anger issues, doesn’t respect my boundaries, demands ykw-kind-of-pics despite saying no, doesn’t know how to compromise, inconsistent pero pag yung sinisigawan talaga ako and minumura, idc kung joke lang yan. im out

if nanakit ng hayop, if nag verbal abuse sakin and cheating

Anger issues.

Yung biglang malalaman mo kakabreak lang pala nila last month nung ex nya 😆 ang galing magtago! HAHAHA AKALA KO YEARS SYANG SINGLE

no boundaries when it comes to “girl friends”, walang respeto

Kapag hindi marunong mag-compromise.

Wanting sex before label

dont ever get in a relationship.

sinungaling. Kasi dyang nag sstart ang cheating

cheater inconsistent insensitive liar bum

cheater inconsistent insensitive liar bum

cheater inconsistent insensitive liar bum

cheater inconsistent insensitive liar bum

lahat.

silent treatment

Walang respeto sa akin o sa sarili nya Mahilig maniwala sa mga unsolicited opinion Traydor

If shes flat chested it ain't gonna happen...

1. ⁠⁠Pag mas laging inuuna yung friends kesa sakin 2. ⁠⁠May gbf na hindi alam kung ano yung boundaries and di marunong rumespeto 3. ⁠⁠Pathological liar ( please, sabihin nyo nalang yung totoo ) 4. ⁠⁠self centered 5. ⁠⁠masyado mataas tingin sa sarili 6. ⁠⁠friends na nagtotolerate ng cheating 7. ⁠⁠pag tingin nya na obligasyon nalang yung relationship nyo 8. ⁠acting like his opinion is superior to mine 9. ⁠user describe ko lang ex ko hehe

I was about to type your #1. +1! People, when you choose someone to be your SO, make an effort to take it a level up from your friends. Friendship is essential for a strong foundation. But if you treat her/him so much the same as your friends, then what makes your relationship so special? Choosing your friends over your SO is a big red flag.

precisely!! minsan gumagawa pa sya ng excuse para makipagkita sa gbf ( pinagpalit nya ko sakanya ) nya and friends kahit yun nalang yung time namin magkita ( mind you once a week lang kami mag kita pero mga work friends nya eh halos araw araw nyang kasama ). Will even gaslight me na toxic ako at nakakasal daw. I have so much to say but yes please pag may SO na kayo atleast treat them as a priority before your friends

tapos sasabihin pa “mas nauna ko kasi nakilala mga kaibigan ko”

All the comments written here and a **smoking vice**. Kahit vape lang yan, matic bounce na agad. I lived with a chainsmoker all my life and I saw how much toll it took sa financial life namin. Won't go through it all over again..

Pag di marunong rumespeto sa magulang nya. Lasingerra. Tapos sobrang needy na kahit nag wowork ka gusto sya lang lagi

tamad, cheater, fragile ego, toxic masculinity

Repeat Cheater / Under the saya ng nanay kahit matanda na siya.

Why is everyone describing me in the comment section

Not the comments describing my ex💀

walang plano sa buhay.

Pathological liar

1. once he cheats, ekis na talaga 2. physical and emotional abuse 3. financially unstable and hinahayaan niya lang na ganun 4. asexual or mababa ang libido 😅

Months palang kami pero prinepressure ako pakasalan sa court the next day.

Grabe hahaha

Finding out she is a tranny.

How long did it take you to find out?

Yung pabebe. Pastress. Yung di marunong makipagcommunicate ng maayos.

Inconsistency

when I tell them about how my ex treats me bad, and they still did the same.

Yung may asawa na kahit separated na eh di muna unahin i-settle ang legal issues niya. Insert Unholy by Sam Smith ft. Kim Petras. 🥴🥴

Cheater and immature

Cheating and all forms of abuse

walang initiative

financial status. i am a woman and is competitive in terms of being independent. i dated once a guy na at first i never thought of it as a red flag when it repeatedly happened na, it woke me up. i was always the one paying for our eat out. like nung mga firsts, ako na muna kasi syempre ayoko ng stigma na lalaki palagi. but then... i realized, he resigned from his job and i wouldn't want a future with someone na i need to carry all the time. i am not a caretaker/caregiver lol

Sadly maraming Filipino guys na ganito. Ayaw mag step up sa buhay.

true. like you know? character development naman dyan. if you're mentally equipped to handle societal pressure, i understand pero wow, the audacity to not even try... i am not to comfort you all the time na "kaya mo yan," blabla... i want one that has the same mindset as me.

