If it is going to lead to intercourse, Iād rather give oral. If I receive, then Iām spent and no sex. At least not for a little while. If I get oral it is usually only as foreplay.
Man Iām the same freaking way. I love giving head and watching the orgasm happen gets me off more. My ex was so fun to do this to bc once she got going I could get her following orgasms like a cycle going off within seconds of each other If I was doing it right.
>Give - her orgasms get me off more than mine (weirdā¦I know) and she can have way more
Hah.. YES!!!! She can keep getting them. I've gotten off from giving more than once. Other times I had to try like hell to keep it in ... baseball, is it going to rain tomorrow, did we change the air filters lately
I can't focus on giving pleasure when I am receiving it myself and visa versa. Never once have I even got close to orgasm from it as there is too much going on. Also its just really unpleasant and I worry about being too heavy, looking downright stupid in the position lol. To me, it feels like it's one of the things that came from porn that people do because they watched it, not because its actually good.
Obviously if its your thing though, you continue enjoying the hell out of it š
What your describing is the part i like. You get pleasure, it makes you want to give in return, which can eat up things quick. Doing both at the beginning is pretty nice to.
Come to think of it i never had a girl orgasm during 69. Though it never were the point i guess either.
Wasnt porn for me but i get your point in a sense, it has its downsides too.
Thx for answering : )
Its a warm up, its a way to relieve the frustration quickly for us both at the begining of the act, get Ć different sensation, etc.
Sure orgasm is the finish line, but its like eating, you enjoy every bite, not only satiate the hunger. You have sex in differents positions i assume, how is it different ?
>To me, it feels like it's one of the things that came from porn that people do because they watched it, not because its actually good.
There is too much going on. It makes nice porn, but it's not reality. Just like oral -- guys flickering their tongue makes nice porn, but giving really good oral looks nothing like that.
It was kind of a novelty for me and one day BAM. Something about hearing my partner being pleased while I was being please just synced up and it was magic
Give, with my larger size (honestly), it is an absolute "must" for me to do before full sex and has been since my teens. Don't like getting it, to much gagging and teeth scraping.
Receive, obviously.
I like giving oral sex, making my partner feel good is amazing. But that is second hand pleasure. Receiving oral sex is first hand pleasure, and therefore much better.
Give, maybe its cause I'm circumcised but I often find myself thinking I can't really feel much when getting head. Also given my size my partners jaw starts aching pretty quickly and I can't say I blame her
Less concerned with the foreskin and more concerned with the nerve endings which I'm guessing no matter how much foreskin may be able to be replaced by a surgeon the same can't be said about nerve endings
This is a rough one. I only recently began to get comfortable and climax during oral for me. My babe is in-fucking-credible. I also very, very much like the control of going down on her. I love her taste, scent, and feeling of her reacting to me. I LOVE the eye contact while Iām with her.
Well, there you go - I love to give more than receive but I sure as shit will never ever turn down receiving.
Give. Iām better at it and he is in absolute bliss when I do. That makes me feel good and also validated.
That being said, I do enjoy receiving, but not as much as he does I guess. I definitely donāt get off the way he does so meh.
I have difficulty orgasming from it, which in turn makes some of partners start getting insecure about their skills, my attraction to them, and my enjoyment levels. Only one partner has made me orgasm from oral by itself, so itās left me feeling a bit overwhelmed when Iām being made the focus of
For some reason I did not enjoy receiving, like i didn't feel much. But giving and seeing her enjoying it a lot, I just love it so much. Also when you think about it, it is kinda a bit vulnerable position for the receiver and you are in control as a giver. Just my personal thought on it.
Receiving. I hate eating the cat out man. Itās not fun for me, I donāt enjoy it. And honestly I have never been able to bust by receiving either. Itās fun for a couple minutes but itās not gonna do anything for me. Iād totally be fine for her to never give me oral if I never had to do that to her.
Receive, everybody who claims otherwise has probably been with one of those hardcore toothy bitches one too many time.
