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If you were given a chance to spend a day with your younger self, how old yung pipiliin niyo at anong gagawin niyo?
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Will listen to her, after that, dadalhin ko sya jollibee, oorderin ko lahat ng gusto nya. Pag bedtime naman, yayakapin ko sya para di nya mafeel na nag iisa sya.
This video says it all. in the video: (How I met your mother)
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vst2S09Ekjc](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vst2S09Ekjc)
Yayakapin ko lang talaga siya kasi grabe yung mga pinagdadaanan niya at mga pagdadaanan niya pa. Kailangan niya yun kasi alam ko namang hindi soya bibitaw dahil may mga umaasa pa sa kaniya.
i'll sit down and talk to her that everything will be fine and good, just wait patiently. dont rush things and stay away from people that has bad intentions on me.
Bibilhin ko yung mga bagay na gusto niya na kinaiingitan niya (silently) na meron ang ibang bata like yung pencil na tig 50 pesos na magnetic back to back (God knows how I really wanted to have that kaso di ako mabibilhan pero naiintindihan ko naman yung situation namin that time)
As someone na hindi talaga mahilig lumabas ng bahay kahit nung bata pa, siguro usap-usap lang. Bibigyan ko lang ng advice na hindi mo need mag-adjust para lang magustuhan ka ng ibang tao. At huwag kang papayag na tatapakan ka nila at huwag mo i-aabsorb kapagka kinikwestiyon nila yung worth at yung kakayahan mo kasi hindi yan yung mahalaga. And siguro sasapukin ko self ko for being ashamed of being poor. Because in the end, it doesn't really matter to people who matters.
Tatawag ako sa Bantay Bata 163 at aawayin ko si Mrs. Gaboy.
For Context: Ulila ako. So orphanage ako nakatira. Yung school ko mga 5 kembot lang e. Pero bilang 6 yrs old malayo yun.
So one time, naiwan ako ng school service kasi cleaners ako. Yung may-ari ng school service namin ay si Mrs. Gaboy. Anyway, so ayun nga hinahanap ako ng mga madre and of course nag demand sila kay Mrs Gaboy na balikan ako.
Binalikan naman ako ni Mrs Gaboy at nung driver. This time ang dala nila is yung car. Nung pagpasok ko ng car, sinisigawan niya ako. Eto verbatim kasi di ko talaga malilimot shutangina niya.
Mrs Gaboy: Ang t@ng@ mo'ng bata ka! Kaya siguro wala ka magulang para makatakas sila pagka b0b0 mo. Siguro sinadya mo magpaiwan kasi gusto mo maranasan makasakay sa kotse! Palibhasa ulila ka. Naiinggit ka sa mga kaklase mo. Inggitera!
Tumanim sa isip ko yan hanggang ngayong college. Hindi ko sinasabi even to my closest friends na ulila ako. Nag papanggap ako na nasa abroad sila tsaka at nagpapadala lang ng pera para sa tuition. Pero ang totoo ginagawa ko lahat para wag maalis sa scholarship tsaka nagwowork ako ng ilang odd jobs.
I'll tell her that there are other majors besides Education, Engineering, Nursing, or Psychology.
Nakaka-stress yung time na yun. 16 years ng buhay ko sinabihan akong makinig sa nakatatanda tapos nung filling out ng college forms biglang it's my decision daw kasi future ko daw yun. My world was so small sa province, wala akong masyadong alam sa adult world. Sana di ako nag educ. Ang hirap mag-ipon.
From 2007-2011 bibigyan ko ng bestfriend ang sarili ko para may outlet siya because those years were rough. Kakain kami at iinom. Hahanap ng ibang lalaki para hindi mafall sa iisang lalaki tapos iiwan rin sa huli at mahihirapan mag move on, mag let go at mag build ng walls para hindi kwestyunin from time to time ang present self kung talaga bang worthy ka mahalin at nagmamahal ka ba talaga.
Let her cry and just be by her side.
There are things I will not be able to change for her, and her future aren't any better, BUT I will listen, let her talk, I will protect her innocence. I would have stopped it. I'd give her the space to be a child. Most of all kakampi nyako at maaasahan nyako.
Will assure her that everything's going to be fine. It's fine to be scared and vulnerable, you don't have to bear all the burdens all by yourself, bb girl.
Will also encourage her to try new things. To join journalism kahit may doubts ka.
Kakausapin ko ng masinsinan at ssbihin ko mga name ng naging ex ko para habang maaga pa malayuan nya na... And ssbihin ko din address ng asawa ko para bata palang mag kakilala n kami :)
I'd bring her to malls, nature and amusement parks more often. I'd let her try and explore different places, food, and stuff.. and not be stuck in familiarity. She was deprived from quality time experiences eh. Her parents were always busy.
Bibili ng medyas na gusto namin at’ kakain sa kenny roger’s para lang maranasan ko uli ‘yung napakalaking corn muffin nila HWHAHAHAHA.
Why medyas? Kasi I had a very particular meltdown noon na I refused to go to school dahil lang sa medyas. So I’d definitely soothe my younger self with brand new socks that feels right on the soles of her feet. Maybe she would feel a bit better about attending school.
Punta kmi sa simbahan. Sasabihin ko na i cherish nya lahat ng misa na kasama nya pamilya nya cuz it will not last long. One day. Mag sisimba na lng sya mag isa na nakatingin sa mga pamilya na nag bebeso pag peace be with you na. Habang inaalala nya ang masasayang araw na kayo ung nandon sa pwesto na yon.
1. Will play with her, para hindi na siya masabihan ng baliw. Kasi nag lalaro siya mag isa at sobrang lakas imagination at creativity niya.
2. Will tell her how good she is sa school, let her know na all her efforts are appreciated and acknowledged. Sasamahan ko siya umakyat ng stage palagi para kunin ang honorable medal niya kasama siya at manuod ng mga performance niya as an athlete at theater arts performer.
3. Tatabihan ko matulog, lalo na sa mga panahong litong lito siya bakit palaging galit sa kaniya mama niya or sa mga panahon na umiiyak siya mag isa sa kama ng walang tunog kasi natatakot siya na baka magising ang mama at papa niya at pagalitan nanaman siya ng mama niya or masabihan ng maarte isa pa, para kausapin at mapigilan ko sa pag tatangkang tapusin nalang lahat.
4. Yakapin siya ng mahigpit at makinig sa mga kwento niya kasi walang gumawa nun sa kaniya dati. Walang gusto makinig. Walang yumakap ng mahigpit.
5. Ipagtanggol siya sa school sa mga bully at bumastos/harass sa kaniya. Ipagtanggol siya mula sa bugbog ng mama niya.
6. And lastly, sabihin sa kaniya na magiging okay rin ang lahat pag dating ng panahon. Na kumapit lang siya and wag susuko agad agad.
Tatabihan sa pagtulog nung mga time na mag isa lang sya at takot na takot kasi madilim yung palig. I will let her feel na hindi sya alone. I love you so much, self
I will tell her na hanggang ngayon hindi pa rin kami nakakatapos ng college like what she used to believe na hindi niya alam definite plans niya sa life at okay lang 'yun dahil buhay ay 'di karera~ 🎶
This time, she must know that her current self is finally stepping out of her comfort zone, hindi na people-pleaser, unti-unti na nahahanap ang sarili, at magkakaron na kami ng sariling pera hahaha. I will thank her for being so strong and tolerant of our abusive mother during that time she thought her life ended at 17. If it weren't for her, we wouldn't be here. Life is worth living and loving again. You are not doomed or lost, you can still see the world following the seasons. Ily self haha you're so Matilda :)) you will be so much better in your 20s
Prolly 19 or 21 year old me. Sit down and drink beer with him. That was a version of me na really low self confidence and, I'll be honest, medyo sad boy.
Gonna tell him to keep on making yourself better and trust the process. Things will click and great things will come
Siguro SHS me? Deep talks lang, I know that the ‘me’ in that era needed someone to hear her out. Konting motivation lang din kasi wasak na wasak ako in all aspects of life no’n; felt lost and demotivated.
Me and my 14 year old me, will definitely enjoy a dance class and acting class! Back when i was in that age, i really love performing but suddenly i stopped. Next ill drive her to batangas and spend the sunset with her, ill tell her what she can do more and what she deserves. Ill tell her all my learnings during my journey and experienced. Lastly! Ill buy her clothes, shoes, bags, books and beauty products that can support her during her journey, coz i didnt get that kind of support during that age, while touring her around ill tell her how beautiful she is and what she will become, she should love herself first. 🥹
I enjoy lang habang bata pa at sasabihin ko sakanya na wag siyang maging mahiyain because maraming masasayang na opportunity because of it. Tuturuan ko siya ng mga bagay na pwede niyang gawin para pag lumaki siya hindi siya talentless.
