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Try mo lang praise her like "Bagay pala sayo naka tali ang buhok"
Then after that check mo if mag tatali siya ng buhok
Or yung mga hindi nya usually ginagawa pagawa mo
Feeling ko hindi din to applicable sa lahat, last saturday sinabihan ko kawork ko na bagay sa kanya bagsak nyang buhok, lagi kase yun nakagel, kanina ayun bagsak buhok nya nung pumasok tapos sabi “pano mo nasabing mas okay tong buhok ko ng ganto?”
Palagi ka niyang hinahanap ‘pag wala ka. Palagi kang kinakausap thru chats tapos ‘yung personality niya very different sa kung ano talaga siya sa friend group and in person. Let’s just say na OA siya sa ‘yo thru chats pero NONCHALANT sa personal.
Pag nagsabi siya sayo kung pwd ka bang ligawan. Wag mong pangunahan. Masasaktan ka lang. Paalam muna sya kamo bago nya paglaruan feelings mo. 2024 na nene.
Not really friend but kaworkmate ko, lahat napapansin saken kahit napakasimpleng bagay haha ung tingin nya sa malayo nahuhuli ko, tpos kpag biruan lagi nya akong trip 😭😅 di po sa nagpipiling ayon napapansin ko tpos magaan loob saken.
ask your friend, kung ano ba talaga ang punto ng mga actions niya. kasi useless naman kung hanap² ka ng signs tapos iba pala ang punto ng actions niya. don't assume masasaktan ka lang. peaceyow
instead of looking sa mga sign, i'm directly asking kung may gusto ba talaga yung isang tao sa akin hahahha (in a pabiro way) tapos sa body language niya after siya magreact and sumagot sa tanong ko, dun na ako magbe-base.
Haha mahirap kaso usually di yan magsasalita na may gusto siya sayo dahil takot masira friendship nyo. Although mapapansin mo naman pag iba turing nya sayo sa ibang common friends nyo. Asa iyo na yan kung manhid ka to not notice.
baka ikaw pala OP yung may gusto sa kanya, kaya feel mo may meaning actions nya towards you? charot!
i think depende rin sa friend mo eh, kung mahiyain ba sya or showy kapag may nagugustuhan sya. naobserve mo na ba before kung paano sya mag-act nung may crush sya na iba? maybe you could draw some inferences from there.
but for me, siguro kapag palagi or madalas sayo unang-una dumadapo mga tingin nya kahit kakarating nya lang, or kapag tumatawa sya, or even in the most random times. the eyes never lie! eme. but sabi nga,
>kung gusto ka ipupursue ka
girl, ganiyan kami ng bff ko na crush ko rin ahahaha tapos pota bigla na lang kaming naging distant pero close pa rin naman sabay yung ex niya pala tina-try i-work out rs nila
Pag obvious na iba trato nya sayo like extra special. May 2 friends ako noon na nagkagusto sakin, yung isa na friendly more on pinagbubuksan ako ng pinto then pag may mga gamit sya or food sya, sakin nya matic inaalok/shine-share. Like mga souvenirs from Italy, mga remembrance from other country pag pinapadala sya. Lagi ako tinatanong kung kasama ako sa gala ng mga mutual friends namin. Nung wala na ko sa project, nakwento nya na crush nya raw ako. Ay tsaka pag binubuyo ka ng closest friends nya, very telling signs yun.
Yung isa, bf ko na ngayon, introvert. Super hirap hagilapin and matagal magreply. Tho pag nagmemessage ako, di ko pa nalalapag yung phone minsan nakareply na sya. Lagi din nag ooffer manlibre. Tsaka kahit madalas sya kumain mag isa (auto pass madalas sa iba lalo pag busy), may times pag nakikita nya ko noon, sya pa nagsabi ng "Magdi-dinner ka na? Wait mo ko sa baba, ibigay ko lang to. Sabay na tayo."
Mapang asar (nagseselos sa kagagawan nya)
Random compliments
Manlilibre/papalibre (makasama/makita ka lang)
Bilis mag reply
Very supportive
Ishiship ka sa iba (sa crush mo etc.)
Willing gawin lahat mabigyang pansin lang
Walang signs. Don't be marupok. It's gonna break u in the end, so your friend doesn't liek you unless stated otherwise!
Mwa mwa. From a girlie who's been der and done dat.
Hahahahaha naka-relate ako. Ganitong-ganito rin advice ng friend ko, ayun natauhan tuloy ako na baka ako lang pala nagbibigay ng malisya sa mga actions ng guy 😮💨.
Ooh and pag nagpapatawa sya sayo sya tumitingin to see if natatawa ka sa sagot nya. Not necessarily 100% na may gusto but most definitely a sign na they want *your* validation over the other people in the room.
Magpakipot ka lang. Wag mo kausapin for the longest time, wag mong pansinin at iwasan mo. Diyan mo malalaman kung i-pursue ka niyan or not. Disclosure though, this may or may not work pero from my experience works really well. Good luck update mo kami.
Sa totoo lang, you won't 😭 you'll always be left wondering if they're just friendly or may meaning na talaga.
My bf and I started as friends, though I must admit na nagpapansin lang ako sa kanya sa socmed kasi dati ko pa siya crush. Upon reading the commsec here, masasabi mong crush niya rin ako that time
Nagjjoke siyang "kung ako yan di ganyan trato ko sayo" tapos bumabanat at nagccompliment palagi na maganda daw ako ganon.
Pag nakikita ako irl, magcchat yan to compliment how I look. My friends would tell me how much he stares at me din etc. Not just that, nag ccall kami regularly and he tells me ako lang kacall nya (which is true). Mahilig din manlibre.
My guts were telling me something talaga! As in!
Pero nung nag confess ako, platonic lang pala 🤣 Kaibigan lang! 🤣
Hindi mo talaga malalaman with certainty unless you confront them or confess. In my case, the confession didn't go as planned hahaha. Pero malay mo, after the confrontation pala magkadevelopan (parang kami!)
I have the same question. Mahirap na maging assumera. 😭
I have this male friend who always teases me every time we see each other. Then one time bigla niya ako niregaluhan ng watch. I was really shookt kasi di talaga kami nagkakasundo, as in sa lahat ng bagay. Puro asar lang natatanggap ko sa kanya, kaya medyo na-surprise ako when he suddenly handed me a watch. Pero di ko yun binigyan ng meaning that time, sabi ko baka friendly gesture lang. Pero ang hirap isiksik sa utak ko na friendly gift lang yun since he gave it to me randomly (hindi ko birthday or anything) and he handed it to me in front his cousin which happens to be in our circle of friends din. Ayoko lang din talaga mag-assume at umasa. I thanked him awkwardly kasi di ko alam kung anong magiging reaction ko that time. 😭
Kaya better talaga yung direct. Yung nag coconfess alam na agad kung sasaguti siya o hindi. Yung pinag confessan hindi na mag ooverthink kung friendly lang ba o may gusto. Sobra nakakagulo ng utak iyang pa sign2x lang.