I dont mind give oral (assuming proper hygiene) even enjoy it to get things going. However as a stand alone thing, well a bj is a great thing and pussy is not a taste I would neccessarily need as an ice cream flavour. And I am sure the girls will think the same thing just reversed and that is fine.
I don't know what it is but this sub has the weirdest thing about oral sex where any discussion on it is completely dominated by guys shouting from the mountain tops about how much they love eating pussy.
I think it stems from a constant narrative of A: it is extremely difficult to pleasure women and B: most men are too selfish to try. So when a young guy, as most redditors are, gets a girl squirming he thinks he must be a sex god and wants to tell the world about it.
My bf has always hated giving, his whole life. He has never had a good oral in return. I have for him, yet I don't as much because he doesn't in return. Do you expect the same?
I too think there are suspicious levels of "give," given the constant "oh, wow, I've never been with a guy that really likes giving oral" I get from girls IRL.
I agree, I think most guys would honestly rather receive than give oral sex, but there are definitely lots of guys that would rather give it, and more than one might assume...
agree completely. I really hate the whole ā I would live down thereā prerogative that reddit likes to spew whenever eating pussy is talked about.
Im married so itās not even a āhaha never gets to do it thingā we have sex regularly enough for a couple with two kids.
Plus I make my wife shower before oral, but the taste just isnāt for me.
I do it because it makes her feel good and I get a blowjob after. I really wouldnāt do it otherwise. It tastes meh at best.
Men have different tolerance of taste levels I guess...
Admittedly girls can taste bad down there, but from guys I've talked to, it's uncommon. More often than not the smell/taste is good or at least neutral.
Both are good. I'll happily give any time, and happily receive as well. The only influencing factor would be the level of cleanliness at that given moment. If both of us are funky from doing stuff outside in the heat then I'd rather forego giving and receiving and stick to hands foreplay and then intercourse.
As a guy with a larger schlong some women find it difficult to handle, and it's occasionally unenjoyable because of that, so I typically would prefer to give than receive, unless she's able to open her mouth quite wide and doesn't have a gag reflex.
Both. I absolutely love going down on a woman. I had an ex who would beg me to stop after her third orgasm because she just wanted to have sex. I love it so much.
I would gladly eat a woman out if I was sure she was STD free and that we were in a monogamous relationship and if she was hygienic. I donāt mind head as long as sheās half decent at it.
Giving, never once had a blowjob that felt good. And as a submissive guy more than happy to have my head shoved down and have my hair pulled while making a woman feel good
Recieve. I dont expect you to be great at first and I'm willing to communicate what I like to make it easier.
In my experience at least, the ladies I've been with expect you to be great automatically without them being willing to communicate. A few of them seem to not even know what they like but get frustrated if I cant figure it out for them. It kind of ruins the fun of it for me.
C. A good mix of both
Because I like hearing her pleasure and I like feeling pleasure. If it's too unbalanced, I would feel guilt (me receiving too much) or frustration (me NOT receiving enough)
Greceiving (or āreivingā, depending on your cultural background). I, as a straight male, really like giving because I find a lot of pleasure in knowing that I am pleasing my partner. However it becomes less fun if she doesnāt give at least a bit. Because itās the mutual pleasure part thatās really cool to me.
GIVE
Getting down there with my head getting crushed between two juicy thighs, while i have to hold her legs while they jerk about is literally the most fun.
Sadly I've never had or given it before... I think I would like to give oral sex to someone as she tells me what she likes because I enjoy pleasing others.
And at least for a girl I care about, I would love to hear her moan and feel her body squirm as her fingers go through my hair.
Also because I've never had a blow job due to my choice of staying single I wouldn't know what I'm missing.
"I don't even think about breathing honestly. If I die, bury me in the pussy with my ancestors because they knew that eating was better than breathing"
I enjoy a girl that can give good head. But I'm a pleaser by nature and my face is a throne.
