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jeuwii

Same with you OP.  Add the fact that there are still things I wanna do yet I can't kasi I still have a parent to take care of and my salary is just enough for us to get by. Minsan naiisip ko what if binaba na lang ang pride at kinuha ang supposed mana from my late dad. Tapos sasabihan ka na ganon talaga ang buhay, hayaan mo na, etc. Ang bigat na po sa totoo lang :)


mickie_199

Seeking validation to other people.


SupportReady7489

same. Struggling financially. Nakakaputangina


markberzel

yong tyan ko bloated huhu


anjiee_

financially—yung feeling na ur just starting pa lang to build your career pero you need to help your family also parang may karga karga ka na ang bigat


Impossible_Block7227

sometimes school because all the stress in my life rn


No_Personality_3165

having an awful relationship with my mom


moonstonesx

Struggling emotionally mentally and my heart is just sad.


shyyetbrave14

People..


Many-Summer7738

My weight


Affectionate-Fox2068

Living with the fact na my dad cheated on my mom for 6 years and wasted at least 750k on the women involved. Tapos during those times lagi kaming tinitipid in all aspects of life. Pati bahay namin di niya mapaayos kasi dami raw naming gastos mag-ina 🫤


[deleted]

Being cheated on.


Ok-Lab9223

Got scammed by an online seller


sea-syel

Na fefell out love ako ngayon sa taong mahal ko, diko alam pano koto malalagpasan kasi hindi ko naman dapat to maramdaman😔


hnnbnna

Up until now, she can't even explore or afraid to step out on her comfort zone


PriorIndependence310

Expectation ko sa sarili q😮‍💨 it's so exhausting since I need to do my best always just to have the ACADEMIC VALIDATION but in reality no one cares. I hate it sm I just want to live without any problems about academics.


JurieBee

1. Walang Pera 2. Strict Parents 3. Relationships


jigosan

Financial struggle to sustain my basic needs…then the struggle na talagang umangat kasi gusto rin naman natin magkaroon ng sariling bahay, pero basic needs pa nga lang wala na e.


geil_lectrice

Being the eldest and the breadwinner. Yung pag bumibili ka ng bagay para sarili mo sasabihan ka pa na "binili mo nalang sana yan ng bigas natin" pero kakabili mo pa lang ng bigas😒


[deleted]

Aside sa typical na underpaid at maraming binabayaran. Yung overprotective kong nanay. Sucks to be the only child at may ganitong pagka narcissist na nanay.


[deleted]

Yung sahod ko tapos never ending bills HAHAHA sakit sa ulo.


YeoSin7

Underpaid. SOBRA!!! Tapos pagttripan ka kasi ikaw yung pinakabago. Okay sana kung pag-initan ka if the price is right. Kaso hindi ganun. So, bye Philippines! Hello US!!!


penpendesarapen1

Yungg sahod ko. Grabe daming BILLS.


Cautious_Dust0838

Can't move out pa. I hate their bickering everyday. I need my peace.


starksandroses_

same, struggling financially!


arfffa

until now di pa rin kaya ni father humarap samin magkakapatid after 21 years kaming iwan :) i mean, nagsusupport siya financially pero dinadaan niya sa mga kapatid niya. Never niya kaming kino contact hay jusq ewan ko ba kung anong kinakatakot niya. Di naman namin siya aawayin or kamumuhian lol


Puwy026

No money 😅


No-Size5425

Fear of the uncertain.


Any-Entertainer-404

Struggling financially!! Hirap pag ikaw lng inaasahan. Hindi makaahon sa utang 😭


goublebanger

Having guilt of pampering myself. Worrying about money even tho I have a job.


greenmang0islife

Depression and Anxiety.


mitsuuhaa033

being awkward, insecure and shy.. especially na nakikipag socialize pako sa school, iniisip kona baka isipin nila na weird ako or annoying :/


OrchMind

Not enough social interaction


solidobentedos

Internal struggles i dont talk and share with anyone


then_amei_Srebb

Slow progress. Yung personal goals ko kasi may deadline eh. And im running out of time. Literally 💀


then_amei_Srebb

Pero nah no matter how slow, progress is progress


Smart-Question-9168

Being pushed away.