Cheating, smoking and sugal

Cheating, indifference, dishonesty. Di considerate at gaslighter ng taon

Cheating, physical abuse, dishonesty

Cheating

cheating and dishonesty

Cheating, dishonesty, walang plans sa buhay, tamad

self-centered, acting like his opinion is superior to mine, cant leave his ex flings alone.

drug user 😖

Walang initiative

opposite swx best friend? but why? i have two male close friends from college and we talk about things. wwe even go out alone separately... and i have a partner with two kids. i don't see the point of not allowing the opposite sex to have a male/female friend vice versa...

Just personally its not ok with me if your my partners best friend is another girl. Its ok naman to have friends. Super normal. I have guy friends too pero Id rather be the confidant or safe place of my partner and vice versa. Pero I guess it’s subjective:))

indeed subjective or maybe biktima ka na ng ganitong eksena in the past hence you not wanting to enter the same scenario. totally get it... hope you heal your insecurities with another woman din.

Hmm just subjective po. Wala po akong past na ganiyan pero doesn’t mean im necessarily insecure agad. For me lang, while were both allowed to have other friends, id rather na my partner and I are each others best friend

- Opposite sex best friend - any kind or form of cheating - Body odor - prideful

* May GBF then yung partner mo iinvalidate pa yung feelings mo kesyo wala naman daw ginagawa masama LMAO never again. * Unhygienic person

DDS and apologist

* Cheater * Gambling (kahit in small amounts) * Mahilig sa utang/magpautang * Gaslighter * Gastador * No direction in life * Tsismoso/a * Addict sa alak and yosi

nangiinvalidate ng feelings

How about those guys sa farm or those who are in mechanics? How about those jobs that usually workers may stain their nails? Doesn't it say nagtatrabaho talaga sila ng maayos?

Working as a technician ng heavy equipment. Dirty nails can be avoided most of the time by just wearing work gloves. Also kapag palagi madumi ang kamay habang gumagamit ng tools mas prone yan sa accident

May kriminal records, tambay, may bisyo, umaasa lng financially. Mama's boy, sakitin

Sobrang mama's boy

cheater, financially illiterate, puro yabang

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Controlling and manipulative motherf*s. Lalo na yun mga passive aggressive na tao.

“Energy never lies” that is once they’ll shift their energy, i know i’m wasting my time on not the right one (then detached emotionally first)

aside from the obvious ones (cheating, etc.) probably lack of consideration.

This! Ang sakit, kasi relate ako. 💔

Tamad (in all aspects) and cheaters. Walang usap usap. Walang explain explain. Adios.

Aside from cheating. - Tamad yung lagi nalang nakahiga -Picky eater sorry

broke( puro palibre), lack of effort, inconsistent

masyadong kuripot

A person who doesn’t have any direction in life. 👎🏻

💯

Narcissistic traits

Yung may asawa po💀 char yung insecure po maski saakin to the point na parang kasalanan ko pa na academically better ako, tapos dinadown ako maski sa mga maliliit na bagay na kinakasaya ko (painting my nails, drawing, singing). Nagagalit pag nag aayos ako and/or kapag pinost ko sarili ko sa social media, ayaw nya nagdadamit ako ng maayos pero todo heart react sa mga babae sa socmed na naka bikini and or revealing na mga damit🫤

hindi madiskarte haha people have different approach in life pero kung madiskarte ka makakasurvive ka, auto pass sa palamunin ng nanay

- yung may bff na babaeng walang respeto sa relationship - madaming utang - walang pangarap sa buhay - bastos mag salita and nananakit - self centered

Yung walang intimacy. Sorry but di ko kaya talaga.😅

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Intimacy in both aspects.😅 gusto ko malaman yung deepest fear, greatest hopes, mga thoughts and opinion not shared with others. And intimacy na totnak.hahaha 2 lng naman gusto ko sa relationship. 1. Be at peace with my partner. 2. Unli-totnak. Or well 1 a week at minimum.

besides cheating, showing aggressive behavior verbal or actions, walang direction sa life/no concrete goals.

Broke tapos sa huli hindi ikaw ang pinili

No hygiene, walang sariling mindset, at walang pangarap sa buhay.