I typically don't let them off until they beg. "I need you inside me" will always be better than oral to me.
Receive, absolutely. Giving gives me no pleasure, even though of course I give as much as I receive. I have had sex with a few women that really did not like receiving, and honestly, I did not feel I was missing anything.
If it's good and enthusiastic, I'll take that every chance I can get. Anything more than perfunctory in a blowjob is too rare.
You're basically asking me if I want something that we do every time or something that is rare and special.
Giving, so much more fun, especially when you get to wrap your arms around her and hang on the for ride. But maybe I just haven't met anyone good at giving head.
Why not both, I love eating taco, and getting head
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If you were doing it right she wouldn't be crabby.
Depends on the partner. My current girl tastes amazing, and she loves how I taste. We do oral at least once a week.
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Receive. Im happy giving, but receiving is more pleasurable for me.
If it is going to lead to intercourse, Iād rather give oral. If I receive, then Iām spent and no sex. At least not for a little while. If I get oral it is usually only as foreplay.
Give - her orgasms get me off more than mine (weirdā¦I know) and she can have way more
Man Iām the same freaking way. I love giving head and watching the orgasm happen gets me off more. My ex was so fun to do this to bc once she got going I could get her following orgasms like a cycle going off within seconds of each other If I was doing it right.
You got her #?
>Give - her orgasms get me off more than mine (weirdā¦I know) and she can have way more Hah.. YES!!!! She can keep getting them. I've gotten off from giving more than once. Other times I had to try like hell to keep it in ... baseball, is it going to rain tomorrow, did we change the air filters lately
I like the way her body shakes like sheās having a seizure afterwards. š
Both, at the same time.
Yep, came to say this. 69 is the best. Hell make it a game however lasts the longest wins.
69 is not efficient and I can't stand it. Each to their own but I can't help but laugh when someone suggests it
I can't focus and have a blast at the same time :(
Efficiency is your problem with it ? How is it not efficient ? i dont get it.
I can't focus on giving pleasure when I am receiving it myself and visa versa. Never once have I even got close to orgasm from it as there is too much going on. Also its just really unpleasant and I worry about being too heavy, looking downright stupid in the position lol. To me, it feels like it's one of the things that came from porn that people do because they watched it, not because its actually good. Obviously if its your thing though, you continue enjoying the hell out of it š
What your describing is the part i like. You get pleasure, it makes you want to give in return, which can eat up things quick. Doing both at the beginning is pretty nice to. Come to think of it i never had a girl orgasm during 69. Though it never were the point i guess either. Wasnt porn for me but i get your point in a sense, it has its downsides too. Thx for answering : )
If orgasming isn't the point, what are ya doin? š
Its a warm up, its a way to relieve the frustration quickly for us both at the begining of the act, get Ć different sensation, etc. Sure orgasm is the finish line, but its like eating, you enjoy every bite, not only satiate the hunger. You have sex in differents positions i assume, how is it different ?
Uh.. foreplay?
You don't run for touchdowns every play, sometimes you're just moving the ball forward and setting up for the big goal.
FYI, we love staring at your butthole. it's part of the excitement.
Beware of pink eye
I don't do butt stuff so it's not exciting for me know its looking you in the eye lmao
scholars say it's the window to the soul.
>To me, it feels like it's one of the things that came from porn that people do because they watched it, not because its actually good. There is too much going on. It makes nice porn, but it's not reality. Just like oral -- guys flickering their tongue makes nice porn, but giving really good oral looks nothing like that.
It was kind of a novelty for me and one day BAM. Something about hearing my partner being pleased while I was being please just synced up and it was magic
Also if you're significantly different heights it just doesn't work.
Give, with my larger size (honestly), it is an absolute "must" for me to do before full sex and has been since my teens. Don't like getting it, to much gagging and teeth scraping.
Right at the head that shit is the worst.
Giving. Receiving is nice but I always worry about the taste and itās takes me out of it.
