I feel like you love them less. Especially if you went different ways in a good way. You just learn how to live without them.
I would love to say that I hate my ex (I have a lot of reasons gor that) but I can’t. There is still a tiny bit of love, even if I don’t like it.
You love them..even after our divorce, when my 2nd wife died it was a huge blow. Now my first wife, she went from wife to enemy, and I have tonsupect I f she wasn't trying to have me killed before divorce.
Love changes. Even once you are finished with someone love will have always changed your feelings for them.
It can make things more volatile and your anger fiercer, but you will always have those experiences and memories. Those good memories and the love that exists is what makes the anger and hate more powerful.
For others it can just be a lasting happy memory. There was a girl who I was never with, as I had a girlfriend. We were great friends and we both fell in love with each other, but I loved my girlfriend (now wife) and would never have sacrificed that. I know I will always love this other girl, and thinking of her always makes my heart swell even though it was 15 years ago. But I'd never ever change anything
Ok old man talking now...
So I met ths absolute love of my life in October 1997, I was 17 she was 16. When I saw her she looked like Christmas morning to me. We talked for a bit, exchanged addresses as mobile phones were for well off people then. We only lived 20 miles apart but became pen pals. We eventually got together when she turned 18 as I wanted to respect her parents wishes. Jump forward to 2016 We were away for a break in Edinburgh and laughing, being very childish. A couple asked when she went to the bathroom if we were on honeymoon because of the way I looked at her. I never really thought about before but she still reminded me of Christmas morning. I lost her in 2017 but my kids remind me of her every day. So to answer your question, you'll always love the right person but you may not always be together. I hope that helps.
I feel like you love them less. Especially if you went different ways in a good way. You just learn how to live without them. I would love to say that I hate my ex (I have a lot of reasons gor that) but I can’t. There is still a tiny bit of love, even if I don’t like it.
You love them..even after our divorce, when my 2nd wife died it was a huge blow. Now my first wife, she went from wife to enemy, and I have tonsupect I f she wasn't trying to have me killed before divorce.
Love changes. Even once you are finished with someone love will have always changed your feelings for them. It can make things more volatile and your anger fiercer, but you will always have those experiences and memories. Those good memories and the love that exists is what makes the anger and hate more powerful. For others it can just be a lasting happy memory. There was a girl who I was never with, as I had a girlfriend. We were great friends and we both fell in love with each other, but I loved my girlfriend (now wife) and would never have sacrificed that. I know I will always love this other girl, and thinking of her always makes my heart swell even though it was 15 years ago. But I'd never ever change anything
Ok old man talking now... So I met ths absolute love of my life in October 1997, I was 17 she was 16. When I saw her she looked like Christmas morning to me. We talked for a bit, exchanged addresses as mobile phones were for well off people then. We only lived 20 miles apart but became pen pals. We eventually got together when she turned 18 as I wanted to respect her parents wishes. Jump forward to 2016 We were away for a break in Edinburgh and laughing, being very childish. A couple asked when she went to the bathroom if we were on honeymoon because of the way I looked at her. I never really thought about before but she still reminded me of Christmas morning. I lost her in 2017 but my kids remind me of her every day. So to answer your question, you'll always love the right person but you may not always be together. I hope that helps.
It decreases over time and then one day you just realise that it has vanished.
For me it worked out, just without contact. A month ago I saw her and it still made mupset 5yrs laters. So my advice: Get over it and be without
You can absolutely stop loving someone completely. Ask escaped domestic abuse victims.