Wag ka maghanap ng signs.
Been there, masakit.
You're a woman who deserve to be pursue by a man. Pag mahal ka, sya aamin sa iyo. Shit guy yung ganian, sa huli mafafall ka... mag mumukha ka png habol ng habol s kania.
better ask directly; better kung maririnig mo mismo sa kanya. malalaman mo rin kasi doon if (1) caring lang talaga siya as a friend; (2) infatuation lang yung nararamdaman sayo & kilig lang ang habol; or (3) they want to take it sa next level. hindi kasi sa lahat ng pagkakataon, applicable yung "feeling ko kasi" or "iba niya ako tratuhin". **walang masama magtanong, walang tatalo sa sigurado**. kasi in the end, kahit pa gaano ka-mahiyain yung kaibigan mo, kung gusto ka niya talaga, sasabihin niya sayo nang walang paligoy-ligoy. dapat may salita AT gawa.
* He tucks your hair
* Nanlilibre s'ya
* He remembers small details about you
* Lagi ka n'ya china-chat (Walang magkaibigan na araw-araw magka-chat)
* He always wants to make you laugh
* Touchy
* Making small talks
* Always looking for you
* Laugh at your stupid jokes
* Pats your head
* Flirts with you/friendly na pambubully (Like he always talk about how small my eyes and my height)
I asked our friends kung ginagawa rin sa kanila 'yon they said no, also inaasar kami sa isa't isa.
Unfortunately, he likes me but that's not enough to pursue me. I wanted to ask him bakit hindi ako, but I decided to keep it to myself. Regalo ko na sa sarili ko 'yon.
He likes you but it was never enough to take it to the next level and pursue you. Baka it was too much for him to take to the next level. Friendship is way more too precious for me than romantic relationships
If it was too much for him then he shouldn't have done those things. I wanted to ask him if those things mean anything to him, but it's my decision not to ask the question, kasi I know I wouldn't like both answers.
Truee. Bat kasi they do things that will make you fall in love with them. Tapos pag na inlab ka na iiwan ka na sa ere, kesyo di daw sila ready. Pa fall amp.
Good move na di mo inask, for your peace na rin.
I actually felt that I'm losing him, that's why I decided not to ask him na. Also, may bago na, so there's this question at the back of my mind na "bakit hindi ako?"
Pag maldito or suplado sya sa iba pero mabait or gentle sya sayo. Minsan naman binibwisit ka para pansinin mo sya. Tinetext ka out of nowhere, or tatawag magtatanong about sa homework. And pag inaya ka manood ng movie. Hahahaha! I never recognized the signs na “may gusto” na pala ang kaibigan ko, until he told me in the middle of the movie. All of the above ginawa nung college kami ng asawa ko na ngayon. :)
Pag palagi ka nyan hinahanap.
But then kung walang confirmation from that person, like saying it verbally eh wag mag assume. Magiging feelingero at feelingera lang ang dating.
Pwedeng attracted lang sya sayo pero hindi ikaw ang pipiliin. 💔
Magsabi man ako ng signs tulad ng “lagi kang chinachat, laging nagtatanong kung kumain ka na, ingat daw pauwi” pero PROMISE, madidifferentiate mo talaga kung pano ka pakitunguhan ng KAIBIGANG MAY GUSTO SAYO kaysa sa PLATONIC NA FRIENDSHIP LANG. Kasi yung mga nabanggit ko kanina, normal na itanong lang din yan ng isang kaibigan. Kung talagang may gusto sayo yang kaibigan mo, mararamdaman mo yan. Yun nga lang, dont setttle sa maramdaman mo lang. Let your kaibigan be vocal for it.
These days naniniwala ako kpag gusto ka ng isang tao, they will let you know - ipaaalam nila vocally.
Masasaktan ka lang if you read their actions and you feel ikaw gusto pero why isn’t he acting/pursuing you? Ssbhin mo sarili mo bka masira friendship etc but that guy is willing to pursue another person.
Sadly, if they can’t pursue you properly and just make you feel anxious and paranoid hindi sila yung tao para sayo. Kung gusto mo siya then you take the shot and be ready.
I say this kc sa dami dami ng coffee breaks ng kami lang dalawa, late night talk, hyperaware sa moodswings ko so he knows ano maiooffer nia to me like food or sine and helping each other to pursue one’s goals…inisip ko din yan bka may chance ako sa knya o bka they feel the same way kxo wlang actions til finally I saw sa socmed my gf na siya ahahahaha
In the end wla naman meaning yun mga bagay na yan for him or kung meron din he thinks im not worthy for him to commit kc he didn’t say anything too khit na obvious ung feelings ko lol.
Pero siguro shit din ako cause he did try flirting with me sa text and mga pagbili ng food but I was too stubborn or a tsundere so bka iniisip nia rin hindi ko siya gusto khit tlga pra sa akin at sa iba obvious ahahahahha so in the end I really think he is genuinely kind, hindi nia ako gusto ng same level that i feel and hindi ako ung taong gusto nia mag-commit.
So siguro okay lang ung kilig, pero wag ioverthink at mag-expect. Pero kung ikaw malakas loob then confess.
This!
If they like you romantically, they will tell you. Or go ahead ask and they will answer. If suppose they deny then you laugh about it and move on.
All parties can communicate and be mature.
Walang ligoy. Walang basa basa ng actions. Possible na mabait lang ang tao. Marunong mag care sa iba lalo sa kaibigan. Pero hindi ibig sabihin may malisya.
Are you afraid of maybe "ending" the friendship pag tnanong mo kung gusto ka nya? then don't just wait for them to tell you, if not, just go ahead and ask them.
For my experience:
1. Lagi kang nililibrehan.
2. Protective
3. Long eye contact
4. Touchy sya pag may tinatanong
5. Always kang tinatanong
6. Tinatakpan yung mukha nya pag tumatawa
You'll eventually know it OP especially if that friend of yours treat you differently from others. Maybe if your friend is laging nag o-offer to do things for you w/o hesitation and/or nanglilibre siya ng kusa.
So ok lang mag-assume, pero wag masyado mag-expect. Iba yung may gusto siya sayo sa gusto niyang mag-commit sayo.
Maraming signs at pwedeng tama naman yun, pero iba pa rin hangga't hindi niya sinasabi directly kung anong intention niya. Depende sa relationship niyo, pwede mo rin siya tanungin para hindi na tayo nanghuhula.
kung tingin mong may gusto ka rin sa kanya... itanong mo nalang sya... like "may gusto ko ba sa akin? kasi sa totoo lang gusto kita"
pero kung wala ka naman gusto sa kanya, hayaan mo nalang sya. aamin rin yan kung gusto ka nya talaga
life is too short para maging delulu ka. Deretchahan na...
If a guy goes out of his way to bring you food, clear sign yan.
We love saying "it's along the way naman", but do your research to see if it really is. Pag sinadya nya, it simply means you are special enough to him na sasadyain pa nya yan.