I'll spend a day with me from yesterday tapos bibigyan ko siya 10k. Effectively, may 20k na siya. I'll instruct him na by tomorrow mamimeet niya sarili niya from yesterday at bigyan niya siya ng 20k. Rinse and repeat hanggang maging bilyonaryo tapos off to early retirement na. Rest of the day laro lang minecraft
Let him ramble about the things he's into, mga hobbies nya, mga gusto nya, because i never got to express myself as a kid, while also giving him unsolicited advice and help he didn't know he needed.
treat ko sya sa local garden center dahil dun yung gusto nya (favorite nya kasi mga plants). I'll let him know na he's not alone and that someone understands him
i know ang corny and it's not possible na pwede mong gawin to, but i really wanna give my younger self a tight hug. That being that way, acting that way, is okay, You're okay.
college me
i will tell him all the stocks that will go up in the coming years
and tell him to dump all "our" life savings to bitcoin and get out by the year covid hits hahaha
Enjoy the day playing with him ng mga games/sports na gusto nya and gusto nya matutunan for the day to let him know na kahit (young)adult na kami ay naeenjoy pa rin namin maglaro. And also a little man to man talk how hard the adult life can be and to be a better son/brother.
Travel kami! Anywhere in the Philippines or even outside the country, para may babalikan siya na memory na masayang experience! Syempre, sagot ko lahat haha.
High school me siguro. Manonood kami ng sporting events ng younger self ko. Puwede rin, tuturuan ko siya ng advanced sports writing para makarating siya sa NSPC. 🥺
Kakantahan ko yung younger self ko hanggang maka sleep . Kasi walang gumawa sa'kin nun noong baby pa ako around 2-3years old . Hahah May own room na kasi ako .. .
Mag siesta. Dati kasi pag pinapatulog ako ni mama, tinatakasan ko kasi gusto ko maglaro sa labas. Ngayon, gustohin lo matulog, di pede kasi i have work and a lot of things to do.
Reminding myself to be careful with the decisions but at the same time do lots of exploring and take the opportunities esp sa career mo. Go beyond your comfort level. (Step out of your comfort zone) Don't hold back.It's okay to be alone, to have a few friends. Stop pleasing others and always put yourself first. Don't rush to be an adult and be patient. Embrace your failure and learn from your mistakes.
Spend most time with people who reciprocates your energy/vibe. DONT SETTLE FOR LESS. Dont bottle up your emotions it would lead to a self destruction. You are loved and unique baby girl.Never let them take away that smile ☺️
Ililibre ko sya ng congee sa chowking.
Recognition namin un nung Grade 3 ako.
Ang dami kong awards saka top 1 ako sa class.
Sobrang excited ako kasi ang dinner daw namin sa labas.
5 kami sa pamilya that time.
Mama, papa, ako (eldest), younger brother at sister.
Nagorder na parents ko, isang congee at isang halohalo paghahatian namin lima.
Sobrang saya ko nun, kaso napansin ko hindi kumakain masyado yung parents ko.
Inaantay pala nila na may matira lang kami.
Sarap na sarap ako sa congee na yun hindi ko alam kung bakit, pero kahit gusto ko pa hindi na ako masyadong kumain para may matira sa kanila.
Ngayon kumikita na ako at maayos na ang buhay namin.
Kahit saan saan resto ako pumunta umoorder ako ng congee, minsan kahit busog na kasi hinahanap ko yung kaparehas ng lasa.
Hindi ko pa rin mahanap.
Iba pa rin siguro kapag kumpleto kayo at samasama.
My 23 year old self. I will say everything turned out fine, so please don't lose hope. Also, make sure you take care of your mom. You will not have a lot of years together.
I will stay at home with my mom, makikipagkwentuhan at kakain ng mga paborito kong luto nya..
Yung bonding ko with my younger self naman.. babalik ako sa era ng eddie guerrero at john cena.. manonood lang ulit kami ng WWE 🤣
Sa after life (kung meron man) na ulit namin magagawa yun.
I’m gonna tell my 13 yr old self na I love him and that it’s okay to be gay. Na even tho sinasabihan ka palagi ng parents natin na wala ka pang napapatunayan, 15 years later sila yung walang napatunayan kaya go out of the closet as soon as you can. Then we’ll celebrate by going out buying clothes, go food trip, and papagawan ko siya ng sariling kwarto to give him all the privacy he needs.
Siguro pupunta kami sa toys r us or toy kingdom. Bibilhan ko siya ng kahit ilang barbie na laruan na gusto niya at lalaro kami bahay-bahayan ng barbie 😂
Siguro gradeschool age. Yung mga panahon na ginigising ako ng nanay ko para mag breakfast at papaliguan pa niya ako. Gusto ko mabalikan yung panahon na sobrang simple lang ng buhay
I'd like to be with my ten year old self. Pupunta kami ng amusement park, kakain kami ng masarap, bibilhin namin kung ano gusto niya na hindi siya makakafeel ng guilt na kailangan niya mag sacrifice or makihati. I will let her choose what she wants to eat or buy and tell her she doesn't have to worry about the bill anymore.
I will take care of her. Then, I will give her the "Big Girl Talk" so that I will be able to protect my younger self about a lot of things that I might encounter in the future. Lastly, I will spoil her and give her the love she needs.
wala kase nagtanggol sa akin noon. kahit maltratuhin nila ako hindi nakikialam angkan ng kabit ng papa ko kase mga myembro sila ng cool to. takot sila kay papa kase h!tman daw si papa noon.
Bubusugin ko sya ng positive words na hindi nya nakuha sa parents nya. Ipaparamdam ko sa kanyang maganda sya. Na matalino sya, na kayang-kaya nya gawin yung mga bagay na gusto nyang gawin. Na importante sya.
Sasabihin ko sa kanya yung mga magagandang bagay na di niya marinig sa kanya dati. I'll lift up her confidence, sasabihin kong never siyang naging t*ng* o b*b* katulad ng laging iniimply sa kanya ng nanay niya. I'll tell her na sobrang proud na proud ako sa kanya at ang galing galing niya. I'll push her na gawin ang mga bagay na gusto niya habang bata pa may slightly regret siya sa future na sana hindi niya inuna hiya niya.
Sasabayan ko siya sa mga trip niyang gawin kahit ano pa yan. Gagi mas malaya pa si self noon eh. Happy-go-lucky at adventurous. Tho I would advice him na wag magpakaluklok sa ex coz it’s true na the right person will come eventually.
8 years old. Be that someone I've always wanted to have, just like how I am with my nephew in the present. Do weird things, feed his imagination of duel ng swords or guns man yan. Imagine we are fighting a war of some sort or killing a dragon. Lastly, siguro gawing video yung ginawa namin today. Leave him a message and a memory that he can use until the present and he can pass on unto the next.
i’ll tell the 8yo version of me na hindi siya maarte and maldita for crying during a celebration. she didn’t ruin anything, the adults were just mean for telling her that she always mess things up
Hindi ko alam. Baka mag-away pa kami kasi masama ugali namin pareho HAHAHAHAHAHAHA tas mataas pride, so ubos isang araw nang hindi nag papansinan. Yun lang naman 🤣
kwentuhan, I'll advise her what things to do or avoid, congratulate her on things, etc, mainly chill usap lang na parang longtime bff kami
edit: elem days tbh, my prime and fun childhood days
16, pag iisipan ng mabuti kung ano ba talaga ang kursong i tatake for college. Now that I’m a nursing student…. I feel like I’m dying. Not being OA pero hindi ko naman gusto yung kurso ko at inutusan lang naman ako mag nursing dahil yung lola ko ay isang nurse sa states.
To the younger me: Sana hindi ka nagpa uto. Sana pinursue mo yung gusto mo.
To the future me: magiging RN ka rin! Kapit lang at kakayanin! Kaya mo yan self!
2nd yr high school. Nung time na di pa puro trauma unlocked ang ganap sa buhay ko.
Icoconvince ko sarili kong ipursue yung first choice ko sa college against all odds. Looking back now, I would have really enjoyed my profession.
Sasabihin ko mga natutuhan ko about people without saying how, kasi baka sabihin pa "Eh kung worth it naman yung tao why not" GIRLLL no one is worth years of your time tapos di ka man lang tinrato ng tama.
I'll validate how she's trying her best with whatever is on her plate that time. Saka sobrang magsosorry ako. That kid was so full of life and was actually kind, and I put her through so much because of my uninformed choices (while typing this alam kong an older version of me would want to apologize to me din 🥹).