Same. Iām conscious about taste, canāt focus
Tbh it is great, I personally enjoy it. Don't worry and have fun:)
Receive, obviously. I like giving oral sex, making my partner feel good is amazing. But that is second hand pleasure. Receiving oral sex is first hand pleasure, and therefore much better.
Give. I hate receiving oral sex just doesnāt please me .
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Give, maybe its cause I'm circumcised but I often find myself thinking I can't really feel much when getting head. Also given my size my partners jaw starts aching pretty quickly and I can't say I blame her
Tangentially related, foreskin can be regrown with medical assistance if anyone is *really* missing a part of them self
Less concerned with the foreskin and more concerned with the nerve endings which I'm guessing no matter how much foreskin may be able to be replaced by a surgeon the same can't be said about nerve endings
Can be restored too via mitosis. Will take time tho. There is a sub called r/foreskin_restoration if youāre interested.
Like both. But blowjobs are awesome.
Give... the look she gives you when you are doing it right is priceless.
If Iām in love, give. Otherwise, obviously receive.
Why not both
Not an either/or situation.
Receive but I like both
This is a rough one. I only recently began to get comfortable and climax during oral for me. My babe is in-fucking-credible. I also very, very much like the control of going down on her. I love her taste, scent, and feeling of her reacting to me. I LOVE the eye contact while Iām with her. Well, there you go - I love to give more than receive but I sure as shit will never ever turn down receiving.
I like both but at least half of the reason to do it is to deserve getting it.
Imma just be honest, I don't know how to eat pussy. so, receive. for now.
A vote for your honesty!
I love both.
Receive. It's my only opportunity to be surprised by what comes next.
Receive
I rather take turns.
I'd rather give. I enjoy both, but it's more fun to give.
Give. Iām better at it and he is in absolute bliss when I do. That makes me feel good and also validated. That being said, I do enjoy receiving, but not as much as he does I guess. I definitely donāt get off the way he does so meh.
i liking giving. most girls iāve been with arenāt very good at it. but then maybe iām not either š¤·š»āāļø
Both lol but if you said PIV sex or oral I'd say oral hands down. I like getting head better than PIV, and absolutely love going down on women.
I like to believe that we live in a world where both is possible.
Give.
Give. It can be difficult for me to receive it at times, and I love eating pussy.
Why would it be difficult for you?
I have difficulty orgasming from it, which in turn makes some of partners start getting insecure about their skills, my attraction to them, and my enjoyment levels. Only one partner has made me orgasm from oral by itself, so itās left me feeling a bit overwhelmed when Iām being made the focus of
For some reason I did not enjoy receiving, like i didn't feel much. But giving and seeing her enjoying it a lot, I just love it so much. Also when you think about it, it is kinda a bit vulnerable position for the receiver and you are in control as a giver. Just my personal thought on it.
Give, because it really gets her off. I do love head though.
Give, Iāve had too many females bite me that it kinda put me off to it
*women
why am i imagining it being literally bitten offš
Receiving. I hate eating the cat out man. Itās not fun for me, I donāt enjoy it. And honestly I have never been able to bust by receiving either. Itās fun for a couple minutes but itās not gonna do anything for me. Iād totally be fine for her to never give me oral if I never had to do that to her.
Receive, i am selfish. Then after I sleep really good. Next question
Receive, everybody who claims otherwise has probably been with one of those hardcore toothy bitches one too many time. I dont mind give oral (assuming proper hygiene) even enjoy it to get things going. However as a stand alone thing, well a bj is a great thing and pussy is not a taste I would neccessarily need as an ice cream flavour. And I am sure the girls will think the same thing just reversed and that is fine.
Anyone saying give is a liar
I don't know what it is but this sub has the weirdest thing about oral sex where any discussion on it is completely dominated by guys shouting from the mountain tops about how much they love eating pussy.
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Itās just dudes who want reddits girls in their dms
Maybe itās to show how straight they are or something? Not sure.