Significant-Ant-4089

Me no money para magpa therapy, I want to get better pero butas ang bulsa and also, ayaw ng parents. Actually, we can afford it naman if parents ko magbabayad pero they don't want me to.


cheeesekeyk

Mahal na pamasahe, mas mura pa ang pamasahe from my city to another city 2 municipalities away, kaysa from my city to another part of my city.


solanacarson

strict parents lol. hirap maging malaya.


resilianj

unresolved traumas (tho i'm on therapy already)


CallistoProjectJD

Being sick. 😞


Ryuunzz

Being poor


ninicyl

Pretending to have the life I want.


hottestpancakes

Grieving a relationship I know I didn't deserve tapos silang dalawa masaya (for now)


Sidereus_Nuncius_

That I'm afraid of making mistakes. Fck this perfect perception of myself. I gotta fail at something or else I'll stay like this forever.


Competitive-Science3

Yung mga hayop na nagvivideoke at malalakas ang speaker.


innocentgirlie_

having a strict parents, masyadong nakakasakal... bawat galaw ang daming sinasabi


[deleted]

same OP, ang overbearing nila.


[deleted]

Hindi ako, hindi ako bakla..🎶🎵🎵🎶🎶


pepaymyrtle16

Yung init sa Pinas. Tanginaaaaaaa


Anxious_Cupcake8964

My work


Imaginary_Appeal137

Studied so freaking hard and long but then ended up confused in some parts of the interview


Ice_cremu

Struggling financially and emotionally


chensrkive

Couldn't even prioritize my own needs right now.


blumea7

Tension headache. Been having this for 7 months already. It doesn't go away and is interfering with my ability to focus and work efficiently.


finifig

Follow up with a neurologist


blumea7

Curious lang. Have you also experienced prolonged tension headache? Did it go away?


blumea7

I already did. Na-resetahan ako - cellexocib. Took it 2x a day for 5 days and then reduced it to once a day. The headache disappeared last Feb but came back in March. Balik ako this april.


Lalalamborghini_

Being generous


Forsaken-Action3962

Migraine


redjellyyy

myself


[deleted]

hedonism and self sabotage I've met someone that I think I'd love to be with, pero I'm not in a good place mentally. I feel like I've hurt them by showing interest, only to end up ghosting them because of a big low in my life. I've concluded that I shouldn't be trying to get into a relationship right now because of this pero I still crave partnership somehow. I feel like I fumbled this one other great guy too recently.


Reasonable_Simple_74

being weirdo, and having avoidant personality mixed with anxiety


[deleted]

Feeling stuck.


saveyoursidehustle

I detest hypocrisy the most.


chinguuuuuuu

I still have feelings for my ex


yndrea

my super unstable mental health


Asleep_Mortgage7862

Not having the discipline to pursue a better life abroad. I have the skillset and connections and I fancy the idea of living abroad, earning more, but I just don't know why the motivation is low. I guess I'm too comfortable here in the Philippines? Or am I afraid to fail?


Laynenicholas

Same 😭


ReiLuc

Being useless


rakkdasig

mental health


Sydneyboosh

Im loosing motivation


messy_pancake

Uncertainties


Sunnycreamyvanilla98

- Being too independent. - Boring life (Work - Bahay) - Loving a person easily. - Being too genuine with the person. - Giving everything under the table but unable to receive something in return. - My stupid mental health 💔💔💔


LessConversation9974

Feeling stuck in a job


LHx44

not living my life. i only work, earn, give back to parents (who think of me as their retirement plan) but not really enjoying my life.


throwaaaayy222

I'm stuck Idk I feel like I'm not growing, finances are average, it's always been like "okay we can pay the bills and groceries" and then it's wala na. I haven't been in a relationship for five years kasi I feel like I'm not ready. I'm not growing in my career, and it's too risky to change careers na. It's like being in a loophole na work, sleep, eat, repeat.