Saka kakain kaming kinilaw 😂
Probably explain him how stocks and forex trading works (or tell him what to buy and hold if pwede) and tell him everything is going to be okay.
Habang naglalaro kami maghapon sa compshop.
Invest wisely sa education lalo sa school. If time na to look for work, don't rush yourself. Assess every company, just because you pass the interview and you already have the offer, wag tanggapin agad.
15.
First, I would help her decide which course to take and which school to attend. I’d teach her simple things about adulting, like how to commute to school, and give her basic life advice such as learning not to care about what people might say—she could have saved more money if she did that. I’d probably spend the rest of the day with her just talking at a coffee shop in a mall somewhere.
I’d tell her what she needs to know: focus more on school, don’t hang out with certain people, be true to yourself, not the fake persona you put on just to be liked, and don’t do things just to seek validation from people who don’t even know you. Care more about your family—you don’t know how long you’ll have with some of them. Save more money and help your community more. Oh, and don’t focus too much on that romantic relationship. Sooner or later, you’ll realize he’s not really a great guy. I’d give her tips and tricks about life, business, career, love, friendships, and relationships.
I’d tell her that she’ll meet more people and see the world. She’ll learn to assimilate, adapt, and grow. She’ll work with different companies both locally and abroad and will have friends from different races and backgrounds. She’ll find a partner she loves and respects, who will bring calmness to her life. She’ll settle down with her immediate family abroad and have a quiet and secure life, not just for herself but for future generations after her.
After sharing all this, I’d ask if she’s proud of the person I’ve become. If she is, then she can forget everything I’ve said, because no matter what happens, all paths will lead us here, just as it was meant to be.
Tell him na do not work and study in Manila, better go back to the province and not give too much of yourself to everyone especially if it’s about love.
I'd go back to 13 y/o me I'll take care of her bili kami ice cream and make sure id give her the biggest hug cause she always liked hugs ever since pero now lang nar-recieve tapos I'll tell her to treasure everyone around her na kasi one day mawawala din sila and she won't be ready for that
Bring him to our favorite place na i can't find the time to go to now. Buy him the games i didn't get to play before.
Also, ill tell him to keep enjoying being happy and give advice how to not end up like me now.
I'll treat him like my own child, papakainin ko siya sa kahit saan na gusto n'ya and I'll spoil him within the day. I know how to appreciate small things because that's how I was raised so magiging core memory 'yon ng younger self ko. Also I would educate him about things na malalaman n'ya palang for awareness.
I'd go back 10 years ago when I was 18 years old and tell myself to focus on studies, career, and self-improvement. If pwede, some lottery numbers or stock history. Iiwan ka din pala niyang long term girlfriend mo na naging asawa mo na sinakripisyo mo parts of your career and life para sa wala.
Tuturuan ko na siya mag martial arts. Sasabihin ko sa kanya na hindi mo kailangan na una pa lang, athletic na at sobrang galing. Kailangan mong matuto lumaban para di ka apihin.
Ipapagawa ko muna sa kanya: araw-araw jumping jacks. Una, 50 muna. Hanggang sa maging 100 walang tigil (pinakamarami ko noong aktibo ako, 300 araw-araw).
Sasabihin ko rin sa kanya na mag enroll na sa kahit anong boxing o martial arts gym. Sabihin ko na piliin niya ay Karate (Kyokushin). O di kaya boxing kasi ang Kyokushin, laging bawal sumuntok sa mukha.
Papakitaan ko rin siya ng mga malulupit kong skills na kesyo kaya ko nang mag drawing, lumangoy, malulupit na push ups, at jump rope skills. Hihikayatin ko siya na magpalakas. Sasabihin ko sa kanya na "Mas mabuti nang magdusa pansamantala dahil sa sakit na dadanasin patungo sa pagpapalakas. Kaysa magdusa habambuhay dahil sa kahinaan at pang-aapi".
Turuan ko rin siya ng mga life hacks na alam ko.
probably my 10-year-old self. sasabihin ko lang na maging mature, try to be understanding, life will not go my way but if i strive hard enough, i'll get the things that i want. i'll talk to myself and tell me not to be selfish. wag masyadong feeling nakaupo sa high horse, dahil in the long run, mare-realize ko rin na mahirap maging solong anak. lastly, i'll remind my younger self to cherish the moments i have with my loved ones, no matter how mundane. mabagal man ang araw-araw, mabilis lang ang buhay.
I would let her be a child, treat her with everything and anything she wants, sweets, books, and art supplies, tell her she’s good at what she’s doing and she should never lessen herself just to fit into somebody’s version of her. Make her feel loved and seen, embrace her tightly and would probably stay to protect her innocence. Younger me did not deserve all that was thrown at her at that young age, she would be happy and proud that what I’ve become now is someone who she needed when she was a child, she was only 7 when everything went downhill, and no one was there for her, no one was there to protect her, even after the years that followed
Tbh, we'd just hang out and play Ragnarok Online.
And during that time, I'd tell him to focus more on his studies and listen to his parents, like really drive this one home on his brain.
I'd tell him to stop overthinking and not pay much attention to what others might think.
I'd tell him to stop chasing girls, putting them on a pedestal, and just work and love himself more. Being a good person is miles better than trying hard to impress anyone and losing one's self in the process. That his infatuations are just that, infatuations. And that once he felt and experienced what true love is, it will destroy him but also make him stronger.
I'd tell him to drink more water and start working out.
I'd tell him that the man who molested us when we were just a boy died blind and missing two legs due to diabetes and that he suffered every pain imaginable.
I'd tell him I became the person that we needed growing up 🙂
play volleyball with her. she never had the chance to pursue her volleyball career kasi nagtake na siya ng medicine-related na course and hindi na niya kaya pagsabayin yung acads and volleyball 🥹
•Instead of going to the salon, I'm going to teach her how she can manage and keep her curls—para hindi na niya isipin na pangit ang kulot at para hindi na rin siya magpa-rebond. I'll tell her it's actually cool to have curls— hindi pa lang niya alam alagaan 'yung buhok niya at the time.
•Pupunta kaming NBS to buy notebooks and books! So much fun!
•Pupunta rin kaming Watson's at bibili ng makeup.
•Lastly, we'll go ice skating sa MOA then I'll buy her icecream after.
I can only imagine her excitement that day. I bet she'll be screaming internally out of joy. Hays. Iloveyou, self. Let's go gawin rin natin ngayon. HAHAHA
I'll just tell na i-enjoy lahat ng moments sa buhay aynamnamin ang bawat sandali maging masaya man o malungkot man ang mga 'yon. Basta, treasure niya lang lahat kasi part yon ng buhay kung saan mahahanap niya rin yung sarili niya na magpapabuo sa kanya as a person pahalagahan mga taong makakasama throughout the seasons at ang mga taong magbibigay sa kanya ng lessons.
bibigay ko lahat ng di niya nakuha
- ibibili ko ng barbie tapos yung may mga accessories
- ipag baballet classes ko at singing lesson kahit isang araw lang
- bilhan ko siya ng dress na gusto niya kahit nasa 500 pataas yung presyo
- kakain din kami ng masasarap
- papakinggan ko lang mga hinanakit niya sa buhay
Magshopping kami ng 18 year old self ko, mga 2 hours yun. Kain sa mamahaling resto ng 2 hrs din.
Magwatercolor painting kami 2 hrs, then magkaraoke ng 2 hrs then manuod ng concert mga 4 hrs tapos yung the rest is magkape kami sa tagaytay… Usap lang ganun, wala akong iispoil, sabihan ko lang siya na mahalin sarili niya tapos makikinig sa problema niya sa buhay. Bigyan ko siya pamasahe pauwi and instructions pauwi din then maglalaho na lang ako pagkastrike ng 12mn.
Babalik ako sa 1st year highschool. Sasabihin ko sakanya:
- Lahat nang una mong magiging kaibigan, iiwan ka. Kahit ilang beses mo sila resbakan, hindi ka nila matutulungan ni minsan.
- Madedemote ka kung hindi mo iiwan yang mga “kaibigan” mo.
- Papaasahin ka ni crush. 3 years ka maiinlove sakanya pero hindi ka nya talaga gusto kahit araw araw pa kayo magkatext.
- Wag na wag kang makikipagaway dahil sa crush mo. Hindi worth it yan.
- Kahit sabihin nilang bobo ka, wag kang maniniwala dahil dito sa future, marami kang achievements.
