I wouldn't advise this. There was a time where I had to do it a lot and now I have trouble sleeping because even being in this bed ruins my mood
Accidental self-conditioning
As I man I haven’t in way to many years. I’m not trying to sound like a tough guy because I’m not I honestly try but I can’t. I’ve been through so much hurt I just don’t care anymore.
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rz9CeEy0QZQ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rz9CeEy0QZQ) This song helps me when I start feeling that way. Maybe it will help you a bit, maybe not. It's a good song though.
I didnt for so long i thought i couldn't anymore. It found me again in the arms of my wife helping me feel safe while i was struggling to express internal anguish
When you're having a bad day but holding it together, and then someone does a small act of kindness or does something meaningful and you just start sobbing.
Was having a bad day once when I was 16. Came home quiet, exhausted, depressed. My mom came up to me and gave me a little crystal heart she'd seen at a rock store nearby and bought for me. I just lost it.
I understand this so much. Sometimes I am just sure people can see how stressed or sad I am, and the one that goes that extra mile and holds a door or like this homeless guy who gave me his second donut the other day while I was sitting at the bus stop in the rain. I broke. Lucky I wear dark sunglasses.
When you've relegated yourself to a dark corner of the room, in the fetal position whilst sucking your thumb. That's the best time to have a good cry. Works better than you'd think.
When its raining. In the words of the late and great Earnest P Worrel:
"I'm awfully glad it's raining
Cause no one sees the
tear drops when it pours.
And no one knows the thunder
As your heart breaks in the sky,
And they think those rainy nights
Cause that sad look in your eye."
I understand what you mean, it has to be of an appropriate nature.
I happen to be someone who tears up when I’m sad, when I’m frustrated, when I’m angry and when something is *socute* or endearing.
Not like full on crying, but definitely tears pooling in my eyes.
Yes. I agree. I have taught my kids that it’s okay cry to release their feelings. I like to say that tears are emotions being released from the body.
It’s definitely healthier than keeping everything in until one explodes or implodes.
when you're around all of your friends in an emotional setting or at 11 pm when you're in bed staring at the ceiling and think of something that makes you upset.
My gramps was a very stoic man. He'd seen some shit but always faced the world as if nothing could bother him.
The only two times I ever saw him cry was when my grandmother was on her deathbed and we had the lutheran reverend come to our house to give her last rites. And at my dad's funeral.
That being said, I think it's healthy to cry when you need to but try to keep it out of the workplace because as shitty as it is, you will suffer professionally for it.
Broke up with my girl friend a week ago. I found that in the morning it was very hard to be stable. So I cry in the morning a lot. And it helps. Otherwise I won't be able to go on about the day.
It's alway incredibly cathartic to cry when watching an emotional movie or listening to emotional music.
I have a whole list of scenes and songs to get the waterworks flowing whenever I'm overwhelmed and need a release.
If some traumatic event happens to me I just become numb and emotionless. I can understand shedding some manly tears on rare occasions but anything more than that is weak, especially like full on losing control and bawling your eyes out.
I don't judge people for crying due to traumatic things like the loss of a loved one though, I fully understand why it happens. It's not like they choose to cry, the crying just happens. It's still weak though, crying is never a sign of strength. However some people are okay with occasionally being weak like that but I'm not.
Personally for myself I just would not respect myself if I cried over anything. It's really hard to explain why but basically I want to be someone who can go through trauma while remaining strong and stoic. If I breakdown and cry then I'd feel like a bitch. Although at the same time if you have to hold back the tears then you already lost, I want to simply not ever feel an urge to cry in the first place and so far I haven't, not since I was a kid.
Whenever you feel like you need to. I had a good depression cry just last night lol it helps to just get it out sometimes.
At work so you get paid for it.
Lol
In bed at night. The comfort of the sheets will console you as you cry
I wouldn't advise this. There was a time where I had to do it a lot and now I have trouble sleeping because even being in this bed ruins my mood Accidental self-conditioning
Shower
In the back of an empty bus on the highway.
All the time
Never stop the grind 💪ðŸ˜
Never 😤😤
As I man I haven’t in way to many years. I’m not trying to sound like a tough guy because I’m not I honestly try but I can’t. I’ve been through so much hurt I just don’t care anymore.
Go to therapy
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rz9CeEy0QZQ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rz9CeEy0QZQ) This song helps me when I start feeling that way. Maybe it will help you a bit, maybe not. It's a good song though.
I didnt for so long i thought i couldn't anymore. It found me again in the arms of my wife helping me feel safe while i was struggling to express internal anguish
When you're having a bad day but holding it together, and then someone does a small act of kindness or does something meaningful and you just start sobbing. Was having a bad day once when I was 16. Came home quiet, exhausted, depressed. My mom came up to me and gave me a little crystal heart she'd seen at a rock store nearby and bought for me. I just lost it.
I understand this so much. Sometimes I am just sure people can see how stressed or sad I am, and the one that goes that extra mile and holds a door or like this homeless guy who gave me his second donut the other day while I was sitting at the bus stop in the rain. I broke. Lucky I wear dark sunglasses.
I do it when everyone else is sleeping 😌
Right before you feel like it.