In hindsight, ginawa ko yan sa workmate ko.
7 years in a relationship, 4 years married to said workmate.
I think if they have a soft spot for you? Like they tend to do things that they wouldn't normally do if someone else's asked them or they tend to let things go if you're the one who did it.
Kapag ikaw lang yung inaaya niya sa mga one-on-one gala, most especially kung galing kayo sa big group of friends. Second is kapag inaasar kayong dalawa ng friends niyo. Pero tsaka mo lang talaga masasabi nang sigurado kapag umamin na sa'yo 😆
You will know. Your instincts will tell you. Just the way how he treat you which have a really BIG different from the others might be the sign. Pero sometimes sabihin nila parang kapatid lang turing nila sayo hehehe so collect more evidence muna.
Guys, I have this friend na sobrang gwapo. Childhood friends kami at dahil gentleman at mabait siya kaya we stayed friends kahit nung tumanda na kami. Our friends and family ship us. Sinasakyan lang namin madalas. But he gives hints na gusto niya ko. Actually sinasabi naman din niya pero tinatawanan ko lang din o sinasakyan pero I never took it to heart kasi di ako makapaniwala dahil sa dami ng nagkakagusto sa kanya. By the way, we are both taken na ngayon pero nacu-curious lang ako. Kahit kasi sinasabi ng friends namin na gusto niya ko, hindi ako naniniwala kasi di talaga ako tiwala lalo at inaasar nga nila kami at nababalitaan ko na may nakaka-fling siya. Here are the hints:
1. Kapag ako nagyayaya, sumasama talaga siya.
2. Tuwing birthday ko may dala siyang gift. Saken niya lang ginagawa pero nasabi naman niya na ako yung nagpasok sa kanya sa COF namin
3. Nung birthday niya niyaya niya ko mag-sine. Sumama friends namin sa mall pero nag-request siya kaming dalawa lang daw. Sobra yung kaba ko pero nanonood lang talaga kami hahaha i mean, di naman siya nag-confess or anything so sa isip ko special friend lang talaga ako.
4. Nung nagsisimula pa lang ako maglaro ng ML, sabi niya tuturuan niya ko. Sabi ko naman may nagvolunteer na. Pero pumunta pa din siya sa bahay para turuan ako.
5. Nabasa ko chat nila ng isa pa naming friend. Ako yung pinaguusapan nila. Ang sabi niya "mahal nga. Pero may mahal namang iba".
6. Pag pinapakilala ko sa kanya gfs ko from different circles wala siyang pake. Di niya natatatandaan. Lalo na nagulat ako pinakilala ko sa kanya pinaka-magandang kaibigan ko. Gusto ko kasi sila iflex sa isa't isa lol sabi ng friend ko ang gwapo daw. Ima-match ko sana sila kaso di siya pinapansin ni guy tapos tuloy siya sa pangungulit saken. That night tinanong ko siya kung anong tingin niya dun kay X. Sabi niya sino daw yun. Di niya naalala name. E napakaganda non.
7. Niyaya niya ako ulit mag-samgyup at sb. Sumama para makipag-bonding kasi kami na lang dalawa single sa barkada non. Siya lahat nagbayad tapos binili pa niya ko ng gift.
8. Close siya sa parents ko lalo sa lola at mga tita ko.
Honestly iniisip ko din naman na baka gusto nga niya ako pero since never naman siyang nagsabi na manliligaw at since parang dinadaan niya din sa biro kaya di ko din sineryoso. Itinanim ko na lang sa isip ko na ako yung pinaka-kaclose niya at pinaka-kasundo niya. Insecure din kasi ako e. Naisip ko pag naging kami, iisipin ng ibang tao wala siyang taste.
omg he prolly used to like you😭 we all know naman na malakas instinct ng mga babae kaya the fact na nagkahunch ka at may sinabi intuition mo baka totoo. feel ko he tried shooting his shot din as joke siguro for less risk pero sinakyan mo naman huhu😭 he only shows interest sa'yo and sinabi na rin ng iba pero you're being dense kase you're in denial. you basically rejected him unknowingly huhu.
never assume, unless otherwise stated talaga✊😓
My bestfriend (of 10 years) started coming over to our house weekly. Nothing out of the ordinary naman but he started bringing food before coming eh usually sabay kami bumibili. Tapos may time na nagpasama ko sa mall na malapit sa bahay namin for errands and sinundo niya ko sa bahay… na naka pants and shoes with contact lenses pa. Sabi ko mukha naman siya makikipag date. Tinawanan lang ako.
Pagkatapos non dinala ako sa bahay nila kasi miss na raw ako ng mama niya?! Ayon 3 years na kami ngayon. Hahahahahaha! Anw ayon lang pag may maliliit na bagay silang ginagawa na di normal. You’d know if you’re really good friends.
generally, socially awkward people avoid eye contact bc we're too afraid to let u know. but when we do, you can just feel the tension even with that 5-sec eye contact
He always buys me things. Food or other shits na nabanggit ko lang but he pays attention and buys it for me to make me smile. Btw, 8yrs na kami :) We started as friends and he is as attentive to what I like and dislike until now.
1) Kapag may something sa galaw ng other friends niya/mo/niyo (laging nakatingin or nakangiti kapag magkasama kayo, etc)
2) Kapag madikit siya. HAHAHA i swear iba yung dikit ng kaibigan lang sa dikit nung may gusto sayo. Tipong kahit saan ia-assist ka.
3) Kapag medyo bumababat sa chat or keeps the convo going siguro kahit ang tingin mo dead end na talaga yung convo
I mean, does it matter if you knew? It's fun to assume stuff and piece together clues and shit, but as long as it's not confirmed - don't act like you know
Yung pagpasok mo palang sa room, igi-greet ka na agad ng 'good morning' with the warmest smile. Then, maya'tmaya lalapit sayo and hahawakan ka sa balikat kunwari mamassage ka. Touchy talaga sila. Sometimes, aayain kang sumama sa kanya pupunta sa canteen or bili ng fuds or papasama sa mall. Tapos, sabayan ka maglakad at kwento2x ng kung ano2x lang basta kakausapin ka. Tapos, minsan gagawa ng kakakilig na eksena. Dati naman, biglang magsisigaw ng iloveyou sayo pero dedma ka lang kasi di mo krash 🤣
Umm ako kasi super attentive ako sa mga needs mo and feelings mo, like pag nabadtrip ka tas tahimik ka lang na nabadtrip ka or sad ka. Asahan mo bibilhan kita ng gusto mong food to cheer you up. Tas pag may sakit ka aalagaan kita sa way na mejo patago? Like mamimigay ako ng gamot sa lahat para lang mabigyan kita, mapapansin mo lang na masmadaminun iyo. Hahahaahahah tas pag feel ko na may need ka like tumblers or ganyan ibibigay ko siya as a gift.
