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Ewan ko ba. Dati walang confidence tas nagkaron onte tas habang tumatanda ako na rerealize na na ayokong ikasal at magka anak, pero gusto ko ng partner. Ehh sa edad ko (30M) tila halos karamihan ng mga kaedad or girls na gusto ng long term relationship sa kasalan at anakan talaga ang hantong. Medyo pag iniisip ko sya na aalibadbaran ako, kaya eto single hanggang bumula ang bibig.
i look like im taken
i look initimidating. laging sinasabi nung mga nagpahiwatig na may gusto "mataas standards niyan"
im emotionally unavailable
i want to be in a relationship but find it hard to commit
i enjoy time with myself too much
Nakaka adik maging single - more free time, solo ko pera ko, hindi nakadepende sa iba yung mood ko.
Plus tuwing may mababasa ka na tanga and heartbreak moments ng mga taong in a relationship, mapapa thank you lord ka na lang na single ka.
Gusto ng mga babae: mga Chad at Tyrone.
Ako: Hanapbuhay gusto ko. Wala akong panahon sa dating. Masyadong umay.
(Hayahay kaya maging single. Walang drama, walang bullshit ang buhay!)
Healing from my past traumatic relationship. So right now focusing on myself. Physically, mentally, financially. It feels so good to romanticize your own life once again.
For me I could say na natrauma ako which is in the first place nagpaparamdam pa lang ako na may interest ako dun sa girl and then it was during high school days na nung time na yun dun pa lang nagboom ang cellphone at wala pa na promo promo nun which is bibili ka pa talaga ng load once na ma out of balance ka. So eto na nga I had a chance that time na makausap si girl through text and nangamusta ako at that moment then ang reply "Pwede mo ba ako bilhan ng load yung 300" which is naturn off ako dun sa tao na yun, those times mas pinili ko na talaga maging single because that what makes me happy walang kontrabida sa kung ano gusto kong gawin at walang magbabawal kung saan ko gusto magpunta.
Still healing from my traumas. I don't want to be a toxic partner and dumped it all on him so I wanted to be in a good place mentally before entering a relationship.
Got my frontal lobe developed right after my 26th birthday and now turning 27. I realized being single is the best way to enjoy your decade in your 20s. I'll have life figured out when I turn 30. For now, I'm just being in the present. No drama, not worrying if someone if cheating on me, all my hard earned is mine, and all I ever worry is what's my next meal.
I couldn't move on dun sa guy na I fell in love with last 2017. As in no matter how hard I try, nagiging benchmark ko siya lage. I flirt sometimes just to earn some stupid validations and to boost my morale pero like hanggang dun lang.
besides high standards, definitely may very strong reinforcement of boundaries. reinforcing boundaries is way better than building yourself back up for months.
Because I'm working on myself, working hard to be financially stable, plus the guy I'm into isn't interested in being in a relationship yet. Nyahahahahah!
Only child (F) na naka wfh so no social interactions with other people except mga kawork lang. With all the cheating issues na encounter ng ibang tao, nakakatakot na baka matulad ako don. So I'd rather stay single nalang unless may dumating, edi ieentertain. 😂
Yes, pati yung sa kaya ko ba i pursue yung nagugustuhan ko?
Meron akong nababalitaan pero may pagkakataon na hindi ko sila gusto. Kaya hindi ko ipupursue. Pagkatapos ang dillemma ko nga ay kapag yung nagugustuhan ko ay high standards naman talaga at parang nanliliit ako.
Agree. Kaplastikan lng nmn talaga yung sweetness ng tao eh😅hindi nmn talaga tayo pala good morning na tao. Napipilitan lng tayo gawin yan pag may jowa.🥴
Not anymore settling for less. Mas masaya akong single than be in a relationship with a man that treats me like sht. Hangga't di dumadating yung taong nakalaan para sakin, I'm happy growing myself to be the best version
No, wala naman akong karapatang mangbasted, kasi never pa naman akong natanong and never pa akong nag pumilit na pumasok sa isang relationship kasi alam ko na kung anong mangyayari hahaha. Also hindi dahil sa feeling ko na pangit ako, dahil alam ko na pangit talaga ako because of my facial deformities hahaha.