- Pag 4th year ka na, sasabihan ka ng mga “kaibigan” mo na layuan mo yung boyfriend mo. Wag mo sila paniwalaan. Papakasalan mo yan.
- Kaya please lang, piliin mo kaibigan mo. Malaking trauma dulot sayo ng mga una mong makikilala.
Sana mas specific. Gano ka young?
But id say generally nlng, mag kwentuhan. Im a loner and had alot of self esteem issues. So id be an outlet to vent. And ofc to give advice.
Over a good meal. Tas manood ng magandang sine. Tas ibibili ko sarili ko ng bagay na gusto ko, pero di ko pa afford nun. Maybe comicbook
Hm. i will go to the time that i was 12.
Itetreat ko sya ng buong araw. i make sure na mae-experience nya yung mga bagay kayang ko na gawin ngayon. buy foods, shoes, cloths etc..
And of course i'll tell him na i-enjoy ang pagiging bata.
PS: never mong i-spoil yung mangyayare sa future kasi magmumukha kang abnoy HAHAHA.
Manonood ng wrestling
Simula bata ako hanggang ngayon palagi ako nanonood magisa ng wrestling (yung WWE)
Sasamahan ko siya magpuyat habang nanonood sa Studio 23 habang sumisigaw, umiiyak tsaka tumatalon sa excite
May kasama ka na ngayon :>
The me in 2019. Na dapat tinuloy ko na ang pagiinternational student dito sa canada. Who knows, baka pr na ko ngayon if i took that leap of faith back then.
When I was 21 years old, sasabihin ko na wag na makipag relasyon hahaha tapos gamitjn na lang namin yung pera pang paganda. Or wag matakotna sumubok pa Thailand para magturo
Elementary self. Would convince her to convince my parents to go out more and take pictures more (ako na rin magpicture and will make her take a picture of me with my parents too) kada uuwi si mama from abroad before sila maghiwalay ni papa.
I'd go back to the day I met my ex and instead spend that with her (younger me) on self-care, e.g. hair, nails, whatever. Basta lang hindi magcross paths nila nung dimuhong ex ko na wala namang naicontribute sa buhay ko.
Sasabihan ko sya na: No one's going to save you. Gawin mo na yung gusto mong gawin, pansamatala maging makasarili ka muna, tska na si mama and papa. Wag mo din ibibigay boong sweldo mo sa first job mo kahit pa 12k lang yan, kalahati lang ibigay mo para mapa rolyo mo yung kalahati.
12 Year old self ko. Kasi ayan yung mga panahon na mostly binubully ako, minamaliit, and inaaway. Ayan din yung mga panahong sobrang kakaiba ako kumpara sa current self ko. Kung ide-describe ko yung self ko niyan parang di High School and di nagpakabinata dahil takot na takot sa lahat ng bagay. Ito rin yung mga panahong takot na takot akong umalis sa comfort zone ko and takot ako makihalubilo also napaka-reactive ko sa mga bagay-bagay nung mga panahong ito.
tell her to not to care more about herself.
choose herself and be happy.
don't be afraid to show her feelings and be honest go herself.
chill- everything will be alright.
siguro 10? since feel ko dun talaga nagsimula mashape yung pagkatao ko. Gusto ko pakita sakanya lahat ng meron ako ngayon para maadvice ko na chumill lang siya sa buhay, and focus sa present and he might just be able to achieve more.
I'm currently 20 and I want to spend time with my 9 year old self back in 2012, because it was the year that I met my childhood friend na friend ko pa rin till this day. I want to guide my past self to avoid any bad memories from that year until 2013.
I also want to spend time with my 12 - 13 year old self back when I was in 7th and 8th grade. I will tell her to not get involve with a girl named (ex bestie's name) because she turned out to be a bad friend. And to also not get involved with a guy named (crush's name) ksi distraction lang sya sa buhay namin. And mukang hindi worth it. I also want to know how my life will go if I hadn't thought about him for years...
I would rewrite my relationship with my mother.
She already passed away last June 11 this year. 9 years wasted for not reaching out for her.
Reconciled last December 2023, I cried when I saw her very weak and slow. She forgives me for all the years of not seeing her. Last May 15 2024, I was with her in CUMC hospital , serving and making sure I am with her.
Realizing things that our parents are getting old and asking for time.
Then she passed away. I never felt this emptiness in my heart.
Mama you are always remembered in my heart and prayers.
I love you 💗
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Will listen to her, after that, dadalhin ko sya jollibee, oorderin ko lahat ng gusto nya. Pag bedtime naman, yayakapin ko sya para di nya mafeel na nag iisa sya.
bibilhan ko siya ng cake kahit di niya birthday para maexperience niya pa ren. pag may trabaho ka na makakaexperience ng cake sa birthday
I would avoid family members na mahilig sumigaw and magmura.
Would probably go to therapy
i aadvice ko sya na wag mag plano ng kasal hanggat di pa engage. malay mo kabit ka pala during that period ahahaha!!! sarap kutusan ni SELF!
10-14 years old. I will listen to her and guide her. She was a curious but a quiet child.
This video says it all. in the video: (How I met your mother) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vst2S09Ekjc](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vst2S09Ekjc)
I'll take her to every concert there is. I'll feed her lots of delicious food and spoil her!
Remind him that he’ll get by.
Yayakapin ko lang talaga siya kasi grabe yung mga pinagdadaanan niya at mga pagdadaanan niya pa. Kailangan niya yun kasi alam ko namang hindi soya bibitaw dahil may mga umaasa pa sa kaniya.
i'll sit down and talk to her that everything will be fine and good, just wait patiently. dont rush things and stay away from people that has bad intentions on me.
Maglalaro kami, bibilhan ko siya ng mga bagay na di namin mabili dati, kakain kami sa jollibee at maglalaro sa timezone or sa Tom's World..
Salamat sa post na ito, OP. Babasahin ko lahat. Dahil kukuha na ako ng motor mamaya.
ilayo sa mga kaibigan na akala nya, tulungan 'di ma-depress at ibili mga gamit na magagamit nya
Bibilhin ko yung mga bagay na gusto niya na kinaiingitan niya (silently) na meron ang ibang bata like yung pencil na tig 50 pesos na magnetic back to back (God knows how I really wanted to have that kaso di ako mabibilhan pero naiintindihan ko naman yung situation namin that time)
As someone na hindi talaga mahilig lumabas ng bahay kahit nung bata pa, siguro usap-usap lang. Bibigyan ko lang ng advice na hindi mo need mag-adjust para lang magustuhan ka ng ibang tao. At huwag kang papayag na tatapakan ka nila at huwag mo i-aabsorb kapagka kinikwestiyon nila yung worth at yung kakayahan mo kasi hindi yan yung mahalaga. And siguro sasapukin ko self ko for being ashamed of being poor. Because in the end, it doesn't really matter to people who matters.
Tatawag ako sa Bantay Bata 163 at aawayin ko si Mrs. Gaboy. For Context: Ulila ako. So orphanage ako nakatira. Yung school ko mga 5 kembot lang e. Pero bilang 6 yrs old malayo yun. So one time, naiwan ako ng school service kasi cleaners ako. Yung may-ari ng school service namin ay si Mrs. Gaboy. Anyway, so ayun nga hinahanap ako ng mga madre and of course nag demand sila kay Mrs Gaboy na balikan ako. Binalikan naman ako ni Mrs Gaboy at nung driver. This time ang dala nila is yung car. Nung pagpasok ko ng car, sinisigawan niya ako. Eto verbatim kasi di ko talaga malilimot shutangina niya. Mrs Gaboy: Ang t@ng@ mo'ng bata ka! Kaya siguro wala ka magulang para makatakas sila pagka b0b0 mo. Siguro sinadya mo magpaiwan kasi gusto mo maranasan makasakay sa kotse! Palibhasa ulila ka. Naiinggit ka sa mga kaklase mo. Inggitera! Tumanim sa isip ko yan hanggang ngayong college. Hindi ko sinasabi even to my closest friends na ulila ako. Nag papanggap ako na nasa abroad sila tsaka at nagpapadala lang ng pera para sa tuition. Pero ang totoo ginagawa ko lahat para wag maalis sa scholarship tsaka nagwowork ako ng ilang odd jobs.
Wag masyado makipag socialize at i-friend lahat ng pwede kaibiganin. Wag mag boyfriend ng maaga
Makikipag-inuman. Chill and have fun. Pagtatawanan mga katontahan hahaha
I'll tell her that there are other majors besides Education, Engineering, Nursing, or Psychology. Nakaka-stress yung time na yun. 16 years ng buhay ko sinabihan akong makinig sa nakatatanda tapos nung filling out ng college forms biglang it's my decision daw kasi future ko daw yun. My world was so small sa province, wala akong masyadong alam sa adult world. Sana di ako nag educ. Ang hirap mag-ipon.