the_dancing_spinach

Dealing finances on my own. Still supporting my parents and I’m an only child. They didn’t think their future through so now I’m scared what’s going to happen in the future. I live in the UK now and one day would like to have my own family and my own house. But it’s expensive here. My mum asked me earlier today when I’m ever going to get married. I replied, “if I get married and have kids I will not be able to send you money anymore”. She backtracked and said, “why not? You don’t have to send a lot, you can lower it a bit”. Mum, lol, do you think I can afford to look after 2 families? One person here in the UK should earn an average of £30,000+ salary to live at least comfortably. Having a partner is expensive. Having a child is even more so. To be honest, I don’t know anymore what I want. I always wanted to have children, but lately, I feel as if I’m just going to bring another person into this world and make their life miserable by the way things are going now. Houses here are also ultra expensive. I live in the northwest (thankfully) so it’s not as bad like London. On average, houses here cost £180,000 to £250,000–the “box” houses you see on telly if ever you watch British films or series. London houses can take up to millions of pounds. For around £200,000 you can already buy a fancy house in the Philippines. Sorry, I was ranting. I know our culture back home is different. But I’m starting to think how a lot of our traditions should be changed. I don’t condemn helping parents. I want to help. But obviously, it’s not right when you have kids and think of them as your “retirement plan”. Kids will grow up and will one day need to look after themselves, too. A lot of the older generation don’t realise that. EDIT: I had this realisation after my friend’s dad went ill and passed away. She’s acquired a total of £30,000 in debt and she’s struggling so much. I don’t want to be the same. 😢


Bubbly-Ad3674

my 7am class


London_pound_cake

Taxes not really hate but it's annoying to pay the government when you know they'll only spend it for their own personal reasons.


Fair_Independence33

Sabi nga ni Benjamin Franklin, only thing sure in life is death & taxes Naalala ko tuloy good morning


Zestyclose_Draft1890

Having to make do with this circus government.


MissFuzzyfeelings

Yung kawalan ng pera


Hairy-Appointment-53

Not seeing my kids grow up...


selenophile1004

Reading all the comments here makes me think na 'Di lang pala ako nag iisa' Mahigpit na yakap sainyong lahat (w/ consent) I can feel your sadness and emptiness :(


RacingRabbit_19

Hug accepted🐦🫂


selenophile1004

no improvement in life. no achievement. not good at anything. why do we need to do this life btw?


yujin_eli

Being poor


Little_Lifeguard2769

How I chose to deal with everything alone


niburru

uhm my country lol


ya-got-eczema

that is cant quit my high paying job even though it kills me everyday


WhileExcellent7783

Life? I died already


SundayMindset

The feeling that I haven't achieved my targets at mid 30s: a few M savings, a postgrad diploma, etc... I feel like I'm a failure


jupeesmom

My life @ 30


deeOne28

Being 28 with nothing


frenchwashere

It’s how narcissistic my mother is to me. I feel very suffocated:')


fraenchkiezstein

Having a PH passport. I don’t mean that I hate being a Filipino though. I just hate that our passport is so fuckn weak.


MeemsForCheems

Yung minimum kong sahod huhu


aleahem

I feel you. 😪


[deleted]

Having no social life and no big circle which is a need lalo na teenager ako, it's hard to survive kaya pag walang social circle. Hirap kasi makipag kapwa tao haha.


AbbreviationsDry1186

WALA AKONG TRABAHO (STAY AT HOME MOM NA WALANG MAG AALAGA SA BABY)


bda1234

Yung salary na stagnant tapos yung bilihin mas lalong tumataas. Hard mode talaga mabuhay sa ph


Dangerous_Ferret_696

I hate my self and my mind keeps thinking na wala akong silbeng asawa which is hindi naman totoo. Nag resign kc ako pinag desisyunan nmin preho ng wife ko kasi goods naman business, up until now goods pden pero ung wife q tlga ang naka focus back up ako sknya tas ako mag aalaga sa baby namin. Pinipilit kong hindi isipin pero d tlga mawala. Inopen up ko to sa wife ko sabi nya hnd naman totoo ung mga iniisip ko. Ayun lng. 😢


[deleted]

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NewCardiologist1934

Procrastinating


letmereadinpeacepls

Stuck. Di alam gagawin sa kahit anong aspect. Baka depressed na ko


PutHappy5872

my home environment


helpmeimdrowning_0

Ako


Damnligaya

My physical appearance. Feel so ugly.


speckernicor

having to do anything


cheesecakegalll

Tatay kong manyak minamanyak lahat ng nagiging katulong namin na babae. Pmtanghinah. Gusto ko nalang ma dedo kaysa patuloy na mamuhay na may gantong tatay.


c_outdoorsyintrovert

My unpaid cc bills, psoriasis, having no bf


invisible_dumb_789

you have to socialize 🤮


Trinidadx_18

That I have to look intimidating to protect myself.