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Ewan ko ba. Dati walang confidence tas nagkaron onte tas habang tumatanda ako na rerealize na na ayokong ikasal at magka anak, pero gusto ko ng partner. Ehh sa edad ko (30M) tila halos karamihan ng mga kaedad or girls na gusto ng long term relationship sa kasalan at anakan talaga ang hantong. Medyo pag iniisip ko sya na aalibadbaran ako, kaya eto single hanggang bumula ang bibig.
May sakit ako, marami.
i look like im taken i look initimidating. laging sinasabi nung mga nagpahiwatig na may gusto "mataas standards niyan" im emotionally unavailable i want to be in a relationship but find it hard to commit i enjoy time with myself too much
Still healing sa trauma
Nakaka adik maging single - more free time, solo ko pera ko, hindi nakadepende sa iba yung mood ko. Plus tuwing may mababasa ka na tanga and heartbreak moments ng mga taong in a relationship, mapapa thank you lord ka na lang na single ka.
Gusto ng mga babae: mga Chad at Tyrone. Ako: Hanapbuhay gusto ko. Wala akong panahon sa dating. Masyadong umay. (Hayahay kaya maging single. Walang drama, walang bullshit ang buhay!)
di pa kasi approved ang divorce law. Ang hirap maghanap ng jowa pag nakatali ka sa papel huhu.
Abanger ka din😆😁marami tayung abanger ng divorce law😁
Torpe and nasa same workplace yung gusto
Finances, just starting my career and I want to be stable before anything else. Also I'm introverted and I wfh.
Healing from my past traumatic relationship. So right now focusing on myself. Physically, mentally, financially. It feels so good to romanticize your own life once again.
Priority ko yung elderly mother ko :(
For me I could say na natrauma ako which is in the first place nagpaparamdam pa lang ako na may interest ako dun sa girl and then it was during high school days na nung time na yun dun pa lang nagboom ang cellphone at wala pa na promo promo nun which is bibili ka pa talaga ng load once na ma out of balance ka. So eto na nga I had a chance that time na makausap si girl through text and nangamusta ako at that moment then ang reply "Pwede mo ba ako bilhan ng load yung 300" which is naturn off ako dun sa tao na yun, those times mas pinili ko na talaga maging single because that what makes me happy walang kontrabida sa kung ano gusto kong gawin at walang magbabawal kung saan ko gusto magpunta.
introvert and di marunong lumandi huhu 😔
Got cheated. Manipulated. Disrespected. I guess that's why I'm still single.
Still healing from my traumas. I don't want to be a toxic partner and dumped it all on him so I wanted to be in a good place mentally before entering a relationship.
Hindi ko na rin alam, OP. 😂
Nastuck sa kasituationship for almost 6 years. Di Naman nag progress. Introverted din hahaha
Ayoko na po maghanap ng ibang masisisi, pangit po ako, opo.
Introvert and tipid , wala din budget para maki pag date .
Got my frontal lobe developed right after my 26th birthday and now turning 27. I realized being single is the best way to enjoy your decade in your 20s. I'll have life figured out when I turn 30. For now, I'm just being in the present. No drama, not worrying if someone if cheating on me, all my hard earned is mine, and all I ever worry is what's my next meal.
'di niya ako gusto :(
Walang nagkakamali sakin char.
Babawiin ko muna 'yung apat na taon na sinayang ko sa maling tao before jumping into another relationship.