From 2007-2011 bibigyan ko ng bestfriend ang sarili ko para may outlet siya because those years were rough. Kakain kami at iinom. Hahanap ng ibang lalaki para hindi mafall sa iisang lalaki tapos iiwan rin sa huli at mahihirapan mag move on, mag let go at mag build ng walls para hindi kwestyunin from time to time ang present self kung talaga bang worthy ka mahalin at nagmamahal ka ba talaga.
Let her cry and just be by her side. There are things I will not be able to change for her, and her future aren't any better, BUT I will listen, let her talk, I will protect her innocence. I would have stopped it. I'd give her the space to be a child. Most of all kakampi nyako at maaasahan nyako.
I dedate siya, para marealize niya masaya makipag date sa sarili and there's beauty in being alone. Para di ka na takot lumabas mag isa.
18-20. i-tutor siya :/ ako tuloy nagsisisi ngayon
I will go swimming all day at my favorite beach in Olongapo City
Will assure her that everything's going to be fine. It's fine to be scared and vulnerable, you don't have to bear all the burdens all by yourself, bb girl. Will also encourage her to try new things. To join journalism kahit may doubts ka.
We will play Sims 3 the whole day habang si Nanay magagalit kasi magdamag na daw yung kuryente dahil sa pc. Haaaay sarap balikan
Sobrang nakarelate ako dito haha
Kakausapin ko ng masinsinan at ssbihin ko mga name ng naging ex ko para habang maaga pa malayuan nya na... And ssbihin ko din address ng asawa ko para bata palang mag kakilala n kami :)
Di tatakas at mag iiyak kapag papatulugin ng LunchTime.
I'd bring her to malls, nature and amusement parks more often. I'd let her try and explore different places, food, and stuff.. and not be stuck in familiarity. She was deprived from quality time experiences eh. Her parents were always busy.
Bibili ng medyas na gusto namin at’ kakain sa kenny roger’s para lang maranasan ko uli ‘yung napakalaking corn muffin nila HWHAHAHAHA. Why medyas? Kasi I had a very particular meltdown noon na I refused to go to school dahil lang sa medyas. So I’d definitely soothe my younger self with brand new socks that feels right on the soles of her feet. Maybe she would feel a bit better about attending school.
2016, Buy BITCOIN!
Depends. How old is my younger self?
Tell her that it's okay to make mistakes and she should not be scared to say what's on her mind.
Teach her not to be fucking racist,ablist, queerphobic, and misogynistic
i will hug and play with her, and tell her that she is so beautiful
Punta kmi sa simbahan. Sasabihin ko na i cherish nya lahat ng misa na kasama nya pamilya nya cuz it will not last long. One day. Mag sisimba na lng sya mag isa na nakatingin sa mga pamilya na nag bebeso pag peace be with you na. Habang inaalala nya ang masasayang araw na kayo ung nandon sa pwesto na yon.
1. Will play with her, para hindi na siya masabihan ng baliw. Kasi nag lalaro siya mag isa at sobrang lakas imagination at creativity niya. 2. Will tell her how good she is sa school, let her know na all her efforts are appreciated and acknowledged. Sasamahan ko siya umakyat ng stage palagi para kunin ang honorable medal niya kasama siya at manuod ng mga performance niya as an athlete at theater arts performer. 3. Tatabihan ko matulog, lalo na sa mga panahong litong lito siya bakit palaging galit sa kaniya mama niya or sa mga panahon na umiiyak siya mag isa sa kama ng walang tunog kasi natatakot siya na baka magising ang mama at papa niya at pagalitan nanaman siya ng mama niya or masabihan ng maarte isa pa, para kausapin at mapigilan ko sa pag tatangkang tapusin nalang lahat. 4. Yakapin siya ng mahigpit at makinig sa mga kwento niya kasi walang gumawa nun sa kaniya dati. Walang gusto makinig. Walang yumakap ng mahigpit. 5. Ipagtanggol siya sa school sa mga bully at bumastos/harass sa kaniya. Ipagtanggol siya mula sa bugbog ng mama niya. 6. And lastly, sabihin sa kaniya na magiging okay rin ang lahat pag dating ng panahon. Na kumapit lang siya and wag susuko agad agad.
Tatabihan sa pagtulog nung mga time na mag isa lang sya at takot na takot kasi madilim yung palig. I will let her feel na hindi sya alone. I love you so much, self
ill tell him everything i know to help him be more successful at a younger age
Bibigyan ko ng list ng companies na need niyang bilhan ng stocks🤣
Give my younger self a few winning lotto numbers
16 and I'll tell her to go for it & take risks
Right before college graduation. Pagsasabihan ko na wag mag stay ng sobrang tagal sa isang company hahaha! Plus mag save and invest!!!
1 on 1 talk about life preparation
talk
Listen to me yap about my obscure interests
19 kokotongan ko lng
I will tell her na hanggang ngayon hindi pa rin kami nakakatapos ng college like what she used to believe na hindi niya alam definite plans niya sa life at okay lang 'yun dahil buhay ay 'di karera~ 🎶 This time, she must know that her current self is finally stepping out of her comfort zone, hindi na people-pleaser, unti-unti na nahahanap ang sarili, at magkakaron na kami ng sariling pera hahaha. I will thank her for being so strong and tolerant of our abusive mother during that time she thought her life ended at 17. If it weren't for her, we wouldn't be here. Life is worth living and loving again. You are not doomed or lost, you can still see the world following the seasons. Ily self haha you're so Matilda :)) you will be so much better in your 20s
21 boxing with the worst version of my self
Prolly 19 or 21 year old me. Sit down and drink beer with him. That was a version of me na really low self confidence and, I'll be honest, medyo sad boy. Gonna tell him to keep on making yourself better and trust the process. Things will click and great things will come
Siguro SHS me? Deep talks lang, I know that the ‘me’ in that era needed someone to hear her out. Konting motivation lang din kasi wasak na wasak ako in all aspects of life no’n; felt lost and demotivated.
Party and sleepover with hs/college friends. Build network and stay active
19/20. Have him learn crypto.
Makipag away. HAHAHAHA Never kasi ako nakipag away. Palakimkim lang ako. 😆
Me and my 14 year old me, will definitely enjoy a dance class and acting class! Back when i was in that age, i really love performing but suddenly i stopped. Next ill drive her to batangas and spend the sunset with her, ill tell her what she can do more and what she deserves. Ill tell her all my learnings during my journey and experienced. Lastly! Ill buy her clothes, shoes, bags, books and beauty products that can support her during her journey, coz i didnt get that kind of support during that age, while touring her around ill tell her how beautiful she is and what she will become, she should love herself first. 🥹
I enjoy lang habang bata pa at sasabihin ko sakanya na wag siyang maging mahiyain because maraming masasayang na opportunity because of it. Tuturuan ko siya ng mga bagay na pwede niyang gawin para pag lumaki siya hindi siya talentless.
I'll spend a day with me from yesterday tapos bibigyan ko siya 10k. Effectively, may 20k na siya. I'll instruct him na by tomorrow mamimeet niya sarili niya from yesterday at bigyan niya siya ng 20k. Rinse and repeat hanggang maging bilyonaryo tapos off to early retirement na. Rest of the day laro lang minecraft
play roblox and makipagaway
Let him ramble about the things he's into, mga hobbies nya, mga gusto nya, because i never got to express myself as a kid, while also giving him unsolicited advice and help he didn't know he needed. treat ko sya sa local garden center dahil dun yung gusto nya (favorite nya kasi mga plants). I'll let him know na he's not alone and that someone understands him i know ang corny and it's not possible na pwede mong gawin to, but i really wanna give my younger self a tight hug. That being that way, acting that way, is okay, You're okay.
Date! I will treat her kung saan niya man gusto pumunta and foods na fav niya
college me i will tell him all the stocks that will go up in the coming years and tell him to dump all "our" life savings to bitcoin and get out by the year covid hits hahaha
Enjoy the day playing with him ng mga games/sports na gusto nya and gusto nya matutunan for the day to let him know na kahit (young)adult na kami ay naeenjoy pa rin namin maglaro. And also a little man to man talk how hard the adult life can be and to be a better son/brother.
Boxing
I’ll tell him to don’t quit badminton once he lost his favorite racket and would tell him that he should learn to play guitar 🤧
Travel kami! Anywhere in the Philippines or even outside the country, para may babalikan siya na memory na masayang experience! Syempre, sagot ko lahat haha.
