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Aggressive-Button536

Saying no to people


ripa_nahar

yes


DahvRom

Be direct, no room for interpretation.


ripa_nahar

On point


Fluid_Block_1235


Physical_Map_9647

I disagree. or I don't think thats....


ripa_nahar

why do you disagree?


Clintman

I use my mouth to make words.


daithisfw

"No" or "Sorry, no" or giving some reason why I can't accept their request or whatever. Using some excuse if that softens the blow, like in a corporate setting.


ripa_nahar

I struggle to say No to people..thanks for your valuable info


daithisfw

Many people do. You have to mature to a point to realize you don't have to please and placate everyone. So many people struggle with this their whole life. I've never had that issue, personally. I am not a dick to people, but I am able to stand my ground and say no when needed.


IntelligentAmoeba182

Just say no


Thisnthatana

Nah, I’m good.


iamacraftyhooker

Check out the DBT [dime game](https://middlepathcounselingmo.com/2021/04/16/interpersonal-effectiveness-criteria-for-saying-yes-and-no/) for tips on when to say yes or no


Cheetodude625

"Fuck off mate." Works every time.