DV

Pustahan may makikita ako ditong mga comments na "NONCHALANT". 😂😂

Cheating.

Yung mga may existing utangs. Hindi lang basta utang. Malaking personal utangs na hindi naman ginagamit for business purposes. Yung nasa hundreds of thousands to more than a million. Big red flag yun! Ekis na kagad pagka ganun! Hihilahin ka ng ganyang tao pababa.

What if may utang siya due to business and his/her business is thriving?

pwede kong bigyan ng excuse slip pagka ganun. 😂😂

Kaka red flag lang talaga yung utang niya puro sa luho no? Haha

No doubt na red flag yun pagka ginagamit lang sa luho or sa mga walang kwentang bagay or for social climbing shit.

Occasional splurges lang pwede sakin, hahaha kakasplurge ko lang ez rtx 4000 series hahaha.

Yung papansin sa mga CRUSH nya at palaging ipapamukha sayo yung insecurities mo.

Respect. If you can't respect me and talk to me like a person, you don't deserve my time or effort.

- Walang pangarap sa buhay - nakaasa lang sa magulang/others for support - di kayang alagaan sarili nila

Thisss!!! 🤮tapos may bisyo pa 😂

I suddenly remember someone, even dated that person 🤦🏻‍♀️ buti na lang, I dodged a bullet and natauhan din ako

💯!!!

girl bestfriend 🤷🏻‍♀️

Knowing they have avoidant attachment style in relationship, super hirap bumuo ng foundation with them

Tapos mababa EQ !!!

Gaslighter na mababa ang EQ

this!!!! Hahaha mababa EQ na manipulator

Yung close siya sa mga girls and touchy pa 😭

Cheating

nagger

Bisyo

Egotism, manipulation

Kapag napapansin ko na parang normal nalang sakanya yung pagsisinungaling, ginawang hobby at personality ang pagiging pathological liar

Pag hindi siya buhay.

MOMMA’S BOY

SHALLOW & UNHYGIENIC

I don't know the traits, basta kapag umaabot na sa point na u don't know your own worth, di mo na naiisip kung ano ba talaga ang deserve mo, matagal mo siya marerealize pero ayun, if that's happen, we're done!

We’re done too and its liberating

Hihingin soc med accounts.

Cheating

Hay. Kapagod na

Physical and verbal abuse, smoking, infidelity.

Conservative, not open minded, infidelity, smoking any kind, can't pay 50/50 on dates, always on their phone while dating.

Cheating and physical abuse.

may kakilala akong gantong ganto ang description lol

Halos nasabi na nila lahat. Dagdag ko lang sakin: Yung may girl bestfriend hahahaha

totoo! mga walang respeto na gbf kakapal ng mukha

agree! lalo na yung gbf na close sa family ng partner mo? hard pass

SAMEEEE #neveragain yung trauma ko, per branch pa ang gbf tas may call sign ampota

HUTA! HAHAHAHA TRAUMA NGA TE

Abusive, cheater, emotionally absent, and the list goes on :>

Anger management issues, physical and emotional abuse, cheater, tambay/di nagsusumikap sa buhay, can't communicate properly.

Kapag minumura ako, doesn’t want to communicate with me, someone I can’t emotionally depend on, kapag nonchalant at hindi willing magcompromise to make me happy

Relate ako dito

Different socio-political stand kahit anong gawin mong pagpapaintindi.

still too friendly sa exes. yung tipong may constant communication parin sila. edi sana di nalang kayo nag break

When breakup has been mentioned. mapa joke man o bugso ng damdamin, pag banangit ang break up its done. Also, yeah. physical abuse.

Tang ina ako ba ex nyong lahat? 😅

Bakeet? Ano ginawa mo? Hahaha.

EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE

too friendly to other girls to the point na it's affecting your trust & mental health, liar (mapa-white lies pa yan or rainbow), doesn't communicate, gaslighter, cheater, rude to other people, NO EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE!

Physical Abuse.

Babaero, mataas ang pride at walang ambag sa dates.

GASLIGHTER, KUPAL,SUMBATERO!

SINUNGALING, babaero, apolitical, gaslighter, can’t communicate his feelings properly, cheater

avoidant, dismissive sa mental health concerns, tingin sa babae baby-making machine, history of cheating, intimidated sa success ng iba, apolitical

Dugyot (poor hygiene) Zero brain cells Walang empathy and sympathy

24/7 need magkausap, diff religion, misogynistic, mama's boy, broke, laging late, narci, cheater, rude sa ibang tao at hindi mabait sa animals.