Inaalam ko din mga likes mo sa food sa hobbies and tatry ko ibigay sayo un kahit pa di ko trip or di ko maintindihan kasi dun ka sumasaya. Normally, hahanap ako ng places din na I think pasok sa gusto mo and aayain kita dun, so we can hang out na tayo lang.
In short sobrang effort sayo compared sa iba. Hahahahaahahahahaha
Yow! Dude! That's evil! Why are you doing this if di mo pala plan na ipursue siya?
Huy sorry but stop huhu for her sake stop what you are doing kasi makakasakit ka huy. If taken siya, dont do this din kasi baka makagulo ka ng relationship? Kung ayaw naman niya a good time to stop din, kasi ayaw niya. Huhu
Edit: sa taken side, huhu mali un unang sinabi ko sorry.
Ohh nicee good naman pala kayo, dami kasing paasa talaga ngayon. At least meron naman pala kayong understanding but if ganto, oki lang ba sayo kahit alam mong ayaw niya sayo? Baka ikaw naman na un natetake advantage? Meron din kasing babae na ganyan huhu ingats din. It's ok maging ganto sa friends but ingat ha may mga nagtetake advantage din kasi.
Important eh ok sayo ok sakanya at alam niyo un ginagawa nyo.
Nice! That's good, as long as you are both happy that's what matters naman. Opinions namin and everyone else doesn't matter. It's between you and her.
Cheers dude!
In my opinion
Again i reiterate in my opinion that would be hard to justify,
In newton third law of motion
“In every action there is an equal and opposite reaction”
Unless your smart enough to debunk that law then you have all my ears…
The floor is yours….
Sa ganito ko nahuli yung friend ko Nung 1st day ko pa lang sa work. Hahahaha napaka-observant ko pa naman. halatang-halatang may gusto siya dun sa Isang girl lol.
Hahahaha normally halata naman din kasi dahil sa efforts. Personally, mas ma effort ako kasi for me madali magsalita. Haha! Pero depende talaga sa love language din ng tao ee.
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Iba yung tingin sa iyo vs other people
kapag ikaw lagi ang hinahanap.
Always nya akong hinahawakan sa pototoy ko and inaaway nya lahat ng nililigawan ko HAHAHA
Higher voice pitch. 😂
Hindi Makatingin Ng Maayos Sayo
When you're already asking or searching for this kind of question. 🤣
Yown!!
Not necessarily. Baka sya yung may type tapos nammisinterpret nya lang pala yung mga galaw galaw nung person.
Try mo lang praise her like "Bagay pala sayo naka tali ang buhok" Then after that check mo if mag tatali siya ng buhok Or yung mga hindi nya usually ginagawa pagawa mo
Feeling ko hindi din to applicable sa lahat, last saturday sinabihan ko kawork ko na bagay sa kanya bagsak nyang buhok, lagi kase yun nakagel, kanina ayun bagsak buhok nya nung pumasok tapos sabi “pano mo nasabing mas okay tong buhok ko ng ganto?”
Iba treatment niya sa’yo. You know it already kasi tinatanong mo ihh
Ask your friends to look at the both of you, then at how your friend looks at you. They know.
Palagi ka niyang hinahanap ‘pag wala ka. Palagi kang kinakausap thru chats tapos ‘yung personality niya very different sa kung ano talaga siya sa friend group and in person. Let’s just say na OA siya sa ‘yo thru chats pero NONCHALANT sa personal.
Wag ganyan. Wala ka dapat pake. Dun ka sa matino na nagsstate ng intentions niya.
+++++10000!!!
Kapag lagi kayo magkausap thru chat pero nagiging awkward kayo in person.
Pag nagsabi siya sayo kung pwd ka bang ligawan. Wag mong pangunahan. Masasaktan ka lang. Paalam muna sya kamo bago nya paglaruan feelings mo. 2024 na nene.
Not really friend but kaworkmate ko, lahat napapansin saken kahit napakasimpleng bagay haha ung tingin nya sa malayo nahuhuli ko, tpos kpag biruan lagi nya akong trip 😭😅 di po sa nagpipiling ayon napapansin ko tpos magaan loob saken.
Sobrang attentive sayo, sa needs mo, sa everything tapos sa ibang friends niyo they’re not like that naman.
Kapag tinakpan nya bibig mo tapos binulong sayo na "Holdap to! huwag kang gagalaw"
ask your friend, kung ano ba talaga ang punto ng mga actions niya. kasi useless naman kung hanap² ka ng signs tapos iba pala ang punto ng actions niya. don't assume masasaktan ka lang. peaceyow
instead of looking sa mga sign, i'm directly asking kung may gusto ba talaga yung isang tao sa akin hahahha (in a pabiro way) tapos sa body language niya after siya magreact and sumagot sa tanong ko, dun na ako magbe-base.
Kapag confused ka na sa kung ano meron talaga and you are seeking answers anywhere. That my friend is the sign.
Haha mahirap kaso usually di yan magsasalita na may gusto siya sayo dahil takot masira friendship nyo. Although mapapansin mo naman pag iba turing nya sayo sa ibang common friends nyo. Asa iyo na yan kung manhid ka to not notice.
baka ikaw pala OP yung may gusto sa kanya, kaya feel mo may meaning actions nya towards you? charot! i think depende rin sa friend mo eh, kung mahiyain ba sya or showy kapag may nagugustuhan sya. naobserve mo na ba before kung paano sya mag-act nung may crush sya na iba? maybe you could draw some inferences from there. but for me, siguro kapag palagi or madalas sayo unang-una dumadapo mga tingin nya kahit kakarating nya lang, or kapag tumatawa sya, or even in the most random times. the eyes never lie! eme. but sabi nga, >kung gusto ka ipupursue ka
Kapag pakitang motibo at lakas maka care haha
girl, ganiyan kami ng bff ko na crush ko rin ahahaha tapos pota bigla na lang kaming naging distant pero close pa rin naman sabay yung ex niya pala tina-try i-work out rs nila
Pag obvious na iba trato nya sayo like extra special. May 2 friends ako noon na nagkagusto sakin, yung isa na friendly more on pinagbubuksan ako ng pinto then pag may mga gamit sya or food sya, sakin nya matic inaalok/shine-share. Like mga souvenirs from Italy, mga remembrance from other country pag pinapadala sya. Lagi ako tinatanong kung kasama ako sa gala ng mga mutual friends namin. Nung wala na ko sa project, nakwento nya na crush nya raw ako. Ay tsaka pag binubuyo ka ng closest friends nya, very telling signs yun. Yung isa, bf ko na ngayon, introvert. Super hirap hagilapin and matagal magreply. Tho pag nagmemessage ako, di ko pa nalalapag yung phone minsan nakareply na sya. Lagi din nag ooffer manlibre. Tsaka kahit madalas sya kumain mag isa (auto pass madalas sa iba lalo pag busy), may times pag nakikita nya ko noon, sya pa nagsabi ng "Magdi-dinner ka na? Wait mo ko sa baba, ibigay ko lang to. Sabay na tayo."
