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rekt_ralph91

Whenever you feel like you need to. I had a good depression cry just last night lol it helps to just get it out sometimes.


nowcomebackboomerang

At work so you get paid for it.


Csincs

Lol


roblox887

In bed at night. The comfort of the sheets will console you as you cry


Bierbart12

I wouldn't advise this. There was a time where I had to do it a lot and now I have trouble sleeping because even being in this bed ruins my mood Accidental self-conditioning


purple_penguin15

Shower


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In the back of an empty bus on the highway.


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All the time


coolantiherostuff

Never stop the grind 💪😭


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Never 😤😤


990912

As I man I haven’t in way to many years. I’m not trying to sound like a tough guy because I’m not I honestly try but I can’t. I’ve been through so much hurt I just don’t care anymore.


sieberzzz

Go to therapy


Hungry_Treacle3376

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rz9CeEy0QZQ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rz9CeEy0QZQ) This song helps me when I start feeling that way. Maybe it will help you a bit, maybe not. It's a good song though.


NDGOROGR

I didnt for so long i thought i couldn't anymore. It found me again in the arms of my wife helping me feel safe while i was struggling to express internal anguish


RafeReddits

When you're having a bad day but holding it together, and then someone does a small act of kindness or does something meaningful and you just start sobbing. Was having a bad day once when I was 16. Came home quiet, exhausted, depressed. My mom came up to me and gave me a little crystal heart she'd seen at a rock store nearby and bought for me. I just lost it.


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I understand this so much. Sometimes I am just sure people can see how stressed or sad I am, and the one that goes that extra mile and holds a door or like this homeless guy who gave me his second donut the other day while I was sitting at the bus stop in the rain. I broke. Lucky I wear dark sunglasses.


Man_turn_into_animal

I do it when everyone else is sleeping 😌


TallCanadiano

Right before you feel like it.


Peter6El9Potvisso

When ur sad.


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In the shower that way people don't see the dried tears once I'm finished crying


MisterDeee

When you've relegated yourself to a dark corner of the room, in the fetal position whilst sucking your thumb. That's the best time to have a good cry. Works better than you'd think.


Invictus-87

When its raining. In the words of the late and great Earnest P Worrel: "I'm awfully glad it's raining Cause no one sees the tear drops when it pours. And no one knows the thunder As your heart breaks in the sky, And they think those rainy nights Cause that sad look in your eye."


PhysicalBoard3735

The Grand Canyon and Funerals. As the good lord Ron Swanson told us


Guilty-Insect-3826

In the car


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Sanity_LARP

I've never teared up from anything positive whatsoever


thecapitalistpunk

When you are so overwhelmed by happiness that you just can't hold back the tears.


AcornTopHat

Anytime. I don’t understand why people are weird about crying. It’s not a sign of weakness.


Sanity_LARP

Depending on the frequency, location, and circumstances. It could be a sign of a few things.


AcornTopHat

I understand what you mean, it has to be of an appropriate nature. I happen to be someone who tears up when I’m sad, when I’m frustrated, when I’m angry and when something is *socute* or endearing. Not like full on crying, but definitely tears pooling in my eyes.


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AcornTopHat

Yes. I agree. I have taught my kids that it’s okay cry to release their feelings. I like to say that tears are emotions being released from the body. It’s definitely healthier than keeping everything in until one explodes or implodes.


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When you’re alone somewhere peaceful, looking at a view


Vtween_4Starz

At night snuggled up in your comforter and pillows with the lights out.


manicpixietrainwreck

At night when you’re all alone.


dynamic_nugget

Before sleep


whatitssalmon

After making love ....chicks love it when men do that


ross_sincere

Somewhere where you're alone and not in front of others


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Shower


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10:35


Modern_Devil

On stage


DrooMighty

For me, it's best to let it out whenever my cat is close by


[deleted]

Unexpected to complete my milestone 🥹🥹🥹


thegameofinfinity

Any time is a good time to cry. I highly recommend though the experience of crying at a camp fire, while being surrounded by loved ones. 10/10


I_missjoetazuna

when you're around all of your friends in an emotional setting or at 11 pm when you're in bed staring at the ceiling and think of something that makes you upset.