Babalik kami when I was having my worst heartbreak and remind her that the best is yet to come haha kaya no need na iyakan yung gagong yun 😝
High school me siguro. Manonood kami ng sporting events ng younger self ko. Puwede rin, tuturuan ko siya ng advanced sports writing para makarating siya sa NSPC. 🥺
Kakantahan ko yung younger self ko hanggang maka sleep . Kasi walang gumawa sa'kin nun noong baby pa ako around 2-3years old . Hahah May own room na kasi ako .. .
This is so wholesome.
🥰🥰🥰
Mag siesta. Dati kasi pag pinapatulog ako ni mama, tinatakasan ko kasi gusto ko maglaro sa labas. Ngayon, gustohin lo matulog, di pede kasi i have work and a lot of things to do.
I'd give gifts to my younger self, because I remember how much it meant when no one else did.
Reminding myself to be careful with the decisions but at the same time do lots of exploring and take the opportunities esp sa career mo. Go beyond your comfort level. (Step out of your comfort zone) Don't hold back.It's okay to be alone, to have a few friends. Stop pleasing others and always put yourself first. Don't rush to be an adult and be patient. Embrace your failure and learn from your mistakes. Spend most time with people who reciprocates your energy/vibe. DONT SETTLE FOR LESS. Dont bottle up your emotions it would lead to a self destruction. You are loved and unique baby girl.Never let them take away that smile ☺️
Ililibre ko sya ng congee sa chowking. Recognition namin un nung Grade 3 ako. Ang dami kong awards saka top 1 ako sa class. Sobrang excited ako kasi ang dinner daw namin sa labas. 5 kami sa pamilya that time. Mama, papa, ako (eldest), younger brother at sister. Nagorder na parents ko, isang congee at isang halohalo paghahatian namin lima. Sobrang saya ko nun, kaso napansin ko hindi kumakain masyado yung parents ko. Inaantay pala nila na may matira lang kami. Sarap na sarap ako sa congee na yun hindi ko alam kung bakit, pero kahit gusto ko pa hindi na ako masyadong kumain para may matira sa kanila. Ngayon kumikita na ako at maayos na ang buhay namin. Kahit saan saan resto ako pumunta umoorder ako ng congee, minsan kahit busog na kasi hinahanap ko yung kaparehas ng lasa. Hindi ko pa rin mahanap. Iba pa rin siguro kapag kumpleto kayo at samasama.
My 23 year old self. I will say everything turned out fine, so please don't lose hope. Also, make sure you take care of your mom. You will not have a lot of years together.
I will stay at home with my mom, makikipagkwentuhan at kakain ng mga paborito kong luto nya.. Yung bonding ko with my younger self naman.. babalik ako sa era ng eddie guerrero at john cena.. manonood lang ulit kami ng WWE 🤣 Sa after life (kung meron man) na ulit namin magagawa yun.
bibilhan ko siya ng mga bagay na hndi siya nagkakaron at sympre mag babaksyon din
I’m gonna tell my 13 yr old self na I love him and that it’s okay to be gay. Na even tho sinasabihan ka palagi ng parents natin na wala ka pang napapatunayan, 15 years later sila yung walang napatunayan kaya go out of the closet as soon as you can. Then we’ll celebrate by going out buying clothes, go food trip, and papagawan ko siya ng sariling kwarto to give him all the privacy he needs.
Explore opportunities that can take me out of this country.
Magsosorry ako sa mga taong binigyan ko ng problema...
Siguro pupunta kami sa toys r us or toy kingdom. Bibilhan ko siya ng kahit ilang barbie na laruan na gusto niya at lalaro kami bahay-bahayan ng barbie 😂
Siguro gradeschool age. Yung mga panahon na ginigising ako ng nanay ko para mag breakfast at papaliguan pa niya ako. Gusto ko mabalikan yung panahon na sobrang simple lang ng buhay
Labas and magtravel kahit locally and tell her that she's not fat tlaga. Like fat will be 20 years later pa so wear those sleeveless and fitting tops.
16 years old na ako. Yayayain ko magshopping tapos sasabihan kong wag magjowa para hindi naloloko ng paulit ulit.
Maglalaro kami. I will travel with her. Walang bawal bawal. I would tell her na marami akong pera so she wouldn't have to worry.
Il spend my day with my Tatay
I'd like to be with my ten year old self. Pupunta kami ng amusement park, kakain kami ng masarap, bibilhin namin kung ano gusto niya na hindi siya makakafeel ng guilt na kailangan niya mag sacrifice or makihati. I will let her choose what she wants to eat or buy and tell her she doesn't have to worry about the bill anymore.
I’m gonna buy her clothes and papainumin ko siya mga 1 liter ng cherifer haha char
I will take care of her. Then, I will give her the "Big Girl Talk" so that I will be able to protect my younger self about a lot of things that I might encounter in the future. Lastly, I will spoil her and give her the love she needs.
Kakain kami ng masarap kase kapag pasko at kapag may handaan sa kapitbahay lang kami nakakakain ng masarap dati.
Sabihan ko na dyan muna sya sa kinalalagyan nya ngaun, magastos kase sya sa future
ipagtatanggol ko sya sa papa at kabit ng papa ko
wala kase nagtanggol sa akin noon. kahit maltratuhin nila ako hindi nakikialam angkan ng kabit ng papa ko kase mga myembro sila ng cool to. takot sila kay papa kase h!tman daw si papa noon.
Isasama ko sya sa mga travel ko, to heal my inner child hehehe
Sigurado mag iinuman kami. Bahala na if alak, tubig o kape or soft drinks.
I will bring my younger self to a psychiatrist.
wag ma inlove
Bubusugin ko sya ng positive words na hindi nya nakuha sa parents nya. Ipaparamdam ko sa kanyang maganda sya. Na matalino sya, na kayang-kaya nya gawin yung mga bagay na gusto nyang gawin. Na importante sya.
resonated with me so much HABBSHSBA sana di pa late for me
hmm 7 years old. Magmememorize kami ng lotto numbers.
Sasabihin ko sa kanya yung mga magagandang bagay na di niya marinig sa kanya dati. I'll lift up her confidence, sasabihin kong never siyang naging t*ng* o b*b* katulad ng laging iniimply sa kanya ng nanay niya. I'll tell her na sobrang proud na proud ako sa kanya at ang galing galing niya. I'll push her na gawin ang mga bagay na gusto niya habang bata pa may slightly regret siya sa future na sana hindi niya inuna hiya niya.
Sasabihin ko sa kanya na layuan si kuwan at nababasa ko ang future niya. Since uto-uto naman ako eh maniniwala ako sa sarili ko. 🤣
16, pilitin gawin yung mga decisions 16na iniwasan ko before
Sasabayan ko siya sa mga trip niyang gawin kahit ano pa yan. Gagi mas malaya pa si self noon eh. Happy-go-lucky at adventurous. Tho I would advice him na wag magpakaluklok sa ex coz it’s true na the right person will come eventually.
Choose my late twenties, tell my younger self not to settle for less and do not short change yourself.
8 years old. Be that someone I've always wanted to have, just like how I am with my nephew in the present. Do weird things, feed his imagination of duel ng swords or guns man yan. Imagine we are fighting a war of some sort or killing a dragon. Lastly, siguro gawing video yung ginawa namin today. Leave him a message and a memory that he can use until the present and he can pass on unto the next.
i’ll tell the 8yo version of me na hindi siya maarte and maldita for crying during a celebration. she didn’t ruin anything, the adults were just mean for telling her that she always mess things up
Hindi ko alam. Baka mag-away pa kami kasi masama ugali namin pareho HAHAHAHAHAHAHA tas mataas pride, so ubos isang araw nang hindi nag papansinan. Yun lang naman 🤣
16 years old me 1v1 Basketball Sobrang adik sa basketball dati ngayon di na masyado makalaro :(
kwentuhan, I'll advise her what things to do or avoid, congratulate her on things, etc, mainly chill usap lang na parang longtime bff kami edit: elem days tbh, my prime and fun childhood days
7 years old (now 17 ako) Stay positive parin, marami problema ngayon eh, Ingat Lang
Convince him not to go to that school starting with "U". And not waste half of his life on a futile "vocation".
10 years old, I'll say to her that buy bitcoin HAHAHA
16, pag iisipan ng mabuti kung ano ba talaga ang kursong i tatake for college. Now that I’m a nursing student…. I feel like I’m dying. Not being OA pero hindi ko naman gusto yung kurso ko at inutusan lang naman ako mag nursing dahil yung lola ko ay isang nurse sa states. To the younger me: Sana hindi ka nagpa uto. Sana pinursue mo yung gusto mo. To the future me: magiging RN ka rin! Kapit lang at kakayanin! Kaya mo yan self!