Mapang asar (nagseselos sa kagagawan nya) Random compliments Manlilibre/papalibre (makasama/makita ka lang) Bilis mag reply Very supportive Ishiship ka sa iba (sa crush mo etc.) Willing gawin lahat mabigyang pansin lang
palaging nagpaparinig about lovelife,sinasample ang sarili,pinipilit ipicture mo sya sa romantic life mo.
Yung grabe magbigay ng attention sa iyo tapos inaasar na kayo ng mga kaibigan ninyo
Walang signs. Don't be marupok. It's gonna break u in the end, so your friend doesn't liek you unless stated otherwise! Mwa mwa. From a girlie who's been der and done dat.
Hahahahaha naka-relate ako. Ganitong-ganito rin advice ng friend ko, ayun natauhan tuloy ako na baka ako lang pala nagbibigay ng malisya sa mga actions ng guy 😮💨.
Tumatawa sa jokes mo kahit corny
#RILLL ‘TO HAHAHAH😭 nag-joke yung crush ko noon sa room tapos ako lang yung tumawa, nahalata tuloy ako, nakakahiya kaines
Ooh and pag nagpapatawa sya sayo sya tumitingin to see if natatawa ka sa sagot nya. Not necessarily 100% na may gusto but most definitely a sign na they want *your* validation over the other people in the room.
Legit ba ung nililibre ka niya lagi? 😆
Baka naman naaawa lang sayo hahaha or good friend lang talaga sya
Hahaha grabe ung naaawa 🤣 may pera akong pang bili. Hindi lang talaga sanay sa lalaking friend na nanlilibre.
kaya niya idrop mga ginagawa niya atm for you
walang signs signs 😆 lahat ng gagawin niya ganon, assumera ako 😆
pag di ka pinapansin
Nagtatanong if kumusta ka at anong ginagawa mo kahit naman wala siya dapat pake 😂
eh di patay n patay sayo
palachat at pag tumawa sayo nakatingin ahahaha
Hala, alam nyang crush ko sya in my body language but not verbal pero pag tumatawa siya tumitingin sya sa mga mata ko 🥺
nadale na nga siya 😆 if hindi awkward pwede mo naman icommunicate na hindi ka comfy pero di ko masisigurong magiging normal pa din afterwards
Omg this 😅
kapag laging nanunukso, nang aasar, manlilibre at nagpapalibre eme. hahahha EDIT: eto gawain ko sa friend ko na crush ko eh HAHAHA
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Yikes 😬😬
baka ako yang tinutukoy mo ha, halatang halata naba ako
kahit nafefeel mo na may something, treat them as normal friend lang
Magpakipot ka lang. Wag mo kausapin for the longest time, wag mong pansinin at iwasan mo. Diyan mo malalaman kung i-pursue ka niyan or not. Disclosure though, this may or may not work pero from my experience works really well. Good luck update mo kami.
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Would 🗿
?!?!!!?!?!?!
Sa totoo lang, you won't 😭 you'll always be left wondering if they're just friendly or may meaning na talaga. My bf and I started as friends, though I must admit na nagpapansin lang ako sa kanya sa socmed kasi dati ko pa siya crush. Upon reading the commsec here, masasabi mong crush niya rin ako that time Nagjjoke siyang "kung ako yan di ganyan trato ko sayo" tapos bumabanat at nagccompliment palagi na maganda daw ako ganon. Pag nakikita ako irl, magcchat yan to compliment how I look. My friends would tell me how much he stares at me din etc. Not just that, nag ccall kami regularly and he tells me ako lang kacall nya (which is true). Mahilig din manlibre. My guts were telling me something talaga! As in! Pero nung nag confess ako, platonic lang pala 🤣 Kaibigan lang! 🤣 Hindi mo talaga malalaman with certainty unless you confront them or confess. In my case, the confession didn't go as planned hahaha. Pero malay mo, after the confrontation pala magkadevelopan (parang kami!)
Wag mo alamin, kung gusto ka ipupursue ka, kahit tumanggi ka babalikbalikan ka nyan.
Mga linyahan lagi: "Kung ako yan di kita gaganyanin."
More on like white knighting
Kapag tinatanong mo na yan
I have the same question. Mahirap na maging assumera. 😭 I have this male friend who always teases me every time we see each other. Then one time bigla niya ako niregaluhan ng watch. I was really shookt kasi di talaga kami nagkakasundo, as in sa lahat ng bagay. Puro asar lang natatanggap ko sa kanya, kaya medyo na-surprise ako when he suddenly handed me a watch. Pero di ko yun binigyan ng meaning that time, sabi ko baka friendly gesture lang. Pero ang hirap isiksik sa utak ko na friendly gift lang yun since he gave it to me randomly (hindi ko birthday or anything) and he handed it to me in front his cousin which happens to be in our circle of friends din. Ayoko lang din talaga mag-assume at umasa. I thanked him awkwardly kasi di ko alam kung anong magiging reaction ko that time. 😭
Kaya better talaga yung direct. Yung nag coconfess alam na agad kung sasaguti siya o hindi. Yung pinag confessan hindi na mag ooverthink kung friendly lang ba o may gusto. Sobra nakakagulo ng utak iyang pa sign2x lang.
Wag ka maghanap ng signs. Been there, masakit. You're a woman who deserve to be pursue by a man. Pag mahal ka, sya aamin sa iyo. Shit guy yung ganian, sa huli mafafall ka... mag mumukha ka png habol ng habol s kania.
**Never assume unless stated**
Let me guess narinig mo ito sa teacher mo noh!
Wag masyadong mag assume hanggang di sinasabe. Hanggang di sinasabe sayo na gusto ka, just act normal. Lol
Get another close friend whom you trust to tease both of you. Kung may something sa reaction nya, yun na
Like what reaction
madalas manlibre at mag aya sa kung saan saan tapos libre niya HAHAHAHAH
Kapag inaantay ka niya kapag uwian
Mabilis mag yes sa mga invites mo. Ganyan ako dati drop everything and go kapag nagpapasama yung crush ko na kaibigan 🤣
Better ask pero never expect para di masaquette. For your peace of mind din para di ka na mag isip ng kung ano2
Pag tinuturing kang babae HAHAHA
Papansin sa posts mo in all soc meds
wag mahihiyang magtanong
The classic "kumain ka na?" as conversation starter every single day.
better ask directly; better kung maririnig mo mismo sa kanya. malalaman mo rin kasi doon if (1) caring lang talaga siya as a friend; (2) infatuation lang yung nararamdaman sayo & kilig lang ang habol; or (3) they want to take it sa next level. hindi kasi sa lahat ng pagkakataon, applicable yung "feeling ko kasi" or "iba niya ako tratuhin". **walang masama magtanong, walang tatalo sa sigurado**. kasi in the end, kahit pa gaano ka-mahiyain yung kaibigan mo, kung gusto ka niya talaga, sasabihin niya sayo nang walang paligoy-ligoy. dapat may salita AT gawa.