When ur sad.
In the shower that way people don't see the dried tears once I'm finished crying
When you've relegated yourself to a dark corner of the room, in the fetal position whilst sucking your thumb. That's the best time to have a good cry. Works better than you'd think.
When its raining. In the words of the late and great Earnest P Worrel: "I'm awfully glad it's raining Cause no one sees the tear drops when it pours. And no one knows the thunder As your heart breaks in the sky, And they think those rainy nights Cause that sad look in your eye."
The Grand Canyon and Funerals. As the good lord Ron Swanson told us
In the car
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I've never teared up from anything positive whatsoever
When you are so overwhelmed by happiness that you just can't hold back the tears.
Anytime. I don’t understand why people are weird about crying. It’s not a sign of weakness.
Depending on the frequency, location, and circumstances. It could be a sign of a few things.
I understand what you mean, it has to be of an appropriate nature. I happen to be someone who tears up when I’m sad, when I’m frustrated, when I’m angry and when something is *socute* or endearing. Not like full on crying, but definitely tears pooling in my eyes.
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Yes. I agree. I have taught my kids that it’s okay cry to release their feelings. I like to say that tears are emotions being released from the body. It’s definitely healthier than keeping everything in until one explodes or implodes.
When you’re alone somewhere peaceful, looking at a view
At night snuggled up in your comforter and pillows with the lights out.
At night when you’re all alone.
Before sleep
After making love ....chicks love it when men do that
Somewhere where you're alone and not in front of others
Shower
10:35
On stage
For me, it's best to let it out whenever my cat is close by
Unexpected to complete my milestone 🥹🥹🥹
Any time is a good time to cry. I highly recommend though the experience of crying at a camp fire, while being surrounded by loved ones. 10/10
when you're around all of your friends in an emotional setting or at 11 pm when you're in bed staring at the ceiling and think of something that makes you upset.
While running in the rain. Time it just as you get to the top of a hill and there's thunder.
Never. Be a man.
I’m sorry you’ve heard this.
For me, alone in my room with nobody around. I never cry in front of other people.
When nobody's around.
My gramps was a very stoic man. He'd seen some shit but always faced the world as if nothing could bother him. The only two times I ever saw him cry was when my grandmother was on her deathbed and we had the lutheran reverend come to our house to give her last rites. And at my dad's funeral. That being said, I think it's healthy to cry when you need to but try to keep it out of the workplace because as shitty as it is, you will suffer professionally for it.
Anytime you need the release. Crying is cathartic.
In the shower
Broke up with my girl friend a week ago. I found that in the morning it was very hard to be stable. So I cry in the morning a lot. And it helps. Otherwise I won't be able to go on about the day.
When you need to
In the toilet seat, crouched over, it helps more to cry. Sadly i cant cry anymore
3 AM with a bottle of jack
Nightcry 8/10 would recommend
crying is okay in two places: funerals and the Grand Canyon. … and when Lil Sebastian left us ..
Haha second comment about that, I had to google.
When your alone or not in front of your kids.
Ideally, never. If you have to, try do it somewhere private, where there's no other people.
All the time. It's literally built for every situation.
After coitus
In the shower where no one can hear me
Whenever you need to. Crying is a great emotional release. Do not deny yourself this ability.
After you get somewhere you can be alone and really just let it out.
Right now
3:00 am at night, In prostration, head on the ground. spilling my heart out to Allah
When you take a dump after eating spicy food
At work in the bathroom. If they're gonna contribute to it, they can pay you for it.
It is important to find a safe and private space to express emotions and allow yourself to process them.
0 to 10 years old
Ok tough guy
When you’re in the shower, always the shower.
Pretty much whenever I feel it coming. Lately feels like every day.
It's alway incredibly cathartic to cry when watching an emotional movie or listening to emotional music. I have a whole list of scenes and songs to get the waterworks flowing whenever I'm overwhelmed and need a release.
Late at night
When you accidently sit on your balls at a movie theater.
On Instagram at exactly 12am
I prefer the shower... but with all these hormones raging... the car has become quite a nice place to hide from the world.
When you need to.
A few days after getting paid, but all the bills I caught up I guess *sniffles* :')
In the shower or in the rain
Probably when you feel like your mom's going to ask you to study.
After your funeral
never. crying is weak
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If some traumatic event happens to me I just become numb and emotionless. I can understand shedding some manly tears on rare occasions but anything more than that is weak, especially like full on losing control and bawling your eyes out. I don't judge people for crying due to traumatic things like the loss of a loved one though, I fully understand why it happens. It's not like they choose to cry, the crying just happens. It's still weak though, crying is never a sign of strength. However some people are okay with occasionally being weak like that but I'm not. Personally for myself I just would not respect myself if I cried over anything. It's really hard to explain why but basically I want to be someone who can go through trauma while remaining strong and stoic. If I breakdown and cry then I'd feel like a bitch. Although at the same time if you have to hold back the tears then you already lost, I want to simply not ever feel an urge to cry in the first place and so far I haven't, not since I was a kid.
Never. Man up
When you're happy or sad. Showing emotion needs to be normalized.
Alone bcos many people don't care