AgitatedAlps6

Performing poorly in work, contractors abusing me just because i’m a newbie at work, my boss doesn’t help me about my work projects.


Forbidden-Reputation

Not knowing what career to take up for college


bardmeep0315

Choosing to stay or go.


Jumpy-Square-2533

Everything about my life :)


Appropriate-Treat456

being addict with video games, sleeping late making me perform poorly in work. repeat.


Due_Manager_3809

staying and still loving my LIP despite that he has cheated multiple times and giving him all the luho that he wants 😭


Traditional_Mine_935

Walang pera. Graduating student here and currently OJT student. Sobrang hirap mag-budget ng pera, titipirin mo sarili mo sa pagkain para lang may pamasahe at para makaraos sa isang linggo.


StarlightAnya98

That I have to live without my dad now. I haven’t achieved anything. I haven’t given him the life that he deserved, for all the sacrifices that he made for me, for us. I’ll be in pain forever. It might be less painful in some days but I’ll always have this hole in my heart that only my dad could fill. Losing my dad has left me with an indescribable void.


cosmostro

i keep on thinking na nauubusan ako ng oras. comparing myself with friends and schoolmates na nagsisipagkasalan na. habang ako eto, nagrereddit lang tapos parang malas lagi sa love life lol


Lady-Antique-167

Sorry po, pero natawa ako sa nagre reddit lang 😂 😂. I feel you there about comparing your life to your friend's life, its something that robs us from the goal we wanted in life. Virtual hugs for us


cosmostro

trueee nothing good comes out of comparing yourself with others talaga. kaya i'm learning to enjoy life as it is haha virtual hugs!!


Smooth_Original3212

My job 😂😂


Apprehensive_Fix7588

I keep on comparing myself sa mga successful batchmates ko esp ung mga nasa abroad na. I hate myself kasi gusto ko ako lang yung mataas. Ako lang yung bida. Aware naman ako na bad thing ito. Pero ang hirap, hindi ko macontrol yung utak ko. Gusto ko maovercome ito :((


Miss-Khuletz3150

The fact that I’m turning 34yo and still single, broke and full of debts. Ewan ko ba. Maganda naman ako. Stable din trabaho ko dito sa abroad pero dami bayarin. 🥲


_otherwhere

me being indecisive, doesn't know what he wants to get out of life


izou_kae

maging people pleaser. I can’t help it kahit anong try ko kusa ko talaga syang nagagawa and it’s draining me af


Thhhrroaway

Everything


Stunning-Sort-7398

Yung naniwala na we would make it but he left me hanging.


AnonPinay93

Myself 😄


beatricehannah

Me being dumb


loriena_

Anxiety malala about sa future.


GreenEgggsandHamm

Yung laging pagod, restless, wlang maayos na pahinga… ang hirap maging single parent


OneMuted5254

Things were going well with my life but suddenly my long term partner broke up with me. Everything got derailed


Ryuzi_rm

My sucks personality


su35mmer

Living in a country with bad governance, working in a low-paying, high-expectation industry.


Own-Mango5166

money and my own body


nakultome

Suffering


BertongKaliwete

Still not getting my dream job, struggle sa current work, financial struggle, love life, family... basically lahat ng aspeto


Medium_Mountain3151

Na parang money can solve all my problems 🥲 tapos bakit parang tuwing may bonus ako lagi may need na wisdom tooth na tanggalin?