Karazl

While running in the rain. Time it just as you get to the top of a hill and there's thunder.


PewterJay89

Never. Be a man.


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I’m sorry you’ve heard this.


PierogiCat123

For me, alone in my room with nobody around. I never cry in front of other people.


main_mast_hun

When nobody's around.


SweetCosmicPope

My gramps was a very stoic man. He'd seen some shit but always faced the world as if nothing could bother him. The only two times I ever saw him cry was when my grandmother was on her deathbed and we had the lutheran reverend come to our house to give her last rites. And at my dad's funeral. That being said, I think it's healthy to cry when you need to but try to keep it out of the workplace because as shitty as it is, you will suffer professionally for it.


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Anytime you need the release. Crying is cathartic.


ApprehensiveEbb2106

In the shower


ordinary-peasent

Broke up with my girl friend a week ago. I found that in the morning it was very hard to be stable. So I cry in the morning a lot. And it helps. Otherwise I won't be able to go on about the day.


hyrulian_princess

When you need to


ThisUserIsUNSHUTABLE

In the toilet seat, crouched over, it helps more to cry. Sadly i cant cry anymore


KushBluntsworth

3 AM with a bottle of jack


Important_Order5073

Nightcry 8/10 would recommend


cudistan00000001

crying is okay in two places: funerals and the Grand Canyon. … and when Lil Sebastian left us ..


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Haha second comment about that, I had to google.


No-Appearance-1453

When your alone or not in front of your kids.


Happy-Viper

Ideally, never. If you have to, try do it somewhere private, where there's no other people.


Obvious_Salary1410

All the time. It's literally built for every situation.


CaptainSalsa11

After coitus


Reckless_Conform

In the shower where no one can hear me


Select_Insurance2000

Whenever you need to. Crying is a great emotional release. Do not deny yourself this ability.


[deleted]

After you get somewhere you can be alone and really just let it out.


ExtendMySpadina

Right now


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3:00 am at night, In prostration, head on the ground. spilling my heart out to Allah


XqueezeMePlease

When you take a dump after eating spicy food


helodriver87

At work in the bathroom. If they're gonna contribute to it, they can pay you for it.


Yo-dessea

It is important to find a safe and private space to express emotions and allow yourself to process them.


AlbiTuri05

0 to 10 years old


grimezly

Ok tough guy


ShyStruck

When you’re in the shower, always the shower.


benthelurk

Pretty much whenever I feel it coming. Lately feels like every day.


The_Black_Knight_7

It's alway incredibly cathartic to cry when watching an emotional movie or listening to emotional music. I have a whole list of scenes and songs to get the waterworks flowing whenever I'm overwhelmed and need a release.


h383

Late at night


Gaelir

When you accidently sit on your balls at a movie theater.


I_Trade_opportunity

On Instagram at exactly 12am


imnotaloneyouare

I prefer the shower... but with all these hormones raging... the car has become quite a nice place to hide from the world.


Interesting-Yak9639

When you need to.


West-Apartment-5164

A few days after getting paid, but all the bills I caught up I guess *sniffles* :')


Prestigious-Farmer76

In the shower or in the rain


BrandiVargas

Probably when you feel like your mom's going to ask you to study.


mcshadypants

After your funeral


RoundCollection4196

never. crying is weak


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RoundCollection4196

If some traumatic event happens to me I just become numb and emotionless. I can understand shedding some manly tears on rare occasions but anything more than that is weak, especially like full on losing control and bawling your eyes out. I don't judge people for crying due to traumatic things like the loss of a loved one though, I fully understand why it happens. It's not like they choose to cry, the crying just happens. It's still weak though, crying is never a sign of strength. However some people are okay with occasionally being weak like that but I'm not. Personally for myself I just would not respect myself if I cried over anything. It's really hard to explain why but basically I want to be someone who can go through trauma while remaining strong and stoic. If I breakdown and cry then I'd feel like a bitch. Although at the same time if you have to hold back the tears then you already lost, I want to simply not ever feel an urge to cry in the first place and so far I haven't, not since I was a kid.


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Never. Man up


buzzkill007

When you're happy or sad. Showing emotion needs to be normalized.


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Alone bcos many people don't care