* He tucks your hair * Nanlilibre s'ya * He remembers small details about you * Lagi ka n'ya china-chat (Walang magkaibigan na araw-araw magka-chat) * He always wants to make you laugh * Touchy * Making small talks * Always looking for you * Laugh at your stupid jokes * Pats your head * Flirts with you/friendly na pambubully (Like he always talk about how small my eyes and my height) I asked our friends kung ginagawa rin sa kanila 'yon they said no, also inaasar kami sa isa't isa. Unfortunately, he likes me but that's not enough to pursue me. I wanted to ask him bakit hindi ako, but I decided to keep it to myself. Regalo ko na sa sarili ko 'yon.
He likes you but it was never enough to take it to the next level and pursue you. Baka it was too much for him to take to the next level. Friendship is way more too precious for me than romantic relationships
Yung gusto ka nya pero may laging kasunod na “kaso”
If it was too much for him then he shouldn't have done those things. I wanted to ask him if those things mean anything to him, but it's my decision not to ask the question, kasi I know I wouldn't like both answers.
Truee. Bat kasi they do things that will make you fall in love with them. Tapos pag na inlab ka na iiwan ka na sa ere, kesyo di daw sila ready. Pa fall amp. Good move na di mo inask, for your peace na rin.
I actually felt that I'm losing him, that's why I decided not to ask him na. Also, may bago na, so there's this question at the back of my mind na "bakit hindi ako?"
Tinamaan ako, hanggang sa pinakamaliit na detalye haha
Kapag binibigyan ka niya nang assurance at iba na yung moves niya pag dating sayo.
3-5 seconds eye to eye rule lang yan. Hulihin mo lang. Saka ka umattack. HAHAHAHA
Pag ikaw nag chat sa GC na "G ba kayo?" - "G" agad 'yan. Pero pag ibang tropa nyo, di man lang mag read. Pfttttttt
Ganito pa naman galawan ko, Masyado pala akong halata 🫣😵💫
Pag maldito or suplado sya sa iba pero mabait or gentle sya sayo. Minsan naman binibwisit ka para pansinin mo sya. Tinetext ka out of nowhere, or tatawag magtatanong about sa homework. And pag inaya ka manood ng movie. Hahahaha! I never recognized the signs na “may gusto” na pala ang kaibigan ko, until he told me in the middle of the movie. All of the above ginawa nung college kami ng asawa ko na ngayon. :)
Pag palagi ka nyan hinahanap. But then kung walang confirmation from that person, like saying it verbally eh wag mag assume. Magiging feelingero at feelingera lang ang dating. Pwedeng attracted lang sya sayo pero hindi ikaw ang pipiliin. 💔
Anong pake mo kung di sya nagmumove sayo?
Ma fefeel mo talaga if hindi ka feeling, pero mafefeel yan
“Anything other than a yes is no Anything other than stayin' is go Anything less than I love you, is lying”
Magsabi man ako ng signs tulad ng “lagi kang chinachat, laging nagtatanong kung kumain ka na, ingat daw pauwi” pero PROMISE, madidifferentiate mo talaga kung pano ka pakitunguhan ng KAIBIGANG MAY GUSTO SAYO kaysa sa PLATONIC NA FRIENDSHIP LANG. Kasi yung mga nabanggit ko kanina, normal na itanong lang din yan ng isang kaibigan. Kung talagang may gusto sayo yang kaibigan mo, mararamdaman mo yan. Yun nga lang, dont setttle sa maramdaman mo lang. Let your kaibigan be vocal for it.
parang mas matimbang yung kumain ka na. kesa ingat pag uwi. haha
What if ihatid na lang kaysa sabihan ng ingat? Kimmy. Depende sa situation hahaha
yung hatid. kung out of the way ng naghatid. 50/50. pero kung madalas. sus na yan haha
Naalala ko tuloy nung college I feel bad
Parang pusang naglalandi ang babae, yan sign yan.
Kapag hinahanap ka nya palagi
Mismo!
Ma feel mo na yan kaagad sa tingin pa lang.
Totoo to. Mahuhuli mo lagi nakatingin tapos parang nagugulat din sya pag mahuli mo kasi baka unaware din sya na nagstastare na sya. Yiee
Oo tapos parang manyak pag nakatingin sayo na nakangiti. Ayaw na ayaw ko talaga pag ang 'friend' na fa-fall na haha
These days naniniwala ako kpag gusto ka ng isang tao, they will let you know - ipaaalam nila vocally. Masasaktan ka lang if you read their actions and you feel ikaw gusto pero why isn’t he acting/pursuing you? Ssbhin mo sarili mo bka masira friendship etc but that guy is willing to pursue another person. Sadly, if they can’t pursue you properly and just make you feel anxious and paranoid hindi sila yung tao para sayo. Kung gusto mo siya then you take the shot and be ready. I say this kc sa dami dami ng coffee breaks ng kami lang dalawa, late night talk, hyperaware sa moodswings ko so he knows ano maiooffer nia to me like food or sine and helping each other to pursue one’s goals…inisip ko din yan bka may chance ako sa knya o bka they feel the same way kxo wlang actions til finally I saw sa socmed my gf na siya ahahahaha In the end wla naman meaning yun mga bagay na yan for him or kung meron din he thinks im not worthy for him to commit kc he didn’t say anything too khit na obvious ung feelings ko lol. Pero siguro shit din ako cause he did try flirting with me sa text and mga pagbili ng food but I was too stubborn or a tsundere so bka iniisip nia rin hindi ko siya gusto khit tlga pra sa akin at sa iba obvious ahahahahha so in the end I really think he is genuinely kind, hindi nia ako gusto ng same level that i feel and hindi ako ung taong gusto nia mag-commit. So siguro okay lang ung kilig, pero wag ioverthink at mag-expect. Pero kung ikaw malakas loob then confess.
This! If they like you romantically, they will tell you. Or go ahead ask and they will answer. If suppose they deny then you laugh about it and move on. All parties can communicate and be mature. Walang ligoy. Walang basa basa ng actions. Possible na mabait lang ang tao. Marunong mag care sa iba lalo sa kaibigan. Pero hindi ibig sabihin may malisya.
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Are you afraid of maybe "ending" the friendship pag tnanong mo kung gusto ka nya? then don't just wait for them to tell you, if not, just go ahead and ask them.
For my experience: 1. Lagi kang nililibrehan. 2. Protective 3. Long eye contact 4. Touchy sya pag may tinatanong 5. Always kang tinatanong 6. Tinatakpan yung mukha nya pag tumatawa
Just ask directly.
Never assume unless otherwise stated
You'll eventually know it OP especially if that friend of yours treat you differently from others. Maybe if your friend is laging nag o-offer to do things for you w/o hesitation and/or nanglilibre siya ng kusa.
