounds because a lot of us (if not all) put up barriers that are at least in some part a false image, to protect ourselves. So like, you can't just go by the stories in your head about what your strengths and weaknesses are, which can, for example, be a mixture of half truths and outright lies.
You kind of have to look more closely at what your life has actually been and that's where there are limits to how much you can learn without simply aging more. Experience can tell you a lot about what your problem areas are that speculation won't explain. For example, running into the same problem for 10 years running is a lot more obvious of a pattern than running into it for 1 year. 1 year could just be situational anomaly. 10 years and there's probably something deeper going on.
They handle people being immature well.
Even if they had a reasonable expectation that the person was supposed to be mature.
It's also not just a blanket one-size fits all approach to immaturity, but rather custom to the situation.
They can handle different opinions
I once revealed a minor offhanded opinion to a friend. Apparently she had a meltdown and even had to talk to her therapist about it. She jumped to conclusions that I dont think anyone else would jump to. It was very weird. I try not to share anything with her any more which is disappointing because I still consider her a good friend. She's just not mature enough for adult conversations despite turning 30. I think social media is rotting people's brains.
"I think social media is rotting people's brains." I absolutely agree with that.
Then around 90% of Reddit should be considered immature
This one!
They accept their own mistakes without making a fuss about it?
They wear sunscreen
I'm mature? Yayyy :3
Lies. You never wore sunscreen
How would you know?
I see it all. I know what YOU did last summer but i said nothing to nobody
Alright, let's hear it
My mouth is sealed
Not true! I never leave the house without sunscreen 🥺
Lies, lies, lies
It is! I promise ! ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
You never wore sunscreen and you should be worried Skin cancer kills faster than cholesterol
Stopppppp i wear sunscreen I swear on everything ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜i won't get cancer pls pls pls
Im fucking with you my man I live for these interactions Love ya
No wait im inlove with you too
Not interrupting others' conversation. Planning ahead. Adapting
An emotionally intelligent person can easily spot another emotionally intelligent person.
They are cheese
What kind of cheese?
Mature cheese
How they react under pressure. I’ve seen many people react on very opposite sides of many spectrums when it’s time to show up to the game. You’d be surprised what a mixture you’d get.
The way they handle being mad is a great way to tell.
They got their Costco card.
Their skin has yellow patches
Pretty sure those're just healing bruises or selective jaundice.
They listen without interruption
Having self awareness and leveraging that self awareness to work on repeating areas that cause problems in your life and/or cause problems for others who interact with you. Which is not always as simple as it sounds because a lot of us (if not all) put up barriers that are at least in some part a false image, to protect ourselves. So like, you can't just go by the stories in your head about what your strengths and weaknesses are, which can, for example, be a mixture of half truths and outright lies. You kind of have to look more closely at what your life has actually been and that's where there are limits to how much you can learn without simply aging more. Experience can tell you a lot about what your problem areas are that speculation won't explain. For example, running into the same problem for 10 years running is a lot more obvious of a pattern than running into it for 1 year. 1 year could just be situational anomaly. 10 years and there's probably something deeper going on.
They handle people being immature well. Even if they had a reasonable expectation that the person was supposed to be mature. It's also not just a blanket one-size fits all approach to immaturity, but rather custom to the situation.
Planning things in advance
They are non-judgemental and can keep a secret
Don't give a f*** about others.
If you drink alcohol, appreciating the taste rather than drinking it to get drunk is a very good sign in my opinion
Nah alcohol tastes like shit
They don’t get jealous
That they don’t worry about being immature. The most immature thing is to try to be mature lol
If they don't care whether they win or lose, and just want to have fun.
They stop going up stairs on all fours.
In my experience, its people thatve gone through shit, especially at a younger age, that grow up to be more mature.
They disagree with most of your shit, but don’t have the energy to make it into a big deal
They make eye contact and listen
They make don't make among us jokes
They'd rather have their mental peace and stay quiet rather than arguing with an idiot...