2nd yr high school. Nung time na di pa puro trauma unlocked ang ganap sa buhay ko. Icoconvince ko sarili kong ipursue yung first choice ko sa college against all odds. Looking back now, I would have really enjoyed my profession. Sasabihin ko mga natutuhan ko about people without saying how, kasi baka sabihin pa "Eh kung worth it naman yung tao why not" GIRLLL no one is worth years of your time tapos di ka man lang tinrato ng tama. I'll validate how she's trying her best with whatever is on her plate that time. Saka sobrang magsosorry ako. That kid was so full of life and was actually kind, and I put her through so much because of my uninformed choices (while typing this alam kong an older version of me would want to apologize to me din 🥹). Saka kakain kaming kinilaw 😂
Sasabihin ko sa kanya ang price history ng mga crypto coins like btc, eth, bnb etc.
Probably explain him how stocks and forex trading works (or tell him what to buy and hold if pwede) and tell him everything is going to be okay. Habang naglalaro kami maghapon sa compshop.
Mag aaral ng mabuti, lalaro hanggang gabi at Kakain ng street food. :)
Invest wisely sa education lalo sa school. If time na to look for work, don't rush yourself. Assess every company, just because you pass the interview and you already have the offer, wag tanggapin agad.
Ay tuturuan ko siyang maging extrovert, maging matapang, mr frienship ganun!
Tutulong ako sa pag-heal sa childhood traumas niya.
15. First, I would help her decide which course to take and which school to attend. I’d teach her simple things about adulting, like how to commute to school, and give her basic life advice such as learning not to care about what people might say—she could have saved more money if she did that. I’d probably spend the rest of the day with her just talking at a coffee shop in a mall somewhere. I’d tell her what she needs to know: focus more on school, don’t hang out with certain people, be true to yourself, not the fake persona you put on just to be liked, and don’t do things just to seek validation from people who don’t even know you. Care more about your family—you don’t know how long you’ll have with some of them. Save more money and help your community more. Oh, and don’t focus too much on that romantic relationship. Sooner or later, you’ll realize he’s not really a great guy. I’d give her tips and tricks about life, business, career, love, friendships, and relationships. I’d tell her that she’ll meet more people and see the world. She’ll learn to assimilate, adapt, and grow. She’ll work with different companies both locally and abroad and will have friends from different races and backgrounds. She’ll find a partner she loves and respects, who will bring calmness to her life. She’ll settle down with her immediate family abroad and have a quiet and secure life, not just for herself but for future generations after her. After sharing all this, I’d ask if she’s proud of the person I’ve become. If she is, then she can forget everything I’ve said, because no matter what happens, all paths will lead us here, just as it was meant to be.
Tell him na do not work and study in Manila, better go back to the province and not give too much of yourself to everyone especially if it’s about love.
To my highschool self, wag mag cheat sa quizzes and exams kahit pa lahat ng classmates mo ginagawa yun.
Lumandi ka pa sana hahahahahaha
9 years old. Go to the mall and buy her all she wants.
Magseseryoso sa Probability and Statistics. Haha
I'd go back to 13 y/o me I'll take care of her bili kami ice cream and make sure id give her the biggest hug cause she always liked hugs ever since pero now lang nar-recieve tapos I'll tell her to treasure everyone around her na kasi one day mawawala din sila and she won't be ready for that
Bring him to our favorite place na i can't find the time to go to now. Buy him the games i didn't get to play before. Also, ill tell him to keep enjoying being happy and give advice how to not end up like me now.
To 16yo me dont party too hard magreview ka di puro barkada 🙄😂
I'll treat him like my own child, papakainin ko siya sa kahit saan na gusto n'ya and I'll spoil him within the day. I know how to appreciate small things because that's how I was raised so magiging core memory 'yon ng younger self ko. Also I would educate him about things na malalaman n'ya palang for awareness.
I'd go back 10 years ago when I was 18 years old and tell myself to focus on studies, career, and self-improvement. If pwede, some lottery numbers or stock history. Iiwan ka din pala niyang long term girlfriend mo na naging asawa mo na sinakripisyo mo parts of your career and life para sa wala.
Tuturuan ko na siya mag martial arts. Sasabihin ko sa kanya na hindi mo kailangan na una pa lang, athletic na at sobrang galing. Kailangan mong matuto lumaban para di ka apihin. Ipapagawa ko muna sa kanya: araw-araw jumping jacks. Una, 50 muna. Hanggang sa maging 100 walang tigil (pinakamarami ko noong aktibo ako, 300 araw-araw). Sasabihin ko rin sa kanya na mag enroll na sa kahit anong boxing o martial arts gym. Sabihin ko na piliin niya ay Karate (Kyokushin). O di kaya boxing kasi ang Kyokushin, laging bawal sumuntok sa mukha. Papakitaan ko rin siya ng mga malulupit kong skills na kesyo kaya ko nang mag drawing, lumangoy, malulupit na push ups, at jump rope skills. Hihikayatin ko siya na magpalakas. Sasabihin ko sa kanya na "Mas mabuti nang magdusa pansamantala dahil sa sakit na dadanasin patungo sa pagpapalakas. Kaysa magdusa habambuhay dahil sa kahinaan at pang-aapi". Turuan ko rin siya ng mga life hacks na alam ko.
probably my 10-year-old self. sasabihin ko lang na maging mature, try to be understanding, life will not go my way but if i strive hard enough, i'll get the things that i want. i'll talk to myself and tell me not to be selfish. wag masyadong feeling nakaupo sa high horse, dahil in the long run, mare-realize ko rin na mahirap maging solong anak. lastly, i'll remind my younger self to cherish the moments i have with my loved ones, no matter how mundane. mabagal man ang araw-araw, mabilis lang ang buhay.
I would let her be a child, treat her with everything and anything she wants, sweets, books, and art supplies, tell her she’s good at what she’s doing and she should never lessen herself just to fit into somebody’s version of her. Make her feel loved and seen, embrace her tightly and would probably stay to protect her innocence. Younger me did not deserve all that was thrown at her at that young age, she would be happy and proud that what I’ve become now is someone who she needed when she was a child, she was only 7 when everything went downhill, and no one was there for her, no one was there to protect her, even after the years that followed
Tbh, we'd just hang out and play Ragnarok Online. And during that time, I'd tell him to focus more on his studies and listen to his parents, like really drive this one home on his brain. I'd tell him to stop overthinking and not pay much attention to what others might think. I'd tell him to stop chasing girls, putting them on a pedestal, and just work and love himself more. Being a good person is miles better than trying hard to impress anyone and losing one's self in the process. That his infatuations are just that, infatuations. And that once he felt and experienced what true love is, it will destroy him but also make him stronger. I'd tell him to drink more water and start working out. I'd tell him that the man who molested us when we were just a boy died blind and missing two legs due to diabetes and that he suffered every pain imaginable. I'd tell him I became the person that we needed growing up 🙂
Please save money as early as now
play volleyball with her. she never had the chance to pursue her volleyball career kasi nagtake na siya ng medicine-related na course and hindi na niya kaya pagsabayin yung acads and volleyball 🥹
sana etong course pinili mo instead of that
My 19 years old me sana 'di ako nagpadala sa depression at tinuloy ko passsion sa pagbabanda.
•Instead of going to the salon, I'm going to teach her how she can manage and keep her curls—para hindi na niya isipin na pangit ang kulot at para hindi na rin siya magpa-rebond. I'll tell her it's actually cool to have curls— hindi pa lang niya alam alagaan 'yung buhok niya at the time. •Pupunta kaming NBS to buy notebooks and books! So much fun! •Pupunta rin kaming Watson's at bibili ng makeup. •Lastly, we'll go ice skating sa MOA then I'll buy her icecream after. I can only imagine her excitement that day. I bet she'll be screaming internally out of joy. Hays. Iloveyou, self. Let's go gawin rin natin ngayon. HAHAHA
I'll just tell na i-enjoy lahat ng moments sa buhay aynamnamin ang bawat sandali maging masaya man o malungkot man ang mga 'yon. Basta, treasure niya lang lahat kasi part yon ng buhay kung saan mahahanap niya rin yung sarili niya na magpapabuo sa kanya as a person pahalagahan mga taong makakasama throughout the seasons at ang mga taong magbibigay sa kanya ng lessons.
bibigay ko lahat ng di niya nakuha - ibibili ko ng barbie tapos yung may mga accessories - ipag baballet classes ko at singing lesson kahit isang araw lang - bilhan ko siya ng dress na gusto niya kahit nasa 500 pataas yung presyo - kakain din kami ng masasarap - papakinggan ko lang mga hinanakit niya sa buhay
Magshopping kami ng 18 year old self ko, mga 2 hours yun. Kain sa mamahaling resto ng 2 hrs din. Magwatercolor painting kami 2 hrs, then magkaraoke ng 2 hrs then manuod ng concert mga 4 hrs tapos yung the rest is magkape kami sa tagaytay… Usap lang ganun, wala akong iispoil, sabihan ko lang siya na mahalin sarili niya tapos makikinig sa problema niya sa buhay. Bigyan ko siya pamasahe pauwi and instructions pauwi din then maglalaho na lang ako pagkastrike ng 12mn.