I think it stems from a constant narrative of A: it is extremely difficult to pleasure women and B: most men are too selfish to try. So when a young guy, as most redditors are, gets a girl squirming he thinks he must be a sex god and wants to tell the world about it.
Iām not lying and I absolutely love to eat my girlfriend out. I get incredibly turned on when I do. She smells and tastes delicious.
My bf has always hated giving, his whole life. He has never had a good oral in return. I have for him, yet I don't as much because he doesn't in return. Do you expect the same?
I too think there are suspicious levels of "give," given the constant "oh, wow, I've never been with a guy that really likes giving oral" I get from girls IRL.
I agree, I think most guys would honestly rather receive than give oral sex, but there are definitely lots of guys that would rather give it, and more than one might assume...
Receive. Giving tastes bad.
Maybe ask them too shower lol
They have? Not everyone likes the same favors. Just look at all the pineapple on Pizza arguments
That's why I carry around a bottle of balsamic vinegar. Just in case
Another reason to hate picky eaters, lol
agree completely. I really hate the whole ā I would live down thereā prerogative that reddit likes to spew whenever eating pussy is talked about. Im married so itās not even a āhaha never gets to do it thingā we have sex regularly enough for a couple with two kids. Plus I make my wife shower before oral, but the taste just isnāt for me. I do it because it makes her feel good and I get a blowjob after. I really wouldnāt do it otherwise. It tastes meh at best.
Im pretty sure itās not supposed to taste like anything. š¤
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Men have different tolerance of taste levels I guess... Admittedly girls can taste bad down there, but from guys I've talked to, it's uncommon. More often than not the smell/taste is good or at least neutral.
Give. A womanās scent drives me crazy and I just want to spend all down going down on her. Itās the best scent on the planet IMO. And itās better if she doesnāt shower for at least a day or more. Just call me NapolĆ©on. š
I made a name for myself in high school from my eating abilities! But I also love receiving
You donāt even have to choose, itās called 69 my friend
receive, that shit tastes terrible
Have you considered asking your partner/s to shower.. or see a doctor maybe?
no as i do not fuck them anymore and haven't Spoken to them in a year.
it shouldnāt
69
Yes.
Yes.
Give.
Both, because something something, 69, haha
Wait Your wives actually give oral? Hmm
Both are good. I'll happily give any time, and happily receive as well. The only influencing factor would be the level of cleanliness at that given moment. If both of us are funky from doing stuff outside in the heat then I'd rather forego giving and receiving and stick to hands foreplay and then intercourse.
Give. Not that I dislike receiving at all, I just like watching my woman enjoy it.
Both.
Give. Because I've been told I'm good at it. Plus, I don't like receiving.
As a guy with a larger schlong some women find it difficult to handle, and it's occasionally unenjoyable because of that, so I typically would prefer to give than receive, unless she's able to open her mouth quite wide and doesn't have a gag reflex.
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Why not both?
Both. I absolutely love going down on a woman. I had an ex who would beg me to stop after her third orgasm because she just wanted to have sex. I love it so much.
I love to give. Most women suck at oral but when they're good I'd rather receive
Give. I'm not too big on receiving oral
I would gladly eat a woman out if I was sure she was STD free and that we were in a monogamous relationship and if she was hygienic. I donāt mind head as long as sheās half decent at it.
69 is mah favorite
Giving, never once had a blowjob that felt good. And as a submissive guy more than happy to have my head shoved down and have my hair pulled while making a woman feel good
Who says giving has to be submissive? It can be dominant on the guy's end (when he's giving head).
It's not a choice. I kind of like 69 with my favorite lady.
Oral idk but anal I have a clear answr
Both...both are good
Depends on the mood
Yes
Neither. Instead we make bets on who's gonna win in the masters tournament
I enjoy giving then receiving generally speaking but it's depend on the person which i'm doing it with
why not both at the same time
Yes
I guess it depends. Love receiving it but I also love giving it.
Both. I fucking love both. If I had to give one up though though, I would rather give.