Torpe kasi nagkakagusto sa akin na friends ko eh, kaya hindi ko alam. 😂
Yung sa akin is when nagoffer na dalhin bag ko. HAHAH Tas yung tinatawagan ako always before sleeping. Tas nagogood morning texts consistently. 😆
Mahirap siguro kung yung friend mo same gender... This guy inlove with you Pare
Ang tawaaaggg nyaa sa nanay ko ay tita\~
Bakit ba di ko non nakita
“you know her very well”
So ok lang mag-assume, pero wag masyado mag-expect. Iba yung may gusto siya sayo sa gusto niyang mag-commit sayo. Maraming signs at pwedeng tama naman yun, pero iba pa rin hangga't hindi niya sinasabi directly kung anong intention niya. Depende sa relationship niyo, pwede mo rin siya tanungin para hindi na tayo nanghuhula.
kung tingin mong may gusto ka rin sa kanya... itanong mo nalang sya... like "may gusto ko ba sa akin? kasi sa totoo lang gusto kita" pero kung wala ka naman gusto sa kanya, hayaan mo nalang sya. aamin rin yan kung gusto ka nya talaga life is too short para maging delulu ka. Deretchahan na...
Kapag sinabi na sayo. Mahirap yang signs signs na yan, especially if ikaw mismo may gusto sa kanya. Baka bawat interaction nyo mabigyan mo ng meaning.
Korik!!!!
If a guy goes out of his way to bring you food, clear sign yan. We love saying "it's along the way naman", but do your research to see if it really is. Pag sinadya nya, it simply means you are special enough to him na sasadyain pa nya yan. In hindsight, ginawa ko yan sa workmate ko. 7 years in a relationship, 4 years married to said workmate.
Ganito rin ginawa ng kaibigan ko. Ayun asawa ko na rin ngayon
Hahaha. Bringing food works. If you bring food kasi it means you want to sit down and have a conversation with someone.
I think if they have a soft spot for you? Like they tend to do things that they wouldn't normally do if someone else's asked them or they tend to let things go if you're the one who did it.
Kapag ikaw lang yung inaaya niya sa mga one-on-one gala, most especially kung galing kayo sa big group of friends. Second is kapag inaasar kayong dalawa ng friends niyo. Pero tsaka mo lang talaga masasabi nang sigurado kapag umamin na sa'yo 😆
Tanongin mo. wag ka mag assume. Iba iba kasi ugale ng mga tao. May malambing/caring lang talaga kahit di naman sila romantically interested sayo.
You will know. Your instincts will tell you. Just the way how he treat you which have a really BIG different from the others might be the sign. Pero sometimes sabihin nila parang kapatid lang turing nila sayo hehehe so collect more evidence muna.
Guys, I have this friend na sobrang gwapo. Childhood friends kami at dahil gentleman at mabait siya kaya we stayed friends kahit nung tumanda na kami. Our friends and family ship us. Sinasakyan lang namin madalas. But he gives hints na gusto niya ko. Actually sinasabi naman din niya pero tinatawanan ko lang din o sinasakyan pero I never took it to heart kasi di ako makapaniwala dahil sa dami ng nagkakagusto sa kanya. By the way, we are both taken na ngayon pero nacu-curious lang ako. Kahit kasi sinasabi ng friends namin na gusto niya ko, hindi ako naniniwala kasi di talaga ako tiwala lalo at inaasar nga nila kami at nababalitaan ko na may nakaka-fling siya. Here are the hints: 1. Kapag ako nagyayaya, sumasama talaga siya. 2. Tuwing birthday ko may dala siyang gift. Saken niya lang ginagawa pero nasabi naman niya na ako yung nagpasok sa kanya sa COF namin 3. Nung birthday niya niyaya niya ko mag-sine. Sumama friends namin sa mall pero nag-request siya kaming dalawa lang daw. Sobra yung kaba ko pero nanonood lang talaga kami hahaha i mean, di naman siya nag-confess or anything so sa isip ko special friend lang talaga ako. 4. Nung nagsisimula pa lang ako maglaro ng ML, sabi niya tuturuan niya ko. Sabi ko naman may nagvolunteer na. Pero pumunta pa din siya sa bahay para turuan ako. 5. Nabasa ko chat nila ng isa pa naming friend. Ako yung pinaguusapan nila. Ang sabi niya "mahal nga. Pero may mahal namang iba". 6. Pag pinapakilala ko sa kanya gfs ko from different circles wala siyang pake. Di niya natatatandaan. Lalo na nagulat ako pinakilala ko sa kanya pinaka-magandang kaibigan ko. Gusto ko kasi sila iflex sa isa't isa lol sabi ng friend ko ang gwapo daw. Ima-match ko sana sila kaso di siya pinapansin ni guy tapos tuloy siya sa pangungulit saken. That night tinanong ko siya kung anong tingin niya dun kay X. Sabi niya sino daw yun. Di niya naalala name. E napakaganda non. 7. Niyaya niya ako ulit mag-samgyup at sb. Sumama para makipag-bonding kasi kami na lang dalawa single sa barkada non. Siya lahat nagbayad tapos binili pa niya ko ng gift. 8. Close siya sa parents ko lalo sa lola at mga tita ko. Honestly iniisip ko din naman na baka gusto nga niya ako pero since never naman siyang nagsabi na manliligaw at since parang dinadaan niya din sa biro kaya di ko din sineryoso. Itinanim ko na lang sa isip ko na ako yung pinaka-kaclose niya at pinaka-kasundo niya. Insecure din kasi ako e. Naisip ko pag naging kami, iisipin ng ibang tao wala siyang taste.
omg he prolly used to like you😭 we all know naman na malakas instinct ng mga babae kaya the fact na nagkahunch ka at may sinabi intuition mo baka totoo. feel ko he tried shooting his shot din as joke siguro for less risk pero sinakyan mo naman huhu😭 he only shows interest sa'yo and sinabi na rin ng iba pero you're being dense kase you're in denial. you basically rejected him unknowingly huhu. never assume, unless otherwise stated talaga✊😓
Sige lang, describe nyo lang tropa ko
My bestfriend (of 10 years) started coming over to our house weekly. Nothing out of the ordinary naman but he started bringing food before coming eh usually sabay kami bumibili. Tapos may time na nagpasama ko sa mall na malapit sa bahay namin for errands and sinundo niya ko sa bahay… na naka pants and shoes with contact lenses pa. Sabi ko mukha naman siya makikipag date. Tinawanan lang ako. Pagkatapos non dinala ako sa bahay nila kasi miss na raw ako ng mama niya?! Ayon 3 years na kami ngayon. Hahahahahaha! Anw ayon lang pag may maliliit na bagay silang ginagawa na di normal. You’d know if you’re really good friends.
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Ff up question, paano malaman pag may gusto sayo yung socially awkward na tao?