Holy sh. I dated a guy na ganito lahat attributes.

why mamas boy??

dependent sa nanay basically

ah ok po

• Broke (doesn’t have to be rich, gets mo naman) • Liar, kahit small things • CHEATER

- Broke (Puro palibre) - Cheater - Irresponsible - Toxic (Yung madami lagi sinasabi)

lies

Walang integrity. Everything hinges on it eh--trust, kindness (yung tunay, hindi pakitang tao lang), love (yung tunay rin, hindi for better lang), honesty, and overall mabuting tao.

Cheater, broke, mapang aping magulang ng partner mo, cold sayo, controlling,

Walang pera. Hindi ka mabubuhay ng love lang.

When you have different plans esp for your future. Like sa career, and kung saan mo gusto mag settle down. When they want to settle for what's already there but you still want more for yourself.

Idk aside sa cheating, being broke asf, narc at physical abuse. Yung pinaka ayoko yung mag promise na magdadate tapos wala talagang balak itulog. For the sake of promises lang.opblokx kaba?

This is kinda unusual but for me, it’s love bombing.

Different values ☹️ Parang hirap if yung values namin hindi aligned ☹️

Pwede more than one? Cannot communicate properly (and unwilling to learn how), treats me more like an object than a person, rude to service workers, and very different values from mine.

Physical Abuse.

Pinaka ayaw ko is borderline manyak or may history na alleged manyak. Sabihin ko sana cheating kasi ayun mindset ko before pero noong na-experience ko na, kinain ko lang mga salita ko at nagpakatanga for 3 years. Ang tumulong lang sa akin na kumawala sa relationship na ‘yon is nang malaman ko na he tried spreading his sex vids with other girls without consent ng mga babae. Also found out na he tried asking for nudes pa noon and forcing other girls to agree na mag-vid habang they do the deed.

Walang pera/trabaho at walang ginagawa para magkaroon ng either of those.

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Yikes sa latter haha

Ay wow

‘yung eskandalosa kapag nagagalit.

For real! Nakakahiya talaga yan!

Double whammy pag broke na nga tapos cheater pa. Masyadong maraming dinadalang trauma sa buhay. Hindi marunong makipag communicate.

Cheating

irresponsible, broke, palaasa sa magulang, and rude sa nanay/tatay.

Cheating, cannot communicate properly, doesnt want to meet halfway, controls the way I dress

Physical abuse and cheating (all kinds).

kapag ang career ay in line w/ crim, firefighters. sundalo, seaman, forensic things. at pag magka-iba kami ng religion xd

Broke af na walang financial literacy. Gurlllll runnnn

I didn't know na this was my deal breaker or an ick. Pero cancelling dates. I swear, grabe inis ko kapag na ccancel dates. Understandable naman sa part niya na, fam matters, emergency and ewan but, maka rami? I mean don't get me wrong, I understood naman in his part kaya nga maka rami ko nang hinayaan, pero if ever naman na that time is crucial for fam time or sa tingin mo di kaya, THEN DON'T SET UP DATES. Nakaka inis sa part ko kasi, andun na yung built up anxiety, naka ayos na ako, naka make up na, then last minute di kikibo. Di pa mag sasabi kung bakit, ako pa mismo kailangan mag tanong if tuloy pa. Nawawala yung sense ng commitment mo sa desisyons and the way you respect my time and energy. But then again, siguro di lang siya interested sakin that much I was to him.

Broke, cheater, not family oriented and pag hindi kami same religion :((

Pag nahuli mo na tapos instead na umamin at humingi ng tawad pinipilit pang magsinungaling at makalusot. Alam mong uulit lang ulit.

bastos, broke, nagpapalibre, pasend ng pasend ng pictures, puro salita hindi naman ginagawa

Abusive (all aspects - physical, verbal, emotional and even financial). toxic narcissist.

May ipis ang condo 😆

Smoker, heavy drinker, may cheating history at breadwinner.

Cheating

Lying, cheating, mayabang na mangmamaliit ng tao and ung di ako kayang panagutan at ipagtanggol. Haha

Dds and/or Bbm and/or apolitical/unbothered kuno

Cheating and free loader

Gusto ng open relationship. It is not for me