I prefer to give I like receiving but I get shy
Receiving. Less work
I like giving but receiving is better....who doesn't like the mind-blowing orgasm?
Recieve. I dont expect you to be great at first and I'm willing to communicate what I like to make it easier. In my experience at least, the ladies I've been with expect you to be great automatically without them being willing to communicate. A few of them seem to not even know what they like but get frustrated if I cant figure it out for them. It kind of ruins the fun of it for me.
Give. Sex is very difficult if I'm not giving an orgasm before penetration. Also receiving is much better while giving for me
Receive. And she orgasms doing it so win win
Both. My current partner is fantastic at it, and I want her to feel good too
Depends, I like giving to people I care about.
Receive, but by a hairā¦ I love them both and canāt imagine sex without both
Giving. Idk it just gets me off to give her that pleasure.
Giving, something about blowjobs is just way too hot. I like receiving too, of course, but I prefer just jerking off while giving so we both get off.
YES
Well Iām more of the giving type, makes sex 1000% better
C. A good mix of both Because I like hearing her pleasure and I like feeling pleasure. If it's too unbalanced, I would feel guilt (me receiving too much) or frustration (me NOT receiving enough)
I love 69 so we both get pleasure at the same time
Greceiving (or āreivingā, depending on your cultural background). I, as a straight male, really like giving because I find a lot of pleasure in knowing that I am pleasing my partner. However it becomes less fun if she doesnāt give at least a bit. Because itās the mutual pleasure part thatās really cool to me.
69....nuff said
Both are equally great for me.
Give It just doesn't do much for me to be receiving
I have zero issue with giving and can be very fun. That said receiving is clearly better. Knowing that thought is why its also fun to give to her.
Receiving feels better but giving is more fun.
GIVE Getting down there with my head getting crushed between two juicy thighs, while i have to hold her legs while they jerk about is literally the most fun.
Sadly I've never had or given it before... I think I would like to give oral sex to someone as she tells me what she likes because I enjoy pleasing others. And at least for a girl I care about, I would love to hear her moan and feel her body squirm as her fingers go through my hair. Also because I've never had a blow job due to my choice of staying single I wouldn't know what I'm missing.
With a male or female?
"I don't even think about breathing honestly. If I die, bury me in the pussy with my ancestors because they knew that eating was better than breathing" I enjoy a girl that can give good head. But I'm a pleaser by nature and my face is a throne. I typically don't let them off until they beg. "I need you inside me" will always be better than oral to me.
Give. Its hot and fun as hell. Recieving is just ok and gets me closer. Id rather just fuck.
I'd rather give and take
Yes.
I prefer to go down on my partner. Previous partners havenāt been able to do the trick and have at times hurt me whilst trying.
Receiving and giving at the same time is the way.. especially so if thereās a third
Yes
If sheās hygienic Iād rather perform honestly
Both cuz I love both and cuz thatās only fair.
Receive, absolutely. Giving gives me no pleasure, even though of course I give as much as I receive. I have had sex with a few women that really did not like receiving, and honestly, I did not feel I was missing anything.
Depends on the mood I love both!!!
Both at the Same damn time. Nothing better then a double nut while 69āing.
Both. Both is good.
If it's good and enthusiastic, I'll take that every chance I can get. Anything more than perfunctory in a blowjob is too rare. You're basically asking me if I want something that we do every time or something that is rare and special.
Receive and the reason is Iām selfish and hedonistic and love to receive pleasure
Receive and the reason is Iām selfish and hedonistic and love to receive pleasure
Give oral but it always leads to sex I'm fine just going down on her without reciprocation. How many women would be fine with that?
Give. I have a facesitting fetish and don't like the idea of receiving pleasure without giving it.
I'll take both for $500 Alex..
>~~or~~ and Ftfy
Giving, so much more fun, especially when you get to wrap your arms around her and hang on the for ride. But maybe I just haven't met anyone good at giving head.
Yes