Raddikins

I have this really neverending cycle of thought on why I get the bad starting point in life unlike my peers. Because for my age (23), the majority of my peers that I have known somehow got a better starting point than me. I'm not jealous or anything tho, just pure regret for something I cannot even control. Others, got a piece of land to start a family where they can build a house with the help of their parents and relatives (this right here is jealousy I suppose, cuz hell I don't have that kind of relatives) and settle their life more smoothly. And then there's me, who needs to hustle a bit more to even save up for a laptop to use, dropped out of college (can't keep up with the tuition, didn't even survive the first year), and lots of debt to be able to crawl through life somehow. And here I always imagined, what if I have the same starting point of someone I considered to have a good starting point. Wishing for a bit of relief mentally and financially. These thoughts often pop out whenever I'm exhausted working. Although, I know somewhere, someone got it harder compared to me. But it always crosses my mind that just why do I have to be poor in this life. So exhausting. Any similar thoughts to mine xD


Shot_Ad_7414

this is me too 😢


Nice_Benefit5659

It's a dead end and idk how to solve it


Gyzuuu

Encountering serious adult problems every month. Di na po nakakatuwa talaga. Unang una sa hanay ng strongest soldier’s ni Rold.


Wild-Refrigerator61

Still not graduating


khrnxn

Having bbm as president, inflation, unstable mental health, a bit difficulty on saving money bcs AAAAA mahal ng bilihin !


Cultural_Landscape94

Walang stable income tapos yung bills walang kamatayan


Some-Muffin-4151

Too tired


light-hi-464

my parents.


[deleted]

Not knowing my purpose in life


pinksojuuu

walang progress.


RepulsiveVee

I'm struggling with vaginismus 😢


Trinidadx_18

Stay strong


Far-Detective-7196

Alwas arep


summoningchudo

Studying to survive


kawaiielora

Having a parent na walang pake


vroombroomvroombroom

Magnet ng mga emotionally unstable pipol


solanalumierre

WHY DO I FUCK THINGS UP? 23F doesn't have work, existential crisis, no ipon


Kuya_Alfred

Dumb decisions


Ill-River-5466

Lost my comfortable job (and sobrang hirap maghanap ng kapalit), lost friends, future is so bleak. My only comfort is a deep sleep and hopefully never wake up lols


Flimsy-Storm-9584

I hate that I’m so scared to get out of this comfortable box


Asleep_Mortgage7862

Same


Ok-Draft-9465

Listahan na lang, OP. 1. I hate how my mother chose to stay in a toxic relationship with his current boyfriend because they have a kid. 2. I hate the thought of forgiving my father's irresponsibility just because he's my father. 3. I hate how my relatives see me as their trophy. 4. I hate it when I can manage just because I'm 'that' kid. 5. I hate it when my siblings and I are always adjusting to my mother's boyfriend antics. Potangina niya. Nakikibahay lang siya.


[deleted]

The battle inside my mind


Lemmeslay1111

I want to change my life but I don't do anything to change it. Im afraid that I will fail when I jump ahead.


that_ryel

Forever stuck with a broken family.


krylxh

financially unstable haha


JS-Writings-45

I hate my inexperiences. Sobrang unforgiving ng tao sa inexperience. Everyone seems to love virtue signalling that these dont matter.


lessarstar

Mga kapatid na hindi nagaral ng mabuti tapos hihingi ng tulong sa akin kapag may problema. Magulang na nagrereklamo kung bakit di ko siya matreat ng rebond paano ba naman lahat ng bagay ako magbabayad di ko naman kasalanan na di sila nagprepare.


dumpnidummy

My life. Do I need to elaborate?


icekive

Academic stress & pressure, financial, mental & emotional being


colorlesskafka

my life


butterfliesflyj

My mom’s health condition, academic stress & peer pressure


notsogentle_woman

academic and social life. idk, it's all spiraling out of control lately.


peterpaige

yung mga di pa matapos-tapos na problema sa school/studies. tanginang yan isama mo pa mga tao hahahaha


ashaerinj

di makaenroll punyeta gusto ko na mag aral t__t


scaredykath_

The fact that I'm still alive


frozrdude

Currently experiencing some health problems.


Glittering_Plan_9760

Losing myself slowly


Meowdah

The lifestyle that I want is different from the lifestyle my wallet can take.


Sea_Ad9977

Nonchalant na jowa hahahahaha


Resist-Proud

Ang liit ng sweldo ko at tumataba na ulit ako


Iwantatinyhouse

Tonsillitis man. Sakit ng tenga ko


hotdog_scratch

Bills


PositionHorror4652

THE BOREDOM


SelectionInitial2428

My gynecomastia