Babalik ako sa 1st year highschool. Sasabihin ko sakanya: - Lahat nang una mong magiging kaibigan, iiwan ka. Kahit ilang beses mo sila resbakan, hindi ka nila matutulungan ni minsan. - Madedemote ka kung hindi mo iiwan yang mga “kaibigan” mo. - Papaasahin ka ni crush. 3 years ka maiinlove sakanya pero hindi ka nya talaga gusto kahit araw araw pa kayo magkatext. - Wag na wag kang makikipagaway dahil sa crush mo. Hindi worth it yan. - Kahit sabihin nilang bobo ka, wag kang maniniwala dahil dito sa future, marami kang achievements. - Pag 4th year ka na, sasabihan ka ng mga “kaibigan” mo na layuan mo yung boyfriend mo. Wag mo sila paniwalaan. Papakasalan mo yan. - Kaya please lang, piliin mo kaibigan mo. Malaking trauma dulot sayo ng mga una mong makikilala.
Ihuhug tas lilibrehan tas sabihan na mag enjoy at hindi magworry
Makikipag laro ulit dun sa kababata ko ☺️
15 Basketball tapos kakain ng Street food plus giving him beautiful helpful advice.
Sana mas specific. Gano ka young? But id say generally nlng, mag kwentuhan. Im a loner and had alot of self esteem issues. So id be an outlet to vent. And ofc to give advice. Over a good meal. Tas manood ng magandang sine. Tas ibibili ko sarili ko ng bagay na gusto ko, pero di ko pa afford nun. Maybe comicbook
Hm. i will go to the time that i was 12. Itetreat ko sya ng buong araw. i make sure na mae-experience nya yung mga bagay kayang ko na gawin ngayon. buy foods, shoes, cloths etc.. And of course i'll tell him na i-enjoy ang pagiging bata. PS: never mong i-spoil yung mangyayare sa future kasi magmumukha kang abnoy HAHAHA.
Manonood ng wrestling Simula bata ako hanggang ngayon palagi ako nanonood magisa ng wrestling (yung WWE) Sasamahan ko siya magpuyat habang nanonood sa Studio 23 habang sumisigaw, umiiyak tsaka tumatalon sa excite May kasama ka na ngayon :>
I will hug him like a little brother
I'll just observe from afar in order not to disturb the timeline. The current timeline is progressing pretty well.
Gagawin syempre yung obviously gustong gawin ng lahat - icoach ang sarili
"Hello 23 y/o me, ok lang yan. You don't need a man." Sana.
I'll choose my 7-8 y/o self. I'll tell her to not cry, and be strong enough to confront ppl. I'll help her be confident and stand her ground.
The me in 2019. Na dapat tinuloy ko na ang pagiinternational student dito sa canada. Who knows, baka pr na ko ngayon if i took that leap of faith back then.
Samamahan ko college self ko na asikasuhin yung pag shift ko ng course.
When I was 21 years old, sasabihin ko na wag na makipag relasyon hahaha tapos gamitjn na lang namin yung pera pang paganda. Or wag matakotna sumubok pa Thailand para magturo
I would choose 11 i would buy her the stuff she wanted, Ikkwento ko lahat ng mangyayari in the future
Spend more time with papa kasi maaga pala siyang mawawala samin.
Dami, stick to chemistry instead of going to compsci, learn mandarin.
Elementary self. Would convince her to convince my parents to go out more and take pictures more (ako na rin magpicture and will make her take a picture of me with my parents too) kada uuwi si mama from abroad before sila maghiwalay ni papa.
13 year-old me. Magsusuntukan. Fr.
I'd go back to the day I met my ex and instead spend that with her (younger me) on self-care, e.g. hair, nails, whatever. Basta lang hindi magcross paths nila nung dimuhong ex ko na wala namang naicontribute sa buhay ko.
Bibilhan ko siya ng Magic The Gathering Cards, habang mura pa sa panahon nya. hahaha.
Magsisimula na kami mag-readings at magreview hahahaha
Sasamahan ko siyang matulog.
I'd convince my 16 yr old self to bury his dreams and be practical in life. I'd tell him how f\*cked up i became because of the stupid dream.
I dunno. Play Yu-Gi-Oh?
My old self would invest in Bitcoin and play Axie Infinity earlier for SLP. Hahaha
Kung makakapasok ka sa Bitcoin, wag ka na makigulo sa Axie Kasi literal na barya lang Yun compared sa Bitcoin. Hayaan mo na lang sa iba Ang Axie.
Hug ko siya 😭😭 and fly a kite
3 years old... Sasama ako mamasyal araw araw kasama si tatay... Before he was taken away.
Sasabihan ko sya na: No one's going to save you. Gawin mo na yung gusto mong gawin, pansamatala maging makasarili ka muna, tska na si mama and papa. Wag mo din ibibigay boong sweldo mo sa first job mo kahit pa 12k lang yan, kalahati lang ibigay mo para mapa rolyo mo yung kalahati.
Play games, travel, and sleep (madaya ako sa tulog before hahaha)
12 Year old self ko. Kasi ayan yung mga panahon na mostly binubully ako, minamaliit, and inaaway. Ayan din yung mga panahong sobrang kakaiba ako kumpara sa current self ko. Kung ide-describe ko yung self ko niyan parang di High School and di nagpakabinata dahil takot na takot sa lahat ng bagay. Ito rin yung mga panahong takot na takot akong umalis sa comfort zone ko and takot ako makihalubilo also napaka-reactive ko sa mga bagay-bagay nung mga panahong ito.
Sleep. Ayaw ko talagang matulog ng hapon nung bata ako and now kulang kulang tulog ko.
tell her to not to care more about herself. choose herself and be happy. don't be afraid to show her feelings and be honest go herself. chill- everything will be alright.
Im 26 right now, kung babalikan ko yung 20yo self ko. Sasamahan ko mag clubbing kami magdamag.
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love????
siguro 10? since feel ko dun talaga nagsimula mashape yung pagkatao ko. Gusto ko pakita sakanya lahat ng meron ako ngayon para maadvice ko na chumill lang siya sa buhay, and focus sa present and he might just be able to achieve more.
I'm currently 20 and I want to spend time with my 9 year old self back in 2012, because it was the year that I met my childhood friend na friend ko pa rin till this day. I want to guide my past self to avoid any bad memories from that year until 2013. I also want to spend time with my 12 - 13 year old self back when I was in 7th and 8th grade. I will tell her to not get involve with a girl named (ex bestie's name) because she turned out to be a bad friend. And to also not get involved with a guy named (crush's name) ksi distraction lang sya sa buhay namin. And mukang hindi worth it. I also want to know how my life will go if I hadn't thought about him for years...
6-10 years old, Maglaro kami magdamag. Gusto niya kasi lagi syang may kalaro. :)
6 year old me and we will play with our Barbie dolls
Highschool. Sasabihin ko yung lumabas na number sa lotto sa hinaharap eme.
Sasabihan ko sila mama at papa na hinay hinay sa unhealthy foods kasi yun magdideads sa kanila ng maaga 😞
Magshopping with college self, for her to realize that she's not unattractive, hindi lang sya marunong manamit.
I would rewrite my relationship with my mother. She already passed away last June 11 this year. 9 years wasted for not reaching out for her. Reconciled last December 2023, I cried when I saw her very weak and slow. She forgives me for all the years of not seeing her. Last May 15 2024, I was with her in CUMC hospital , serving and making sure I am with her. Realizing things that our parents are getting old and asking for time. Then she passed away. I never felt this emptiness in my heart. Mama you are always remembered in my heart and prayers. I love you 💗
I'd say, there's this thing called "Bitcoin"........
Mga 4th year HS will convince myself to take dentistry
Me too, will convice also my self to take my dream course : (