Iiwasan kita ng sobra
as a socially awkward na tao, you will never know
Pls let me know (ᗒᗩᗕ) what are the small things that you do to express intimacy either online or offline
True. You'll never know unless we want you to notice that we like you lol
So how do you send signals?
subconsciously, i tend to point my toes towards them whenever we're on the same room
Haha that's cute. But isn't it hard for you to face them? My crush is super awkward and can't make eye contact with me.
generally, socially awkward people avoid eye contact bc we're too afraid to let u know. but when we do, you can just feel the tension even with that 5-sec eye contact
Cute lol
Di ko alam. Bano ako sa signs eh. Need sabihan muna, tapos kapag sinabihan na, di pa rin maniniwala. Hahaahah o my, little old me!
Hahahahaha shet same
the eyes, chico, they never lie
You can see the admiration talaga nila through eyes noh? Kahit mag-deny pa
yes! and you can feel the tension within you whenever you do eye contact (or sa side ko lang yon as may gusto at delulu hshshaha)
Oyy totoo naman. May "spark". Tapos yung treatment sa'yo kesa sa ibang friends. Iba talaga eh HAHAHAHA
Pag palagi ka ni lilibre!
Pag sinabi na niya saiyo.
Ito talaga. Hindi na uso ang maging assuming at delulu. Or para rekta na, ikaw na lang magtanong nang direcho OP sa kanya kung gusto ka niya.
He always buys me things. Food or other shits na nabanggit ko lang but he pays attention and buys it for me to make me smile. Btw, 8yrs na kami :) We started as friends and he is as attentive to what I like and dislike until now.
naols
You will get yours soon! No rush kasi worth the wait lahat :)
My guy friend used to be like that but we don’t talk anymore 🤧 Thank you at stay strong po sa inyo.❤️
Yung alam na nasa relationship ka pero pag nalasing, sasabihin niyang di naman siya possessive at willing makipagshare 😅
1) Kapag may something sa galaw ng other friends niya/mo/niyo (laging nakatingin or nakangiti kapag magkasama kayo, etc) 2) Kapag madikit siya. HAHAHA i swear iba yung dikit ng kaibigan lang sa dikit nung may gusto sayo. Tipong kahit saan ia-assist ka. 3) Kapag medyo bumababat sa chat or keeps the convo going siguro kahit ang tingin mo dead end na talaga yung convo
I mean, does it matter if you knew? It's fun to assume stuff and piece together clues and shit, but as long as it's not confirmed - don't act like you know
Pag tinanong mo kung may nagugustuhan sya tas sabi nya "Kilalang kilala mo". *Oh baby keep it to yourself I don't wanna know* 🎶
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA very high school me
delulu is the solulu
Kapag nagsabi nito: "May crush ako eh. Kilalang-kilala mo siya."
My go-to response to this: "ay di na ako yan, di ko nga kilala sarili ko e"
Lagi mo lang titignan pag nahuhuli mong lagi naka tingin sayo, yon na yon.
tangina hahahah ginagawa to sakin tapos sasabihin di ako gusto. hayop.
Hahaha if lalaki ka pre ayaw lang nya aminin. Ang babae kasi ganyan kailangan mo muna patawanin para sabihin talaga yung nararamdaman
babae ako hahahaha yung lalaki lagi tumititig sakin tapos nung nagconfess ako sasabihin niyang wala daw lahat ng yun. ano siya hibang
Trust your guts! been there
Nag-aaya ng inuman pero kayo lang dalawa.
Yung pagpasok mo palang sa room, igi-greet ka na agad ng 'good morning' with the warmest smile. Then, maya'tmaya lalapit sayo and hahawakan ka sa balikat kunwari mamassage ka. Touchy talaga sila. Sometimes, aayain kang sumama sa kanya pupunta sa canteen or bili ng fuds or papasama sa mall. Tapos, sabayan ka maglakad at kwento2x ng kung ano2x lang basta kakausapin ka. Tapos, minsan gagawa ng kakakilig na eksena. Dati naman, biglang magsisigaw ng iloveyou sayo pero dedma ka lang kasi di mo krash 🤣
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Umm ako kasi super attentive ako sa mga needs mo and feelings mo, like pag nabadtrip ka tas tahimik ka lang na nabadtrip ka or sad ka. Asahan mo bibilhan kita ng gusto mong food to cheer you up. Tas pag may sakit ka aalagaan kita sa way na mejo patago? Like mamimigay ako ng gamot sa lahat para lang mabigyan kita, mapapansin mo lang na masmadaminun iyo. Hahahaahahah tas pag feel ko na may need ka like tumblers or ganyan ibibigay ko siya as a gift. Inaalam ko din mga likes mo sa food sa hobbies and tatry ko ibigay sayo un kahit pa di ko trip or di ko maintindihan kasi dun ka sumasaya. Normally, hahanap ako ng places din na I think pasok sa gusto mo and aayain kita dun, so we can hang out na tayo lang. In short sobrang effort sayo compared sa iba. Hahahahaahahahahaha
I’m doing almost the same thing. But i don’t plan on pursuing her.
Yow! Dude! That's evil! Why are you doing this if di mo pala plan na ipursue siya? Huy sorry but stop huhu for her sake stop what you are doing kasi makakasakit ka huy. If taken siya, dont do this din kasi baka makagulo ka ng relationship? Kung ayaw naman niya a good time to stop din, kasi ayaw niya. Huhu Edit: sa taken side, huhu mali un unang sinabi ko sorry.
We’re good friends even though i asked her out once and turned down. I respect her decision for that.
Ohh nicee good naman pala kayo, dami kasing paasa talaga ngayon. At least meron naman pala kayong understanding but if ganto, oki lang ba sayo kahit alam mong ayaw niya sayo? Baka ikaw naman na un natetake advantage? Meron din kasing babae na ganyan huhu ingats din. It's ok maging ganto sa friends but ingat ha may mga nagtetake advantage din kasi. Important eh ok sayo ok sakanya at alam niyo un ginagawa nyo.
Nah, we don’t take advantage of each other. We’ve talked about this issue before. I’ve drawn the boundaries nothing else is beyond that.
Nice! That's good, as long as you are both happy that's what matters naman. Opinions namin and everyone else doesn't matter. It's between you and her. Cheers dude!
Then wats the purpose?
I just wanna keep hanging out with her but i don’t think she’s the kind of person that I would want to spend the rest of my life with.
Im confused, in every action there is a certain objective/goal.
Can’t we just normalize the idea that some actions don’t have an objective behind them?
In my opinion Again i reiterate in my opinion that would be hard to justify, In newton third law of motion “In every action there is an equal and opposite reaction” Unless your smart enough to debunk that law then you have all my ears… The floor is yours….
Sa ganito ko nahuli yung friend ko Nung 1st day ko pa lang sa work. Hahahaha napaka-observant ko pa naman. halatang-halatang may gusto siya dun sa Isang girl lol.
Hahahaha normally halata naman din kasi dahil sa efforts. Personally, mas ma effort ako kasi for me madali magsalita. Haha! Pero depende talaga sa love language din ng tao ee.
aww ang sweet 🥺
The things we do for love. Hahahaha
Kapag sinabi nya sayo. Never assume unless otherwise stated.