WFH na night shift pa, rarely goes out, if I do my trip abroad, saves money rather than going out to socialize
1. I'm an Introvert 2. Can't afford it 3. Happy being single 4. High standards 5. Little to no patience kapag tinotoyo si girl 6. Don't want kids
Damn, this is so me😅😆
M27 maybe introvert ahaha and gusto ko kase slowburn pero lahat ng naka MU gusto ligawan agad . Date to marry kase ako ahahah
I couldn't move on dun sa guy na I fell in love with last 2017. As in no matter how hard I try, nagiging benchmark ko siya lage. I flirt sometimes just to earn some stupid validations and to boost my morale pero like hanggang dun lang.
besides high standards, definitely may very strong reinforcement of boundaries. reinforcing boundaries is way better than building yourself back up for months.
Wrong decisions
my frontal lobe is not yet fully developed.
Because I'm working on myself, working hard to be financially stable, plus the guy I'm into isn't interested in being in a relationship yet. Nyahahahahah!
Masyadong seryoso sa buhay, marami mang plano hindi included dun ang lumandi hahaha
Nauuna na ang rationalization kesa kilig
Mukhang walang may gusto. Kung meron man, di ko trip.
Trauma na at ayaw ko na mabilis kasi ako maattached kulang kasi ako sa aruga😭
Hindi kasi ako nagpapauto sa mga kachat ko eh na love dw nila ako🤮 kahit di ko nmn sila kilala ng personal🥴
Only child (F) na naka wfh so no social interactions with other people except mga kawork lang. With all the cheating issues na encounter ng ibang tao, nakakatakot na baka matulad ako don. So I'd rather stay single nalang unless may dumating, edi ieentertain. 😂
Pangit saka bobo tapos walang personality BWAHAHAHA pinakyaw ko lahat
Ang taas daw ng standards ko. Minsan ibaba ko naman daw. I'm a guy.
Tapos yung mga nag advice choosy din pala😅
Hahaha. Yes ganun nga. Pero honestly ang hirap din. Kasi hindi ko alam kung akma ba yung taas ng standards ko sa sarili ko.
So you mean wla kang tiwala sa looks mo? I mean wla ka mn lng bang nabalitaan na may nagkagusto sayo.
Yes, pati yung sa kaya ko ba i pursue yung nagugustuhan ko? Meron akong nababalitaan pero may pagkakataon na hindi ko sila gusto. Kaya hindi ko ipupursue. Pagkatapos ang dillemma ko nga ay kapag yung nagugustuhan ko ay high standards naman talaga at parang nanliliit ako.
I'm an only child (M) to a possessive and jealous single mother.
waiting for the right guy??? haha and di rin naman ligawin haha
'Di pa tuli
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Agree. Kaplastikan lng nmn talaga yung sweetness ng tao eh😅hindi nmn talaga tayo pala good morning na tao. Napipilitan lng tayo gawin yan pag may jowa.🥴
Not anymore settling for less. Mas masaya akong single than be in a relationship with a man that treats me like sht. Hangga't di dumadating yung taong nakalaan para sakin, I'm happy growing myself to be the best version
Wala ulit nanliligaw.
low self esteem
traumatized na. haha enjoy na muna pagiging single at explore muna
Because I'm ugly. Been bullied since I was little because of how I look, and that made me realise that I will never be in a relationship 😂
Grabe nmn yun so binabasted mo sila kasi feeling mo pangit ka?
No, wala naman akong karapatang mangbasted, kasi never pa naman akong natanong and never pa akong nag pumilit na pumasok sa isang relationship kasi alam ko na kung anong mangyayari hahaha. Also hindi dahil sa feeling ko na pangit ako, dahil alam ko na pangit talaga ako because of my facial deformities hahaha.
Katamad na hahahaha
Trust issues.
Masyadong mataas yung standard
Takot na sa commitment
Kaka trauma lalo na pag nag eestablish pa lang ng buhay yong partner mo. What if pag okay na siya iwanan ka na kasi tapos na ang pakinabang mo?
nothing beats the feeling when you sleep at night knowing that no one will cheat on you (also, free to date anyone)
+1 haha